I saw the book now and I have been chasing it for more than three months. I really feel a lot of emotion about Ye Zhiqiu.
First of all, as the author said, she has high IQ and low EQ, and is very sincere to people and feelings. Her body obeys her heart and will not give her body to the person she doesn't love (of course, Ling Mufeng's robbery began.
She can't control it), this is very good and worthy of praise.
But, next, as other jms said, she kept everything in her heart and did not communicate, which caused a lot of estrangement. This is really bad.
Although the author later changed a lot and even started chasing the male pig. It was very good to chase each other. In fact, when the two of them got along, as long as they recognized each other and thought that the other party was worthy of their efforts, it really didn't matter whether they chased them or not.
Sometimes self-esteem is not so necessary. Getting together is like dancing a ballroom dance. You retreat and I advance, and I advance and you retreat. Only when two people go together can they play together. One person cannot give in forever.
But I think what I cannot accept most is Ye Zhiqiu's thoughts about Ling Mufeng's behavior. When they went on their honeymoon, the male pig drank with his former lover and got entangled. At that time, the author described the female as follows.
Pig's psychology: It's okay if you don't intend to (have a relationship), but what should you do if you have another An Jingru?
There is also the self-psychological analysis of the female pig in "Assistant (5)", which deeply blames herself for how she snubs the male pig for the second miscarriage at that time and how she was ignorant of her.
It is these that make me feel pitiful, or she is very tired of living. She is always strict with herself and loose with Lu Feng. Perhaps, loving someone means accepting everything from the other person.
However, you can accept the other party’s previous behavior and forgive it, but it does not mean that you are a big mistake. In order to forgive the other party, aren’t you tired?
Perhaps, it really takes a lot to accept a man like Male Pig, but no matter how much you have, you have to keep your heart!