"Master, am I letting grandpa do nothing like this, right?"
Yang Zimei looked at Yuqing uneasily and asked, "Am I being unfilial?"
"Niuniu, master, let me tell you a story about a man who is gracious to rice but bears a grudge against rice."
Yuqing sighed and said.[
"Okay, Master, tell me."
"Once upon a time, there were two families who were neighbors, and they usually had a good relationship. One of the families was much richer because they were more capable.
The two families had no grudges at first, but this year, God was angry and brought disaster, and there was no harvest in the fields. The poor family had no harvest and had to lie down and wait to die. At this time, the rich family bought a lot
Regarding food, I thought about our neighbors, so I sent a liter of rice to a poor family, which saved their lives.
The poor family was very grateful to the rich man, thinking that he was really a life-saving benefactor! After surviving the most difficult moment, the poor family went to thank the rich man. While talking, they mentioned that the seeds for next year had not yet been harvested, and the rich family said generously
: Well, I still have a lot of food here, so just take another bucket of rice. The poor man gratefully took a bucket of rice and went home.
After returning home, his brother said, what can we do with this bucket of rice? Apart from eating, it is not enough for us to plant seeds in the fields next year. This rich man is too much. Since you are so rich, you should give us more food.
It's really bad to give such a small amount of money and money.
This word reached the ears of the rich man. He was very angry and thought, I gave you so much food for free, but you not only didn’t thank me, but also hated me as an enemy. You are really not a human being. So, we had a good relationship.
The two families became enemies from then on and never interacted with each other until death."
After Yuqing finished telling the story, she looked at Yang Zimei and asked: "Niuniu, do you understand this story?"
Yang Zimei nodded.
The meaning of this story is that if you help someone a little in times of crisis, they will be grateful to you.
If you continue like this and suddenly fail to help for some reason, the other party will resent you and will hold it for a lifetime!
Just like people who receive relief, after getting used to it, they often take relief as a matter of course, and naturally they don't think about doing anything themselves and relying on their own labor to obtain food.
If you later find out that he has regained his ability to work and do not help him, he will hold a grudge against you.
This is because the other party takes the things you lovingly supported as a matter of course. This is fighting for favor and enmity.
It refers to helping others, causing them to become dependent, changing from gratitude to taking it for granted, and finally turning into hatred.
Grandpa also had this mentality. I remember when she gave him three hundred yuan as pocket money for the first time, he was very happy and said that she was sensible and knew how to be filial to him.
Now, even if he is given two thousand yuan a month, he feels that it is not enough. He also wants a credit card with unlimited overdraft. If he does not give it to him, he feels that he has been wronged and curses himself as an enemy.
Therefore, this time, she must really harden her heart until her grandfather wakes up.
Yang Baijiang stayed in the village for only a week and couldn't bear it anymore.
Eating in a restaurant every day not only costs a lot of money, but also doesn’t taste good. The food cooked by his wife and daughter-in-law is not satisfactory, and he has to wash clothes and sweep the floor. The most important thing is that he is laughed at by the people in the village every day, so that he, who loves face,
My self-esteem was greatly hit, and I slowly began to recall the kindness of Yang Zimei.[
My family can live a good life all because of my granddaughter. When I go to the city, I am not despised by those powerful old men, but I am attracted to them, all because of my granddaughter.
But I, because she was a girl, never gave her a good look and only made demands on her.
Moreover, his son also told him that Niu Niu's making money by helping others with divination was an act that went against destiny and would most likely be punished by God. Those fortune tellers were hard-earned and she gambled with her life.
And he actually scolded her that she would be struck by lightning, which was really too much!
As he thought about it, his old face turned red and he scolded himself for being stupid!
If something happens to his granddaughter, he will be as poor and lonely as the old men in the village, instead of being like now, with at least one thousand yuan a month.
However, his self-esteem prevented him from admitting his mistake, so he just wasted his time. In the end, he couldn't bear it any more, so he drove back to the city in despair.
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[Grandpa understands, my dear dear friends, do you understand? If you understand, then you should be grateful to your parents and the people around you for their kindness to you, instead of taking it for granted. Haha, Xixi is preaching again! 】
