Although I had already expected that Dong Jie might be in this situation. After all, I am studying medicine and I still know the basics of psychiatry. But when I heard Ning Xiangru tell me this, I still felt...

I feel very sad because I really can’t accept that such a beautiful girl suffers from such a disease. (.om pure text)

There are many causes of mental illness, and some of the causes are currently unclear, but at least two factors are clear, one is heredity, and the other is strong mental stimulation. I will not talk about genetic factors, but strong mental stimulation

The stimulus factor should include the gradual worsening of mental illness.

I think Dong Jie's situation probably started with a mental illness: she didn't go to college after graduating from high school, then her business failed, and she was later arranged to be a model by Wu Yaru... These factors may have aggravated her condition.

The reason. To be precise, her problem should start with low self-esteem.

Maybe my refusal to fall in love with her later was one of the reasons. I suddenly felt depressed about this: I didn't want to hurt her originally, but things turned out like this.[

But I don't feel I have any responsibility in this matter, because I think I can only do that.

Now, when Ning Xiangru told me the news, I was shocked and immediately became worried, because I felt that since Dong Jie's problem has been diagnosed clearly, then treatment is necessary, but...

..If that happens, Dong Jie may be destroyed. I know that drugs used in psychiatric departments often have extremely strong side effects. So I immediately became embarrassed, "Xiangru, what should I do?

"

Her voice was also full of worry, "Feng Xiao, I think it's best to tell her aunt about this matter. After all, she is a relative of Dong Jie. Neither you nor I have the right or qualification to handle this matter. You

What do you say?"

I think so, "Xiangru, you're right. Let's go and tell her aunt. Today is my first day at work in my new unit. I'm very busy and I really can't spare the time."

She immediately said dissatisfiedly: "It's good for you, just run away now."

I hurriedly said: "Xiangru, how can you say that? When did I relieve myself of responsibility? No, I don't have any responsibility for this matter, right? I just think you are right, and Dong Jie's relatives should be informed of the situation.

.But I really don’t have time, so please understand. Well, please tell Wu Yaru the matter first. It’s best to ask the doctor to tell her with you, and then we can take time to discuss it together.

What should we do? Do you think this is okay?"

Then she sighed: "That's fine."

I suddenly remembered something because I felt a little surprised, "Xiangru, why did you call me so early? Did you just get Dong Jie's accurate diagnosis result?"

She smiled and said: "Feng Xiao, you are so strange, why do you always like to get entangled in such trivial matters? Well, let me tell you, I knew it last night, but I was in a bad mood and got drunk. Today

When I woke up early in the morning, I felt that I should tell you this right away. Are you satisfied with my answer?"

I was suddenly startled: Am I really someone who likes to get entangled in minor issues? "Xiangru, am I really like this in your impression?"

She smiled and said: "Are you serious? Can't I just joke with you?"

But I asked her very seriously: "Xiangru, I am very serious, tell me, do I often do this?"

She stopped laughing immediately, and her voice became softer, "Feng Xiao, are you really angry?"

Only then did I realize that she had misunderstood me, "Xiangru, how could I get angry so easily? What I mean is that I have never paid attention to some of my shortcomings before. I just suddenly heard you say that sentence

words, so I really want to know if I really have the problems you mentioned. Now that I have entered a government department, I must always pay attention to the shortcomings I had."

Only then did she laugh again, "Feng Xiao, in fact, this is not a shortcoming of yours. I find that good-hearted people are like this. We women often nag like this."

I immediately couldn't laugh or cry, "You said I am nagging like a woman?"

She kept laughing over there, "Look, now we are talking about Dong Jie, but you are struggling with such a matter. Do you think you seem a bit nagging?"

I burst into tears and laughed, and then said to her: "Then, please tell Wu Yaru about Dong Jie's matter. I'm on my way to work. If anything happens, please contact me at any time."

Then I hung up the phone. I was thinking in my heart that what Ning Xiangru just said unintentionally seemed to really talk about my problem.[

She said I was nagging like a woman? I couldn't help but smile bitterly. However, I seemed to be aware of this problem myself, and I immediately felt the root cause of this problem: I had been in contact with female patients for a long time, and every time I consulted,

I always took the trouble to inquire about the details of their illness, not trying my best, but slowly and naturally caring about the patient's pain from the heart, and thus the current situation was gradually formed. At this moment, I seemed to finally

I now understand why men acquire female characteristics after working as obstetricians and gynecologists for a long time. At the same time, I also began to feel grateful that I could finally be freed from my own profession.

However, I still have a feeling of regret in my heart. After all, I have been engaged in this kind of work from professional studies to work, not to mention that I also have a scientific research project that has been completed more than half. Of course, the regret in my heart

There is another thing, that is, I may really say goodbye to my major and academic field from now on. This means that from now on, what I have to face will no longer be the relatively simple working environment I once had. Therefore, my

While I was feeling happy, I suddenly felt a sense of uneasiness in my heart.

At this moment, my expectations and fears for my future are even greater than my regrets about Dong Jie suffering from such a disease. Regarding Dong Jie's matter, I really feel that I have no responsibility. On the contrary, I also feel

I have done everything I should do.

When I was on the phone with Ning Xiangru, I paid great attention to the state of the driver Xiao Sui. I found that he had been driving seriously.

In fact, I am much less wary of him today, and I feel that I don’t need to take special precautions against him. You know, he is my full-time driver, and I am riding in my own car. If I am connected here,

If I can't talk on the phone casually, then why do I need this "specialist"?

Of course, I know that if I want to truly and completely trust him, I will need time to slowly observe and examine him.

Now that I have finished making the call, I feel comfortable having a dedicated driver and car.

I think this feeling is really wonderful, because after all, this is the first time I have enjoyed such power.

Winter mornings in the provincial capital are still busy. I see the constant flow of traffic outside the car, just like in other seasons. There are also many cyclists. From time to time, I can hear the rapid and cheerful ringing of bicycle bells in my ears. The sidewalks beside the road are full of people.

People were walking in a hurry, and some were holding steamed buns in their hands and putting them in their mouths as they hurried forward. There was a bit of mist in this winter morning, and there was a chill in the air, but the people in front of me didn't seem to feel it.

To the existence of all this, perhaps we Jiangnan people don’t have the feeling of winter in our hearts.

I stretched out in my seat. I felt that I was free and comfortable at the moment, but also under a certain amount of psychological pressure, so I tried to use this stretch to release and express everything I felt at the moment.

I immediately felt much more comfortable after lazing around. Every muscle in my body was no longer as stiff and tight as before, and they all returned to their natural state. {Free novel}

I started to talk to my driver, "Xiao Sui, how is your treatment at our recruitment office?"

Of course, I asked him this question for a purpose. On the one hand, I can understand the basic income situation of the entire unit's employees from his treatment. On the other hand, he is my driver, and I can use this to understand his needs.

In my heart, there should not be excessive distinctions between people, and I believe that everyone will feel unbalanced because of their low status, but most people accept it in Nai.

As the person around me, I should pay special attention to his emotions, because the people around me are the easiest people to discover my problems. I must be careful to make him serve me completely and willingly in the end. To do

At this point, in addition to emotional factors, there must also be material basis.

The emotional factor is actually very simple, that is, to make him feel that he is fully respected. The material basis is even simpler, that is, he must obtain the minimum living conditions. Of course, the higher the living conditions, the better

.

Everything I said is based on what I can solve within the scope of principles. Otherwise, there is only one way, and that is to change the driver. I am the head of the Provincial Recruitment Office, and now he is my

The driver was completely arranged by someone else, and I was not asked for any advice. But I don’t want to change my driver without any reason. This will not only affect the driver, but also arrange for him to be my driver.

The driver was disrespected by a certain leader.

He replied: "It only costs about 2,000 yuan a month. With all the subsidies and year-end bonuses, it only costs more than 30,000 yuan a year."

I smiled and said, "It's not bad. The average salary of our civil servants in Jiangnan Province has not reached this level."

He said: "Yes. I am very satisfied. However, the current prices are so high and house prices are rising even more. It is basically impossible to get married and buy a house in the future."

I asked him: "So where do you live now? At your parents' house?"

He replied: "Yes. My parents' house was allocated by their work unit before, and they later bought it for tens of thousands of dollars. Now that my brother is in the army, the three of us can still live there for the time being. But in the future

It's hard to say, because if my brother also changes his job and our two brothers get another wife, the family will be too crowded."

I said: "That's true. Xiao Sui, if you can buy a house now, buy it as soon as possible. House prices will only get higher and higher."

He shook his head and said: "House prices have risen from more than one thousand per square meter to four or five thousand per square meter. Many people are saying that prices will be reduced." [

I couldn't help but laughed, "The prices will not drop. At least in the last few years, prices will only continue to rise. Let me analyze it, for the location in the city center, especially those high-end properties, prices will rise in the next five years.

It can range from 20,000 to 20,000 square meters."

He was immediately surprised and said: "How is it possible? Twenty thousand! Who can afford it?!"

I said: "The main reasons why housing prices will get higher and higher are: First, there is no fair competition. In our country, land is sold by the government to real estate developers. We have never heard of individuals buying a piece of land to build a house.

, therefore there is a lack of fair competition mechanism, and the land belongs to the state and is monopolized by the government. In addition, the government focuses its work on GP, ​​and land purchase is the main source of GP income. The lack of fair competition mechanism leads to

Land prices are getting higher and higher. Therefore, the higher and higher housing prices are the needs of the government. Especially in recent years, with the acceleration of urbanization, the government’s investment in basic supporting facilities has been increasing, and government debt has become more and more serious. All these need to be passed

Land is sold at a high price to solve the debt problem. Second, the existence of rigid needs. For example, in your situation, they are the potential buyers of rigid needs in the future. And most of us Chinese people have a complex in our hearts, that is, we must

To own your own house, this is also an inevitable factor in the generation of rigid demand. Third, as housing prices continue to rise, more and more people are speculating on real estate, that is, people who invest in real estate, because people will find that speculating on real estate

It makes money faster than any other business, which accelerates the rapid rise in housing prices. Of course, there are many reasons, so I won’t go into details. In short, I think if you want to buy a house, you should buy it as soon as possible, otherwise it will get worse.

The price will become more expensive in the future.”

He said: "I don't believe that houses will continue to rise like they are now. If that happens, we people will never be able to afford them."

I smiled and said, "That's not what you said. Now the country has a policy that allows buying a house through installment payment, that is, buying a house through a bank mortgage, so many people can still afford a house at the current housing prices. Of course, this

House prices cannot continue to rise forever. Any commodity must obey its economic laws. Once the price reaches a certain level, it will fall. But when will it fall? How high will the house price rise before it starts to fall? How low will it fall again in the future?

At this point, these issues are unclear now. However, our country has too many people, and the urbanization process is accelerating, so I think housing prices will only rise rather than fall in the next five years at least. And from now on

Judging from the housing prices, the housing prices in the center of Jiangnan Province have just exceeded 11,000 square meters, so there is still a lot of room for housing prices to rise in the future. Just look at the extent of housing prices in Beijing and Shanghai this year.

.”

He asked me: "So, you mean it's more cost-effective to buy a house now?"

I nodded and said: "Of course. When it comes to buying a house, you can't always look at the prices in previous years. Don't always think that house prices will fall back to the previous prices. Think about it, are prices the same now as they were back then?
To be continued...