Yu Tian only doubted Xiaomei for a very brief moment, and then quickly retracted his thoughts.
It is impossible for Xiaomei to cheat on her.
She is a little sister who deserves to be cared for and respected. She is strong and upright and will never violate ethics and morals.
He quickly asked Toad what was going on.
When Toad told the reason, Yu Tian almost raised his neck and breathed so much that he vomited blood.
"puff!"
He raised his hand and slapped the toad hard on the neck, "I said toad, are you crazy? Can you believe what the fortune teller said? What kind of marriage do you spend money to find a happy marriage for?"
When Toad passed by the Eastern District Temple yesterday, he happened to meet an old magician who set up a fortune-telling stall.
He also had nothing to do, so when he saw a marriage sign posted on someone else's stall, he wanted to test whether he and Xiaomei could make it work.
Whether this thing can be successful or not, doesn't it all depend on one's mouth?
There is also a saying in the fortune-telling industry called "Kuao Gua'er", which means that no matter good or bad, people have to arrange some disasters for the fortune tellers. The purpose is to make people spend money to avoid disasters and achieve good luck.
When a normal person hears about a disaster, who doesn’t feel jealous?
The same is true for Toad. After hearing from the fortune teller that he and Xiaomei would have emotional ups and downs and possibly break up, he immediately asked for a solution.
But the fortune teller saw that he was well-dressed and wanted to rip him off a little more.
But the toad was reluctant to spend more and only gave half. In the end, the fortune teller became angry. Not only did he accept the money, but he also calculated that the two of them would break up within a year.
The most important thing is.
The fortune teller also said that the toad was the fate of the evil star, and that there would never be another woman in this life.
This is pure bullshit.
fatalism?
Your life is in your own hands, how can you listen to other people's nonsense!
"go!"
Yu Tian told Toad, "Go to the supply and marketing cooperative outside the entrance of the alley to get a few bottles of beer and some snacks. I'll teach you a lesson!"
The toad didn't know why and turned around.
When the food and drinks were served, it started to snow lightly outside. The two of them sat at the small table and drank and chatted. Yu Tian said, "Toad, there's nothing magical about fortune telling. I'll tell you about it and you'll understand.
How unbelievable.”
In his previous life, Yu Tian actually knew a so-called big shot who was a fortune teller and feng shui expert.
At that time, this big boss had friendships with many big bosses in the country. It is said that he also accepted many female celebrities as adopted daughters, and even slept with many people.
But later, this so-called big boss was imprisoned for fraud.
I don’t know what those people and celebrities who have believed in him and been guided by him feel.
The way the boss cheats through fortune telling is also very simple.
To sum it up in eight words, ‘subtle observation’ and ‘insinuating things’.
Don't underestimate these eight words.
Coupled with the fortune teller's extensive knowledge and experience and his careful consideration of people's hearts, these eight characters have become his most important tool for making money.
As the saying goes, when you first start, you should first look at your intention; when you speak, you should first grasp people's hearts; if you have questions, don't be late in answering; if you have nothing to say, don't speak first.
As long as you enter the door and have a few words, the boss will be able to judge what the person is trying to do by observing his words and demeanor.
For example.
If you come with a diligent intention, your future will not be good.
The person who comes speaks arrogantly, and will surely have a good future in the near future.
The person who comes is conscious and must not be in the mood to talk.
The person who comes here is confused and must be asking about good or bad luck.
Carefully observe the person's facial expressions and tone of voice. These are all powerful methods used by a mature fortune teller to deceive and deceive.
Especially when people are anxious and seek medical treatment in a hurry, they can easily be tempted and deceived.
It was through this that the boss deceived many people and embarked on a life path of becoming rich and imprisoned.
"Brother Tian, I understand."
After hearing what Yu Tian said about the big boss, Toad suddenly became enlightened.
But in an instant, he looked sad again.
"What's wrong?"
Yu Tian frowned and asked.
"elder brother..."
Toad hesitated and said, "Well, I have another problem. Every time I talk to Xiaomei, I always deliberately agree with her, which makes me look humble. As you know, brother, I used to waste food stamps.
.But Xiaomei is much better than me. She makes her own way and is strong. So I always feel that I am inferior to her. I...I am always worried that she will leave me...isn't that right?
, I call her every day because I am afraid that she will meet another man."
This worry is actually unnecessary, but it is not difficult to understand.
After all, no one wants to lose their treasure.
The root of the problem is very simple, it comes from the toad's lack of confidence.
There are too many people in the world who are not confident, and some people even attribute their lack of confidence to 'social fear'.
But it's not terrible.
There are actually training methods for self-confidence.
"remember."
Yu Tian patted Toad on the shoulder and said seriously, "I will tell you a secret method. Once you learn it, I guarantee that you will be extremely confident from now on. Do you want to listen?"
I really want to hear it.
Toad nodded vigorously!
"good."
Yu Tian smiled and said, "Simple, two words, performance."
Performance?
That's right.
It’s just a show!
These two words may seem simple, but they are very mysterious. In psychology, they can be called neuroplasticity, and in communication science, they can be called dramatization theory. To put it bluntly, they are self-suggestion.
The principle is very simple.
Goffman once explained in the theory of dramatization that everyone is an actor, but they are divided into a front stage and a backstage. The frontstage is the appearance presented to outsiders, while the backstage is the real hidden self.
Since it is a performance.
Then you just need to deliberately 'perform' the form that you most want to show to outsiders.
"Understand?"
Yu Tian said seriously to Toad, "In other words, what kind of person do you think you are, what kind of person do you hint that you are, and continue to show the outside world what kind of person you are, then what kind of person you will eventually become.
.This is the core theory I want to pass on to you, which is called pretending to be B, and pretending to be benevolent will lead to benevolence!"
"Um..."
Toad was thoughtful.
"besides."
Yu Tian added, "Always remember, never deny yourself. Self-denial is equivalent to self-curse. It is not helpful in life, and may even drag you down into the quagmire, and you will never be able to stand up."
If you want to be an excellent person, you must first 'show' that you are an excellent person.
Believe in yourself first, then pretend, until your performance can completely convince yourself, and when all these are integrated into your life, you will find that you are really good.
"You are very good, do you know that?" Yu Tian asked Toad loudly.
"I know!" Toad said firmly. After trying to hint to himself, he really felt a lot better.
Yu Tian actually wanted to say something more profound, but he was afraid that the toad wouldn't understand.
In fact, when a person quietly works hard until he astonishes everyone, he will understand that the opportunity for a person to truly start to control his own destiny is to understand that age is just an illusion, time is just a shackle, the soul can be shaped, and the future will always be in the present moment.
In every small decision...
After chatting for a long time, Toad became a little drunk.
Yu Tian asked him to rest at home for a day while he went out to the injection molding factory to inquire about the styles and specific prices of custom-made plastic products.
After all, the quantity was large, but he was still not satisfied with the price negotiated between Liu Lihong and Toad, and thought there was still a lot of room for price reduction.
But it didn't come true.
As soon as I stepped into the gate of the injection molding factory located in the southern suburbs of Beijing, I saw a familiar face walking out.
"Yu? What are you doing here? I was just looking for you!"