"These days, have even little girls become so difficult to deal with?" Cai Yan said with a bit of a sigh, and then after a while, Cai Yan had to admit that after thinking carefully, he discovered that Cao Ang actually
It is a more suitable type.
"Did you suddenly feel that none of your peers are suitable for Xianying?" Cai Zhenji sat up with a smile, looked at Cai Yan and asked.
Xin Xianying's thinking is actually a bit too mature, and Cai Yan and Chen Xi's way of raising things is wrong. Coupled with the existence of spiritual talent, Xin Xianying's learning has already exceeded the scope of her peers. The so-called girls' school is more for Xin Xianying to find.
Reach out to some friends.
However, I haven't found many friends now. I want to introduce Xin Xianying to her uncles and uncles. There are many brothers and nephews, so Xin Xianying has stopped going to a girls' school recently and has begun hiding at home to do research. Cai Yan doesn't think so.
what is the problem.
After all, Cai Yan had come here like this before, but suddenly she heard that Xin Xianying was interested in a certain boy, and Cai Yan was also a little curious.
"Speaking of which, my sister's children's class is gone?" Cai Zhenji asked curiously.
"Well, it's getting cold, and there are fewer people, so it's not suitable for teaching." Cai Yan smoothed her hair and said casually, while Cai Zhenji curled her lips. They were really a couple. I remember you taught me how to read before.
It's winter and summer. If you don't read that day, you'll hit me with a ruler. I'm your biological sister.
As a result, after following Chen Xi, I didn’t learn much about the good aspects. The bad aspects, Cai Zhaoji, you have become like a lazy fox. Don’t squint your eyes, you are a bit of a vixen!
"I will help my son and daughter get started next year. Although they can read and read, I occasionally find that some things I should have taught are not taught." Cai Zhenji sighed. She came to see her sister because she also had something to do.
"Who told you to marry so early?" Cai Zhaoji said coldly.
In fact, the second lady did not receive a complete education in a systematic way. She can only be said to be talented enough. In addition, Cai Yong's education level was high enough. She taught enough knowledge and ensured the basics. However, she learned it by herself and relayed it to herself.
There is still a long way to go for children to learn.
In addition to education, a system and a correct method are very important. The former means that it can be integrated into a whole, and the latter means whether the students can bear it. It is obvious that Cai Zhenji has realized a certain fact.
He had some knowledge, and relied on his own abilities to form a whole, but the whole he formed seemed not suitable for his son.
Trying to recall her biological father's education methods back then, the second young lady clearly realized her own shortcomings, and then decisively hugged her sister's thigh. She is her biological sister anyway, so there is nothing to be ashamed of. Please help your sister, I will help you breastfeed.
Is the child okay?
"Sister, if you do this, you will lose your precious sister." Cai Zhenji jumped out of the bed, ran to Cai Yan's side, and hugged Cai Yan twice.
"Go aside." Cai Yan pushed the second young lady away. She hated physical contact with others, so the second young lady was her biological sister, otherwise Cai Yan could throw her out.
"No, you help me take care of Hu'er and Yu'er." Cai Zhenji refused to let go, "How about I help you take care of Chen'er? I am very experienced in educating two-year-old children, how about it?"
Cai Yan was silent. She actually found that she doted on Cai Chen. Even though she had read a lot of books and learned a lot, and knew very well that a loving mother often loses her son, Cai Yan still couldn't control herself from doting on Cai Chen. Even if
The performance is very shallow, but at this level of wisdom, he actually knows what he is doing.
"Okay." After thinking about it for a while, Cai Yan nodded and agreed to his sister's suggestion. After all, if he were to take care of Cai Chen by himself, sometimes he really couldn't bear to educate her.
"I'll leave my two brats to my sister, and I'll deal with Hu'er severely. This kid deserves a beating!" Cai Zhenji gritted her teeth and said, Yang Hu, the kid, is smart, but Cai Zhenji has discovered that this kid's mind is not in the right direction.
development.
As the saying goes, Yang Hu is already five years old. Cai Zhenji can see some problems more or less. However, Cai Zhenji has the same problem as her sister. When she sees her son, she is a little reluctant to do it. She clearly knows that he should be educated in this way.
, but I feel that the child is still young.
In addition, I found that the systematic nature of my family's knowledge was not suitable for passing on to my children at this age, so after much thought, it was better to hand it over to my sister.
"When the time comes, ask Hu'er and Huiyu to serve me tea, and you can bring me a bundle to repair, and I will accept you as your disciple." Cai Yan said gently. Although Yang Hu is a bit crooked, Cai Yan still likes Yang Hu very much.
The one who is embarrassed is Yang Huiyu. Cai Yan feels that this child is somewhat similar to her. Considering his own situation, Cai Yan still doesn't want Yang Huiyu to be too cold.
"Oh, that's good." Cai Zhenji didn't feel that her sister was taking advantage of her family. The relationship between master and disciple is much closer than that between aunt and nephew. Moreover, the nature of a teacher, a person who preaches, learns and resolves doubts, is similar to that of her aunt.
There's a big difference.
This also means that Cai Yan will educate Yang Hu and Yang Huiyu well, and as a teacher, sometimes when it is time for physics education, then physics education is necessary. This is a rule passed down by the saints, and there is almost no good
A place for rebuttal.
An aunt should still be cautious about beating her nephew, but isn't it natural for a teacher to beat a disciple because of educational issues?
The so-called lax teaching and laziness of teachers is no joke in the ancient cultural system of heaven and earth, where the king, the king, the teacher, and the teacher are all in the world. Otherwise, how can a teacher be worthy of the title of father?
"Speaking of which, Shi Yi also mentioned this to me." Cai Zhaoji thought about Wang Yi. When he was taking a bath some time ago, Wang Yi brought Jiang Wei over to listen to the piano. They also talked about it intentionally or unintentionally. In the future, Jiang Wei
If Wei is older, he will bring Jiang Wei over to serve as Cai Yan's apprentice.
At that time, Cai Yan casually asked, why don't you teach it yourself? After all, Wang Yi is different from the second Miss Cai. The second Miss was seeking her own death. When she was young, Cai Yong had not yet completed the inheritance of his own wisdom system.
To his second daughter, the second daughter eloped.
This leads to the fact that unless Ms. Cai Er spends a lot of time to systematically sort out her knowledge, adjust it into a learning model suitable for children, and teach it, otherwise it will be almost impossible to fully teach her own knowledge to her son and daughter.
It's a dream.
After all, Wang Yiren came from an academic background. Although his family education is not as good as that of Cai Yong, Wang Yiren has systematically learned the knowledge and knows how to teach it to the next generation. Coupled with the accumulation of acquired knowledge, as a
It’s okay for teachers to teach their children through words and deeds, and eventually they accumulate enough wisdom to impact their spiritual talents.
This is what Cai Yan is confused about. After all, Wang Yi can teach by himself. There is no need to send Jiang Wei here. After all, as long as his family has a complete inheritance these days, he will first learn from his own family and learn ten things.
At the age of six, after the main body is achieved, you can then learn from others.
This is a primary and secondary relationship. However, Wang Yi just shook his head in response to Cai Yan's doubts. She didn't have that much time. Jing Zhaoyin's position was full of things.
"She probably doesn't have time to educate her son." Cai Zhenji sighed and said. Wang Yi is currently the only female high-ranking official. To be honest, this is not a problem of the central government's suppression, but a problem of other people's lack of effort.
What can you do about the girls who were taken to the dating agency in the scientific examination? After all, being able to get ahead on this list means that this girl’s intelligence is far superior to everyone else, and being an official means that she has outstanding abilities and a clean background. Think about it, it’s quite
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So much so that they get married after being employed for less than three years. After getting married, there are even fewer people who are willing to continue working diligently every day and continue to work overtime. Basically, it won’t take long for them to resign and go home to become housekeepers. These days
A girl who can pass the exam based on her ability and then become an official then returns home to take care of the house. Isn’t that just like playing?
Take Wang Yi as an example. Jing Zhaoyin is able to hold a critical position like this and run it in an orderly manner. There was only one accident last year. This kind of person can manage the backyard of a big family, let alone the backyard of a big family.
There is no problem for small and medium-sized vassal states.
Similarly, for the girls who got their start in the scientific examination, they are at least an official, and they are in charge of thousands of people. The inner courtyard of your big family is only as complicated as this, and it is more complicated than being alone.
Take the exam, then sit still without a backer, become a mistress, and still have a backer!
Therefore, after these girls get married, they feel that being a housekeeper is much easier than being an official, and they are not tired. After all, these days, the ratio between officials and civilians is calculated based on four to five thousand. If you really have to take care of everything, you can be exhausted. I have experienced it.
After the simple start of the husband's family, there is still the heart to come back to work. To be honest, it is a question whether there is even one out of ten.
So this matter is really heartbreaking. It can be said that Wang Yi is currently the only person supporting the overall situation of female officials. The others are probably Lu Su’s two wives who are still working reluctantly, but Lu Su
Neither of Su's two wives hold such orthodox official positions. One is a part-time vice-president of the Medical College, and the other is engaged in education.
He is not considered to be a high-ranking official like Wang Yi with the standard of two thousand dan, he can only be regarded as having a card.
"Shi Yi has worked hard too." Cai Zhenji sighed and said, people and people can't understand it. In Cai Zhenji's opinion, Shi Yi obviously went too far. If he educated his son and let him fight with his dreams, then
Wouldn't it be easier?
"I have ignored this problem." Cai Yan nodded, "In this case, another position needs to be calculated."
