My cell phone was still ringing. Lin Yu might have heard the ringing of my cell phone, and since my car was still parked there, she could of course determine my location, so she called me softly, "Feng Xiao."
I asked her in surprise: "Can you do magic?"
She couldn't help but laugh, "These are the things we usually have at home. Whatever."
She is not the secretary-general of the provincial government for nothing. Such a thing is certainly a piece of cake. I thought to myself. Then I opened the bottle of wine and filled two large glasses.
I raised my glass to her and said, "Sister, come here, I respect you."
She raised her glass to clink it with me, "I haven't drank for a long time. The Organization Department is different from the Government Office. The job of the General Office is to accompany people to drink, while the Organization Department is to watch others drink."
I couldn't help but laugh, "Sister, are you inspecting cadres through drinking?"
She also laughed, "This is also one of the aspects. People often say that the quality of wine depends on the character. Drinking has many names, and the behavior of drunk people is naturally varied. If you do a psychological analysis of the behavior of drunk people, you can see
This person’s character, thoughts, and experiences. Alcohol has the effect of paralyzing the brain, so when someone is drunk, his consciousness will lose control, and he will not care about some things. This is why he talks nonsense after drinking. This
In fact, it is the most superficial content. Although the brain is paralyzed, it still has a weak consciousness and can feel a little external stimulation. If someone continues to drink heavily and reaches the point of being drunk, the consciousness will be blocked and the law will be blocked.
Feeling the stimulation of external things, the brain enters a deep sleep state. At this time, the consciousness begins to activate, and the images or words that were once hidden in the deepest part of the heart will be expressed involuntarily. This is what the drunk does not know, because he has lost the initiative.
Consciousness, then the potential content, that is, the most real part, is revealed. [`Novel`] According to my observations over the years, different types of people have different tastes of wine."
I was very interested, "Sister, tell me, what are the types?"
She said with a smile: "The first type is the drunken sleep type. The main manifestation is sleeping after drinking, without unnecessary words and behaviors. This type of person has an easy-going personality, is relatively magnanimous, and will not quarrel with others over trivial matters.
He cares about everything and gets along easily with others, but rarely communicates with others. He is quite satisfied with the current situation of life and does not have high demands or assumptions about the future. He has not encountered too many ups and downs and his life is smooth sailing."
I nodded, "I seem to belong to this type."
She looked at me and smiled, "Really? The second type is the drunken pleasure type. This type of person is happy after drinking. A kind of happiness bursts out from the bottom of his heart. He can laugh non-stop and sing non-stop.
Stop, you can dance non-stop. This type of person is open-minded and cheerful. They are loyal and courageous, but also chivalrous and tender. They like to communicate with others, can face reality correctly, love life, and are full of confidence in the future.
Life is full of hardships and joys.”
I said: "I am also like this type."
She glanced at me charmingly and continued: "The third type is the sociable type after drinking. This type of person likes to talk after drinking. They speak quickly and think quickly. They can understand their superiors, be considerate of their subordinates, and can communicate well with their subordinates.
The one who speaks out what he wants to say at the wine table and accomplishes what he wants to do. This type of person is relatively introverted, usually talks less, and does not easily express his opinions. He only expresses his opinions at specific times and occasions.
People like to show their edge. Such people have a strong enterprising spirit, have lofty ambitions, and will work hard for their ambitions.”
In the past, I mainly wanted to liven up the atmosphere, and I also felt that the two types she mentioned were somewhat similar to me. But now I really feel a little strange, "Why do I think this one also looks like me?"
She also laughed immediately, "You, why do you think everything looks like you?" Then she added: "The fourth type is the drunken talking type. The main symptom of this type of people is that they have to go out after drinking.
Find someone you trust to tell the story. If he is older than you, he can talk about it from when you were one year old until now. If he is younger than you, he can talk from when he can remember it until now. Haha! This
This type of person is usually introverted, thoughtful, and insightful. They usually don’t like to express themselves and evaluate others, and they don’t like to be sharp. They can only express themselves, evaluate others, and explain their own opinions under the influence of alcohol. Like this
People have mediocre experiences and are content with the status quo.”
I hurriedly said: "I'm not this type, but liking to talk after drinking should be a common characteristic of many people, right?"
She smiled and said: "It depends on the degree." Then she continued: "The fifth type is the depressed type after drinking. Such people are depressed after drinking, feel sad about everything they see, and shed tears when they think about everything.
The more I think about it, the more I feel wronged, the more I think about it, the sadder I feel, and burst into tears. This type of person is thoughtful, good at observing words and emotions, and very caring about others. However, they are narrow-minded and often feel unhappy because of trivial things, and they are afraid of being laughed at by others.
Talk to others. I always feel that there are unsatisfactory aspects in life and always have a sense of inferiority. Therefore, I can only drink to relieve my sorrow and shed my grievances and dissatisfaction with tears. Such people have experienced relatively bumpy experiences and always feel that their ambitions have not been fulfilled.
I feel unwilling."
I nodded, "I've seen this type of people. And there seem to be quite a few of them. There are already a lot of people in this world who feel they have no ambition."
She said: "Yes. People in a class society are distributed in a pyramid. There are fewer people at the top because it requires wisdom, opportunity and luck."
I deeply agreed, "Yes. I think the most important thing your organization department should do is to reduce the number of people of this type as much as possible so that they can make the best use of their talents. What do you think? Sister." [
She looked at me and shook her head slightly, "Feng Xiao, you still have such an ideal idea. Make the best use of people and make the best use of their talents. The ruling class has been shouting for thousands of years. Who can really do it? I can say this, in this world
No country in the world and in any era can truly achieve this. In the final analysis, it is just a slogan."
I said: "I'm not doing what I said, but I should do my best. Sister, I know very well that I wouldn't be able to be the dean without you. But I always feel that this way is not enough."
It's not entirely advisable, but I have worked harder because of this because I don't want to embarrass you. But sister, can't you change the way you evaluate cadres? For example, why can't more capable people have the ability to do so?
What about such an opportunity?”
She smiled slightly, "Feng Xiao, you are too high-ranking. This is a question for the central leadership to think about. Your level is higher than mine."
I said seriously: "No, this is also what the common people and all the people at the bottom want. Getting equal development opportunities is the hope of many people, and it is also one of the signs of social equality."
She smiled bitterly and shook her head: "Yes. Why don't I know this? This matter is too complicated. It is not only related to the times, but also to the system. Let's wait, maybe in our generation there is hope to see it
That day will come."
I suddenly felt that I was indeed too idealistic, so I couldn’t help shaking my head and smiling bitterly, "Yeah... By the way, sister, have you finished talking about the types of people who drink just now? It seems like you haven't yet? I
I think there should be more.”
She smiled and said: "That's you, you changed the topic. There is also the drunken harassment type. Its main manifestation is that you like to joke with people after drinking, including adults and children, and can even make adults angry.
Made the child cry. This type of person has a cheerful personality, loves life, is a typical realist, and is a person who is willing to spread joy everywhere. They usually like to joke with others, but after drinking, they become more
Not as good as this. Such people can still be confident when facing difficulties."
I laughed, "People like this are quite interesting."
She came to clink glasses with me, "There is also a manic type after drinking. Such people become angry after drinking, dislike everyone, get angry at everyone, throw plates and bowls, use knives and guns, and are manic and restless.
.This type of person is introverted, usually taciturn, lives a very unsatisfactory life, has a strong self-esteem, and is afraid that others will look down upon him. After drinking, his dissatisfaction pours out like a flood. Such people always live a life like this.
Unsatisfactory, I always feel that I am at the end of the road and have no confidence in the future. In short, because people's personalities, thoughts and experiences are different, their drunken behaviors will be different. Some people have one type of it, and some people have both.
There are several of them. For example, as you just said, the previous ones are a bit like you. Maybe some people are not among the above. As long as you are careful, you can judge his character and understand his experience through his behavior.
.”
I nodded, "What you said seems to make sense. And I think what you said is very similar to the knowledge of psychology. In fact, what a drunk person expresses may be the truest thing in his subconscious meaning. So.
, I think it’s very scientific.”
She smiled and said: "Yes. Now I am intensifying my study. In addition to learning relevant policies and regulations for organizational work, I also need to learn to observe people. I even have to read books like "Ma Yi Shen Xiang"
Woolen cloth."
I was suddenly stunned, ""Ma Yi Shen Xiang"? Isn't that a fortune-telling book? You are in the organization department, how can you learn such superstitious things?"
She smiled and said: "Actually, that thing is not completely superstitious. It is a regular thing. It should also be consistent with statistics. I think, "Ma Yi Shen Xiang" should be based on the analysis of many individuals.
We came to some conclusions after observation. So we can use it as a way to recognize and understand people."
It was the first time I heard about such a thing, and it was the first time I came into contact with the most substantive things in organizational work. I used to think that departments like the Organization Department were very mysterious, but now, I think it is even more mysterious.
In addition, I also like this way of talking, because our way of talking can restore us to the harmony we once had. Including me asking for a drink is also for this purpose, because alcohol has such a function, and...
..I'm worried about smelling her bad breath again.
We no longer have embarrassment and restraint, nor do we remain silent.
Soon, the bottle of wine was finished by both of us. She asked me: "Feng Xiao, do you still want to drink?"
I shook my head, "Sister, let's stop drinking. Let's go to bed early."
Immediately, I went to look at her.
Of course she understood what I meant, and her face immediately turned red, "Feng Xiao, don't you dislike me anymore?"
I said to her softly: "Sister, I found that I was wrong. Some things are impossible to forget. In fact, I am the same kind of person who has a hard life like you."
She also sighed and said quietly: "Yes. In fact, I often think, what about a woman like me at the department level? What about the executive deputy director of the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee? In fact, in the end, she is still a
Poor women may not be as happy as ordinary female workers in those factories."
I said: "Sister, in the final analysis it is just a state of mind. The most important thing for us is that we cannot let go of our state of mind, and we can no longer let it go. This is our tragedy."
She nodded, "Feng Xiao, what you said is so good. It is true. In fact, people of our level are nothing. They are not even a speck of dust in front of the state machine. Duanmu Xiong...
..Isn’t he also a dignified department-level cadre? What was the result? He died like that, like a mosquito in the lake outside my villa. There was not even a ripple after his death. This is the real tragedy.
.So sometimes I think: Forget it, let’s just find someone of similar age to get married. Maybe then I won’t be lonely anymore. But, I’m unwilling to do so. What you just said is right,
It’s not that I can’t put it down, it’s that I can’t put it down anymore. It’s really sad.”
I was also very sad, "Sister, I'm sorry. I shouldn't have talked about such a topic. Let's stop talking and go to bed early."
But she shook her head and said: "Feng Xiao, let's talk for a while. I want to talk to you more. I think we should communicate more. What do you think?"
I nodded, "Sister, is Hong Ya really not coming back?"
She nodded, "This girl has a knot in her heart that she can't open." She then looked at me and said, "You know. But I am also responsible. She contacted me recently, and I told her that you already have a new one.
She has a girlfriend and will get married soon. She said that she had known this day would come and she no longer thinks about it. She also said that she no longer wants to do business in the future and plans to sell all her assets and start a business.
Travel around the world until you get old and then find a place to settle down. I think this is good. Since people have come to this world, they should see every corner of this world, and they should go there many times.
Go see the most beautiful places so that you can live up to your life. Moreover, I also believe that she can find a true relationship of her own in this process. In fact, many people want that kind of life.
But how many people can really do it? This not only requires financial support, but also requires the absence of family and emotional ties. Hong Ya, she has such conditions, which can not but be said to be a blessing."
After listening to her words, I suddenly became fascinated, "Sister, actually I also really hope to be like her."
She nodded and said: "Yes. That's why I said it was a blessing. Why don't I want to? But can you and I do it? Career, parents, you and children. All of these hinder us from being like
She is so carefree. I have sold her villa for her and all her other properties. But I advised her to keep the supermarket. If she comes back, at least she will still have a piece of property.
here."
I said: "Sister, you and she both still have some money for the project in my hometown. I'll ask Jiangnan Group to transfer it to you right away, okay?"
She shook her head, "In the end, the money is still yours. Let's forget it. Feng Xiao, don't you think? That money is very dangerous, and it is almost difficult to get it back."
I was very surprised, "Sister, why did you say that?"
She said: "Lin Yi is too ambitious. Since he has taken over your company, he has no plans to return it to you. But he will return your principal to you. His purpose is to increase
The total assets of Jiangnan Group are to be listed in the future. Feng Xiao, you must be mentally prepared. If Jiangnan Group can be listed in the future, you will definitely make a lot of money, but if it cannot be listed, you will lose a lot."
I seem to understand, "Investing is inherently risky. That's okay."
She looked at me and smiled, "Feng Xiao, do you know what I like about you? I just like that you don't take money so seriously. So I let you become the dean because I don't think the risk is big, at least you won't
Go greedy.”
I said, "Sister, don't worry, I won't make that kind of mistake. And I will definitely achieve results at work and never embarrass you."
She nodded, "I asked Director Zou of the Health Department, and he also praised you."
I felt a little embarrassed, "Sister, I'm really grateful to you. There's something I have to tell you, Shangguan Qin..."
However, I was interrupted by her before I finished speaking, "Feng Xiao, stop talking, I already know it. Lin Yi knows the rules in this regard. He called me. He told me, I will definitely
Don't let Shangguanqin's incident affect your development."
I was suddenly surprised: This Lin Yi, which song was he singing?
But she continued: "Actually, I dislike him because he tries to control more people through you. I have warned him more than once and told him not to go too far. Feng Xiao, you, why can't you see so many things?
What to wear?"
I don't know what specific thing she was talking about, but I think it's probably Shangguanqin's thing, "Sister, no, I can't help it."
She sighed softly: "Yes. Unless it's...forget it, I'm tired. Feng Xiao, I'm going to take a bath. You can help me rub my back."
The look in her eyes when she looked at me was full of tenderness, and my heart suddenly trembled.
Zhang Xiaojun, a man in the officialdom, had a lot of trouble in the officialdom. First, his backer fell and was thrown into the cold palace, and then his wife Hongxing cheated on him and made him a cuckold. After suffering the double blow of career and love, Zhang Xiaojun became extremely depressed. Just here.
At that time, Liu Xia, who had had a one-night stand with him, was transferred to the Education Bureau as the director. By some mistake, he fell in love with the new beautiful director and became a celebrity in the eyes of the beautiful director, opening up an alternative path to rise in the officialdom...
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