I slept with my cell phone on because I was worried that Liu Meng would call me. Updates will come soon. I was very moved when I thought of her not being able to go home to accompany me.
In addition, before going to bed, I gave myself a psychological hint: you will wake up when the phone rings.
This kind of psychological suggestion is actually very simple, just recite it silently in your mind several times before falling asleep, but it must be pious. Piety means that you should not regard such a suggestion as a joke, but as a warning.
.Now I am thinking that in fact, superstition and religion may be closely related to our psychological cues.
Religion... Kuzen Temple... Before I fell asleep, these two things suddenly came to my mind.[
I don’t know how long it took, but I really heard the ringtone of my cell phone. I woke up immediately, but my whole body was limp and weak. I knew it was because I didn’t get enough sleep, so I still resolutely forced myself to get up.
I know that if this is not the case, the same psychological suggestion will not work next time. There will also be something called laziness in our subconscious. Once we succumb to this laziness, the next time we will
The subconscious mind will tightly wrap up this suggestion of its own.
This kind of suggestion training is very effective. It helped me form the habit of getting up early for a long time and being able to insist on getting up under special circumstances. It also helped me to maintain this habit in my future life.
To overcome laziness, in addition to perseverance, what is more needed is the psychological suggestion of the self. Because of this, many successful people can succeed.
Go take the phone in your hand and answer: "Hello..."
Then I found that there was no sound coming, and I was still drowsy, "Hey..."
I still didn't hear any sound, so I almost threw the phone away, because I suspected that the ringing was an illusion. But I really heard it ringing in my ears, and I immediately remembered that I didn't press the answer button, and my drowsiness completely disappeared.
, hurriedly sat up and pressed the answer button, "Hey, who is it?"
Laughter immediately came from the phone. Liu Meng's laughter. She asked me: "Feng Xiao, are you still sleeping? Did you do something bad last night?"
I said, "No, what bad thing can I do? I drank too much yesterday, and when I woke up at night, I started to get excited, and then I couldn't fall asleep again."
She asked me: "Then why don't you call me?"
I said: "You are in the middle of the night, how can I call you?"
She laughed, and her voice immediately became softer, "If you call me, I will come at any time."
I was suddenly moved, "Liu Meng, where did you sleep in Tangzi last night?"
But she replied: "No. I belong to someone in the company."
I asked in surprise: "Is there a bed in the company?"
She suddenly laughed, "You have never come to our company, so you don't know. Feng Xiao, we haven't touched your previous bedroom. We have kept your wardrobe, bed, and your previous dressing cabinet."
Yu Min said that that place cannot be moved. She said that there is a shadow of your ex-wife in that room, and she said that you may not come here to take a look one day when you think of your ex-wife."
I suddenly felt uncomfortable, and at the same time I felt more grateful to Yu Min, but I didn't know what to say, "Thank you."
She continued: "Feng Xiao, please don't be moved. We women are actually very kind-hearted. After all, there are only a few women with a vicious heart. By the way, what are the arrangements for today?"
I suddenly remembered the thought that suddenly occurred to me before going to bed, "Let's go to Kuchan Temple. What time is it now?"
She said: "It will be half past ten soon. So, are you still staying in that hotel? I will take a taxi over right away."[
Immediately, I got up, took a shower and went downstairs. I bought something to eat downstairs and then went to the car. I took out my phone and called Liu Meng, "I'll wait for you in the car."
She said: "I'll be there soon."
Immediately, I saw a taxi parked outside the hotel, and then she got out of the car. I pressed the car horn, and she saw me and ran towards me with a smile on her face.
After getting in the car, she stared at me for a while, and then laughed, "Feng Xiao, you look quite energetic."
I also laughed, "Actually, a person can sleep for five hours or less a day in the short term. Sometimes when you are extremely tired, you only need to sleep for five minutes to become refreshed. After all, human potential
It’s wired.”
She smiled and said, "What you say as doctors always makes sense. But I believe you didn't do anything bad last night, because I don't believe you still have that much physical strength."
I knew she was talking about what happened between me and the two of them the night before yesterday, and I suddenly felt embarrassed. In fact, I am still very traditional in my heart, and I was still a little uncomfortable with being together with the two of them at the same time like that. Accurately
To be honest, she probably still had some taboos in her heart, so she suddenly became a little embarrassed, so much so that she even forgot that she was also a participant in our event the night before yesterday.
She looked at me and smiled, "Feng Xiao, are you sorry? You are a man, and not every man can enjoy such good things."
I hurriedly said: "Liu Meng, stop talking. Now I think that thing is so ridiculous."
She laughed, "What's so ridiculous? We are human beings, so we should cherish every day we are together. Isn't it just for fun? What the hell."
I waved to her hastily, "Stop talking, really. In fact, I know Tang Zi is not used to that. Liu Meng, it's better for us to be together separately from now on."
She laughed, "Okay. I'll listen to you. By the way, Feng Xiao, why did you suddenly think of going to Kuchan Temple today?"
I said, "Maybe I've been feeling upset recently and want to go there to calm down."
She said: "Actually, I really want to go. Feng Xiao, it seems you can draw lots there, right? Let's go try to draw lots today."
In fact, women are more superstitious than men, because women tend to have much lower self-esteem than men. I know this very well, and then I asked her with a smile: "What do you want to know?"
She said: "First, I want to know if I can make a fortune in the future, and second, I want to ask whether I will have a son or a daughter in the future."
Her words immediately made me understand her heart: it seems that she is a woman who puts her personal future first and her family second, but this is exactly in line with my usual understanding of her.
I immediately laughed and said, "Actually, you have made a fortune now."
She looked at me in surprise. I don't know why, but I noticed a trace of panic flashed in her eyes. She asked me, "Feng Xiao, what do you mean by this?"
I said: "Your current company has made so much money, hasn't it already made a fortune? Making a fortune is relative. After you have one million, you will hope that you can make ten million.
When you have 10 million, you will want to make 100 million. People's desires are poor, and it is best to be content and happy."
She said: "What you said seems to make sense. In fact, my requirements are not high, as long as it can satisfy the kind of life that I yearn for."
I asked her: "So, what is the life you long for?" [
She said: "I have a villa on the beach. I want to have two children, a daughter and a son. It is best to have a daughter first and then a son. Of course, twins of twins are best. Then every year, my husband and I will take the children around the world."
If you travel once, you still need to have a certain amount of savings in your account.”
I burst out laughing immediately, "Aren't you asking too much? This is simply the life of a god."
She also laughed, "For a woman like me who likes to dream, is this a very simple thing? I can always think about things in my dreams that I can't get in reality, right?"
I laughed so much that I almost stopped the car, "That makes sense. I can have dreams like this often."
She said: "Actually, I also know that our real life is not that simple. [`Novel`] If one day I really have so much money, new troubles may not come again. For example
What should I do if my child does not do well in school? What if the people around me stop interacting with me? Haha! Therefore, it is good to dream about such things, because there will be no worries in such dreams. In fact, making money is a small matter.
If you really want to have a son and a daughter, it’s impossible.”
I said, "How is it impossible? Your husband is not a national civil servant, right? It's okay to have two children."
She said: "So what if he is a civil servant? The income of civil servants is not as good as the legend says, and the people who get rich are those who are officials, so if it is really possible to have children according to my wishes, I would rather let him resign."
."
I couldn't help laughing, but I didn't answer her words.
She was coming to see me, "Why are you laughing like this? Do you think I'm stupid?"
I said, "You're a medical student, so why don't you know this? Nowadays, the birth of children can be controlled using scientific methods. Don't you know? It's not difficult to give birth to twins, but they don't necessarily have to be twins.
That’s all.”
Her face suddenly turned red and she said angrily: "If I had good grades, would I be doing the job I am doing now?"
I understood immediately, and then laughed, "If a young man doesn't work hard, he will be miserable. This sentence really makes sense."
She suddenly became angry, "Feng Xiao, I won't tell you anymore! You got good grades when you were studying, so you should be proud of it, right? I hate it!"
Of course I knew that she was not really angry with me, so I smiled and said: "I just want to remind you that when you talk about such things in front of outsiders in the future, don't introduce yourself as a medical student. Others are really
I'll laugh at you. I'm doing this for your own good."
She pursed her lips and said, "I'm too lazy to tell you. You just have to be quiet."
I couldn't stop laughing.
But she suddenly said: "No, you have to say it! I almost fell into your trap. Feng Xiao, please tell me how to give birth to a boy or a girl. Also, you must tell me how to give birth to twins."
I."
I said: "It's actually very simple. First of all, you have to know the principle. You are studying medicine. Did the teacher often teach you in this order during class? First, the term explanation of a certain disease, and then the mechanism of its onset.
, followed by clinical manifestations, diagnosis and differential diagnosis, and finally treatment methods? Therefore, it is very important to understand the mechanism."
She still pursed her lips and said: "Don't be a teacher now. Come on, do you think I am a student?"
I laughed, and then said to her: "You know the principle of pregnancy, right? It is the process of combining sperm and eggs. A woman produces one egg a month, and the left and right ovaries alternate. And each time one egg can only be combined with one
Sperm fertilizes, so the sex chromosomes carried by the sperm are very important. Half of the male sperm contains the x chromosome, and the other half is the y chromosome. The female sex chromosome is xx, but the male is xy.
You will understand when I say this, right?"
She said: "I know this. The problem is that the chance of fertilization is equal for both x and y sperm."
I laughed and said, "That's the problem. Do you think, what if we artificially make the x or y sperm run faster? Wouldn't this problem be solved? Also, what if we use drugs to make women have more sperm at once?"
If one egg is produced, wouldn't twins appear? However, if these two methods are used at the same time, it will often be a girl or a boy in the future, and the possibility of twins is very small. Generally speaking, twins are only born in
It happens naturally and accidentally.”
She suddenly looked very interested, "Feng Xiao, please explain carefully, it sounds like what you said makes sense."
I said loudly: "What do you mean it sounds reasonable? This is science."
She stretched out her hand and lightly hit my arm, "Feng Xiao, you're annoying! Tell me quickly. I really want to hear it."
I laughed "haha" and then said: "The degree of sperm activity is affected by the acidity and alkalinity of the female vagina. In acidic conditions, the sperm with X chromosomes are active, but in the alkaline environment inside the vagina,
It can increase the activity of Y sperm. To make X or Y sperm more active, it can be controlled through food or artificial methods. However, this must be prepared one month before a woman is going to have a child. It can be said that
A system project. Although it is not complicated, you must persist. If you really need it in the future, I can give you specific operation methods. But there is one more thing that must be paid attention to, because generally speaking, two people working together
It is often easier to give birth to a boy under certain circumstances. There is no scientific reason for this, but we can find a pattern from a phenomenon, that is, illegitimate children are often boys, because men and women will feel more exciting in the case of adultery. "
She said: "Then Yu Min's child should be a boy..."
My expression suddenly changed, but I heard her immediately say again: "Feng Xiao, I'm sorry, I didn't mean anything else, don't be angry."
I immediately understood that she said this completely out of intention, so I stopped blaming her, but I was thinking in my heart: The child in Yu Min's belly may not be a boy, because
I didn't feel excited when I was with her. On the contrary, I felt it was natural during that time. Perhaps, in my heart, I needed her to give me a girl.
Now, I heard her apologizing to me, and it was a sincere apology, so I couldn’t say anything more. I felt that the only way was to pretend that I didn’t hear what she just said, so I continued.
The topic continued: "As I said before, the only way to give birth to twins is to promote ovulation. Generally speaking, the chance of giving birth to twins is relatively greater under the following circumstances: First, either of the couple or one of them
If you have twin genes, for example, you or your husband’s parents have twin brothers or sisters. I won’t talk about this, because after all, such a situation is relatively rare, and if there is such a situation, there is no need to use artificial methods. Secondly
It’s about doing in vitro fertilization. Because artificial insemination can easily stimulate the fertilized egg to cause division. Needless to say, because you and your husband have no problems, it is impossible to do in vitro fertilization. Third, that is
Take folic acid before pregnancy to increase the chance of ovulation. A study by a Swedish medical research institution pointed out that women who take folic acid are nearly twice as likely to conceive twins than women who do not take it. Experts estimate that folic acid supplements may increase the number of ovulations and increase the chance of ovulation.
Multiple eggs enter the uterus, resulting in twins. Of course, taking ovulation drugs can also promote follicle development, increase ovulation, increase the chance of pregnancy, and also increase the probability of pregnancy with twins. However, taking ovulation-inducing drugs will have harmful effects on a woman's body.
It will cause certain harm, so we generally do not advocate the use of this method. In addition, it is said that eating more sweet potatoes is also beneficial to giving birth to twins, because sweet potatoes contain a component similar to estrogen, which helps to give birth to children. Some studies have said that Nigerian
Yoruba women eat more sweet potatoes, and the chance of giving birth to twins among this tribe is the highest in the world. In addition, some traditional Chinese medicines for treating infertility have a higher chance of giving birth to twins, but you should pay attention to the method of use and consult a doctor in advance.
Which types of Chinese infertility medicines can promote the pregnancy of twins? The main thing is to determine whether these medicines will have adverse effects on the body. Haha! There is also an interesting saying. It is said that the chance of twins being fertilized in July is greater than
It is higher in other months. Therefore, it is easier to conceive in July and give birth to twins."
When I got to the next part, she started to listen quietly. After I finished speaking, she sighed softly: "Feng Xiao, you are so knowledgeable."
I immediately laughed, "What? This is the most common knowledge that our obstetricians and gynecologists need to master."
She sighed and said, "If I had studied hard, I would be able to be a doctor now."
I said: "Don't say that. In fact, each of us has a very exciting life. You said you want to be a doctor. In fact, many of us doctors envy your profession. Although it may be the same hard work, you make money."
That’s a lot. Don’t you think so? People’s lives are like this. Sometimes it’s not up to you to decide what you do. But since you’re in this profession, you should try your best to do it well. What’s not to live a lifetime? Just be in a happy mood.
."
She immediately laughed, "That's true. Feng Xiao, I like hearing what you said."
I laughed "haha", actually I really feel like this in my heart, don't you? You need to be in a happy mood to do anything, so it is most meaningful for a person to do what he likes to do the most. I remember
I don’t know if I have said this to others or if someone has told me this.
Liu Meng continued: "I had a chat with my classmate recently. He is currently doing administrative work in a hospital. He feels that his current job is very boring. He looks at the boss's face every day and behaves as if his job is given by the boss.
The leader also thinks that his gift is normal. He also envies me."
I was convinced, so I nodded and said, "That's true. Nowadays, many officials, including leaders of public institutions, regard the power in their hands as private property, so they have such a gift mentality.
But what’s very funny is that they are still saying every day: The people have given us such power! However, many of us, including myself of course, have become accustomed to this kind of power. I think, if
If one day I really break away from this gifted state, I may not be used to it."
She smiled and said: "Feng Xiao, have you noticed? In fact, most people in our country have a kind of servility, and many people are willing to be given gifts by others."
I laughed, "It makes sense! In fact, this is the tragedy of a country."
She also laughed, "Feng Xiao, I just realized now that you are also an angry young man!"
I said: "On the one hand, we are content with the status quo, but on the other hand, we are dissatisfied with reality. This is the current situation of many Chinese people."
Just chatting like this, we left the city unknowingly. Only then did I feel tired, so I stopped the car and said, "Come and drive. Do you know the place?"
She asked me: "What's wrong? Are you tired?"
I nodded, "I really want to sleep. I can't even open my eyes."
She said: "Okay. I know the place. You can sleep for a while. Feng Xiao, I didn't expect that you would also suffer from insomnia. Hehe!"
Then we changed seats, and then I closed my eyes and fell asleep. I found that it was really easy to fall asleep with the roar of cars as accompaniment.
Later, it was Liu Meng who woke me up from my sleep. When I woke up, I found that Liu Meng had driven the car outside Kuchan Temple. I got out of the car in a daze, and then followed her inside in a daze.
"Feng Xiao, this place seems to have made a lot of money. Look, this place is much more beautiful than before." Liu Mengzai said to me.
I have already seen that many buildings in this place have been renovated, and there are still many places under construction. I looked at everything in front of me with novelty, and found that there seemed to be more pilgrims today than the last time I came.
A lot.
Suddenly, I found a monk wearing cassocks walking hurriedly in front of the temple hall. When he walked to the side of the hall, he stopped immediately, glanced at where we were standing, and hurriedly walked away.
left.
I was shocked because this monk's appearance was so special.
My heart was shocked because the figure of this monk was so special.
The monk I just saw was very thin. I remember Sun Lulu’s mother told me that the monk she saw was as thin as a “clothes pole” and the monk I just saw was very thin, and the monk’s skin on his body
The monk's robe looked like it was empty on a clothes rack, causing the monk's robe to flutter when he walked. Unfortunately, I was too far away from him, so I couldn't see his face clearly.
Immediately, I ran towards the place where the monk disappeared just now.
Liu Meng called me from behind: "Feng Xiao, what are you doing?"
As I ran, I said to her: "Wait for me here!"
Soon I ran to the place where the monk I saw just disappeared, and found that there was an old tree next to it, and there was an alley behind the tree. It was obvious that the monk had entered the alley in front of it.
Went inside.
"Feng Xiao, what are you doing?" At this time, a panting Liu Meng came from behind, and she asked me while panting.
"I just saw the person I was looking for." I said.
"Male or female?" she asked.
I smiled bitterly in my heart, knowing that she might have misunderstood that I saw a certain woman again, "A monk here."
She immediately laughed, "Monk? What are you doing with the monk?"
I looked at the alley in front of me and hesitated whether to continue going in. "This monk may be related to a case."
She didn't seem to believe it, "Feng Xiao, when did you become an amateur policeman?"
I couldn't answer her question immediately, but the word "police" she said suddenly reminded me: I'd better not alert the snake in this situation. So, I grabbed her and ran outside the temple.
After arriving at the car, I started to call Tong Yao, "Tong Yao, I'm at Kuchan Temple now. I seemed to have seen the monk just now. But it was a bit far away, so I didn't see it very clearly."
"Then how are you sure it's that person?" Tong Yao asked.
I replied: "Because Sun Lulu's mother told me that the monk was very thin, very thin. Moreover, the monk's eyebrows were white. The monk I just saw was very thin. Unfortunately, I was too far away from him.
, I didn’t see clearly whether his eyebrows were white or not.”
She said: "It's hard to say. So, has that monk discovered you?"
I said, "Probably not. And he doesn't know me."
She then asked me: "Did you alarm him?"
I replied: "Probably not. I just chased him to the place where he disappeared, and then I didn't go further inside."
She pondered for a moment and then said to me: "Well, I'll rush over right away. Don't disturb him. By the way, did you just run to the place where the monk disappeared?"
I replied: "Yes." I suddenly understood what she meant by asking me this: my running just now might have alarmed the people in the temple. You know, people who come to the temple to offer incense and worship Buddha can
They are all pious, and very few people will run around the temple, let alone shout loudly.
Sure enough, I immediately heard her say: "We may not be able to find him. Feng Xiao, you may have alerted him. But I'd better come over and try my luck."
I suddenly thought of a possibility, "Forget it, don't come. What if he really didn't find me? Since it might be him that I saw today, it means that he lives here or near here."
You'll probably catch him when he's not paying attention."
She said: "It makes sense. I will immediately arrange personnel to conduct control around Kuchan Temple."
Liu Meng had been listening next to me when I was on the phone just now. After I finished the call, she came to me and asked me in surprise: "Feng Xiao, is that monk you saw a criminal?"
I shook my head and said, "That's not true. But this monk may be related to the case of a friend of mine. If we find him, it may be very beneficial to my friend."
"Then we must have alarmed him just now," she said.
"What should I do?" I asked.
She said: "Let's get out of here quickly."
I thought for a while, shook my head and said, "Now that I'm here and I'm alarmed, there's no point in leaving or not."
She asked: "What do you mean?"
I said, "Let's go to the abbot."
I have been to this place before. When I arrived at the abbot's house today, I found that his door was open. But I still knocked on the door.
"Who is it?" the person inside asked, but it was not the abbot's voice.
I did not dare to enter again, but stood outside the door and asked, "Is the abbot here? I have come to see him before."
"Please." Another voice inside said. It was the abbot's voice, I could hear it.
I hurried in, Liu Meng followed behind me.
Immediately after entering, I saw two people inside. The abbot was sitting on a futon, and standing next to him was a young monk. He was very thin and his clothes were very loose. I couldn't help but wonder: Could he be the monk I just saw?
?
"Oh. So it's you, the donor." The abbot actually remembered me, and he smiled at me.
I said to him respectfully: "I'm sorry to disturb your retreat again."
He smiled and said to me: "The donor seems to be in good spirits, but you seem to have more worries now than before. Did something bad happen to the donor?"
I was shocked, so I said to him more respectfully: "You continue. I am here today just to listen to your advice."
But the abbot immediately went to the young monk and said, "Take this female donor outside to drink tea."
I saw Liu Meng's suddenly unhappy look and hurriedly said to her: "You can go out. There are temple rules in the temple."
Liu Meng reluctantly agreed, and then followed the young monk out.
"Please take a seat." The abbot smiled at me and then pointed to the futon opposite him.
I sat down respectfully and looked at him with a very pious attitude.
"Did the donor encounter something unpleasant recently?" he asked me.
I nodded and said, "Yes. It's very annoying."
He did not come to ask me what happened, but pointed to the wall opposite him, "Does the donor know the meaning of those two words?"
I turned around and looked and found a picture on the wall, with only two words on it: Zhizhi. The fonts were regular and looked very comfortable. I thought: maybe this is calligraphy? These two words were written too
It looked good. But I didn’t quite understand the meaning of these two words, so I shook my head and said, “Ashamed, I don’t quite understand.”
He looked at me and smiled and said: "The donor is not the kind of person who pretends to understand. That's good. There are fewer and fewer people like you now. Eight or nine out of ten people come to me."
Everyone will talk about their own understanding of these two words, but they are all very superficial understandings."
I said: "I am a doctor, and our profession requires us to be rigorous. If you don't understand, you don't understand. Isn't it a shame to admit that you don't understand?"
He smiled and said: "Donor is very honest. But you are still too young, so you cannot see through many things and cannot let go. Donor, let me tell you a story about these two words."
I couldn't help but straighten my waist, "You tell me, I'm all ears."
He said: "Master Hongyi once wrote a picture for his friend Xia Zun, which is the word 'Zhizhi'. At that time, he had been a monk in Hupao Temple in Hangzhou for a year and a month. 'Zhizhi'
'Although there are only two words, they contain infinite profound meanings and Zen ideas. There is a story in our Zen sect: An old monk had a group of disciples gathered around him. One day, he asked each of his disciples to go to Nanshan to collect a load of firewood.
After returning, the disciples hurried to the river not far from the mountain. Everyone was dumbfounded. They saw the flood rushing down the mountain, and there was no way they could cross the river to collect firewood. After returning, the disciples were a little downcast. Only one
The young monk and the master faced each other calmly. When the master asked him why, the young monk took out an apple from his arms and handed it to the master. He said: I can't cross the river or collect firewood. When I see an apple tree by the river, I take the only apple on the tree.
An apple was picked. The old monk asked: How can a monk take the original fruit? The young monk replied: If you don't follow the teacher's instructions, it's all because of unclear worldly conditions and fate. I got the original fruit.
Let him take refuge in the pure land of Buddhism and not be polluted by the secular world. Although the original intention was not fruitful, he gave up the unexpected period, got God's will and let nature take its course. The old monk was very happy after hearing this. Later, the young monk became the successor of the master's mantle.
Donor, do you know why this is?"
I shook my head and said, "I still don't quite understand."
He continued: "In fact, at the turning point of a person's career and life, it is very important to understand the meaning of 'knowledge'. There are endless roads in the world, and there are also rivers that cannot be crossed. If you cannot cross the river, turn around and go back.
It is also a kind of wisdom. Looking at the great heroes in ancient and modern Chinese and foreign history, their wisdom and greatness, and their fame in history, lies in their courage to stand up and take advantage of the situation at critical moments. At the same time, they also know how to stop when it is enough and retire after their achievements. A generation of business saints
Fan Li left Chu and went to Yue, assisted Gou Jian of Yue, promoted Yue and destroyed Wu, averting the humiliation of Kuaiji, and was honored as a general. After Fan Li became famous, he retired bravely, changed his official uniform to white clothes, and left Gusu west with Xi Shi.
He traveled in a small boat among the five lakes and among the seventy-two peaks. Fan Li resigned from the sea and went to Qi State, where he kept his name anonymously and called himself "鸱伊子pi", which means cowhide bag, in order to never forget Wu Zixu.
He was forced to commit suicide by King Wu Fu Chai, and his body was put into a cowhide bag and thrown into the Yangtze River. On a wasteland on the coast of Qi State, Fan Li worked hard to open up wasteland, manage industry and do business, and in nineteen years he made three fortunes, and later reached
He had a huge fortune, but he was generous and generous. He scattered all his wealth three times, and the world was called Tao Zhugong. Fan Li knew the character of Gou Jian of the Yue State. He wrote a letter from Qi State to another hero, Wen Zhong said: When the birds are gone, the good bow is hidden; when the cunning rabbit dies, the running dog is hidden.
Cooking, the King of Yue was a man with a long neck and a beak, so he could share hardships but not happiness. Why didn't you go? After receiving the letter, Wen Zhong claimed that he was ill and could not go to court, but in the end he still did not escape the fate of death. Fan Li knew how to 'know'
"Zhi" is used to protect one's life and become famous all over the world. Also, in the Zhangliang Temple in Hanzhong, Shaanxi Province, there are two stone tablets. One of them has the eight characters "Send a vertebra to the Qin Dynasty and bid farewell to ten thousand households in the Han Dynasty". The other is the two characters "Zhizhi".
The two tablets together can also be seen as a couplet. Zhang Liang assisted Liu Bang in defeating Xiang Yu, and when the world was first settled, he excused himself from illness and retired, saying, "I would like to abandon the world and travel through red pine trees." Among the three heroes of the early Han Dynasty,
Han Xin was killed, Xiao He was imprisoned, and Zhang Liang was able to save his life because he knew how to "know how to stop." Zeng Guofan, an important official in the late Qing Dynasty, became famous in the world after he conquered Tianjing and pacified the Taiping Army.
The Hunan Army rose up and proclaimed himself king. Unexpectedly, he was furious and refused sternly. He wrote a couplet with a pen, "I rely on the sky to illuminate the sea, and the number of flowers, the flowing water and the mountains are only known to me." To show his feelings. Later, he disbanded the Hunan Army and cut himself off.
Military power, beheading the wings, to clear the Qing court's suspicions, finally preserved the Wanjie, and also gained the peace of the descendants of the Zeng family. In fact, many people fail because they don't know how to stop, and always want to take advantage of the world with their greed.
, there is an urge to take everything and the winner takes all, which is sad, as evidenced by Lu Buwei, Hu Xueyan, and He Kun in history."
I nodded, "When you explain it this way, I understand a little bit more."
He smiled and continued, "'Satisfaction' means that you are not satisfied with what others give you, but you can accept it; 'Zhizhi' means that when you reach a certain level, you stretch out your hand to block it and say: I don't want it anymore. So,"
Being contented comes from people, and knowing stopping comes from oneself. Being contented means not being greedy, and knowing stopping means not following. When you work hard, you will know how to stop when a thought arises, and will not be carried away; when a thought disappears, you will know how to stop.
Stop, if you don't move."
His last words made me sound confused, so I asked, "Can you explain it to me carefully?"
However, he stopped talking and closed his eyes, but there was still a smile on his face.
I knew he was expelling a guest, so I stood up and bowed to him: "Thank you."
Before leaving, I took out all the cash on me and put it on the bed in the room. I didn't dare to put it in front of him because I thought it would be a kind of blasphemy to him.
After I went out, I found Liu Meng not far outside. I noticed her expression was strange, so I asked her, "Why are you looking at me like this?"
She came over and put her lips to my ear and whispered: "The little monk just now is a woman."
The author's digression:
Today's "Promotion of Grassroots Doctors: Medical Career"
Ouyang Zhiyuan, a grassroots doctor, got drunk. When he opened his eyes, he saw the noble and elegant dean lying in his arms, and there were bright plum blossoms dotted on the bed sheets. From then on, he broke into the hospital with his superb Chinese medicine acupuncture.
In the ever-changing and sinister officialdom, in front of his career, a beautiful and sexy female reporter, a shy and smart nurse, a mature and charming female boss, and an avant-garde and tricky Taiwanese lady all smiled at him.
Directly search for "Medical Career", or write down the book number 167925, then open the link to any book and replace the number in the address with 167925.
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