He frowned in annoyance, feeling that what she said next would not be what he liked to hear.
Sure enough!
"I mean, we don't have to get married."
What?
He was dumbfounded, what kind of logic was she doing?
"How can we not get married? We are not married yet, but we will definitely get married in the future!" he said firmly.
"Do you think marriage is the perfect ending?" she asked rhetorically.
"Of course, any relationship that is not for the purpose of marriage is just a hooligan!"
She almost laughed, "Please, what era are we in now? Can you please stop being so old-fashioned?"
"This is not a question of being old-fashioned, but a question of responsibility! A man must build a love nest for the woman he loves and give her a home. Only in this way can he truly love her!"
"But have you ever heard: Marriage is the grave of love?"
"..." Of course he has heard of it, but he can't be afraid of marriage just because of this!
So...so...
"But love without marriage means death without a burial place!" So after a long time, he finally retorted.
"..." Her jaw almost dropped. As expected of Bao Anrui, he could actually say such powerful words!
"Okay, my language skills are not as strong as yours, and I can't speak to you, but the reality is in front of you, do we really not bow our heads and then have a bloody fight?"
"It's better to have broken jade than to have it intact!"
She shook her head, "I don't think so. I think good love should be able to defeat time, withstand fleeting years, withstand separation, and withstand longing. So I don't care about the marriage letter. To put it bluntly, that one
It's just a piece of paper. It has legal effect but no emotional effect. True love is the same whether it has that piece of paper or not."
"It's different." He disagreed. "If it's really the same, then why do things like marriage certificates still exist in the world? Existence is a need."
"But it varies from person to person. Some people need a marriage certificate to prove their love, but we don't need it."
"You don't need proof, but you also need marriage!" he said stubbornly.
She had to change her perspective, "Then do you know why newlyweds give everyone wedding candies when they get their marriage certificate?"
"Because of happiness and joy."
"Yes, but if we have to follow everyone else's example and stick to one form, not only will we not be happy, but we will also cause a lot of trouble, so why bother?"
"Because I want to give you a complete love without any grievances or regrets. I want to give you a home." He said affectionately.
She was moved, but she did not lose her mind.
"Bo Anrui, I understand your thoughts, but you are reluctant to make me suffer. Am I not willing to make you regretful? Don't you want your ideals and efforts? Not everyone in this world is like this.
You are so lucky, you have the ability to fulfill your dreams, do you know how many people will envy you? How can you give up so easily?"
"I don't want other people's envy, I just want you."
"Yes, I won't leave you! We have gone through so much suffering to get to where we are today. This is not an easy thing. I am not a fool. I will not throw away the happiness I have obtained!"
She said with promise.
He held her hand and promised, "I will never let you go!"
She smiled, "Isn't that enough? We love each other and will never leave. That's enough!"
"Not enough! Milan, I want to give you a home, a complete home! Now there is me, you, and our children in the future! If we don't get married, what will happen to our children in the future? He will have to go to school and have health care.
He should be like other children, with a father and a mother to accompany him when he grows up!"
"..." She was speechless.
She really forgot about this, yes, and the child.
Although there is not yet and there will not be for the time being, there will definitely be one or two in the future.
She lost her father when she was a child and was dependent on her mother, so she knew what it was like for a child to live in a dysfunctional family. Sometimes it was really lonely.
Although their situations are different, for children, it is better to have a truly complete home.
"Bo Anrui, what should we do? Do you have any plans? What can I do for you?"
"What you need to do is don't give up and believe in me! Okay?"
"Okay! I promise you, no matter what kind of difficulties I encounter, I will never leave you. Even if you don't want me, I will cling to you shamelessly!"
"How could I not want you? For you, I can give up everything!"
"No! I don't want you to sacrifice your ideals and future for me. I'll wait for you! You go do what you want to do first, and I will always wait for you!"
"Don't you care if you separate from me?" He frowned in annoyance.
"Of course not, but as the saying goes - after all hardship comes happiness! And I still have a lot of things to do. The hospital's promotion in the new year is about to begin, and I have to work hard. And Pengpeng, I have to see him often. Also,
There is Hibiscus. Something happened in her family recently, and her ex-husband has been looking for her. She is very anxious, so I have to accompany her."
The more she spoke, the tighter his brows furrowed. In fact, there was only one way before them.
That is, they each finish their unfinished business and go their separate ways for the time being.
She stared at him with gentle but firm eyes, "No matter where you go, I will wait for you."
But he couldn't be happy, "Are you really willing to let me go?"
"If you give up, you will gain." She believes in fate, but she also believes that the harder you work, the luckier you will be. Love also requires management.
They have overcome the nine-year separation. Is there any threshold that they cannot overcome?
She was so brave, but he was hesitant because he didn't want to experience the feeling of gain and loss again.
He...is scared.
However, fear is useless, people can only look forward and move forward courageously!
"Milan, I've thought about it, I'm going to Paris! Even if it's a big loss to give up the high comeback, I'm confident that I can still fulfill my dream by going to Paris! When you finish your thing, you go to Paris
Find me, or I will come back to find you, and then we will never be separated again!"
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