"The reason is that you paid too much for her, but you didn't get the return you expected. Then you continued to increase your chips and continued to invest, and finally you got deeper and deeper."
"It's not so much that you can't let go of that person, but that what you can't let go of is actually your own unwillingness and obsession."
"So what you have to do now is to make her unwilling to accept you and become obsessed with you."
"The premise of all this is to guide the other party to pay for you to the maximum extent."
"What you give is not limited to material things. It can be your body, your time, or your energy."
"She is now taking the initiative to leave you a message. There are three meanings in it. The first is that she is curious about you, the second is that she is obsessed with the message she sent you before and you did not reply to her, and the third is that she is testing you.
manner."
"Although you must get this news back, try to delay it for a little longer."
"After she leaves you a message, she will definitely pay attention to your updates, but you just keep putting it off."
"She has always been thinking about this matter, which led her to devote time and energy to you in disguise. This completed a guide for her to devote to you."
"In this way, the next steps will be easier to operate!"
Wonderful, wonderful, simply wonderful!
Based on this accurate theoretical analysis, if the university establishes a subject of picking up girls, Xiao Diguo can at least become a professor at the level of a doctoral supervisor!
When he was two children, the weasel obtained Little Sweet Potato's consent and responded to Shangguan Shufen's reply with a naughty tongue-out emoji.
"What's next?"
The weasel began to become uneasy again.
Little Digua looked confident, sitting leisurely on the chair and puffing away, "Waiting for her to take the initiative to send you a message."
"ah?"
Weasel looked worried and said, "What if she doesn't send it to me?
They haven’t given me any information for several days.”
Little Sweet Potato smiled confidently, "She tested you twice in a row, but she didn't achieve the effect she expected."
"This is just like the investment you made for her before. If it doesn't meet your expectations, you will instinctively increase the stakes and continue to invest. This is human nature, and no one is immune to it."
Although Weasel trusts Little Sweet Potato now, he is still uneasy. After all, he has already become obsessed with Shangguan Shufen.
In an hour, Weasel smoked an entire pack of cigarettes. Just when he opened the second pack, a message popped up with a ding.
"Damn it, she really sent me a message!"
Weasel was so excited that he was shaking all over, holding the phone tightly with both hands, as if this message would run away at any time.
"What did you say back?"
Little Sweet Potato didn't look too surprised, everything was under his control.
"She asked me what I've been busy with lately and why I haven't done anything for a long time."
Weasel stared at the message and said excitedly.
Little Sweet Potato exhaled a puff of smoke and said calmly, "You have been so busy these days, and you have only calmed down a little bit today. Then you sent a sleepy emoticon. By the way, I'll come back in five minutes."
Return."
"Why does it take five minutes?
Continue to direct her investment of time and energy?”
The weasel had already grasped some of the basics at this time, and was no longer the ignorant layman who knew nothing.
Little Sweet Potato replied, "What you mentioned is just one of the three purposes."
"Replying a message after five minutes has two most important purposes besides directing the other party to invest your time and energy."
"The first thing is to wait five minutes before replying, so that the other party won't think that you are idle and that you are a waste holding your phone anytime, anywhere every day."
"Secondly, from a human perspective, you must not let the other party get it too easily, even if it is a piece of information."
"If you reply immediately, the other person will think you are cheap. Replying after a few minutes will make him feel important."
"Remember, before she expresses a strong interest in you, you must not let her control the rhythm when texting her."
"Occasionally you can reply in seconds, or in one minute, or in five minutes. Sometimes you can just delay him for ten minutes."
"In this way, you will firmly control the rhythm of the chat in your own hands, thereby taking the initiative."
"Also, as for the content of the chat, you must remember the cross-policy policy, don't kneel down, don't please, be calm and gentle."
"The first six words are easy to understand, so I won't go into details. The essence lies in the last four words, Yun Dan Feng Qing."
"The general meaning is that the tone must be relaxed and casual, just like chatting with ordinary friends. It must not reveal any ups and downs of emotions. It must be as calm as a pool of water in a valley!"
Under Little Digua's careful instruction, Weasel began to follow the principles of the cross policy and began to chat with Shangguan Shufen.
Sure enough, on the basis of this cross policy and the tactics of controlling the rhythm, Shangguan Shufen's chat content became more and more enthusiastic.
In the end, he actually made a joke with the weasel.
"Not to mention, you look pretty good this way, but you're just a little thinner, your shoulders are too narrow, and the clothes can't hold you up."
Shangguan Shufen joked.
Weasel quickly edited a message: This is because I was malnourished when I was a child, and I have been working out recently, and I will slowly start practicing in a short time.
Just when he was about to press the send button, Little Sweet Potato raised his hand and said, "Wait a minute, you can't send this message."
The weasel asked, "Why?"
Little Sweet Potato pointed to the message sent by Shangguan Shufen and explained, "This is a rubbish test given to you by the girl."
"You have to remember that women subconsciously admire strength. Only the weak will explain to the strong. Have you ever seen the strong explain to the weak?"
"When faced with a girl's rubbish test, once you defend or explain, it is a sign of weakness."
"That's what you said, you asked her if she should make you some soup to replenish your body since she knows you are thin."
"In this way, not only are there no excuses or explanations, but you also appear to be calm and calm, yet still humorous."
"Remember, when chatting with a girl, in addition to not kneeling or licking her or trying to please her, add six more words: don't refute or defend her."
"You must always remember that you are the strong one. You are in a high position. You overlook the world. You are the king. How can you explain so much to a small soldier?"
Weasel followed Little Sweet Potato's wishes, re-edited a message and sent it.
Sure enough, Shangguan Shufen's response was even more enthusiastic: That's right, that's a good idea. Not just anyone can drink the soup I cook.
The weasel was in trouble again for a while and didn't know how to reply.