Chapter Seventeen(1/4)
The next day when I arrived at the hospital, I met Deng Feng. He asked me in surprise: "Dean Feng, why are you back so soon?"
I smiled bitterly and said, "I was mainly thinking about all the things going on at home, so I rushed back as soon as possible." I didn't want to say more about this matter, because it made me feel very painful when such things were mentioned. So I
Then he asked him: "How are the preparations going?"
He said: "I didn't expect it to be so troublesome. To demolish a wall requires approval from the construction committee. People are on holiday recently, so there is no way to go through the formalities."
I was stunned for a moment, "It seems that we are all too anxious. Dean Deng, don't be anxious. I think you should have a good rest for a few days during the Spring Festival. We will slowly contact the design unit after they go to work. At the same time,
Formulate a bidding method. Wait until all the preliminary preparations are completed before speeding up the process. The most important thing for doing a project is to make a good plan, carefully study the procedures required for each link in the project, and then find the shortest way. In this way
It can save a lot of time.”[
He nodded, "The main reason is that I don't know much about this aspect, so I feel very anxious."
I suddenly remembered something, "Dean Deng, please find out if there is anyone familiar with this aspect in our hospital. If not, just do what I told you before and hire someone from outside."
.You are the leader, so you don’t need to do it yourself. Your responsibility is to provide macro guidance and management.”
Tang Xiaomu called and I asked her where she was. She told me that she had arrived at the entrance of our hospital. I hurried out to pick her up and then took her to the outpatient clinic myself.
There was a specialist clinic today, and a senior female doctor was on duty. After handing Tang Xiaomu over to the doctor, I returned to the office.
After staying in the office for a while, Chu Dingnan came unexpectedly. He sat across from my desk, took out his cigarette and lit it. It was still Soft China.
I put down the pen in my hand and immediately stood up to pour him tea, "Dean Chu, it seems you are not on duty today? Why are you here?"
He smiled and said: "I heard that you were back, so I came here specially to have a chat with you."
I put the tea on the coffee table next to the sofa, and then said to him: "Dean Chu, let's talk here."
In fact, I didn't want to talk to him at the desk, because that way would show that I didn't have much respect for him.
He sat over and I immediately put the ashtray in front of him. He said "thank you" to me. This was the first time he thanked me.
I looked at him and said, "Dean Chu, can you give me a cigarette?"
He looked at me in astonishment, then laughed, handed me a cigarette, and lit it for me, "What? You're in a bad mood lately?"
The smell of cigarette was bitter and unpleasant in my mouth. I don't know why they like such things, and the price is still so expensive. I shook my head and smiled: "That's not true. I just want to try it."
What does this thing smell like? To be honest, I feel uncomfortable smoking this thing, and it also makes me feel a little dizzy."
He laughed, "That's because you don't have the habit of smoking."
I also laughed, "Maybe. But I want to know, are these cigarettes really worth the high price?"
He shook his head and said: "Smoking is actually a habit. Smoking is actually similar to wine. Dean Feng, if you are entertaining guests outside, you will definitely not use ordinary wine to entertain distinguished guests, right? In the final analysis, this is still the same thing.
It’s about face. Look at those people with a little status. Aren’t they all soft and Chinese when they smoke? So, what people smoke is not cigarettes, but a kind of face. In fact, I only smoke a pack of ten yuan at home.
Yunnan cigarettes taste good and are cheap.”
I understood immediately and couldn't help but sigh, "President Chu, I did something wrong in the past. Because I don't smoke, I don't know much about you smokers. Let's do this. From now on, your vice president who smokes can be appointed by the hospital.
I will buy you a few pieces of Soft China on a monthly basis, mainly for your external entertainment."
But he shook his head and said: "That's not necessary. To be honest, the cigarettes we smoke are all given by others. Think about it, is it possible to buy such cigarettes yourself? In fact, it doesn't matter. It's okay to accept some cigarettes and alcohol from others.
You won’t make too big a mistake.”
I deeply agreed, "That's true. But Dean Chu, don't worry, I won't be too tight on everyone's basic expenses in the future. The purpose of what I said at the meeting last time was actually just to remind everyone.
We should save as much as possible. But no matter what, I think work should be the priority. As long as it is for work, the expenses should be generous. Dean Chu, I think you are right. After all, this involves our unit.
It’s a matter of face. Moreover, some social relationships are physical, and it’s hard to explain things like investment and return clearly.”[
He nodded and said, "Yes. Dean Feng, I want to ask you something."
Only then did I realize that he had been talking to me for a long time mainly because of the matter he was going to ask next, "Oh? You can ask whatever you want."
He immediately asked me: "Dean Feng, do you know where Secretary Qiu went? I looked for him several times during the Spring Festival but could not find him. Moreover, his phone was always turned off and there was no one at home. I felt
It's strange, because I feel like he disappeared out of thin air. By the way, I also called Tong Jiumei, but I couldn't contact her."
I was "surprised" and said, "Really? I went to pay him New Year's greetings two years ago, and I haven't contacted him since. Dean Chu, he is the leader, so it's hard to say whether he has any special arrangements."
He nodded, "Maybe. Oh, by the way, are you free tonight? Let's get together?"
I smiled and said: "Dean Chu, let's do this. I'll treat you. How about it?"
He laughed and said, "Dean Feng, don't worry, I won't use my office funds to treat guests."
I didn't expect him to say this, so I hurriedly said: "Dean Chu, it seems that you have opinions on my policy. I mean, I ask you because you are a person I respect very much."
He laughed "haha", "Dean Feng, you are too polite. I didn't know much about you when you first came here, but now I know that you are actually a very good leader. Not only are you young, but you are also very capable."
Strong. Organizational thinking is really far-sighted. A hospital like ours really needs a leader like you to change the situation. Otherwise, it is very likely that we will miss such a good development opportunity. To be honest, I admire you very much.
Those ideas, and your ideas and determination for reform are impossible for any of our vice presidents to have. Dean Feng, I definitely don’t mean to flatter you, what I say is the truth. You say, I
People who are going to retire in a few years, do they still need to make themselves so complicated? Dean Feng, it is still the Chinese New Year, I just want to have a glass of wine with you and have a casual chat. Some things are in the office
It’s not easy to talk about, so I think it’s more suitable to change the environment.”
When he said this, I actually felt embarrassed, "Dean Chu, okay, I'll listen to you."
He immediately looked very happy and grinned: "Okay, Dean Feng, I'll call you after I make arrangements."
I hurriedly said: "Dean Chu, don't make it so complicated. The more casual the better."
At this time, Tang Xiaomu came and called me at the door of my office. Chu Dingnan stood up immediately, "Okay, Dean Feng, we have agreed."
I nodded, "Okay. Let's meet in the evening." Then I went to greet Tang Xiaomu, "How was it? Have you finished the examination? What's the result?"
In fact, I intentionally asked Chu Dingnan this sentence. Now I have to be cautious when interacting with women.
Tang Xiaomu came in and showed me the results of the examination.
I went to make her a cup of tea and said to her: "That doctor's skills are very good, just tell me the results."
But she said to me: "Dr. Feng, I still believe in your medical skills."
I couldn't help but smile bitterly: In fact, many patients are like this. They are too superstitious about the doctors they trust.
Immediately, I took the test results in my hands and looked at them carefully. The doctor still took good care of her, at least he didn't prescribe any unnecessary tests.
I was very surprised because I found that all the test results were normal. But her face really didn't look good? What was going on?
While looking at the checklist, I started to ask her: "It seems to be normal? So do you feel any discomfort in your daily life?" [
She shook her head and said, "There's nothing uncomfortable about it. I just have trouble sleeping sometimes."
I seemed to understand, "So that's it. Then let's do this. I'll prescribe you some medicine to help you sleep."
But she shook her head and said: "Forget it, medicine like that often has side effects."
I was startled for a moment and said, "The medicine I prescribed for you won't have serious side effects. Don't worry."
She was still shaking her head, and then looked at me. What made me secretly puzzled was that I found that her face suddenly turned red. I asked her, "What happened?"
She lowered her head and said to me in a low voice: "Dr. Feng, you are someone that both Lao Zheng and I trust, so I am willing to tell you this matter. And... Lao Zheng
Didn't know I would tell you this."
I suddenly became confused and said, "Oh? Just tell me, don't worry, I will keep it a secret for you. You should trust me. Not only is this professional ethics requiring me to do that, but we are still friends. So you should completely rest assured."
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She nodded slightly, then raised her head and looked at me, her face still flushed, "Dr. Feng, our old Zheng has not been married to me for a long time."
Only then did I really realize: No wonder her face looks so bad, that’s why!
Perfect and sweet harmonious sex not only contributes to women's physical and mental health, prolongs life, but is also beneficial to youth and beauty. This is scientifically proven by medicine.
According to expert skin sampling analysis, the reason why the skin of passionate and married women becomes soft, delicate and radiant is closely related to the strong secretion of estrogen in their ovaries. Therefore, sweet emotions, happy marriages, and harmonious sex
*Improves the nutrition of the skin, thus making women's skin look creamy and their eyebrows full of spring, making them more radiant and attractive.
From the survey of women in love, most women's skin has changed after falling in love.
What does this mean? Because men and women who are in love or newly married are attracted to each other like a magnet. Kissing, hugging, sex and sex can make each other indulge in an indescribable happiness, satisfaction, and sweetness, and promote
A large amount of sex hormones are secreted in the body; in this case, a strong fire of love will be burned in the heart of women, which will enhance the sexiness of their skin and make their appearance more charming and lovely.[`Novel`]
I looked at her and felt very sympathetic. I am an obstetrician and gynecologist, and patients often tell me such things. I also know their painful feelings as women. This matter is actually related to pure ethics.
As humans, we are animals first, and as animals, the need for basic desires is an extremely natural thing, which also includes sex. As women, excessive sex or lack of the most basic sex life are
If it's not good, it's bad for their bodies. In fact, it's still a matter of hormone secretion. Our body is like a precise instrument, and hormones are the necessary lubricants for this instrument. If there is no such lubricant,
Otherwise, this precision instrument will suffer from aging.
I looked at her and asked her in a purely doctor's tone: "Can you tell me? Why is he like this? When did it start? Oh, you don't have to be taboo about anything, because what I want to know is what is his psychological state?
The reason is still functional. If it is a psychological reason, it can be treated with psychotherapy, but if it is functional, it must be treated with medication."
I am telling the truth. For men, most of these problems are psychological factors, and the main reason here is aesthetic fatigue: after a couple has been together for a long time, they will gradually become more and more dissatisfied with themselves.
The wife experiences boredom and numbness, which are rarely functional unless she is injured or under other special circumstances.
She replied: "About half a year ago, he gradually became unwilling to do that thing with me. At the beginning, I touched him and he still reacted, but then it didn't work no matter what I did.
I can't even...I can't even make him get up with my mouth. I've asked him, but every time he loses his temper."
To be continued...