It was not convenient for me to ask her, so I had to remind her of this matter from the side. "Meng Lei, when do you think it is appropriate for us to have a child?" I finally brought up this topic during a dinner.
"Do you really want a child?" she asked me.
"Actually, I'm not that urgent about having a child, because I can't imagine what it would be like to have a child. However, a family must have a child, right? At least we will have a family relationship when we grow old.
Isn't it fun?" I said to her with a smile.
She nodded. Then nothing happened.
There is one thing that I have always wondered about - according to the time she married the man before her, their child should be at least five or six years old, but as far as I know, they have never had children. I think this
There are several reasons for this situation: he is infertile; she is infertile; the two of them are not emotionally compatible. I hope it is the first or third reason.[
In fact, I was very confused. Because when I decided to marry her, I did not consider the children as the main factor. At that time, I thought that the two people had a good relationship. As for the children, it was natural and a matter of course.
But now, when I mentioned this matter, I didn't get any response from her. I was secretly confused.
She and I began to fall into silence.
"What's wrong with you?" I asked, hoping to break the silence.
She smiled at me and said, "Nothing."
I also laughed and said, "Don't worry about it. I'm just talking casually. We just got married. It's okay to have children after a few more years."
"What if I can't give birth?" she asked, her face suddenly turned pale.
"Maybe it's my problem. How about we all go check it out?" I said.
"I mean, what if it's my problem?" she asked me, without looking at me. She was eating with her head down.
"Then don't have children." I said. I didn't care very much in my heart. Because I don't have much idea about children now, and I don't think not having children is a big deal. At most, I feel a sense of regret.
I thought to myself.
"If this happens, we will no longer have family happiness." She still lowered her head and said to me.
I immediately laughed, "Now that science and technology are advanced, if it doesn't work, you can still do in vitro fertilization. If it doesn't work, just adopt one."
She raised her head suddenly, her eyes filled with tears, "Feng Xiao, you are so kind."
I suddenly understood something, "Meng Lei, have you had a checkup before? Are you really infertile?"
She nodded, with a look of sadness on her face, "It's not that I can't have children, it's just because I once suffered from tuberculosis, and the doctor told me that the fallopian tubes were blocked. He, he beat me for this reason before."
The tenderness in my heart suddenly rose, and I stretched out my hand to hold her hand, "Meng Lei, I am different from him. I will be good to you. Don't worry. Besides, having a blocked fallopian tube does not necessarily mean that you will not be able to have children."
I am an obstetrician and gynecologist, and I will find a way to solve this problem. Haha! Fortunately, there is no problem with your ovaries and uterus. If it doesn't work, we will do in vitro fertilization."
"I have consulted before, and the success rate of IVF is less than 30%." She said sadly.
"Thirty percent is still a chance. If it doesn't work, just the two of us will live together for the rest of our lives. Our country's population is already so large, and we can just contribute to family planning." I said to her softly.
"Feng Xiao, you are so kind." She began to cry.[
All the tenderness in my heart began to be released, and I immediately stood up from my seat and went to her side, stretching out my arms to hold her tightly in my arms.
She cried loudly in my arms.
It was many years later that I realized that some things were not as simple as I imagined. If a family lacks children, it will become deformed.