Chapter 526: There is truth in both wrong and unfair truths
"It rained a lot in the past few days, and I was worried that the house would get damp. After Shanying and the others moved out, your grandpa burned the kang and the heater for a whole day."
The old lady held Li Ning in her arms and looked at Liu Yin and Gu Ning tidying up the quilts, and murmured: "They are all freshly made."
"Fei Shanying brought the luggage himself? There's no need to use Xuewu's quilt, right?"
Liu Yin laid out the kang quilt, knelt on it and cleaned it with a broom, and that was it.
The old lady put Li Ning on the kang, watched him rolling and playing, and explained with a smile: "No, you don't know about Fei Shanying?"
"The most polite and careful person. I don't take advantage of anyone at all."
She handed the pacifier to Li Ning's hand, pursed her lips and said, "I felt embarrassed when I came here. It was Guodong and the others who persuaded me."
"Xuewu also said it." Liu Yin spread a quilt for her grandson with her legs spread out, and explained, "It said that he wanted his third aunt to come to the backyard for confinement."
"At that time, I was not thinking that she was raising two children by herself, and Wen San'er was not at home."
"That's right. If she doesn't take care of her even though she's so close, who can she expect to go?"
The old lady shook her head slightly and said: "It's really cruel. There is no one in my mother's family, so forget it. Wen San'er still has two sisters -"
"Never came to see you once?"
Liu Yin said in surprise: "This is my nephew, Biaozi hasn't even come to see him?"
"Otherwise, my life would be at an end, and I wouldn't want to think about it at all."
The old lady sat sideways on the edge of the kang, clicked her tongue and shook her head, saying, "Even if Wen San'er was not good enough before and had no future, he would still be married and have children."
"Ouch - I didn't know that at the time." Liu Yin frowned slightly and said, "I just said that when I was breastfeeding, all the people in the room were from our side. I didn't have the nerve to ask her at that time."
"She won't say it. She never said this." The old lady nodded and said, "We are not a family. If you don't enter the same house, you can see San'er."
She raised her eyebrows and said: "Looking like he is laughing and joking, he has self-esteem, but he needs to be a strong person. He said that he was writing a letter to her, so don't let Fei Shanying do anything wrong to you."
"Does this mean that Fei Shanying doesn't have to interact with his sister's family?" Liu Yin nodded in understanding and said, "If you can't get along with someone who has a hot face but a cold butt, you really shouldn't get along with them.
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"Li Wenbiao didn't tell his family, right?"
Gu Ning straightened her hair around her ears and called Ji Yuxiu, who had come back with her, to get on the kang.
Ji Yuxiu interjected: "I heard Guodong and the others making a joke, saying that Li Wenbiao no longer has contact with his family, and nothing was said here."
"I feel so cold. When I was playing with Xuewu earlier, I heard him talking about it in private."
Liu Yin explained: "I was fifteen or sixteen at that time, and I didn't know anything. Before I started studying martial arts and became a soldier, I whispered to a few people in my family that his parents looked down on him and only favored his second brother."
"That seems to be the case." Ji Yuxiu nodded and said: "After he and his third uncle made money, they didn't tell the family. The two sisters' families thought that the uncle and nephew were so destitute that they picked up rags. But when they talked about it,
Ridiculous and helpless.”
"Xuewu said that Biaozi had hardened his heart and wanted to sever ties with his family."
Liu Yin helped her grandson change his diaper and explained: "Biaozi's wife is very knowledgeable and sensible. Last time she came back for the New Year, she asked Biaozi to visit her house and throw some money away."
"Otherwise, we are not a family, and we don't belong to the same family."
The old lady stepped aside and nodded: "Wen San'er knows what kind of virtue his two sisters are and how they depend on his nephew."
"It's impossible for the two of them to have discussed it a long time ago and to hide it from the family. If there is really a family relationship, the two of them will not lose their care of the family."
"If our biological father, mother, and biological sister no longer kiss each other, then the two of us can stop worrying about each other and just live their lives well."
She raised her hand and said, "Isn't that what Fei Shanying meant? He must have sent news to Wen San'er, saying that she was doing confinement care here. His two sisters had to know about it, and neither of them came."
"She is such a smart person. If we don't talk about this to Wen San'er, my sister might be able to arrange for her when she comes back."
Liu Yin changed the child's diaper, picked up her grandson and coaxed her, and said, "You see, Biaozi won't tell him if he doesn't tell him. They all live in the same street. No matter how much they don't care, they will know sooner or later."
"Come here when the time comes. Biaozi and Wen Saner are not at home. How will Fei Shanying receive them?"
"Is this what it means to move back home from here?"
Ji Yuxiu was an eloquent person, and she could talk to her mother-in-law and old lady together. Now she answered: "I have lived here for a long time, and those relatives are here. It's hard to explain when they see them."
"No, if you ask around in this courtyard, you will know whose house she lives in."
The old lady pinched the child's little feet, teased Li Ning with a smile, and said: "Plus, I help with the recycling bin and take care of the child."
"If someone comes to look for her, she can close the door and pretend she doesn't know him. But if someone comes to make trouble, what should she do? She's afraid of causing trouble for Xuewu."
Gu Ning just listened to them and did not interrupt unless the child asked her about it.
What her mother-in-law and others said about the family's shortcomings sounded to Gu Ning like a kind of profound and troublesome social science, with experience, theory and practice.
"Are you tired of working and breastfeeding your child again?"
Seeing her second sister-in-law's taciturn appearance, Ji Yuxiu took the initiative to ask her, "Did Mom prepare you any delicious food? Did she abuse you?"
"Go and tease your second sister-in-law?"
The old lady smiled and patted Ji Yuxiu gently and said, "Looks like Xiao Ning is tired."
"No, mom and Jingru are helping me, I just come back and feed her a few times at night."
Seeing her son reaching for her, Gu Ning took the child from her mother-in-law's arms and said, "There are a lot of surgeries now, but it's okay."
"Xiao Ning didn't say anything about her hardships. Mom just felt sorry for her, so she naturally wanted to make delicious food and take more supplements to stay healthy."
This chapter is not finished yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content! Liu Yin smiled and touched the child's little feet and said to Ji Yuxiu: "When you give birth to a child, I will do the same to you."
"Quickly, I see that my second sister-in-law has become fat." Ji Yuxiu said with a smile: "If you want to prepare delicious food for me, my sister-in-law will be jealous."
"You'll fan the flames—"
The old lady likes her third grandson and daughter-in-law very much, and she usually talks very intimately with her.
Although Ji Yuxiu and Li Xuecai are not married yet, they get along very well, and everyone in the Li family regards Ji Yuxiu as their daughter-in-law.
She patted Ji Yuxiu's thigh and said, "Look at your second sister-in-law turning around and pinching you secretly."
"Second sister-in-law can't do that." Ji Yuxiu is not like a daughter-in-law in the Li family, but more like a sister-in-law.
She leaned on Gu Ning's shoulder and said with a smile: "Second sister-in-law, will you pinch me secretly?"
"No, is it necessary to pinch you secretly?"
Gu Ning also has a lively side, but it is rarely shown. She lacks a sense of security.
After getting along with Li Xuewu for a long time, I started to feel protected, so sometimes I would joke with Li Xuewu in private, or even act coquettishly.
I don't spend much time with the Li family, but the old lady and mother-in-law have gone to the house to help take care of them, so I don't have any psychological precautions.
And between the sisters-in-law, Zhao Yafang is a cheerful person. Even if she has some quarrels with her mother-in-law and brother-in-law, she never has time to quarrel when getting along with siblings like Gu Ning.
Ji Yuxiu is young, has a lively and smart mind, and is the most lovable. She is taken care of by the Li family in the same way as Li Xue.
The three sisters-in-law have very different personalities, but they complement each other and are friendly and close when they get along.
The old lady and Liu Yin naturally wanted to see their daughters-in-law live in peace and harmony, and they laughed out loud at their conversation.
Ji Yuxiu laughed and made a fuss, but she teased Li Ning, who was staring blankly at her in her second sister-in-law's arms, and said she wanted to carry him away.
Li Ning still didn't know what was going on. He felt a little shy when everyone saw him, so he got back into his mother's arms, dangling his little feet vigorously.
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"Look, whose house this is, who has come home -"
The room was busy when I heard Li Xuewu's voice outside the window: "Is this Li Shu's home? Li Shu has gone home."
"dad--"
Li Shu looked at this room curiously, but she hadn't come back to live in it for several days.
When Fei Shanying lived here, the old lady took her to visit during the day.
At such a young age, she didn't quite understand why she had lived in this house before, then it had been given to her third uncle and grandma, and now it was hers who came back to live in it.
Li Xuewu calls Wen San'er third uncle, and Fei Shanying calls third aunt, so Li Shu naturally calls Fei Shanying third uncle and grandma.
This generation is still from Lao Biaozi's row. After Li Xuewu came back, the two brothers met and settled down.
When their respective careers are successful and they start a family, they will take the relationship of seniority even more seriously.
The seniority relationship represents rules. Without rules, there would be no success, especially in the recycling bin, which is a management model similar to family relationships.
Of course, this relationship is now weakening with the expansion of the recycling bin business.
The most obvious and first thing is that the Thirteen Taibao gradually left their front-line jobs and followed the brothers to travel around the world.
Li Xuewu still had the same attitude towards them, never trusting them, but he wanted to give them the opportunity to prove themselves and realize themselves.
Trust is not given, it must be earned by oneself. Trust does not last a lifetime. It takes a lifetime to build one's own personality and self-confidence.
We were just in the dining room, dinner was over, Li Tang and Wen Yuan went to bed, He Zhuang also started to yawn, the two older ones were okay.
Therefore, Shen Guodong arranged for the boys to send Fei Shanying and his wife home, while Delia and Zhao Yafang also carried their children back home first.
Li Shu loves to liven things up, so she managed to stay away from home tonight, and there were so many people in the living room, so she didn't want to go back to the backyard.
Therefore, when the old lady, Liu Yin and Ji Yuxiu sent Gu Ning and his wife back to the backyard, she stayed in the back room chattering.
When Yu Li came back from the club, and Qin Huairu came with a stick, she was even more reluctant to come back. The front yard was so lively.
While listening to her father and the others chatting and drinking tea, she was held in Yu Li's arms and kept close to her, teasing her and jumping around like a monkey.
Yu Li works more and more in the club, so she rarely comes back for dinner at night.
Sometimes I'm so busy that I don't even return home, and I'm alone anyway.
In the past, she was still worried about the Yan family, and she held her breath in her heart. No matter whether she was unwilling to give in or try her best, she had earned this house and she would live in it no matter what.
But since Yan Jiecheng's death, the anger and resentment in her heart have dissipated. Even when she meets the Yan family and Ge Shuqin again, she no longer has the embarrassment and cold eyes.
Therefore, living alone in a house no matter how big or nice it is, has no energy.
It's not as lively as the club. The house is big, there are many rooms, good facilities, and there are many people. You can live wherever you want, especially after the guest house in the backyard is opened, it will be more comfortable to sleep there.
However, this is her home after all, and what she thought about after marrying into this compound.
I shouldn't have come back on Saturday because the club will be very busy tomorrow weekend.
I just caught up, finished my work early, had dinner in the restaurant and came back. I didn't know that Li Xuewu's family was also back.
When he saw Li Shu, he just held her in his arms, kissed her, teased her, and whispered to her.
Li Shu also had feelings for her, and neither the old lady nor Liu Yin avoided her. The small clothes and shoes that Yu Li made for her were told by the family that they were for Li Shu, who made them for her.
In addition, Li Shu came here many times and often saw Yu Li, so she became really close to her.
She and Yu Li called her aunt, just like when Li Xuewu was not married. In the sales department of the recycling station, the old lady took her with her and accompanied Yu Li to sell and tally goods, talking endlessly.
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In Qin Huairu's case, it's the same situation.
Qin Huairu had her own child, and she was not young anymore. Both her mother-in-law and her husband were tired of taking care of her, so they had no time to take care of Li Shu.
Furthermore, living in this courtyard, she had already told her mother-in-law that she could not be as careless as Yu Li and show love for the house and the bird.
You see, Qin Huairu had that kind of relationship with Li Xuewu for the sake of her life and for the flutter in her heart. Even her mother-in-law took the initiative.
But if it was really about her relationship with Li Xuewu, or if her relationship was even closer, let alone her own self-awareness, there was no way Li Xuewu would want her.
Even her mother-in-law won't allow it. Sleeping together in private can only be said to be a good relationship, and at least it must be acceptable in terms of face.
If he really doesn't care about his appearance, it means that Qin Huairu no longer has the heart to raise children and mother-in-law, and has plans to fly away or abandon his family and career. Do you think Jia Zhang is in a hurry?
So, you see Qin Huairu sticks to Li Xuewu, is protective at work and ambiguous in personal relationships, but at home, she is very cautious towards Li Xuewu's family and does not show off easily.
Look at the business of making clothes for Li Xuewu, but she would never know how to make clothes for Li Shu.
These are the rules and the bottom line. She knows what she has, what she wants, what she needs to pay for, and what she can't worry about.
No matter how kind he was to Li Xuewu, no matter how caring and obedient he was, even if he invited his family to come, Mrs. Jia Zhang would not care and would even applaud him to welcome him.
But the only thing that cannot go beyond Li Xuewu is to care about Li Shu and Li Xuewu’s family.
Of course, this kind of care and maintenance has nothing to do with daily interactions, they are two different things.
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After Qin Huairu became a cadre of the guest house, her prestige in the hospital was gradually established. Sometimes, when something happened in the hospital, even the elder would call her to help deal with it.
When a couple quarreled or there was a dispute between neighbors, the elder came forward to talk to the men and Qin Huairu persuaded the women, thus maintaining order in the courtyard.
There were more than a hundred people living in the courtyard, and there were no quarrels or quarrels among them.
There are times when couples quarrel and quarrel, let alone this neighbor.
Seven people in an office can form eight groups, and there are also distances between neighbors.
Just like this courtyard house, it is naturally divided into four courtyards: front, back, middle and outer. The neighbors in each courtyard have known each other for decades, so they naturally have good feelings.
It's not just about feelings, it's about taking care of each other, even helping to look after the house is considered taking care of each other.
If your neighbor is easy to talk to and has a good personality, then you can get along more harmoniously than your relatives.
Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. This is not something you say when trying to stop a fight. This is a real reflection of relationships.
For example, in the Zhongyuan, Shazhu's family and the first uncle's family get along well. Shazhu and Yuyu have to go to work, so how can they have so much time to take care of the confinement?
It was still cold when Delia was in confinement, so the eldest mother took care of her a lot.
The first man and his wife have never had children in their lives, and they have also missed Shazhu, mainly because they have the idea of taking care of themselves when they get older.
However, there was no call from Shazhu and Qin Huairu, and Li Xuewu introduced Delia and his own child, which made the first man stop thinking about bringing together the three families in the courtyard to live together.
However, his care for Silly Zhu was genuine, and the relationship between the two families became even better.
Aunt Ma often goes upstairs to help Delia, and she also likes He Zhuang's child.
Now that the child is older, Delia and Fei Shanying take care of the child alternately during the day, and even take care of the recycling station sales department. The aunt has to go to the back room to see the child, which is a rare sight.
In the evening, Shazhu's family didn't have a fire at home, so there was less time for dinner. Most of the time, after they finished their work in the evening, they invited the elders and aunts to come to the house to sit, chat, drink tea, and join in the fun together.
lively.
The reason is the child He Zhuang.
The elder also likes children, but he is afraid that Silly Zhu will overthink things, so he is reserved.
Seeing that Silly Zhu took the initiative to greet him, he let go. Every time he held the child, he was smiling. Especially when Silly Zhu taught the child to call him grandpa, he was even more happy from ear to ear.
There are also people who don't get along well with each other. Even in the same hospital, there are always people whose temperaments and temperaments don't match.
For example, the Li family in the front yard and the Yan family across the door.
The two families didn't get along very well in the past. They lived in opposite houses and wanted to compare themselves.
Yan Fugui is a people's teacher, Li Shun is a doctor, Hou Qinghua is a housewife, and Liu Yin is also a housewife. Each family has three sons and one daughter.
Coincidentally, the children are about the same age.
It goes without saying what kind of temperament Yan Laozhen has. He only gave him the wrong name, not the wrong nickname. He is the same as everyone else, not just the Li family. He is neither too shabby nor too shabby.
Because Li Shun's family previously ran a medical clinic and pharmacy, they went through several campaigns and lived a very low-key life, doing good deeds to gain a good reputation.
Hou Qinghua is a talkative person. When he was young, he talked to Liu Yin several times, but when he saw Liu Yin, he didn't even talk to her parents because he thought he looked down on her.
The mistress of the two families is not available, and the men are busy with their own work, so the relationship between them is very average, especially when the children grow up, they no longer work better than the men, but start working better than the children.
Of course, it seems that the relationship between the Li family and the Yan family is not limited to this couple in the courtyard.
The Yan family just secretly competed with each other, and some of them just started fighting without any competition.
Therefore, there are many people in the courtyard, and the relationships are chaotic. A little spark can cause a lot of trouble.
Is there a good relationship between the front and back yards?
Of course there is, especially in work relationships or interest relationships, it is normal to take care of each other.
The recycling bin in the west courtyard was opened, and Shazhu's family was having dinner in the dining room.
Li Xuewu rose to prominence, Yu Li and Qin Huairu fell in love with him, and some even fawned over him. There was a new order and new relationships in the courtyard.
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Does Qin Huairu get along well with the Li family?
In fact, you don’t have to think about it. Even when Zhao Yafang gave birth to a child, she asked Jia Zhang to help. Do you think the relationship between the Jia family and the Li family is good?
Although the Li family had given money, there were so many old women in the courtyard. Why didn't Li Xuewu ask others to help?
Is Mrs. Jia Zhang good at taking care of her children? Or is she careless and considerate of everything without having to sleep?
No, it's because Qin Huairu gets along well with Liu Yin, the old lady and Zhao Yafang, so the two families have a lot of contact.
With the way the Li family lived, if it hadn't been for the "rebellious son" Li Xuewu, it would have been impossible for him to have so many contacts with people in the courtyard for the rest of his life, let alone have a good relationship.
The reason we get along well with the Li family is because of Li Xuewu, and not just because of Li Xuewu.
She worked in the Red Star Factory and relied on Li Xuewu to make progress and become a cadre. She has a good life today and can hold her head high and be a good person.
Not only Li Xuewu, she is also a member of this courtyard. They are neighbors.
The Li family members all live their lives honestly. There is no evil intention in dealing with her, and they will not take advantage of her. Instead, they have a lot of care, and everyone knows how to get along with her.
Especially after having that kind of relationship with Li Xuewu, the harmony and friendship with the Li family actually gave her more choices and escape routes.
When I came out of Li's house after get off work, I learned that Qin Jingru and Han Jiankun were here, so I hurried home, saying that my sister was heartless, but after all, they were her sister's relatives in the city.
The two sisters are considered capable people in the village. They are good-looking, in good shape, and good at housekeeping. Many people ask for them.
But even if she is high-spirited, she wants to marry in the city and become a city dweller.
In these days, some people do get married in the city, but there are only a few, and they are all lucky ones.
It seems that Qin Huairu and the two sisters help each other out like this, but that's even less so.
I married in the city and became the envy of everyone in the village. There was only one more person who could share my success and joy, not even my biological sister. Many people thought so.
Qin Huairu and Qin Jingru were not biological sisters yet, but Qin Jingru really had the determination and the luck to catch up with Li Xuewu.
Therefore, now that Qin Jingru has married into a good family, she is naturally happy to be a sister. She just wants to have more contact between the two sisters and keep their relationship as close as possible.
The Jia family no longer has any relatives. Qin Huairu does have relatives in the countryside, but they are all poor relatives and cannot borrow money. In the past, when men were still alive, they often came to the city to pick on her.
That is to say, they all knew that she was a widow with a child and knew that she was in difficulty over the years, so there were fewer people coming, otherwise she would not be able to think about resting.
Even now, when she returns home, she does so quietly, never daring to make any publicity, as she is wary of what her relatives in the countryside will come to ask for.
Even if I borrow money and food, I can't bear it. Don't worry about paying it back, just don't dare to come back next time.
Qin Jingru, who is married in the capital, is naturally different. Her husband's family has a solid foundation and both of them can make money.
The two families are very similar in comparison, so when they interact with each other, they naturally help each other and support each other.
Therefore, when her sister's brother-in-law came, she was happy. She didn't think of borrowing Li Xuewu's greeting and taking them to the back room to eat, so she prepared a good dinner at home.
During the dinner, the two sisters talked about their daily routine, their busy schedules, and each other's lives.
Qin Huairu asked Qin Jingru about having a child. After all, her mother's family was not anxious, but her husband's family was too.
Han Jiankun's family is not a single generation, but Han Jiankun is the only man in the family who has established a family to support his mother.
Therefore, spreading the branches and leaves early is the best response to taking care of your husband's family.
Qin Jingru and her sister were on good terms with each other, they had no worries, and they also talked about work.
The main concern was that Gu Ning had just given birth and Li Ning was still young. If she got pregnant, she would only be able to work for a few months before she had to go down to nurse the baby.
Li Xuewu must not let Gu Ning suffer, and his mother Liu Yin would have to be harmed, and he would have to hire someone to take care of the family.
Let’s not talk about whether the person we hired is suitable or not, or whether it is important. We just talk about the period from raising the baby to giving birth to letting go of the child. Can Li Xuewu wait for her during this period?
It will take at least more than a year. After spending a long time with the nanny who will take care of her, he will have feelings for her like her.
When the time comes, should we use her or not?
Yes, with Han Jiankun here, Li Xuewu would use her no matter what. Gu Ning also said the same, so that she could prepare to have a child with peace of mind.
But when the time comes, the Li family really has a suitable nanny, how can she have the nerve to force them to replace her with Han Jiankun's relationship?
Even if she comes back, she still has to take care of her own children. She can't take care of Li Xuewu's family wholeheartedly like she does now.
Qin Jingru told her sister in private that not only was she reluctant to part with the salary, but she was also reluctant to part with the relationship with Li Xuewu's family.
Even though she was just working as a nanny for Li Xuewu's family, she also married into the Han family with her salary.
Yes, this is not a formal job, but twenty yuan a month is real money.
In the Han family, even in front of those relatives, she didn't feel that there was anything wrong with her country status.
Even if she is a nanny, she is also the nanny of Li Xuewu's family. Han Jiankun is also Li Xuewu's driver. With Li Xuewu's relationship, the Han family will never dare to underestimate her or bully her.
But Qin Huairu also advised her that even if she cherished the salary and relationship, she could not delay her own life. This kind of dependence was endless, unless she planned not to have children for the rest of her life.
Qin Jingru followed her sister's advice and agreed to go back and think about it carefully before making a decision after discussing it with Han Jiankun.
According to Qin Huairu's opinion, it's better to have this child earlier than later. It's better to have more or less. It's good to have one first. At least give an explanation to your husband's family and make it look good.
After talking about Qin Jingru's affairs, Qin Jingru also became concerned about her sister's affairs.
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The two sisters talked in the courtyard for a while while they were washing the dishes after dinner.
"Just talk about me, what about you?"
Qin Jingru looked at her sister and asked, "As I said some time ago, do you want to find another one?"
"What? Is Aunt Zhang unwilling, or do you have any scruples?"
"It's so easy to find. You should be picking mushrooms. Just walk around the mountain and pick them up."
When Qin Huairu heard her sister ask about her affairs, she sighed deeply and said, "She didn't say anything. I also know what she meant, so there's nothing to worry about."
"You just haven't found the right one?"
Qin Jingru looked at her sister and said, "No way, you're a deputy department-level cadre. He's thirty years old. Even if he has three children, he's not short of men to look after, right?"
"As you said, what have I become?"
Qin Huairu glanced at the girl and said, "It's because of this that I can't meet the right one. I know what do people care about me?"
"One more thing, is it just a matter of three children?"
She glanced at the room and said: "At such an old age, how can I leave her to live alone in this courtyard? Who have I become?"
"What? You still want to find someone who can knock on the door and live here with your mother-in-law?"
Qin Jingru reminded: "You said that the men you love have other thoughts, and those who knock on you are honest. Among the men in this city, whoever is good will knock on you, even if you are good-looking."
"With three children, you should look for someone who also has children and no wife. The kind who can live an honest and responsible life."
She persuaded her sister and said: "If you are really cruel and go out alone to find someone, you can find a young man with your conditions."
Seeing her sister glaring at her, Qin Jingru didn't care. She pursed her lips and said, "But you are reluctant to let go of the child. What kind of child are you looking for?"
"I don't know. I don't think so. I haven't encountered it yet. Let's talk about it later."
Qin Huairu herself was confused as to how to answer her sister's question.
Washing the dishes, he said with a somewhat disappointed expression: "Maybe in a few years, I won't have to look for it anymore, and I'll just forget about it for the rest of my life."
"A lifetime? How do you think you are now 80 years old?"
Qin Jingru talked about her and said: "You are only thirty years old. It is the time when you need a man's care and love. It is not easy to support this family by yourself. Do you want to support it for the rest of your life?"
"I'm not saying that's what you want, but women must have a normal family life after all."
Qin Jingru knew everything and dared to ask and speak out. She approached her sister and asked in a low voice: "Are you with him now..."
Qin Huairu glared at her. It was just that their family was late for dinner, guests were coming, and they ate slowly, so at the moment, they were the only two sisters talking by the pool in the courtyard.
After stopping Qin Jingru's nonsense, Qin Huairu paused, then nodded imperceptibly and said: "It has been cut off a long time ago. What is his identity now, and what is my identity?"
Glancing at the girl, she lowered her eyebrows again and said, "One more thing, you don't know how busy he is now."
"I don't see him even once in a month. Even if I do see him in the factory, it's just a walk by and a few words, nothing more."
"Really? I thought..."
Qin Jingru pursed her lips and shook her head slightly, saying, "That's right, he rarely goes out at night now and goes home after work."
"Gu Ning didn't say anything about staying up late at night during her pregnancy and childbirth. The only few times she was on business trips or there were activities or meetings in the factory."
She frowned, looked at her sister and asked: "You said he has calmed down, right? So what's going on with Yu Li? Is she really just following his arrangements and working in the club, it doesn't matter anymore?
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"Where do I know where to go—?"
Qin Huairu shook his head and said: "I knew that if Yu Li wanted to see him, she would have to go home or come here to block him. It happened several times."
"Well, I saw Yu Li and I was going home." Qin Jingru nodded and confirmed: "Even if I go to the club to handle business on the weekend, it will take half a day to get back and forth."
"So, he has given in, what about you? What should you do?"
Qin Jingru asked curiously: "Is this the arrangement? From now on we will just be neighbors and colleagues?"
"Otherwise? What are you thinking?" Qin Huairu nodded her forehead and said, "Stop talking about this, I just feel my face is getting hot and panicking."
"He wasn't married yet, so it didn't matter. It's just that he has children now, so it's better to calm down."
"Then don't hesitate-"
Qin Jingru looked at her sister and said, "Since Aunt Zhang doesn't say anything, it doesn't matter to him. You still have to think about yourself."
"Now that I'm thirty-one, it's easier to date someone. But when I'm thirty-one, it's a different story."
She advised her sister: "Every night for a year, your psychological burden will become heavier and harder to find. If you really want to find a good man to live with, be proactive and don't wait."
"If there are any social activities, blind dates, etc., actively sign up."
Qin Jingru poked at her sister and asked, "Don't the unions in your factory often do this? I've heard him mention this at home."
"I'm... I'm embarrassed to sign up." Qin Huairu sighed, raised his head and looked at the girl and asked, "Why is he bringing this up at home?"
"You don't know him yet? He's just joining in the fun. He likes to lead others and tell the story."
Qin Jingru pursed her lips and snickered: "He said he was looking for a partner for his secretary, but he was so scared that his secretary didn't dare to take his car home for a week."
"Did Han Jiankun say that?" Qin Huairu asked funnyly, "Or did he tell his family?"
"Han Jiankun told me in private." Qin Jingru pursed her lips and said with a smile: "He also mentioned this at home, saying that the boy was ungrateful and could only hide and escape from sororities and blind dates."
"Maybe he has a partner, or someone he likes." Qin Huairu also said with a smile: "He is a serious person when he is serious, but he is serious when he is fooling around."
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Qin Jingru chatted for a while, then looked at her sister and said seriously: "I know who he is after working in his family for such a long time. It's not that I'm afraid of bad influence, but I think you can't get along with him.
It’s also inappropriate.”
"It's true that he values love and justice, but this is not a lifelong thing, isn't it?"
She said seriously: "Gu Ningke never asks how many of them there are outside."
"He is also a true family-oriented person. He will never give up to Gu Ning. He said he would be home before ten o'clock in the evening, and even called home before 1 o'clock to tell him in advance."
Qin Jingru shook her head slightly and said: "He has never lied to Gu Ning, even more so after having a child. If you say you can't see him once a month now, it will be even harder to see him in the future."
Qin Huairu naturally listened to what the girl said. After washing the dishes, Qin Jingru and his wife left and had to go home to stay at night.
Therefore, Qin Huairu took the stick and sent Qin Jingru and his wife out, and then went to the reverse room.
When Li Xuewu comes back, there must be a small meeting there. Even Li Xuewu doesn't care about trivial matters here now, but everyone is used to it.
Qin Huairu is not considered to be from the recycling bin, and has nothing to do with the business here, but she is considered to be Li Xuewu's person, not because of that kind of relationship, but because of identity and interests.
They didn't treat her as an outsider here, and they didn't go behind her back when they had small meetings to talk about business.
Even if Wang Yamei has been working here for such a long time, she will not be allowed to participate in such a small meeting, which shows Qin Huairu's initiative.
She didn't want to get anything from this, it was just an attitude. When she had something to say to the reverse party in the future, she wouldn't have to go through Li Xuewu.
Li Xuewu really didn't care about the trivial matters of the recycling bin. He talked about the situation and the new warehouse at this time in the evening. Everyone drank tea and chatted for an hour before they dispersed.
She took Banggan, along with Shazhu and Yuyu, and walked back with Li Xuewu holding Li Shu, chatting a few words with Li Shu on the way.
In the middle courtyard, several people separated. Li Xuewu carried the child and went to the backyard. Shazhu and Yuyu watched him leave before returning home.
When she and Banggian came back, the lights in the back room were all turned off. Her mother-in-law took her two daughters to bed first, leaving only the living room light for them.
After washing Banggan and covering her with a quilt, she returned to the back room and lay down on the kang.
And before Qin Huairu fell asleep, her mother-in-law turned over and heard her say: "Jingru told you about finding another one?"
"Mom, you scared me. Are you still awake?"
Qin Huairu leaned up and glanced at her mother-in-law, then lay down again and said, "It's so late at night, why do you think of asking this?"
"Oh - I can't sleep a little bit."
Mrs. Jia Zhang sighed, sat up and looked at Qin Huairu through the moonlight outside the window and said, "I have thought about it over and over again, and I still can't let go of your matter."
"Mom, stop thinking so much and go to sleep." Qin Huairu persuaded her and said, "This is not intentional, so don't worry about me."
"Besides, after coming here for so many years, aren't our girls pretty good?"
"You said I don't want to, so why don't I think about it for you? You're only thirty."
Mrs. Jia Zhang sat there, looking out the window and said: "I forced you before and didn't let you look for it because I was afraid that if you looked for it, we would suffer the consequences."
"Now I'm thinking about you looking for it, but I'm also worried that if you don't look for it well, you'll suffer the consequences."
She twisted her body, looked at Qin Huairu and warned: "I'm telling you, you don't care how you find her, even if you find her, you get married."
"Don't break up with Li Xuewu. As long as you have a relationship, with this support, you won't suffer any loss no matter what you find."
"Mom - go to bed quickly!"
Qin Huairu only felt that her mother-in-law was getting more and more excessive. What was she saying? It was so embarrassing.
However, I have to say that even if my mother-in-law, who is rich in experience and has experienced a lot of life, is speaking nonsense, there seems to be some truth to it...