Even if there are conflicts between father-in-law and son-in-law, most of them can be settled as long as there is sufficient exchange of interests.
However, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really the most troublesome and difficult to deal with in the world.
Yuzhu knew very well, how could Xiuyun dare to provoke Li Si'er?
Every time, it was Li Si'er who struck the first blow, and Xiuyun followed up with another move.
Xiuyun was born in the Fucha family, one of the eight major surnames in Manchuria, but Li Si'er was a concubine who had had two husbands. The gap was as big as the world.
Ever since Xiuyun entered the house, Yuzhu treated her very well and never asked about the affairs of the inner house. He truly made the man the master outside and the woman the master inside.
Objectively speaking, the better Yuzhu treats Xiuyun, the more Li Si'er feels that he has sold his daughter-in-law, and the more she dislikes Xiuyun.
It's just that my heart is filled with panic, and it has nothing to do with interests.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not good, and Yuzhu was caught in the middle. It was very uncomfortable, and she couldn't tell her the pain.
There is no way, one side is his biological mother, and the other side is his biological son's mother. No matter how difficult it is, Yuzhu must be a peacemaker, talking to people and talking to ghosts, racking his brains to fool both sides.
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In fact, Li Si'er's thoughts were so shallow that he could see through them at a glance.
Xiao Xuanyu is not only the eldest son of Yuzhu, but also the eldest grandson of Li Si'er.
Anyone with a discerning eye knows that in the future, after Yuzhu's death, the old Tong family will definitely be ruled by Xiao Xuanyu.
Yuzhu was not as kind to Li Si'er's natal family as he was to Fucha's family.
Li Si'er couldn't find anything to do with the jade pillar, so he wanted to win over Xiao Xuanyu.
When Xiao Xuanyu becomes the master of the family, thinking of his grandmother's love and care, Li Si'er will be satisfied as long as he treats the Li family a little better.
But the problem is that Li Si'er missed one level.
Li Si'er has been treating Xiuyun harshly, and even if Xiao Xuanyu doesn't say it, she must know it in her heart.
As the old saying goes, a child cannot help his mother!
Xiuyun is good at everything else, but he values Xiaoxuanyu too much and likes to nag.
In the past, when Xiao Xuanyu was still young, it was not easy for Yuzhu to persuade Xiuyun to stop nagging.
Now, taking advantage of the opportunity of her son's wedding, Xiaoxuanyu can get rid of Xiuyun's brain-piercing demonic voice, which will actually help her become independent.
Especially after the son gets married, even if he rents a small house to live out, he must not stay under the same roof as his daughter-in-law.
The closer you are, the deeper the injury will be!
Yuzhu made up his mind and said to Li Si'er: "Well, get it together. My Zhenguo Palace has been empty and is almost covered with cobwebs. Let Xuanyu go over and look after the home for me."
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It is difficult for an upright official to stop household chores!
If Xiao Xuanyu is asked to live next to Li Si'er, Xiuyun will definitely not agree.
On the other hand, neither Li Si'er nor Xuan Yu were happy to let Xiao Xuanyu live with Xiuyun.
Instead of continuing to argue, it is better to keep Xiaoxuanyu and his new wife away from each other.
What's more important is that the fourth child's daughter and Yuzhu stay in the same big house, which means that the fourth child has an extra pair of eyes, which can easily monitor Yuzhu's every move.
As for the big things Yuzhu wants to do, Xiaoxuanyu has always been kept in the dark.
If one less person knows about a major event that affects the entire family, there will be less huge risks. Don’t be careless!
Yuzhu's suggestion was not in line with Li Si'er's wishes, but Xiuyun did not succeed either.
After careful weighing, Li Si'er reluctantly accepted Yuzhu's proposal.
Li Si'er has nothing to do all day long and misses Xuan Yu. He can take a car there anytime and anywhere.
The same cannot be said for Xiuyun. Before she goes out, she must first arrange all the trivial housework.
Longkodo is a typical male chauvinist. He cares about face, style and power, and is too lazy to take care of household chores.
Xiuyun did not dare to argue with Li Si'er. When she went back to her parents' home for a short stay, she told her biological mother, Irgenjueluo, about the matter.
Irgen Jueluo sneered and said: "If your biological son is really abducted by others, you can only blame yourself for your own incompetence. Humph, look at Sister-in-law, she ran up to her when she first entered the door.
Jumping down, it's extremely exciting. What's wrong now? Hey, tell me to treat it obediently, so that you don't dare to go eastward or westward."
What her mother said was so domineering that Xiuyun felt even more excited.
"Who is Li Si'er? What's the harm in enduring a moment of anger? The key is that you must hold your man firmly in the palm of your hand and make him really have you in his heart. That is the basis for your foothold!"
Irgenjue Luoshi snorted and said, "When I first married into your Fucha family, I was fed up with your mama's cowardice. Didn't you see what happened next? If I don't nod, your mama will
You don’t dare to take a concubine, do you understand?”
Xiuyun said with a smile: "Enie is very clever. Before I was going to elect an official, my eldest brother specially took out 500-year-old wild ginseng and gave it to the doctor of the Ministry of Internal Affairs who is really effective."
Irgenjue Luo Shi smiled proudly, raised his hand and pinched Xiuyun's pretty nose, and whispered: "You must remember Eni's secret that is not told. As long as your man likes you, even if you are a pauper, sooner or later, what will happen to you?"
Yes. If your man abandons you, you will remain a widow even if you are guarding a big gold mountain. Then, let the vixens inside and outside the house humiliate you unscrupulously."
"What Enie said are all wise words, and my daughter has memorized them all."
"It's not enough to just write it down, you must also keep it in your heart." Irgen Jueluo gently stroked Xiuyun's little hand and said earnestly, "My son, although you are the princess of Zhenguo, I still want to
Let me remind you, putting on airs is only for outsiders to see. When the couple gets to the couch, as long as the man likes anything, you can satisfy him, and don’t put on the stinky airs of the main wife."
Xiuyun said shyly: "Every time he rests in my room, he has to ask for water three times."
After hearing this, Irgenjueluo felt very happy and said happily: "You have been married for so many years and you have given birth to two sons, and the man is still willing to pester you and make love with you all night long. Well, my son, you
Well done.”
Anyway, there was no one else in the room. The mother and daughter were talking privately quietly without fear of being overheard.
When having dinner, Changde asked Xiuyun with some worry: "Da Gege, it's not that Amma wants to talk about you. You always come back to stay for a while. If word spreads, it will be bad for your reputation."
Nowadays, as long as a woman from a wealthy family gets married, let alone go back to her parents' home for a short stay, even if she goes shopping, she can't be left alone and stared at.
To put it bluntly, if you leave the girl accompanying you when you are shopping, and the wives are in sight, you will easily be suspected of having a problem with your chastity.
In this era of cannibalism, due to the unclear issue of chastity, there are definitely not a few married women who were ordered by the patriarch to be dipped in a pig cage.
"She's Ama, our eldest princess is a very sensible person. When it comes to reputation issues, she has her own sense of proportion and will never dare to mess around." Iljue Luo Shi knew Xiuyun's temper and temper very well and quickly came forward to help.
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Xiuyun put down the bowls and chopsticks in her hands and said with a smile: "Thank you Ama for your concern. I came back with Hanxiang specially."
As we all know, Hanxiang is a first-class maid and study maid who was raised by Yuzhu since childhood.