I never expected that she would actually say such a sentence. [`Novel`] You know, I am a man after all, and she and I have not yet reached the point of not saying anything.
Immediately, I suddenly remembered the words she said to me that night at her home. At that time, she was hesitant to speak, and she also revealed that she was not satisfied with her current life. By the way.
, and...the photos in her bedroom also made me feel strange at the time, because all I saw at that time were photos of her when she was young.
I felt a little strange that day because I couldn't understand why she was so unsure of her current appearance.
At this moment, I seemed to understand: It turns out that what she has no confidence in is not her current appearance, but her current life - she has already mentioned it just now, she said that she has been a widow for many years.[
People's behavior is always controlled by their own psychology. I have always completely believed this.
"Why is this?" I couldn't help but asked in silence, and then I thought of a possibility, so I asked: "Is it because he drinks too much? As far as I know, alcohol can affect a man's ability in that area.
.
So I said: "Actually, as long as two people have a good relationship, it doesn't matter whether some things happen or not. I have heard a saying that if two people are married for a long time, they will become like brothers and sisters.
Family affection without love. In fact, isn’t this a warm emotion? I can see that you two are actually very happy. Your children are so old, your relationship between husband and wife is also very harmonious, and your family’s financial conditions are relatively good.
Wealthy, life is like this, what else should we pursue? Therefore, I think the saying "contentment is always happy" is very helpful to our life."
She was still shaking her head, "Feng Xiao, you are not a woman, how do you know the loneliness in our women's hearts? When a woman is lonely, everything else will seem so unimportant. He socializes outside every day, so I have no choice but to
I stay at home alone for a long time, reading and writing articles. Last time you told me that people in the department said that I have a bad temper. In fact, this is not entirely because I was a soldier. It is because I am upset and easily angry. I
I also know that it’s not good, but I just can’t help it. When I get angry, my anger boils out. Hey!”
I nodded and said, "I understand. Because I often feel the same way."
She looked at me and then smiled, "Are you men lonely too?"
I thought to myself, since she was already so sincere, it would be inappropriate for me to be evasive any more, so I said: "A man is not a human being? But I am better than you, because I often drink outside, and sometimes I go out with
Friends chatting together. {Free Novels} Also, I have a scientific research project, so I don’t feel too lonely. But to be honest, I am usually afraid of going home because
I really can't bear to look at her lying on the bed. Every time I see her, I feel very uncomfortable. Fortunately, my son is very cute and he gives me a lot of joy."
"You are a man, and you are so handsome, so there should be no shortage of women out there, right?" she asked me with a smile.
I suddenly felt embarrassed, "Where..."
She was looking at me and smiling. At this time, her face was flushed because of drinking, and her eyes were sparkling, with an indescribable charm. I hurriedly looked at her hands...
.At this time, only that part of her could make me feel calm. But her words really made me feel embarrassed, and I immediately felt my face burning.
But she stopped playing and asked me with a smile on her face: "Am I right?"
I hurriedly said: "Didn't you talk to me about something today? Why did you talk about me?"
She smiled and said: "Since we are chatting, it should be fair. How can you just talk about me? In fact, don't feel embarrassed. After all, you are still young, and your wife is like that.
Now that you are young and energetic, your needs in that area are very strong, which I can completely understand."
I waved my hand hastily, "Stop it. It's not as serious as you think. I'm an obstetrician and gynecologist, how could I do such a thing?"
She looked at me and smiled strangely, "No? Are you really not?"
I felt a little guilty but bravely said: "Really not."
She tilted her head, then looked at me and smiled strangely, "So, how do you solve your physical problems? I heard that there is now a special store that sells inflatable dolls. Don't you also
Did you go buy that thing?"
We are both studying medicine, and it is actually normal for her to talk about such topics with me. Doctors in the hospital always do this when joking, not to mention between doctors, it was like this when I was in college. Studying medicine
People no longer have much sense of mystery about such topics, and we are still obstetricians and gynecologists, and we usually come into contact with the most mysterious parts of women, so we are even more cautious when joking. In our hospital, there are
The same is true for one department, that is the urology department. The breast ward in the general surgery department is slightly better.
One time when I was operating on a patient, a nurse was joking. She said, "Yesterday, a good sister of mine came to see me. She lifted up her clothes and told me that her chest hurt. When I saw it, wow! Sure enough, it happened again.
It was red and swollen and I asked quickly, how come it feels like this? She said, it’s her breasts. I said, oh, it’s inevitable. It’s always like this the first time. You should get used to it as time goes by. But she changed her voice
He lowered his voice and said to me, no, it belongs to Mr. Breasts..."
I was having surgery at the time and almost choked with laughter. But I didn’t blame her, because we were all like this during surgery. Telling jokes on the operating table was also a way to relieve stress.
However, this is the first time that I have been asked such an embarrassing question by a woman. You know, her question already involves privacy. But I don’t think her question has gone too far.
And it seemed to be somewhat related to medical issues, so he smiled and said: "Is there really such a place? This is the first time I have heard of it."
She pursed her lips and said: "Only a ghost can believe it! You must have heard it a long time ago. It is said that not only does that thing look like a real person, but it can also make a cry. Haha! People nowadays can really imagine it!" [
I said: "This is really the first time I have heard of it. Oh, I am talking about the first time I have heard that there is such a thing in the mainland. I have heard of it before, but I thought it was only available in Hong Kong, Taiwan and foreign countries.
thing."
She smiled and said: "As long as you have money now, what can't you buy?"
I couldn't help laughing, "Don't you have any money? So you shouldn't worry about things like that."
I regretted it as soon as I said this: the joke seemed too big.
Fortunately, she was not angry. On the contrary, her face turned redder. She spat at me and said, "I am a woman."
Seeing that she wasn't angry, I continued, "Don't the stores you just mentioned also have things for women?"
She was startled, then laughed, "Feng Xiao, you are annoying!"
We were talking, eating, and drinking beer at the same time. The best thing about hot pot is that it tastes casual and you don’t have to worry about the food getting cold. In addition, it can make the atmosphere lively and warm. Because of this,
That's why our conversation became so reserved and even a little unruly. Of course, alcohol also played a big role in it.
She was really not angry after I mentioned that thing just now, which made me wonder if she was already using those things. I suddenly became curious, "How is it? Is that thing really useful? And
Does it feel different for real people?”
She spat at me again, "Feng Xiao, you're annoying! Do you think I'm really using it?"
I laughed, "Maybe the effect of that thing is really good."
When the topic comes to this aspect, it gives people a completely different feeling. Just imagine, a man and a woman, in such an environment, and on such a topic, how can this not make people feel charming?
She no longer came to see me, her eyes went to the charming night scene outside, and her voice became leisurely, "Actually, I have done such a survey among patients, and it seems that they are not disgusted with such things. With the development of the times,
, the pace of life is accelerating. Many women have begun to use such things. In fact, it is understandable when you think about it. Although such things are cold, they are real after all. I once had a subject of investigation, she was a
The accountant is only 24 years old. She said that she and her boyfriend are very harmonious in terms of sex, but after a long time, single sex becomes a bit boring and she always wants more stimulation and sex.
*, so they began to try sex toys, hoping to add more sex to their sex. She said that those things really made their sex more rich and interesting, making their sex more interesting.
Perfect, and it has more ways to play than the simple sex that just changed positions in the past, so she can get more happiness. She feels that using them will not affect the quality of sex between two people, but will only
Make it more beautiful and full of fun. There is also a single woman, she is a writer, thirty-one years old, she said that she once had illusions about relationships, but after many disappointments, she let women use
The vagina came into her life, and she felt great. Now she felt that she hated men more and more, hated them sleeping soundly after having sex, and even hated their breath. She thought those who knew how to be gentle and considerate, and
Extraordinary men are rare in reality. They are something that can be encountered but cannot be sought, and those sexual attributes are the most real things. There is also a girl who told me that for her, life does not mean anything.
It can be said that she is unsatisfied. She has got everything that other women hope for, but the loneliness that cannot be dispelled always surrounds her. When her boyfriend is very busy with his career and she is often alone in a large room, she will inevitably have random thoughts.
What she most often thinks of is the boy she had a crush on in college. At that time, his tall and handsome figure often attracted her to her. She truly felt the saying that what you can’t get is the best. She said
, when she bought the vagina, the image of the child she had a crush on flashed through her mind. Later, whenever she was lonely, she would turn on the music and immerse herself in having sex with him.
In the joy of living together, those stories that cannot be realized in reality can be realized here, thereby realizing another lifestyle. There is also a woman who works as a clerk. After living with her boyfriend for many years, she found that the pace of sex with her boyfriend was always the same.
Inconsistency. Her boyfriend always ended it quickly, but she just got excited, and she felt regretful every time. But she never knew how to solve this problem. In fact, she had known about the existence of the *** store, but she had been embarrassed
Go in. Once her boyfriend was on a business trip, so she finally plucked up the courage to go in, and later selected some vaginas for herself. That night she got the long-awaited orgasm, which stimulated and stimulated sensitive parts of her body.
The impact, overlapping with the image of her boyfriend in her mind, brought her to the peak of happiness again and again. Haha! Feng Xiao, maybe you don’t know, I also did a survey on such stores, and the survey results found that women buy sex
The number of genitals is several times that of men. It can be seen from this that women with the same condition as me are a large group. Alas! How many men know and understand the suffering of us women? "
I listened quietly while she was narrating, and drank a glass of beer in the middle. Her narration made me moved. Yes, I am an obstetrician and gynecologist, why don't I pay attention to this mentality of women?
And it is not necessarily said that many of their diseases are related to such things.
So I said to her: "Is this a very good research project? You can definitely apply for the project."
I say this because I have never seen a paper on this in a medical journal, so I judge that her research has not yet formed a special paper or scientific research result. What she just said actually includes three types of women.
, but their purpose is the same, that is, they hope to achieve sexual desire. Sexual desire is a human instinct produced through long-term biological evolution. The human body is naturally capable of initiating and undertaking sexual desire reactions.
.So, sexual intercourse reaction is not harmful to women. The results of modern scientific research show that sexual intercourse can improve the functional state of the body and is beneficial to physical and mental health. If you have intercourse multiple times a day,
And every time she has sex, the woman has no sexual response or has a very weak sexual response. Even if the number of times is large, it does not have much impact on the body. It is just that the sex has experienced the physical stimulation of the vagina several times.
Sexual intercourse is beneficial to longevity, immunity, reproductive health and pain relief. Stable and active intercourse can reduce the negative physiological effects of aging, especially the risk of heart disease and cancer.
You must know that these two diseases are one of the most common fatal diseases. Sexual intercourse has a protective effect on male genitals. The same should be true for women. Compared with patients with other diseases matched by age, myocardial infarction has a protective effect.
Women with infarcts are more likely to experience frigidity and sexual dissatisfaction.
Studies have shown that male breast cancer has a protective effect on women. For example, pregnancy can provide long-term protection against breast cancer, and the antigenic proteins in breast cancer can activate women’s immune response to breast cancer. This effect of breast cancer was confirmed by a later study
In support of this, that study shows that the more times a woman has sexual intercourse throughout her life, the less likely she is to get breast cancer. The frequency of sexual intercourse in male breast cancer patients is often very low. The more frequently a man has sexual intercourse over the years, the less likely he is to get breast cancer.
The higher the number, the lower the incidence of prostate cancer, but the incidence of prostate cancer is related to the number of sexual partners or infectious factors. It is found that it can help to expel potential carcinogens in time, and after reducing psychological stress, it can also
It can reduce the "stress-related factors" released by the nerves that control the prostate that may induce cancer in the future. In addition, sexual intercourse can also help sleep. Although women are not as easy to fall asleep after pregnancy as men, it is true that
Many women use sexual intercourse to induce sleep. Sexual intercourse can increase the pain threshold in all areas of the vagina, thereby relieving pain. In fact, men are no exception when it comes to increasing pain thresholds.
She shook her head and said: "Originally, I really wanted to study this issue in depth at the beginning, but then I found that this topic is too sensitive. Even if I study it for a long time, I can't get any results. In the end, these issues should still belong to
It is within the scope of psychology, and it cannot be solved. To be precise, this is part of the family problem among social problems. As an obstetrician and gynecologist, the most I can do is understand it. I think that any so-called scientific research results that cannot solve the problem are useless.
Any flying meaning. Don’t you think so?”
I thought for a while and said: "I don't think so. I think you can change your thinking. For example, if you connect or combine some of our clinical diseases with sexual issues, then no
It must be a scientific research project with very practical significance.”
She looked at me with her mouth wide open, "Feng Xiao, your thinking is really unique! Why didn't I think of it? This is a great idea! I will go back and think about it today... Well, this thinking is very unique.
Great, I will study this issue from now on. After all, I already have so much ready-made information. Comparison... Yes, I can go back to visit the patients who I have done the survey.
, and then compare and compare, it may not necessarily be really fruitful.”
I nodded and said, "Yes, it should be very rewarding. But it's best to apply for scientific research funds immediately. Just fill out the form at the scientific research office in the hospital."
She said: "Then there's no need? What if the research doesn't produce any results by then?"
I immediately told her seriously: "You must apply for scientific research projects and funds. You have a senior professional title. Without a paper, it is easy to be looked down upon in a hospital affiliated to a university like ours, and as a university itself, it is difficult to
It requires a large number of scientific research projects as support. The number of scientific research projects and their papers is one of the important indicators to measure the level of a university. Another point is that even if there is no success, the lack of results is itself a result. Do you think so?
?”
"What is the result if there is no result?" she asked in surprise.
I smiled and said: "If there is no result, it means that your causal relationship is not established, that is to say, there is no relationship between sexual intercourse and female diseases. Isn't this result the best result?"
She was immediately overjoyed, "That's great! Professor Feng, you are the real professor! Come on, let me toast you. I have benefited a lot today."
I said politely and drank the wine.
She continued: "In our military hospitals, promotion of deputy or senior titles is not as formal as in local areas. After all, the military has to consider our future career changes, so the promotion of professional titles is not so strict."
I asked curiously: "Are there any regulations for career change or promotion in your army?"
She replied: "Officers are generally promoted once every three to four years. If they are not promoted twice in a row, they will have to consider changing jobs. For technical arms like ours, certain transfer targets will be issued every year.
Whoever's turn it is will have to leave the army."
"Oh. That's it." I said. In fact, I am not familiar with the military system at all, and I find it very mysterious. What she just said still made me confused and unable to grasp the point. But I have no interest in such things. , so I said to her: "Local colleges and universities are indeed more formal. But that was before, and things have almost changed now. I remember that the teachers who taught me in the past spent almost all their time on teaching and scientific research. Academics They are also very rigorous. But the situation now is completely different. Take our hospital for example. Many doctors go out to drink and play cards after get off work. Then they copy a few papers and then publish them through connections or money. The same Professional titles can be evaluated. There are also administrative staff who can be legitimately evaluated as associate professors or even professors as long as they have certain positions. They can also recruit masters or doctoral students, but they are just majors in management or law. Nowadays, colleges and universities have already It’s changed.”
She remained silent, and then said after a while: "If a country's education has become like this, then there really is no hope."
I laughed and said, "The problem is not that serious, right? In fact, in the final analysis, this situation is due to society being too impetuous, and the vested interests are too shameful."
I was secretly surprised: What happened today? Why did I become so angry?
She suddenly smiled and said: "Feng Xiao, I'm so happy today. It's fun to chat with you."
I looked at her and asked: "Listening to what you said, it seems like you are urging us that today's dinner is about to end, right? That's not possible, I haven't eaten enough yet. If you want to leave, you go first, I have to be there
Eat and drink slowly here before leaving."
She chuckled, "How am I going to get there? I'm driving your car today."
I said, "Just drive away. I'll take a taxi back in a while."
She laughed, "You're so kind! But I'm not as inhumane as you think. What I just said didn't mean to leave right away at all? You are too sensitive. It's not good for men to be sensitive.
, it’s easy to be indecisive, and then you lose the masculine flavor.”
I sighed: "All male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology are like this. Unlike surgery, the more personality the patient has, the more submissive he will be. What we need is thoughtfulness and meticulous care for the patient. To be honest, I
I’m really worried that I will become like an old woman in the future.”
She laughed, "That's true. But in the past, there were no male doctors in the obstetrics and gynecology departments in our military hospitals. Therefore, you should have more contact with women and find more girlfriends. This will help to promote your male hormones."
Meng's secretion."
I smiled bitterly and said, "Why did you change the topic to that again?"
She smiled and said: "Aren't we always like this today? Just say whatever comes to mind as you please. But I am really grateful to you because you gave me a good proposal. Come on, let me respect you again.
One cup.”
I drank it with her, and then said: "So, you should communicate more with friends outside. If you always shut yourself at home, your thinking will be restricted. Three cobblers stand on top of one Zhuge Liang. This
Isn’t that what the sentence says?”
"Then you can come out with me and chat more often from now on," she said.
I shook my head exaggeratedly and said, "You don't dare to do that. If Brother Mu beats me one day, I will be in trouble."
She said: "Why did he hit you... Feng Xiao, what do you mean by this?"
I hurriedly said: "It's not interesting. Isn't it just a joke? But to be honest, we really can't think of being together in such a wonderful way. After all, men and women are different. We work in the same department during the day. If we are still together after get off work, we will You will definitely be suspicious. What I mean is that you should make more female friends, chat together often, go shopping together, etc. Isn’t this a very interesting life? "
She shook her head and said, "I don't like to be with women. People hate me because I always say something if I don't like it."
I sighed: "There's no way, then you just have to stay at home as often as before. You are so beautiful, if you are often with any man other than your husband, you will be talked about."
She was silent, and after a while she murmured in a low voice, "I'm going to buy something like that to try."
I didn't react for a moment, "What? Are you going to buy something to try?"
Her face suddenly turned crimson and she glared at me, "You're annoying!"
I understood immediately, and there was no embarrassment. Maybe it was the atmosphere or the alcohol, so I laughed immediately, "Go ahead and buy it. I don't think that thing is really suitable for you."
"Feng Xiao, why are you making such a joke with me, my eldest sister?" she said, glaring at me.
I said: "Didn't you just say that you have done a survey in that area? Since the result of your survey is that it can help women achieve sexual intercourse, why don't you try it yourself? That thing is different from that of men.
It should be almost the same, it just lacks one emotion. And I estimate that the effect is much better than that of a real person."
She burst out laughing and said, "Okay, you can buy it for me later. I'm too embarrassed to go to a place like that."
I was immediately stunned, "Are you kidding me? Do I have the nerve to go to a place like that?"
She chuckled, "You're talking about men, of course."
I couldn't help but shake my head, "That's not okay. The people selling the stuff will think I'm a pervert."
"The person you're buying doesn't know you anyway, so what are you afraid of?" She kept laughing.
In fact, when the joke started, I already felt that it was not just a joke between us, but there was already something ambiguous in the air around us. I suddenly felt that this joke could not continue.
So he raised his glass and said to her: "Come, let's drink. You have a strong drinking capacity. I may not be able to drink you."
She clinked glasses with me and drank, "I don't drink much, so I don't feel anything about this. I can't sleep well if I drink too much. Alcohol can easily cause sexual problems, but I don't want to do such a thing. After all,
I am a woman and my reputation is important. So drinking alcohol often makes me feel more uncomfortable."
I raised my head and drank it, and suddenly I understood her better.
But she came to me and asked: "Why don't you speak?"
I smiled bitterly and said: "Nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, so it's better to look down on many things. When you really can't figure it out, just compare yourself with those who are more miserable. That way, you will feel much better.
.”
She said: "Yes, I am always like this. Isn't this how I have been here all these years? I am better than I am, I am better than I am, I am better than I am, I just think about it."
I looked at her and couldn't help laughing. I didn't know why I couldn't help laughing.
"Why are you laughing? Is there anything funny about what I said?" she asked me in surprise.
I shook my head hastily, but started laughing even harder, "Nothing, nothing!"
"There must be something, Feng Xiao, you have to say it. Say it and make me laugh too." She glared at me and said.
Then I said: "I heard someone say that the difference between men and women is that they are more than they are, and some women just want to get married. Haha!"
She was stunned for a moment, and then laughed, "Feng Xiao, damn it! Why are you men so bad?"
I hurriedly said: "I also heard what others said."
She finally stopped laughing, and then suddenly became silent. I looked at her worriedly, "Hey! You're not angry because of this, are you?"
She shook her head slightly, and then said softly: "Feng Xiao, you can help me with my matter."
I was startled, "What? How can I help you?"
She said: "I am already forty years old and I don't want my life to go on like this. So, I really hope you can help me."
I suddenly became embarrassed, "Well, how can I help you with this matter? We are colleagues, and we are all heads of the same department, and your man, he is also the leader after all, so we cannot do such a thing.
You'd better go buy that thing."
Her face turned red again, she spat at me and said coquettishly: "Feng Xiao, where did you think you were?!"
The author's digression:
Today's "Promotion of Grassroots Doctors: Medical Career"
Ouyang Zhiyuan, a grassroots doctor, got drunk. When he opened his eyes, he saw the noble and elegant dean lying in his arms, and there were bright plum blossoms dotted on the bed sheets. From then on, he broke into the hospital with his superb Chinese medicine acupuncture.
In the ever-changing and sinister officialdom, in front of his career, a beautiful and sexy female reporter, a shy and smart nurse, a mature and charming female boss, and an avant-garde and tricky Taiwanese lady all smiled at him.
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