Yes, at this moment, I suddenly discovered the abnormality in her eyes. (.om pure text)
When I went to see her, I was immediately shocked to find that there was a kind of passion and sadness in her eyes. No, these are not abnormal things, but what is abnormal about her is that-I found that her eyes looked...
It makes people feel a little strange. Behind her fiery and sad eyes, what I saw was the straight, dull look in her eyes.
This is the most common look in the eyes of mentally ill patients.
I suddenly regretted it and became scared.[
"I'm going to make it easier." I said to her.
It took her several seconds to bring her eyes to my face, and then she looked at me. At this time, I noticed that her eyes seemed to have returned to their normal state. She smiled at me.
I looked at her with soft eyes. Then I smiled at her and went to the toilet in the shop.
The place we are in is one of the few night markets in the provincial capital of Jiangnan Province. Here, it starts to get lively after nine o'clock in the evening. There are actually a few small shops here, but there is an open space outside the small shops.
, several small shops set up their tables in the open space outside at night, and this place has become a place where many people drink late-night beer and eat late-night snacks, so after nine o'clock in the evening, here
It became very lively, with people drinking, punching, chatting... and the crowd suddenly became excited.
This is what it is like here at the moment. When I walked through this bustling area, I really felt the different lively atmosphere here. Unfortunately, I didn't come here to have fun today, let alone drink.
At this moment, I suddenly felt nervous and regretful, because I found that it was impossible for me to solve Dong Jie's problem.
I decided to call Ning Xiangru because I thought maybe she would have a better solution to this matter.
But I don’t want to tell Wu Yaru about this for the time being, because what Dong Jie said to me just now has already told me something: Dong Jie’s problem may have been hidden dangers when Wu Yaru arranged for her to be a model.
.I don’t want Wu Yaru to feel guilty or sad because of this.
Ning Xiangru is Dong Jie’s boss. Dong Jie just told me that she had nothing to do at night, so she went to such a place. I think that perhaps only Ning Xiangru can arrange this matter, because she only needs to take her with her often from now on.
Just go to various social activities. The key to the problem now is that I need to take Dong Jie home alone, at least until I can resolve today's crisis, because I have clearly felt the seriousness of Dong Jie's problem.
And I'm not sure I can properly resolve this matter.
I don't want to cause harm to another woman again because of my so-called good intentions.
Therefore, now I urgently need help from others, and in my opinion, the most suitable person who can help me is Ning Xiangru. At least for the time being, it can only be her, because Ning Xiangru is my friend,
She is also Dong Jie's boss, and Ning Xiangru has always been very good to Dong Jie, almost treating her as her niece.
After entering the restroom in the shop, I started calling Ning Xiangru, "Are you available now?"
She smiled and asked me: "What do you want to do?"
I suddenly felt that her words seemed a bit ambiguous, "Dong Jie and I are going to have supper and drink outside. I hope you can come and join us."
She suddenly turned into a surprised tone, "You are drinking together, why should I be the light bulb?"
I hurriedly whispered: "Xiangru, you don't know, I found that she seems to have mental problems again, and I'm worried that I can't control her now."
She immediately laughed, "Feng Xiao, are you kidding? Or maybe you medical students are always suspicious and think that other people are sick? I think she is normal. Feng Xiao, what do you want?
What are you doing? Just tell me."
I knew she wouldn't believe such a thing. After all, she was not a doctor, and she didn't know Dong Jie's specific situation. So, I had no choice but to tell her the situation, "Xiangru, you just need to know about this. Don't do it."
Tell anyone. The thing is, I accidentally discovered that she was working as a young lady in a singing center, and I was the one who took her out of there today."
She immediately cried out, "No way?" [
I can imagine her shock, "I can't be joking about such a thing, right? And I also found that she is really mentally abnormal. Maybe this is a manifestation of a split personality."
, that is to say, she is basically two people during the day and night. So, I hope you can come and drink with us, and then take her back. Of course, you must pretend not to know anything, and then try your best to do it every day starting from tomorrow.
Take her with you every time you have social activities in the evening to prevent her from going to such a place in the future. Because she just told me that she went to such a place because she had nothing to do at night."
"Maybe she's in it for the money?" she asked after a few seconds.
I said, "Not exactly. I have already asked her, and I think it is probably a psychological or spiritual problem."
She immediately stopped joking with me, "Well, it's best to tell Professor Wu about this, otherwise who will be responsible if something happens?"
I said: "There are some things that I can't tell you right now because I made this call on the pretext of going to the bathroom. Anyway, I don't think her problem has such a single cause, so I hope you'd better
Let’s take a trip. To tell you the truth, today I went to the song city with Yang Shuguang, but so far Dong Jie has not felt any nervousness because Yang Shuguang saw her working there. In other words, in
There is no fear in her current consciousness that Yang Shuguang will recognize her. Perhaps she was no longer her normal self when she was in Songcheng at night."
She immediately said: "How is this possible? Didn't you call her out? Doesn't she recognize you anymore? Did you pay to bring her out? Like bringing a young lady out on stage?"
I smiled bitterly and said, "Xiangru, for a person with mental problems, such a thing is entirely possible. Of course, Yang Shuguang and I are different, and you should know the reasons."
She laughed again, "Oh, I see. Ah... is she a nymphomaniac?"
I still smiled bitterly and said, "Maybe."
She immediately said: "If she is really a nympho, then just sleep with her. Raising your hands is the best way to cure a nympho."
I couldn't laugh or cry, and at the same time I thought her idea was too bizarre, "Xiangru, please stop making such jokes."
She said, "Really. Actually, you should try it."
I immediately became angry, "Xiangru, don't be joking, seriously! How can you joke about something like this?"
But she said: "I'm not kidding? Otherwise, we can just send her to a mental hospital for a check-up and we'll find out."
I hurriedly said: "No! That will ruin her. What if it's not that kind of problem? After all, I'm not an expert in that field."
She said: "The problem is, since you already think it is, it will be very dangerous if you continue to put her in my company."
I thought for a while and said: "Well, come here right now and send her back tonight. Then tomorrow I will find an expert in this field. Of course, I can't tell Dong Jie the identity of this expert. Let this expert go first."
The expert will have a chat with her and wait until the general diagnosis results are available. Even then it will be too late to tell Wu Yaru. Do you think it is okay?"
She said: "Okay."
I immediately breathed a sigh of relief, "Then you come here quickly. By the way, it's best if you call me in ten minutes, just before you leave. In case she suspects that I called you. Now I
I don’t want to cause any irritation to her.”
She said: "Okay...by the way, how do you know it will take ten minutes for me to go out?"
I smiled and said, "Don't you women do this every time before you go out? You always need to spend time dressing yourself up."
She also laughed, "I hate it!"[
Then I told her where we were now.
When I returned to the table and sat down, all the dishes had been served, and there was also a bottle of white wine. It was a local authentic sorghum white wine with 60 degrees. I knew this kind of wine because my father used to drink it a lot.
I secretly tasted it when I was a kid, and we often drank this kind of wine as students in college. After all, it is very cheap.
"Hey! The food came so fast!" I said a little exaggeratedly after sitting down, mainly to cover up my inner uneasiness after deceiving her.
She opened the wine and poured it into the large glasses in front of me and herself, "Dr. Feng, come here, let me toast you."
I said: "Thank you."
Immediately, I took a small sip, but after I put down the cup, I realized that she had actually drank half of the sip. I hurriedly said to her: "Don't drink in such a hurry. Eat something first."
She said: "Okay."
At this moment, I was thinking about a question in my mind: Why did she seem to be fine with what happened to her in Songcheng tonight? Did she really not think it was a shameful thing? Of course, unless she really
If it's a mental problem, that's a different matter. I think, judging from her current situation, it can only be explained by that reason.
My phone rang, and I felt nervous. After a moment, I picked up the phone and answered it. Sure enough, it was Ning Xiangru, "Feng Xiao, what are you doing?"
I deliberately held the phone slightly away from my ears, because this way Dong Jie could hear Ning Xiangru's words inside. The main reason was that the volume of my phone was a bit loud.
I said: "I'm drinking beer outside."
She said, "Where are you? I'm hungry. Can I come over?"
I had been quietly paying attention to Dong Jie's reaction, and found that she was indeed listening. At this moment, I took a direct look at Dong Jie, and saw that she looked a little flustered. I hurriedly covered the receiver with my palm, and then
Said to Dong Jie: "Your boss, she said she wanted to come for something to eat."
She stood up suddenly, "Well, I'll leave first."
I hurriedly said to her: "Don't leave. I won't tell her what happened to you. Don't worry."
Immediately, I said to Ning Xiangru: "Dong Jie and I are together. Come on."
After hearing what I said, Dong Jie had no choice but to sit down. At this moment, she suddenly became panicked. I sighed secretly in my heart.
Then I told Ning Xiangru once again where we were. Of course, Dong Jie didn't know that this was happening again.
Afterwards, I started eating with Dong Jie, and occasionally drank a sip of wine. I talked a lot, mainly because I didn’t want to make her nervous or suspicious in front of me.
Ning Xiangru arrived more than twenty minutes later. She drove here by herself.
"Wow! This place is so lively! You ordered so many delicious foods? It's so good, I'm so hungry. I drank a lot of wine with my clients today, so I'm so hungry!" she said after sitting down, and then took some
She picked up her chopsticks and started devouring her food. I thought her behavior seemed a bit exaggerated, but I couldn't give her any hint.
After she ate for a while, I raised my glass to her and said, "How about it? Have a drink?"
Just now, I was still secretly paying attention to Dong Jie's expression and found that she was indeed a little nervous.
Ning Xiangru shook his head and said, "You guys drink. I drank a lot today."
I said, "Didn't I drink a lot? Come on, drink less. The weather is too cold. Drink some white wine to warm up."
She raised her glass and then asked Dong Jie: "Xiaojie, are you drinking with Feng Xiao tonight?"
I immediately felt that her words were redundant, but then I understood that she was asking deliberately. She definitely didn't want Dong Jie to know that I called her earlier.
Dong Jie was shaking her head, and her face turned red all of a sudden. I felt that this was who she really was, so I quickly answered for her: "Yes. I made an appointment with some friends to drink together today, but it turned out that...
Dong brought an acquaintance to our hospital to see a doctor, and I happened to bump into her, so I called her in."
Ning Xiangru said: "Oh, that's it. Haha! Maybe I shouldn't come tonight... Feng Xiao, Xiaojie, look at me, am I not sabotaging you?"
Dong Jie's face turned redder, but she was no longer as nervous as before.
I hurriedly said: "Xiangru, what are you talking about? Xiaodong and I are considered friends. It's normal to have a meal together and then go out for some supper together."
Ning Xiangru smiled and said, "Did I say anything abnormal to you?"
I noticed that Dong Jie started to look uneasy again, so I hurriedly went to Ning Xiangru and said, "Xiangru, let me ask you something. Have you taken that piece of land?"
She looked at me and smiled, "You, you are about to become an official, have you started this bureaucracy first?"
I immediately laughed. In fact, I was just trying to find something to say, so much so that I actually forgot that the land had already been taken over by her. I hurriedly corrected the loophole in my sentence just now, "
I know that you won the auction for that piece of land. What I want to ask you is have you completed the procedures? There is also a problem with your current funds."
She said: "It's all done. The funding problem has basically been solved. Now I have a good relationship with President Chang, and she has initially agreed to our loan request."
I said: "That's great. Xiangru, I congratulate you, now you will make a fortune again."
She smiled and said: "This piece of land this time is so important to the development of our company. It can be said that our company will also rise to a new scale through this piece of land. By the way, Xiaojie, our company is preparing to recruit people recently.
A group of people, please instruct the human resources department to select more outstanding talents to come to the company. And Xiaojie, starting from next month, I am going to double your salary. You are here
It has not been long since you came to our company. Generally speaking, I am quite satisfied with your work. Our performance this year is very good, and we are going to give you more year-end bonuses. You are my assistant and you have contributed a lot.
Of course I have to give you more of this bonus."
I hurriedly went to Dong Jie and said, "Why don't you thank Mr. Ning quickly?!"
Dong Jie then went to Ning Xiangru and said, "Thank you, Mr. Ning."
Ning Xiangru smiled and said: "Xiao Jie, didn't I tell you? Just call me Aunt Ning in private." Then she took the cup and touched it with Dong Jie, "Xiao Jie, do your best, the main thing is me.
I want to continue to exercise your abilities, otherwise I will let you take charge of a small development project under the company. By the way, there is another thing. Recently, I hired a senior consultant, who is mainly responsible for our company’s personnel.
Conduct training. Maybe in the near future, he may have a separate conversation with the middle-level personnel in the company, mainly to understand your strengths, especially your strengths and weaknesses, as a guide for my next employment.
in accordance with."
"Yes." Dong Jie said in a low voice.
I immediately understood: Ning Xiangru was paving the way for me to ask a psychiatrist for the next step. I think she did a very good job of paving the way. It can be seen that a capable person will be different in whatever he does.
Afterwards, we had a lot of food together and chatted all over the world. Of course, Ning Xiangru and I were the main ones talking, but Dong Jie maintained her usual state of rarely talking.
"It's almost time for tonight. Xiangru, I'm going back, and you and Xiaodong just go back together." I said later.
Ning Xiangru smiled and said: "It's best if you give it to her."
I hurriedly said: "Xiangru, don't make such a joke. Xiaodong is very good, but I am a broken person. That's it, I'll go and pay the bill."
Ning Xiangru said: "Okay, you pay. Who called you a man?"
Afterwards, I quickly settled the bill and said goodbye to them both.
On the way back, I kept thinking: I have to take time to find a better psychiatrist for Dong Jie tomorrow. Well, it’s best to be a female psychiatrist, because women will be less interested in people of the same sex when it comes to psychological counseling.
Some precautionary psychology.
Early the next morning, I went to the hospital where I was before and went directly to the psychology department.
I didn't go back to the department where I used to be. I didn't want others to think that I was showing off my return to my hometown in fine clothes, and I also didn't want to let myself suffer the embarrassment of leaving.
Of course, maybe I'm overthinking it.
I directly found the director of the psychology department, who also serves as the deputy director of the hospital's psychiatry department. Generally speaking, general hospitals do not set up separate psychiatric departments, and there are often specialized hospitals for diagnosis and treatment of mental illnesses. However,
This is a teaching hospital, so from the perspective of training students, it is necessary to open such departments. Therefore, hospitals affiliated with medical universities often have the most complete department settings.
The director of the psychology department is a senior expert, not particularly old, that is, a middle-aged woman aged forty-five or six years old. We are very familiar with each other, because I often asked her when I was in the obstetrics and gynecology department of this hospital.
To provide psychological counseling to some hospitalized patients.
The most common psychological problems among obstetrics and gynecology patients mainly include the following types:
The first is premenstrual tension syndrome. This refers to a group of uncomfortable psychosomatic reactions that occur before menstruation. According to surveys, more than 90% of women have at least one symptom or cyclical symptom before menstruation; about 20% will
Seeking medical treatment due to serious illness accounts for a large proportion of women's psychosomatic diseases. The cause is women's fear of menstruation and the imbalance of estrogen and progesterone in the patient's body. The clinical manifestations are: headaches in premenstrual period and ejaculation.
The second is psychogenic irregular menstruation. It includes amenorrhea, dysmenorrhea, etc. caused by mental factors. The main manifestation is infertility, which refers to uterine or fallopian tube spasm and abnormal cervical mucus secretion caused by stress, depression, or eager expectations and anxiety.
Leading to infertility. There is also pseudopregnancy, which refers to the phenomenon of amenorrhea, swollen vagina, bulging abdomen, nausea, vomiting and other pseudopregnancy phenomena in women who are eager to have a baby but are not actually pregnant.
The third is menopausal syndrome. Although this period is experienced by every woman, some women are unable to adapt to hormone changes in a short period of time, resulting in a series of symptoms such as autonomic nerve dysfunction and mood swings, which is called menopausal syndrome.
The cause of menopause is that in addition to the physical factors of declining ovarian function and decreased secretion of sex hormones, psychosocial factors are often involved.
The time when menopausal syndrome appears is closely related to the severity of psychological stress and life events. If you are in this situation for a long time, you are prone to uncomfortable symptoms. Its main clinical manifestations are: irregular menstruation until menopause, paroxysmal hot flashes
, palpitations, chest tightness, headache, insomnia, decreased ejaculation, etc.
The fourth is frigidity and vaginismus. Sexual frigidity includes a complete lack of response to sexual stimulation and an insufficient response to sexual desire. Secondary frigidity is more common due to psychological, behavioral and social reasons. In addition, vaginismus is vaginismus.
The contraction of the vagina caused by the conscious twitching of the muscles around the vagina is mostly caused by psychological factors such as fear and guilt.
Among various male and female sexual dysfunctions, female frigidity is the only one that can be talked about by patients. The reason is very simple. In order to show "seriousness", men can say that they never go out and have sex, but they will never say that they are right.
Women are not interested in sex, otherwise they may be suspected of sexual intercourse by their peers; women are different. They often confess their interest in women in front of their peers, and they will not take the initiative to ask for sex. People will not laugh at them.
"Sexual performance", they will also be praised for being virtuous and keeping up with women, because this is what Chinese moral education has required of them since ancient times. On the contrary, if they say that they have strong sexual desire and often have sexual requirements, they are likely to be regarded as **
.So some scholars pointed out that traditional Chinese moral education not only makes people morally noble and families "stable", but it also brings misfortune to Chinese women's human nature.
According to statistics, the incidence rate of sexual frigidity in women is about 30% to 40%. In other words, one in three women is sexually frigid. With such a high ratio, are these women born with this condition?
Yes. The ancients said: "Food and sex are also the same." **, like appetite, is born with it, but it can only be expressed and released vividly after sexual maturity. Some female patients will ask: "Sexual frigidity"
Is it normal?" The answer to this question is the same as the answer to "Is it normal to have no appetite and not want to eat?" Anorexia is a morbid condition, and frigidity is certainly also a morbid condition. Another patient asked: "Can frigidity not be treated?"
Yes! But you have to take the risk of your marriage breaking up due to sexual incompatibility between your husband and wife, or your husband finding an affair because he cannot get sexual satisfaction. Is it worth it?
Originally, if we only look at the physiological sexual ability, women's vagina is much stronger than men's, because she has four advantages. First, women have more erogenous zones on the surface of the body, including vaginal openings, **
There are three stimulating points of sexual stimulation and sexual intercourse, but men only have the penis; secondly, women have no response, will not necessarily subside after reaching sexual climax, and are not prone to depressive physical and mental reactions; thirdly, they can continue
to achieve multiple sexual intercourses; fourthly, she does not need to accumulate sexual intercourse like men do before investing in the next sexual intercourse. However, it is difficult for women in real life to achieve the above four points. Some women even if they receive enough and appropriate
It is difficult to achieve sexual intercourse without sexual desire, and there is no sexual desire. This is not a physiological problem, but a cold heart. There are many reasons for women's sexual apathy, which are very complicated and difficult to understand. Clinically
The more common triggers are: First, there has been a history of sexual trauma in the past or even in childhood, such as rape, incest, sexual harassment, etc. The second is the fear of being sexually assaulted due to certain abnormalities in the body shape during puberty.
People are aware of and develop a sense of inferiority. The third is that they think they have been deceived after a failed love or marriage, and even form a revenge mentality against men. The fourth is that they are worried about the pain that may be caused by pregnancy, dilation and curettage, sexually transmitted diseases, etc., thus avoiding sexual contact. The third
Fifth, pain or discomfort during sexual intercourse makes her afraid of sexual life. Sixth, the woman only regards sexual life as her wife’s obligation, rather than as her own physical and psychological needs like eating; if sexual intercourse is added to
Lack of knowledge leads to insufficient sexual life skills, monotonous methods, and even sexual dysfunction. Sexual life is not fun at all. In addition, expectations for your spouse are too high. After marriage, you will find that your real husband is different from your ideal spouse before marriage.
Far away, but unwilling to face reality and adapt to reality. The husband lacks sexual attraction or has sexual dysfunction. The relationship between husband and wife is tense or bad, and the wife will refuse sexual intercourse as a means of revenge or inducement. This is the most common problem in the world.
Stupid means lead to marriage changes, affairs, husband's impotence and premature ejaculation, etc. The ultimate victim will be the avenger himself. Some acute and serious diseases, chronic diseases and the side effects of their treatment drugs can reduce sexual interest, or cause sexual intercourse due to worry.
It may aggravate the disease, damage the body and inhibit sexual desire. Stress at work, fatigue, alcoholism or too much mental pressure caused by something may lead to apathy in sexual desire. After giving birth to a child, the body shape changes and I think I have lost my attraction to the opposite sex.
Some women may shift too much of their husband's attention to their children, some may be satisfied with the pleasure of having sex with the baby, or they may lose their previous passion for sex due to the tedious housework. Some women have their own insecurities.
Feeling of uncleanness and fear of tainting your spouse. Due to the influence of traditional moral education since childhood, I believe that "women cannot take the initiative to ask for sex, otherwise it will be lewd" and "in a married life, the man should take the initiative to have sex and the woman should passively cooperate."
, "Sexual intercourse is a shameful act" and so on. Even if you have sexual desire, you dare not express it clearly, and long-term suppression of sexual desire may turn into sexual frigidity. etc., these are all possible causes of sexual frigidity in women.
Factors. In fact, these views are wrong. Since sexual desire is the same as appetite, satisfying both should be treated equally, that is, eat when you are hungry and eat whatever you want. The fifth is prenatal depression. Prenatal depression
Pregnancy syndrome is a new mental illness during pregnancy that has emerged in recent years. According to statistics, in recent years, the number of women with prenatal mental problems and psychological problems is on the rise, and white-collar women are the main among them.
Prenatal depression is very harmful. If it is severe, it may even cause harm to oneself, such as self-mutilation, suicide, and even affect the life of the fetus.
Since pregnancy, women will experience various physical discomforts such as vomiting due to hormonal changes in their bodies, especially in the first three months of pregnancy. At the same time, they are also prone to psychological fluctuations and are more likely to be depressed. Women during childbearing years are susceptible to mental illness.
If a woman with poor adjustment ability does not receive proper care at this time and is under excessive psychological pressure, making it difficult to transition from the role of a girl to the role of a mother, she may clinically manifest mania, depression, schizophrenia, and even disturbance of consciousness and hallucinations.
, resulting in unpredictable unexpected events.
Experts analyze that pregnant women are often most worried about losing everything they had before pregnancy and falling out of favor with their husbands and workplaces. More white-collar women are also worried that their bodies will be out of shape.
More and more middle- and high-income women quit their jobs immediately after becoming pregnant. The original fulfilling life status and clear purpose of life are suddenly gone, and people become very empty. Pregnant women just guess here and there without doing anything.
Psychological problems arise as a result of pregnancy; in addition, urban women have never experienced hardship since childhood, and the pain caused by childbirth makes them terrified all day long.
In short, there are indeed many patients in the obstetrics and gynecology department who need psychological counseling and psychological treatment. Of course, our provincial obstetrics and gynecology hospital also has psychiatrists, but I don’t want to go to the doctor in our hospital. First, I am worried that if Dong Jie is
I found that, secondly, the level of psychiatrists in our hospital is definitely much worse than those in teaching hospitals.
In fact, our domestic psychological institutions are not very complete, and there are no independent psychiatrists like those in foreign countries. Psychiatrists with real qualifications are actually affiliated with hospital psychiatry departments, or some hospitals only have such departments.
Settings. For example, our hospital only strengthened its technical capabilities in this area after I went there.
If they are psychologists affiliated with psychiatry, most of them are used to treating patients with drugs. Those who provide conversation services are called psychological counselors, who mainly solve patients' problems through comfort and analysis. Therefore, patients want psychological counseling
For service, you must first determine what your problem is, and then find the corresponding service organization and staff for help. If you find the wrong person, it may be of no use at all.
In developed Western societies, psychologists are a mature profession, and it is even more difficult to be a psychiatrist. Our country is developing, and the profession is not mature enough in this regard. It is much easier to engage in this profession than in the United States, Japan, and Canada.
Electricians, drivers, carpenters, if you are interested in psychology, you can get a certificate. It is not easy to find a psychiatrist for help. I finally found one and how much money I paid. When I heard about it, I told my relatives and friends around me and the neighborhood committee to take responsibility.
As people say, the reputation of this profession will be destroyed.
At present, the demand for psychologists in our country is huge, the market is not standardized, and the industry is immature. For the general public, it is not how much money they spend for seeking help, but whether they can find a counselor who meets their psychological needs.
. Making identification more difficult for ordinary people is like a patient going to the hospital to see a doctor. How do you know whether the doctor who treats you is good? If a psychiatrist particularly wants to pry into the patient's psychological privacy, the psychiatrist will
It is not professional. If there is obvious bias, or if you talk too much about personal issues, you always say: You are like this, I am not like this. This is not very professional.
Therefore, even if a person has received professional training in psychology and has not received training in psychotherapy, even if he has studied how the human brain responds to bright light stimulation and what kind of electricity it discharges, or has done basic research on human learning and memory, this
It is also difficult for people to provide psychological help. Therefore, it is very necessary to find out what the other person’s academic background is, what major they studied, etc. However, the current problem is that the official standard for verifying psychological counselors is far from enough.
.
Because of this, I came here specifically to hire a doctor for Dong Jie. Relatively speaking, the psychiatrists here are relatively professional and qualified.
It's a pity that I will be transferred soon, otherwise I will further strengthen the psychology department of the Provincial Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital.
This is actually a concept, and it is a concept that must be possessed to turn a hospital into a modern specialized hospital. However, I believe that there are not many hospital leaders who truly have this concept.
(Readers please do not feel that such content is unnecessary. At present, as the pressure of competition increases, people's psychological problems are becoming more and more prominent, so I think it is necessary to popularize this knowledge in the book.)
The director of the psychology department, whose surname was Pan, was very enthusiastic when she saw me, "Ah, Director Feng, no, I should call you Dean Feng now. Dean Feng, what brought you to your knees today?"
Are you here? Please take a seat."
Her voice is very gentle and kind, and I feel very comfortable after listening to it. In fact, this is also a professional need. To be precise, this is a unique voice formed after long-term professional training.
I smiled and said, "Director Pan, I came here specifically to ask for your help today."
She looked at me in surprise, "Oh? Tell me, what is it?"
So I immediately told her about Dong Jie's situation, and then took out 10,000 yuan from my bag and handed it to her.
She looked at me, "Dean Feng, what are you doing?"
I said to her sincerely: "Director Pan, I came here specially to ask you to treat an acquaintance of mine. Nowadays, many people in our country do not pay much attention to psychiatrists. I am also a doctor, so I think we should first
Start by doing it yourself. If you put it abroad, this amount of money will definitely not be enough."
She looked very moved, "Dean Feng, you are really different as a dean. I heard that your hospital is doing very well in this area... No wonder you attach so much importance to it."
I smiled and said: "Attention is necessary, but the technical strength here is too weak. Director Pan, I am still thinking that in the future our hospital should ask you to give more lectures to the doctors in the psychology department of our hospital.
, don’t worry, we will definitely give full consideration to the cost issue.”
She was overjoyed, "Great! Haha! Dean Feng, my purpose is not just to make money, I think our area really needs to be paid attention to."
I don’t want to talk more about this issue. After all, it involves the leadership of my original unit. “Director Pan, this patient’s situation is quite special. Because I am not a professional doctor in psychology, I can’t judge whether she is real or not.”
She has a mental illness or mental problem. Therefore, I hope Director Pan will not reveal your identity as an expert in this field in front of her."
She nodded and said: "I understand. Don't worry, Director Feng. I'll just talk to her and have a casual chat. You know, our job is actually to diagnose whether the patient has a psychological or mental illness by chatting with the patient."
disease.”
I felt relieved immediately, so I immediately told her Ning Xiangru’s idea. She kept nodding, “That’s right. That’s it. But I have to communicate with the patient’s boss first.”
After I left the affiliated hospital, I immediately called Ning Xiangru. After hearing what I told her about the situation, she said, "Okay, give me the doctor's phone number and I'll go find her in the afternoon."
I said: "I have already paid the fee. You don't have to worry about it anymore."
She sighed: "You are too good to women. This is also the fundamental reason why you easily fall in love with women."
I smiled bitterly and hung up the phone.
On that day, shortly after I returned to the hospital, I received a call from Director Zou of the Provincial Department of Health, "Xiao Feng, please come to the Department of Health. You have been transferred to the provincial recruitment office without permission. I want to represent the province."
The Party Committee of the Department of Health will read it to you in person."
At this moment, I suddenly became excited. At the same time, I suddenly felt that I had a wonderful feeling like officials in ancient times receiving imperial edicts...
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Today's "The Confusion of Power: Little People Manage Officialdom"
Content introduction: A major kidnapping case made him enter the magazine he dreamed of, an encounter made him become the lover of a certain leader's lover, and a car accident made him accidentally enter the officialdom. Money, power, desire, and beauty made him intoxicated. With his help,
With them, he climbed to the pinnacle of power step by step.
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