In my heart, I have always believed that the higher the level of a leader, the more he should pay attention to certain rules in the officialdom. [`Novel`] But what I encountered today was exactly the opposite.
In an instant, I immediately understood: People only talk about rules in front of people of the same level as him. For me, maybe in his eyes, he is just a country bumpkin from other places, so he treated me completely.
It was a look-down attitude, and he didn't even notice me at all.
A deputy department-level cadre in a province may have such weight in the eyes of a deputy ministerial-level official in a place like Beijing.
At this moment, I suddenly discovered that there was Mr. Dou’s shadow between his brows. His eyes were very similar to Mr. Dou’s, with that disgusting arrogance. And his lips were almost Mr. Dou’s.
A replica. Because the corners of his mouth are slightly tilted upward in line with his arrogant eyes.[
In fact, I was only stunned for a short time. In less than a second after he asked me this question, I immediately answered, "Dou is always my friend."
He nodded slightly, "Tell me about your story."
Only then did I realize that his question was just a casual question. I guess Mr. Dou told him the same thing. The word friend is too general, and of course it can also be specific to the extraordinary relationship between two people.
I suddenly felt relaxed as if I had received an amnesty, and immediately reported to him our cooperation with Peking University, Tsinghua University and other prestigious universities.
He made it very clear just now and did not ask me to report to him on the regular enrollment work in our province, so I temporarily changed the content of the report. My report was very brief. First, I talked about why we should do this from the perspective of talent cultivation in poor provinces.
To do such a thing, the second is the provincial government's resolution to approve the implementation of our project, and the third is the current attitude of Peking University and Tsinghua University.
Finally, I said: "Currently, the country is beginning to implement the strategic policy of developing the western region. Talent cultivation is the prerequisite for this policy. On the one hand, our province has begun to vigorously introduce outstanding talents in all aspects, but on the other hand, we need to cultivate more local talents.
Talent. In the final analysis, our plan is also a very important part of our Jiangnan Province talent training plan. Minister Dou, we urgently hope that our plan can get your support."
He listened carefully at first and nodded slightly. However, when I said this, he suddenly said: "You mean, if we don't support your plan, then
Just don’t support the development of the western region?”
I was immediately shocked by his words, because I didn’t expect him to understand what I just said. However, I immediately felt that there were some problems in the expression of what I just said. I hurriedly said: "Minister Dou, I don’t have that kind of understanding."
What do you mean? I know that you have always been very supportive of our work in the western region. You are also a leader from a poor province. Minister Dou, I also heard that you were also a leader of a university before, and I came here
I also had experience working in colleges and universities before the Provincial Admissions Office, but I have never been a leader as big as you."
He looked at me, "Oh? Which university were you in before? What was your position?"
I replied: "I was the director of the foreign affairs department of Jiangnan Medical University at the time, and also the department director of the affiliated hospital of the medical university."
He looked at me in surprise, "So, you became an associate professor before you were thirty?"
I said: "You are only an associate professor after you are 30 years old. Our medicine is a practical discipline, and it is relatively easy to become an associate professor."
He nodded, "Xiao Feng, I have read the report you made together with Tsinghua University. It is impossible for us to give Jiangnan Province a green light on this matter alone, let alone issue a document specifically for the sake of a province. After all,
We are targeting so many provinces across the country."
I didn't expect that we had a good communication just now, but he suddenly brought the topic back to work, and he still had such an opinion. I suddenly felt a cold feeling in my heart, and hurriedly said: "Mr. Dou...
..."
He waved his hand to me and said, "Listen to me."
I quickly stopped. Then I heard him continue: "In the final analysis, this matter is still a matter of cooperation between you and universities. We issue annual admissions quotas to major universities. As for how they allocate quotas, that is up to them.
Things. In recent years, major universities across the country have been expanding their enrollment. As long as the plans they report to us are approved in principle, we will just ask them to list your plans separately. I am still like that
In short, we will not issue a separate document to you, as this will have a bad impact. Do you understand what I mean?"
Of course I understood, and I was immediately overjoyed, "Director Dou, thank you so much!"
His meaning is actually very simple. In the final analysis, it is just one principle: as long as the colleges and universities submit the plans we need to them, they will approve it by default. In the final analysis, this is also a sideways approach.
However, there is still a question here, but I feel it is not convenient to raise it at this time, and that is: How do colleges and universities understand this opinion on national recruitment? [
I thought for a while and then said: "Minister Dou, I would like to take the liberty to invite you. I wonder when you will be free in the near future? I would like to invite you and the leaders of Tsinghua and Peking University to go out and sit together. I think this
As long as Peking University and Tsinghua University take the lead in cooperating with us on this matter, other institutions will naturally follow suit."
He said: "As for this matter, you should contact our deputy director in charge. I will say hello to him."
I nodded, "Thank you, Minister Dou. By the way, Minister Dou, when I came to Beijing from Jiangnan this time, I brought you a small gift. It was a guzheng made of dark wood. Last time Mr. Dou and I
When we met, he told me that your wife is a guzheng player, and I thought your wife might also like this."
His eyes immediately went to the coffee table in front of him, "Is this the thing? Open it and let me take a look."
I hurriedly got up and went to the coffee table, then removed the silk thread outside the velvet cloth, and then a large and beautiful wooden box appeared inside.
Next, I opened the wooden box, and inside lay an antique guzheng. This guzheng was made of real golden nanmu dark wood, and was made with fine workmanship. There was a slight yellow color in the darkness, and it looked very beautiful.
Minister Dou had already come to my side, and I quickly and respectfully stepped aside. He touched the guzheng and at the same time plucked the strings on it, and the guzheng suddenly made a soft sound.
He immediately went to pick it up and said, "This thing is so heavy!"
I hurriedly introduced: "The material of this guzheng is golden nanmu gloomy wood that is nearly 10,000 years old. It is difficult to find such material now."
He nodded, "Gloomy wood, I know, it is a living fossil of trees. Golden nanmu is even more precious. Xiao Feng, please take the trouble."
I hurriedly said: "It's just a little thing, this is also a specialty of our Jiangnan."
Minister Dou said: "Wrap it up. Thank you, Comrade Jiangnan, for your thoughtfulness. If I have a chance in the future, I will go to Jiangnan to see what the logs of Yinchen Wood look like."
I was overjoyed, "Minister Dou, we sincerely invite you to come to our Jiangnan to inspect our work. Then I will definitely take you to see the most original ecological sunken wood. This thing is dug out from the ancient river channel, and is often used by people from
I found it accidentally while digging sand in the river."
He nodded, "Okay, I will definitely go if I have the chance. Xiao Feng, let's do this. Tomorrow night is the weekend. You contact the leaders of Peking University and Tsinghua University, and we will talk about your affairs together."
I was even more delighted, "I'll make arrangements right away. Thank you so much!"
Then I left his office and left. When I got outside, I realized that my back was already covered in sweat.
At this moment, I couldn't help but sigh in my heart: As the saying goes, a key opens a lock. As long as we find the right way and method, the impossible will become possible.
The key is Zhuang Qing's role. At this moment, I felt even more grateful and guilty towards her.
When I went to Director Sun's office again, he asked me with concern: "Director Feng, how are you doing?"
I smiled at him and said: "Thank you, Director Sun. I will trouble you to hand over the other things on my behalf. I have invited Minister Dou to have dinner with me tomorrow night. I will tell you the place we have arranged in advance. Please tell Minister Dou then."
.Director Sun, we have troubled you a lot by coming to Beijing this time, and we will definitely repay you slowly in the future."
He smiled and said: "That's great. Director Feng, congratulations to you. Director Feng, I see that you are a generous person. Let's keep in touch more in the future."
I smiled and said: "Director Sun, I will need more care from you in the future. Moreover, I also hope that you can have the opportunity to come to our Jiangnan to inspect the work." [
He smiled and said: "Definitely, definitely!"
I immediately said goodbye to him, "We have to go back immediately to arrange other things. Director Sun, I will contact you before noon tomorrow."
He personally escorted us to the door of his office.
"Director Feng, I didn't expect things to go so smoothly today," Director Liang said to me in the car.
I didn't answer him, because only I know the things I have experienced in this matter that cannot be known to others. I said: "It seems that we need to invite Director Leng to Beijing immediately."
Director Liang asked me: "Did Director Dou really agree to have dinner with us tomorrow?"
I nodded, "I think it would be better to arrange it at our Jiangnan Provincial Office in Beijing. Also, I will contact Governor Huang immediately to see if he can attend the banquet tomorrow night. After all, Minister Dou is a deputy ministerial leader.
Our level is too low. Director Leng must contact Peking University and Tsinghua University. This matter is no joke."
Director Liang reminded me: "It's best to ask Governor Huang first. What if he thinks it's more appropriate to treat guests elsewhere?"
I nodded.
After returning to the hotel, I asked Director Liang to report the situation to the old director, but he immediately locked himself in the room and started calling Governor Huang.
"Governor Huang, hello. My name is Feng Xiao. I heard you came to Beijing?" I asked him immediately after the call was connected.
"Little friend Feng Xiao, you are very well-informed." He laughed. I could tell that he was in a very happy mood at the moment.
I said: "I am also working in Beijing, because it is our office in Beijing that provides us with cars, so I know from them that you have come to Beijing."
He laughed "hehe" and said, "That's it. What do you want from me?"
I replied: "Governor Huang, there is something I want to report to you. I just came to Beijing mainly to work on the project that was studied at the provincial government office meeting last time. At present, we have basically put this matter
It’s done. Minister Dou of the Ministry of Education, who is also the director of the National Admissions Office, promised to have a meal with us tomorrow night. Also attending the dinner tomorrow night will be the leaders of Peking University and Tsinghua University. I think it’s just right for you
I am also in Beijing. I wonder if you can arrange some time? I am not a high-level admissions director. Look..."
He laughed and said, "Xiao Feng, you are quite powerful. You can handle such a troublesome matter in such a short time. Not bad! Let me see my arrangement... Okay, I will participate. But you
It would be best to ask Governor He to see if she can arrange time to arrive. After all, she is the leader in charge of the province."
I was overjoyed and said, "Governor Huang, it would be great if you could attend. Minister Dou was also a leader of a university before. Okay, I will report this to Governor He immediately. By the way, Governor Huang, I will prepare it tomorrow night
Do you think it’s okay to arrange it at our Beijing Office?”
He said: "I think it's okay. The conditions of our office in Beijing are still very good."
I thank you again.
He smiled "hehe" and hung up the phone.
I next called Secretary He, and then briefly told her about my work in Beijing, and also talked about what would happen tomorrow night. {Free novel} Finally, I said: "Governor Huang happened to be here
Beijing, he has agreed to attend tomorrow's dinner, but I think Governor He is the leader in charge, so it would be best if she could attend."
Secretary He said: "Director Feng, I'll talk about it after I report to Governor He."
Not long after, she called me, using a landline, "Director Feng, Governor He is talking to you."
"Okay. Thank you." I said, and then I heard the voice of Governor He on the phone, "Director Feng, thank you for your hard work. I heard that your work in Beijing is going well. I'm very happy. Tell me.
Well, what is the current situation?"
I said: "Peking University and Tsinghua University said that it depends on the attitude of the country in recruiting students. I just went to Minister Dou's office today. He said a principle... This is the situation, and Minister Dou promised to meet with him tomorrow."
Leaders from Peking University and Tsinghua University met to discuss the matter together. Governor He, I think it would be better if our leaders from Jiangnan Province could attend. Although Governor Huang agreed to attend tomorrow's dinner, he is not in charge after all.
Leaders? I think if you two provincial leaders are here, the effect will be better."
She said: "I have other arrangements tomorrow... Let's discuss it with Governor Huang. By the way, which leader of the Provincial Education Commission is currently in Beijing?"
I replied: "Director Leng just returned to Jiangnan a few days ago. I am about to call him and ask him to rush to Beijing immediately."
She said: "The Provincial Education Commission must have leaders. After all, Minister Dou is also the leader of the Ministry of Education. Well, you contact Director Leng first. If he is really not available, ask Secretary Luo to go to Beijing. Tell them
This is what I meant."
I agreed repeatedly, but I was thinking in my heart: Director Leng can only handle this matter. After all, the relationship between Peking University and Tsinghua University belongs to him.
Just after I finished the phone call with Governor He, I heard someone knocking on the door outside. I hurriedly opened it and found it was the old director and Director Liang. I asked them to come in and sit down, and then said, "I have already called Governor Huang and Director He."
The governor called separately. Governor Huang will definitely attend tomorrow's dinner, but Governor He said she still has to think about it. Now I am preparing to contact Director Leng and the university."
The old director asked me: "Director Feng, where are you planning to arrange tomorrow night?"
I said: "I asked Governor Huang for his opinion, and he also agreed to arrange it in the Beijing Office."
The old director nodded and said: "That's okay. But I heard that Minister Dou has gout, so I need to study this recipe carefully. And wine, it's best not to serve beer or white wine, and red wine is best."
I asked, "Gout? Is this real?"
Director Liang nodded and said, "It's true."
I said: "I once heard people in our hospital say that it is best for patients with gout to drink a small cup of brandy imported from France every day, and they will be cured in half a year. Director Liang, go and find a way to do some things."
Come, let Minister Dou take it back when the time comes."
Director Liang said: "The price of real imported French brandy is also very cheap. It only costs more than 300 yuan a bottle."
I said: "For people with certain diseases, curing the disease is the most important thing. What do you think?"
The old director asked me: "The question is, is this method effective? If it doesn't work, people will think we are trying to save money."
I smiled and said: "For a person of Minister Dou's level, he values our thoughts more. And he will never believe that we will slack off for him for such a small amount of money. Well, we will prepare two for tomorrow.
If you want to grow wine, Moutai and French brandy, ask for his opinion then. Others can drink Moutai. By the way, Director Liang, please contact your classmate immediately and ask her to make the best choice tomorrow night.
Reserve her private room. Tell her that this is what Governor Huang means. You should contact her right away."
After Director Liang left, I said to the old director: "Old director, it's all thanks to you that this happened. To be honest, I feel a little relieved until now."
The old director shook his head and said: "Director Feng, I think this does not completely solve the problem. This method can only solve the problems of Peking University and Tsinghua University. What about other schools? You should know that as a university, if there is no clear national recruitment
Without the documents, it would be impossible for them to make plans according to our requirements."
After hearing what he said, I immediately felt that I was thinking too simply, so I hurriedly asked him: "So, do you have any good suggestions? In fact, I also talked about this issue to Minister Dou today.
But he said such a principle. I think it is understandable from his point of view to propose such a principle. After all, people have relaxed, and the national recruitment is facing provinces across the country. I am worried that we propose a higher
His request will arouse his resentment."
He nodded and said: "Director Feng, if you go to his place today, it is already very good to get such a result. However, since he agreed to come out for dinner, I think we can further raise this matter at the appropriate time.
I think it is best for the provincial leaders to bring this matter up with him. For Minister Dou, that is another level of face-saving. Therefore, I think you should mention this matter to Governor Huang or Governor Dou in advance.
It would be good for Governor He to talk about it. What do you think?"
I suddenly woke up and said, "Old director, your reminder is great!"
Yes, for now, the reason why Minister Dou relented was because his son spoke for us, and later he agreed to go out for dinner because of the guzheng. Maybe the guzheng was not a valuable thing to him, but
But it can reflect our wholeheartedness. The old director is right. After all, Governor Huang and Governor He are both deputy provincial leaders. They are at the same level as Minister Dou, so if they propose the following matters,
It's not certain that Minister Dou will really give him face.
This kind of thing is just like international diplomatic relations, which emphasizes reciprocity of level. It's just like I have to invite Governor Huang to accompany tomorrow's dinner. From this, I also discovered the narrow-mindedness of my thinking: I can think of
A little, but it is difficult to expand further. It seems that I was right to persuade the old director to come to Beijing this time. He has much more work experience than me, and he is indeed a good consultant.
Then the old director suggested that we go out to eat something casually at noon. He said, "The food in the hotel is really terrible."
I said: "Let's boil the mutton."
He smiled and said: "There is one not far from the hotel."
I looked at the time and said, "I'll go after I call Director Leng."
He said: "I'll order the food first."
I nodded. I knew that he didn't want to disturb me on the phone. He was once the head of our provincial admissions office. Although he has stepped down now, it is really not easy to be able to serve as a consultant without interfering in specific matters.
After calling Director Leng, I reported the situation to him, and then said to him: "Director Leng, Governor He's opinion is that it is best for you to come in person. Also, the leaders of Peking University and Tsinghua University
It's best if you call us to invite us. The dinner is scheduled for tomorrow night. If we don't invite them in advance, what if they make other arrangements tomorrow? It will be troublesome if they can't arrive."
He was silent for a while and then said: "I, the director of the Provincial Education Commission, have been led away by you, the admissions director. Xiao Feng, I really belong to you."
I sensed that he was not joking with me, so I hurriedly said: "Director Leng, how dare I do that? Without you, nothing would have been accomplished now. Director Leng, I'm sorry to bother you.
.”
He said: "Okay, I'll call Tsinghua and Peking University right away. Say hello to your office and buy my ticket right away... Wait, let's wait until Governor He replies.
, if she wants to go to Beijing, ask your office to buy the ticket as well."
I agreed repeatedly.
He immediately asked me: "Xiao Feng, you are studying medicine. At my age, I always get up at night to urinate. What kind of medicine should I take?"
I immediately understood what kind of problem he might have, "Director Leng, I will buy you some medicine right away. When you arrive in Beijing, I will give it to you directly. Problems like yours are a common phenomenon after people reach middle age.
, the best way is to warm up.”
He smiled and said: "You might as well become my personal health doctor."
I also smiled, "It's an honor."
When we were having lunch at noon, Director Liang said that Wu Shuang's arrangements had been put in place. But now I suddenly became worried, because Director Leng still hadn't responded.
I said: "If no one comes from Peking University or Tsinghua University tomorrow night, it will be a joke."
The old director said: "I think the most important thing about this matter is the attitude of the country in recruiting students. Tomorrow, as long as we have leaders from the province here, it will be fine. We can specially invite them to the university again. Of course.
, it would be better if they could come.”
I said: "The main reason is that I have told Minister Dou that they are coming."
The old director said: "Director Feng, there is something I don't know whether I should say or not."
I hurriedly said: "Old director, why are you and I still seeing each other like this? You are an elder I respect very much. If you have anything to say, just say it."
He took a look at Director Liang and then said to me: "What I want to say is that you young people all have one thing in common, that is, you are too impatient. Director Feng, you are a leader.
It’s okay to be anxious when doing things, but no matter how anxious you are, you must stay calm. Do you think I’m right?”
I suddenly felt ashamed, because what he said was true. I am really too anxious when encountering some things, and I want to get things done right away, but in the process, I often become impatient.
, so I often think poorly and even cause unnecessary trouble. In fact, in the final analysis, this is all because I am too impulsive.
I said: "Old director, your criticism is right. I will definitely pay attention to it in the future."
He sighed: "All young people are like this. But Xiao Feng, you are still very young now, and you have reached the position of deputy director at such a young age. And Xiao Liang, you are also relatively young among division-level cadres."
Director Liang said: "Deputy director level."
The old director nodded and said: "Of course I know. The recruitment level of our province is half a level lower than that of the Provincial Education Commission. But that's not what I want to say. What I want to say is that it is a good thing for you young people to do things with care.
But many things are easy to make mistakes once you are anxious. Look at those big leaders, how calm they are in doing things. Therefore, you need to practice. When encountering anything, you must first restrain your mind, and in many cases
Don't be too anxious, and be patient. Only in this way can you calm down and think about how to deal with the problem. Officialdom, in the final analysis, is still about the knowledge of doing things, and doing things is not that important."
I completely agree with what he said. In fact, I also know that not many people in the officialdom actually work. In fact, what everyone pursues is not to be a director, but to avoid getting into trouble. I went to toast him with a glass of wine and said, "Old director, you
He has rich experience in this area, so tell us more today.”
Director Liang also went to propose a toast to him, "Yes, old director, Director Feng is considered to be very outstanding among our young people, but I am even worse in this regard. Please tell us more."
The old director laughed "haha", "Actually, I haven't learned many things in my whole life. It is precisely because of my weird temper that I will work as the provincial admissions director until retirement, and will never be promoted.
Up. Actually, this is mainly because I am unwilling to change my nature, and at the same time I take many things lightly. The purpose of reminding you of this today is that I don’t want you to follow my old path in the future. After all, you are still very young.
, the road ahead is still long. I hope you can all go further in the future."
I hurriedly said to Director Liang: "Director Liang, let's pay another toast to the old director."
I know that the old director will only open up his chatterbox when he drinks to a certain extent. Besides, there is nothing else going on today. It would be very interesting for us to chat about this topic together.
And you might even gain something.
Sure enough, after drinking several drinks in a row, the old director suddenly became more talkative. He asked us: "Tell me, what is the most important thing in this officialdom?"
Director Liang said: "Human relationships, right?"
I nodded and said, "I also think interpersonal relationships are the most important. As the saying goes? It's okay to say you can do it, and it's okay to say you can't do it. That's how our employment system is now. But it's much better now.
After all, the supervisory power of public opinion is getting stronger and stronger, so political achievements gradually become more important."
The old director said: "That's the truth. You are right, interpersonal relationships are indeed very important, but in the final analysis it is not the most important thing in officialdom, because the establishment of interpersonal relationships requires a foundation. In addition to a person's personality,
In addition to social skills, there is another most critical factor. Do you know what this most critical factor is?"
Director Liang was shaking his head. I thought about it and said, "Are you observing words and expressions?"
The old director nodded and said: "Yes. It means observing words and expressions. A person's every word, action, and even look in his eyes convey some subtle messages to others. These messages reflect a person's true mood and true character at that time.
. We all know that many times, it is not easy for us to really understand a person and understand his true thoughts. People usually hide themselves out of defense or deception.
Behind a mask, you don’t let others know your psychology and thoughts easily. When we appreciate a portrait of a character, we are often attracted by its eyes first. Eyes are the center of the soul and the most expressive organ.
A person's emotions and desires can be expressed in his eyes. The same is true in reality. If we want to know a person's thoughts, we can understand seven or eight points by looking at his eyes. Research shows that the eyes are a barrier. The eyes are where the brain is.
Extending from the orbit, there are third-level neurons at the bottom of the eyeball, which are like cerebral cortex cells and have the ability to analyze and synthesize; changes in the pupils, movements of the eyeballs, etc. are directly controlled by the cranial nerves, so people's emotions can naturally
It is reflected from the eyes: twinkling eyes, the plan is based on the heart; upward eyes, strong attraction; bright eyes, representing opinions; looking at people with cold eyes, suspicious; two eyes, lack of fighting spirit; blinking eyes, poor knowledge; winking at people
, show charm; wink and convey secrets; look at people in a high-profile manner from top to bottom; stare at others and have other thoughts; dare not look into each other's eyes, feeling inferior; look away first when meeting for the first time, wanting to be in a superior position; squint
Looking at people with an expression of rejection; appearing to be sleeping but not sleeping, showing scheming; drooping eyes, showing contempt. We should observe carefully when we get along with others."
I deeply agree. In the final analysis, this is a method of observing other people's psychological reactions, but what I know is not so detailed. I said: "It makes sense. What else is there?"
He smiled slightly and said: "The movements of a person's hands actually have hidden meanings. Under normal circumstances, when taking an oath in a solemn and serious occasion, you must make a fist with your right hand and raise it to the height of your right eyebrow. Sometimes when giving a speech or speaking
When clenching your fists, it means to the audience: I am powerful. But if you clench your fists in front of someone who has a conflict, it means: I am not afraid. Do you want to taste my fist? From this
It seems that clenching fists can bring strength and security to people. On the other hand, people who always clench fists may also be insecure in their hearts. So I used to often observe other people's hands.
So I came up with this rule: clenching your fists means you may feel insecure inside; crossing your fingers is to hide your true inner thoughts; crossing your hands in front of your chest is a challenging posture; spreading your palms when speaking
, means honesty and reliability; the ten fingertips touching to form a steeple shape means self-confidence; twisting the hands with the fingers interlaced means helping; people who like to pull their hair mostly have distinctive personalities; twirling their lips and biting nails with their fingertips represents the inner heart
Uneasy; those who stare at the other person first and then shake hands want to have a psychological advantage; shaking the other person's hand back with force is a sign of enthusiasm; those who shake hands vigorously are mostly dictatorial; those who shake hands with moderate strength and look at the other person are trustworthy.
"
I went to toast him and said, "Old director, what you said makes sense. This is actually part of behavioral science and reflects a person's inner psychology."
He went on to say: "Yes. In addition, a person's sitting, standing, and walking also convey his inner thoughts. Some people like to put their hands on their hips, whether they are standing up and moving after sitting in an office chair for a long time, or talking to friends,
They are all accustomed to putting their hands on their waists. Some people even don’t forget to put their hands on their waists when walking. They walk with their upper body leaning forward and their hands on their hips like a sprinter. These people often have a lot of success in doing things.
People with strong explosive power. In addition, people who like to put their hands on their hips when walking are generally impatient. They always want to complete their work in the shortest possible time. Such people have strong explosive power. When deciding to implement the next plan
, often with arms crossed. Also, if you walk with your head up and your chest held high, you often think highly of yourself; if you walk elegantly, you will be calm and collected in situations; if you walk slowly and hesitantly, it means weakness; if you walk leisurely, you lack enterprising spirit;
Those who jump around often have an innocent and lively personality; those who often shake their heads and shake their heads are full of confidence; those who laugh while talking are kind and humane in their hearts; those who sit with their legs spread open and have a casual posture generally talk more than actions; those who sit with both legs
Those who keep their legs together and cross their hands on both sides of their thighs are more rigid; those who sit down suddenly are mostly hiding their inner uneasiness; those who sit deep in the chair are arrogant; those who stand in a rickety shape show a lack of responsibility; those who like to use their hands when standing
Those who put their pockets in their pockets are very thoughtful; crossing their arms when standing represents a sense of challenge and attack; those who walk fast have a firm goal. It is also important to observe a person's conversation. Zeng Guofan believes that everyone's voice is related to the world.
The qi of yin and yang and the five elements are also divided into clear and turbid. The clear ones are light and rise, and the turbid ones are heavy and fall. The sound starts from the Dantian, makes a sound in the throat, changes to the tongue, and becomes clear and turbid in the teeth.
The changes in the voice are finally emitted through the lips, all of which are closely coordinated with the five tones of Gong, Shang, Jiao, Zheng, and Yu. When recognizing a person, listen to their voice to identify their uniqueness, which may not necessarily be completely consistent with the five tones.
It is consistent, but as long as you hear the voice, you will think of this person, so you will know the person by hearing his voice, so you don't have to see his true face to know whether he is a genius or a mediocre person. Generally speaking, there are some
Rules: Those who often clear their throat when speaking may be hiding their emotions; those who speak like a barrage of cannons may lack scheming; those who speak slowly and calmly may have strong opinions; those who speak loudly may have a rough temperament; those who often sigh may be a sign of psychological vulnerability.
; Those who chatter more often like to listen to flattery; those who are unclear in speech and slow in speech are often strong-willed; those who are good at using humor to deal with impasses, their brains move quickly; those who speak absolutely have narcissistic tendencies; those who like to use the first person have a desire for expression
Strong; people who often say 'so' usually like to take all the credit; people who often say 'yeah' are so tactful; people who often say 'this' are cautious in life; people who often say 'actually' are stubborn and willful;
Those who often make fun of others are jealous; those who are good at self-deprecation are broad-minded; those who can apologize proactively are more rational and generous; those who speak loudly on the phone are eager to express themselves; those who are unwilling to talk about themselves mostly have an inferiority complex.
; Those who are good at complimenting are more tactful; those who often use polite words are more humble in their hearts; those who like to speak in dialects are more emotional; those who speak concisely are more forthright in temperament; those who speak illogically are less organized; those who are whiny,
Those who like to inquire about other people's secrets have a desire to control; those who often brag in front of subordinates are often unable to adapt to their positions; those who often gossip behind others' backs are very picky; those who are used to praising others will not be able to adapt to their positions.
Easily offend others; those who are overly modest often conceal their true thoughts; those who always like to ask questions may want to take the initiative; those who raise the corners of their mouths are often eloquent; those who like to cover their mouths with their hands are often introverted; those who do not answer the phone in time,
People who are more self-centered; people who do not call every minute are usually selfish; people who write when answering the phone are more thoughtful and emotional; people who only start looking for notes in the middle of the phone call are usually adaptable. Hmm...
.What else?”
I was stunned and said, "Old Director, your research is too in-depth, isn't it?"
He laughed and said, "By the way, one more thing: those who look down on leaders are mostly those who think highly of themselves."
I almost burst out laughing and said, "Old director, your last sentence is so classic."
Director Liang also laughed, "Director Feng, old director, I respect you very much."
I laughed and said, "Director Liang, can't you hear it? This is a joke made by the old director. Haha!"
While we were chatting and laughing, Director Leng called, "I have invited the two principals in charge of Peking University and Tsinghua University. What did Governor He say?"
I said: "She hasn't replied yet."
He suddenly became unhappy, "Don't you know how to call her secretary again?"
I suddenly felt embarrassed, so I hurriedly said: "I'll ask right away, I'll ask right away."
He hung up the phone immediately. I felt that he was in a bad mood. Moreover, the old director had said so much before, and it seemed that he could not use his theory to analyze what kind of person Director Leng was at this moment.
mental state.
But I can analyze it. Obviously, he is already dissatisfied with me in his heart. Because he thinks that I kidnapped him and that I was arranging his work.
In fact, Director Leng is still a scholar-type leader after all, and his character contains a noble element. Of course, my suspicion about the condom has nothing to do with his noble character. I think it is within the scope of human nature.
.
But I don’t know: What did I do wrong that made him feel like this?
Now, I don't want to think about this matter carefully. The most important thing now is to complete this task. As long as the matter can be successful in the end, I will apologize to him in the future.
I immediately left the table and went outside to call Secretary He.
As soon as the call was connected, I heard Secretary He smile and say to me: "I was just talking about calling you. What a coincidence, you called me."
I asked hurriedly: "Has Governor He made a decision? Will she come to Beijing?"
When I asked this question, I immediately smiled bitterly in my heart: Why are you still so anxious about doing things? It seems that knowing some truths is useless, and being calm is the result of cultivation.
"I was just telling you about this matter." Secretary He said to me with a smile.
"Governor He has decided to come, right?" I asked. I wasn't impatient this time, this was an expression of my inner expectation.
Secretary He smiled and said: "Yes, Governor He has decided to come to Beijing. But she said she might have to arrive tomorrow."
I said: "The leader is busy, which is understandable. But if we arrive tomorrow, we will be too tired. Now that she has decided, I will ask the office to book a flight for her right away. By the way, Secretary He, how many people are there in Governor He and his party?"
Did she like to stay in hotels or our Beijing Office?"
Secretary He said: "Just stay in the hotel. In addition, if there is someone from your unit to accompany her, she will come alone. If not, I will accompany her to Beijing."
I immediately laughed and said, "Secretary He, the key is not here. The key is whether you want to come to Beijing or not. That is the most important thing."
She also laughed, and then said to me in a low voice: "Director Feng, if you have someone to accompany me, I will just have two days of rest at home."
I couldn't help laughing, "I understand. Don't worry, I'll arrange for someone to accompany Governor He to Beijing right away."
Her voice was still very small, "Thank you, thank you so much."
I immediately called Shanglong Bank and said, "Director Shang, I really need to trouble you to make a trip this time."
She smiled and said: "Okay. Director Feng, you have given your orders."
I said: "At present, our affairs have basically been settled. Tomorrow night we will have a banquet with Minister Dou of the Ministry of Education, as well as the leaders of Tsinghua and Peking University. Governor Huang and Governor He of our province will also attend tomorrow
Dinner. Governor Huang happens to be in Beijing. Your task is to accompany Governor He and Director Leng to Beijing. Within today, you ask our office to buy the tickets for Director Leng and Governor He. Tomorrow morning is the best. Buy them.
Please let me know when you have your flight tickets, and I will pick you up at the Capital Airport tomorrow."
She promised repeatedly, "Okay, I will make arrangements right away." Then she said: "Director Feng, you must have had a hard time this time, right? You have handled such a big thing so quickly. I want to do it again in the future.
No one will gossip about you anymore."
I was stunned for a moment, "Talk about me? Who is gossiping about me? What kind of gossip are they talking about me?"
Maybe she realized that she had let slip, "Haha! It's nothing."
At this time, I didn’t want to go into details with her. I thought I would ask her slowly after she arrived in Beijing.
After I returned to the dining table and sat down, I breathed a long sigh of relief and said, "Now everything is ready. All we need is the east wind."
The old director asked me: "Has everyone been contacted?"
I nodded and immediately went to Director Liang and said, "Tomorrow we will go to the airport to pick up Governor He and Director Leng. Maybe we have to borrow the commercial vehicle from the Beijing Office."
Director Liang said: "Please ask Wu Shuang to transfer another car. What do you think?"
I smiled and said, "Of course that would be better."
Director Liang immediately put down his chopsticks and said, "Director Feng, I will go to the Beijing Office now to finalize tomorrow's car and the menu. I will ask you to take a look at the menu when I get back."
I asked him: "Have you eaten yet?"
He nodded, "If there is nothing else, I will leave now."
I said: "Okay. By the way, let me express my gratitude to Director Wu."
After Director Liang left, the old director was speechless. He was drinking alone there. I asked him in surprise: "Old director, what do you think you have on your mind?"
He asked me: "Director Feng, there is something I have never been able to ask you. But I have thought about it for a long time and feel that I should ask you to feel at ease."
I hurriedly said: "You can ask."
After he drank a glass of wine, he pondered for a moment and then asked me: "How did you succeed in doing the work at Director Dou's place? Did it cost a lot of money?"
I didn’t understand why he asked me this question, but I still answered him, “It’s Director Liang’s classmate, Director Wu, who introduced me to Director Dou’s son. Director Dou dotes on his son very much.”
He is a precious son. I just treated him to a meal, which cost about 100,000 yuan. It was eaten at the Liaison Office in Beijing, and there was an invoice." At this point, I seemed to understand what his worries were, so I continued.
He said quietly: "Old director, this is not a lot of money, right? In Beijing, a meal that costs more than 100,000 yuan is not the most luxurious thing, right? I also thought about it at the time. If I can't do it in time, this money
It’s up to me to do it myself.”
"Oh." He looked thoughtful, "This Director Wu is not an ordinary woman. She helps you so much. She must also want you to help her with something, right? Haha! I really shouldn't ask this question.
Well. Xiao Feng, actually what I’m worried about is not this matter, but other things that will happen next.”
I looked at him in shock, "Oh? What else happens next? Can you tell me?"
He came to see me and said, "Director Feng, when I was in the provincial recruitment office, the position of deputy director has always been vacant. I heard that the superiors are considering this establishment issue recently, which means that the superiors may arrange it for you soon.
A deputy director. Now that you are the top leader, your opinions will definitely be sought on the selection of this deputy director."
I shook my head and said, "I know about this. But, what does this have to do with Wu Shuang? Moreover, the superiors may not necessarily ask for my opinion when arranging cadres."
He suddenly stopped talking. Instead, I became anxious and said, "Old director, if you have anything to say, just tell me directly. You don't know who I am? I won't talk about some things. Don't worry.
alright."
He said: "Director Liang told me about this matter in private. He hoped that I could mention something to him in front of you, because he felt that he could be the deputy director this time. So I thought of his idea.
Classmate, if she helps us this time, if she makes such a request to you, will you be able to refuse easily?"
I couldn't believe that there was such a thing, so I couldn't help but smile bitterly and said: "Old director, I told you that such a thing is not something I can say at all. Also, why does Director Liang think he has hope?
"
The old director said: "His classmate is the office director of the Beijing Office, and he often contacts the leaders of the province. Isn't this kind of thing too difficult?"
I thought to myself: If it is so simple, why would she come to me for her own matter? I said: "So, my opinion will have no effect."
The old director looked at me and said, "Director Feng, tell the truth, if Director Liang is appointed as deputy director, do you think he is qualified?"
I was startled for a moment, and then replied: "It's not up to me to decide whether he is qualified or not. Now he is the director of the department, and I think he is still very qualified as the director of the department. However, among the deputy director-level cadres recruited by our province, none of them are qualified.
There are quite a few, such as Man Jiangnan, he is also very good. Do you think so?"
He smiled faintly and then asked me: "Director Feng, let me ask you again. If you were asked to choose one of Xiaoman and Xiaoliang to be the deputy director, who would you choose?"
I was immediately surprised, because I felt that something was not right with the old director today, so I immediately asked him: "Old director, did you hear any news? Or maybe someone will treat you when you go back to Jiangnan this time.
What exactly were discussed?”
He shook his head and said: "I have already retired. Who would say such a thing to me? Now it seems that even you are not completely clear about this matter. How can I know so much? But we
The Provincial Admissions Office is a department under the dual jurisdiction of the Provincial Government and the Provincial Education Commission. The Provincial Education Commission does not have much say in personnel matters. Therefore, the appointment of the deputy director must be decided by the deputy governor in charge after seeking your opinion.
This was the case before. Ke Xiangnan and Shang Longxing asked for my opinion before they took office as the deputy governor. Although it was just a formality, it still depends on how you weigh the matter."
I seemed to understand, "You mean, I actually have a say in the selection of the deputy director?"
He nodded, "Of course. But it depends on the situation. For example, whether the deputy governor in charge already has a candidate in mind. It's very simple for you to figure it out. I don't need to say more. If the deputy governor in charge has
The provincial governor has no chosen candidate, so the decision-making power almost entirely rests with you."
I said disapprovingly: "It's impossible for me not to seek the opinions of the Provincial Education Commission at all, right? After all, the Provincial Education Commission is also our superior department."
He laughed "haha" and said: "Provincial Education Commission? If you want to listen to them, just listen to them. If you don't want to listen, what will they do to you? It's not like they have the final say in your appointment. Of course, they have to allocate funds for provincial recruitment.
Part of it, but do they dare not to allocate funds to you? The provincial finance has been clearly divided when making plans. Leave them alone! Those people from the Provincial Education Commission are the most troublesome, they want to interfere in everything, you give them
If they don't have any dignity, they will take advantage of it."
I couldn't help but smile bitterly in my heart: No wonder Secretary Luo doesn't like you, it turns out that's the case. But I do think it's okay to think about problems according to his way of thinking sometimes, such as the decoration project of our entertainment center.
But now I don’t want to discuss such things with him in detail, because such things are too complicated. I said: "Old director, you have said so much, but I still don’t know what kind of meaning you want to express.
Woolen cloth."
He picked up the wine glass and said to me: "Drink."
I drank it. He looked at me and smiled, "You haven't answered my previous question yet. If it's Xiaoman or Xiaoliang, who do you choose?"
I smiled bitterly and said: "Old director, aren't you making things difficult for me? They are both excellent, how do you want me to choose? What's more, such an assumption is meaningless. In fact, such a situation will never happen."
He shook his head and said: "The Provincial Admissions Office is still short of a deputy director, and the higher ups are also preparing to complete your team, either by transferring someone from outside, or by promoting someone from within the Provincial Admissions Office. If someone is transferred from outside, it won't be possible."
I said it, but if you are promoted from within us, you will definitely be asked to select a few people as pre-selection candidates, right? Then if you want to select, you should definitely include Xiaoliang and Xiaoman, right? Because they are recruited in our province
He is the best among the division directors, and you might choose one more. So what’s the next step? If the deputy governor in charge asks you to choose another one from among them, how would you choose? So, in such a situation
It’s definitely possible.”
I couldn't help but shake my head, "Old director, let's talk about this later. I don't have the time to think about such a problem right now. What if someone is transferred in from outside?"
He immediately laughed and said, "You are avoiding the problem. I think it is better for you to think about some things first and prepare for a rainy day."
Now I felt that I basically understood his intention today, so I asked him with a smile: "Old director, please tell me, who is the candidate in your mind?"
He said: "I was originally unwilling to intervene in this matter, but after all, I have worked in the provincial recruitment office for so many years. Xiaoliang and Xiaoman are both cadres I promoted, and I know them best. To be honest, they
Both of them are very good, but in comparison, Xiaoman is more loyal to people, and Xiaoliang is much more flexible at work. But I am most worried about Xiaoliang, because I have heard more than once that he accepts property from candidates’ parents.
It's something that happened. It's very easy for such cadres to get into trouble in the future."
It seems that the old director is leaning towards Man Jiangnan, and maybe Man Jiangnan has gone his way. I thought to myself.
None of these people came to me, and Director Liang never told me such things even when he was with me. I was not surprised by this. Because I had just arrived at the Provincial Admissions Office, and these people under my command still treated me very little.
They don’t understand me, and it’s precisely because they don’t understand me that they dare not come to me. I don’t know if they are afraid of me or in awe.
I said: "Old director, I understand what you mean. Let's discuss this matter later."
This is actually a promise I made to him in disguise.
At this moment, I was thinking in my heart: If I really had to choose, I might really choose Manjiangnan. As the old director said, because he is more loyal.
I have already understood this aspect of Manjiangnan. For a leader, the loyalty of his subordinates may be more important than anything else.
Of course, Director Liang is a very good person. At least he is very capable and obedient. However, I am a little disgusted with his classmate relationship with Wu Shuang. Therefore, I do not want to have any problems with Wu Shuang in the future.
Any dispute. Although I clearly know that this is very unfair to Director Liang, I can't help but think that way.
Let's talk about it later...this is my best option right now.
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