I did feel a little strange in my heart, and I found that her face was already red at this time.[`Novel`]
"Why?" I asked looking at her in surprise.
She said: "I have one more thing to do when I come to Beijing this time."
It must be a very important matter, and it should be a private matter. It cannot be a business matter. If it is a business matter, Director Leng can handle it here. And is there such an urgent business matter? I thought to myself.[
But I think I should remind her, "Director Ruan, I think you should accompany Governor He back unless it is absolutely necessary. After all, she is our leader in charge and has the absolute say in your and my future. Even if it is absolutely necessary, you should accompany Governor He back.
If you have something urgent, then you should find a good reason to explain it to her clearly. I have no problem here, I can definitely ask Director Shang to accompany her back. But the problem is not here, do you understand what I mean?"
She said: "Director Feng, please tell me. I can't find a reason to tell Governor He."
I immediately understood: it must be a private matter. I said, "I'll tell you it's okay, but you have to think clearly. Director Ruan, I can give you an idea."
She said hurriedly: "Just tell me."
I said: "You can go back with Governor He first, and then take a flight to Beijing this afternoon or evening. The ticket price is only more than 3,000 yuan, which shouldn't be nothing to you, right? Director Ruan,
Don’t lose big at the expense of small things. What do you think?”
She thought for a while and said, "Okay. That's a good idea."
I smiled at her and then returned to the dining table. Director Leng said to me: "Don't disturb me in the past two days. Since Governor He has gone back, I will go back next Monday to connect with Peking University and Tsinghua University."
I know I can't rush such a thing, not to mention that the affairs of these two schools have basically been settled now. But I suddenly remembered something, "Director Leng, things at Tsinghua University are very easy to handle. The maximum quota for one place is 100,000.
What about Peking University? The conditions at Principal Xiang’s place may not be low.”
Director Leng said: "Let's treat it equally. Minister Dou has already come forward on this matter. Principal Xiang shouldn't go too far. I'll just go and tell him."
When I thought about the relationship between him and Principal Xiang, I felt relieved.
Director Leng left. I think his attitude towards me is much better now, maybe because the medicine I bought for him made him think it was effective.
The old director and Shanglongxing and I were sitting there chatting, and I also took the opportunity to eat more.
The old director asked me: "How are you? You don't feel uncomfortable now, do you? Things are finally done. You should be in a good mood, right? I see that you have eaten a lot for breakfast, which means that you have basically sobered up after drinking last night.
Already."
I smiled bitterly and said, "Now I still feel pain all over my body."
Shanglongxing asked me: "Did you fall somewhere else last night? Do you want to go to the hospital again? I was going to let you stay in the hospital for one night last night, but you were too dirty, and the doctor
I also said that your problem is not serious, so we brought you back to the hotel."
I said, "Thank you. I'm ashamed. I guess it's because there's still alcohol left in my body. I did drink too much yesterday and hurt my body. It's okay. I'll just buy some medicine later."
She said: "What medicine should you buy? I will buy it for you now. I have taken it."
She really cared about me, and I felt that I should not brush off her kindness. So I said: "Jiuwei Qianghuo Pills. This is the only medicine. This is a Chinese patent medicine, specially designed for body aches."
The old director said: "You should only use this medicine if your whole body is sore after a heat cold, right?" [
I nodded, "Yes. The effect is very good."
Shang Longxing stood up immediately, "I'll buy it for you."
I thanked you again. After she left, the old director asked me: "What does Ruan Jie want from you? Haha! I don't mean anything else. I just want to remind you that you'd better stay away from this woman."
I was suddenly a little surprised, "Old director, she came to me to talk about work. By the way, how do you evaluate her like this?"
He smiled lightly and said: "I have been in the Provincial Education Commission system for so many years, but I still don't know the people in it?"
I thought thoughtfully, then nodded and said: "That's true. Old director, can you tell me? What kind of person is she? Why do you want to warn me like this? Haha! Of course I know you are doing it for my own good.
, but I feel a little strange."
The old director sighed: "Director Feng, you are already a deputy department cadre at such a young age, and I found that your thinking is very advanced and your work ability is also very strong. The most commendable thing is that you are also very enthusiastic about work.
And you are not selfish. So I am very optimistic about your future. Although we have not been in contact for a long time, I think you have a very good character. These are your advantages, but after all, you are young and currently single.
So I am very worried that you will make mistakes in your lifestyle. As the saying goes, beauty is a curse. Although some women are beautiful, they are also trouble-making monsters. Xiao Feng, my words can only go so far, so you can take care of yourself."
I understood a little bit, but I never thought that the old director would misunderstand that I have such a relationship with Ruan Jie. I suddenly thought that maybe the old director saw Ruan Jie’s blush when she came to me to tell me about it. I sincerely
He said to the old director: "I have nothing to do with her? Old director, I didn't lie to you."
He glanced at me and then said: "That's good. But many men can't resist the temptation of beautiful women. To be honest, as a man, who doesn't have a few confidantes? The key to the problem is that there are some who cannot be messed with.
Don’t mess with women who are young.”
I immediately laughed and said, "Old director, so you have a lot of confidantes, right? You have to tell the truth."
He also laughed and pointed at me with his index finger, "Why are you making such a joke with an old man like me? Xiao Feng, don't tell me, I find that I like you very much, but it's a pity that I don't have a daughter.
Otherwise, I really want to recruit you as my son-in-law."
I hurriedly said: "Don't... I will definitely be scolded to death by you. Haha! Old Director, to be honest, I quite like you. We are really destined. Old Director, this is called
Let’s make friends on New Year’s Eve, right?”
He smiled and said: "Yeah. It's a pity that you don't drink much on weekdays, and you don't like fishing. But it's good, so you don't lose your mind by playing with things and not doing your job like me."
I smiled and said: "Then I will drink more wine and fish with you when I have time in the future. I will also take the opportunity to inquire about your past romantic affairs. I also have to learn from you in this aspect. Learning is the way."
He pointed at me again, "You guys, don't make such jokes with me, an old man. Haha!"
I laugh too. Now, I feel that the relationship between us has become one step closer. It can be said that it is already intimate.
The old director looked at me strangely and asked me: "If you could only choose one type of woman among the three types of women: wife, lover, and confidante, which one would you most want?"
I was immediately stunned, "What is your problem?"
He smiled and said: "It's hard for you to choose, isn't it? Then let me ask you again, what do you think a wife is? What are a lover and a confidante?"
I didn’t even know how to answer, so I said, “Such a question should only be understood but not explained, right?”
He shook his head and said: "No, let me tell you. A wife is a woman you are willing to entrust your savings to for safekeeping. A lover is a woman you date secretly and are afraid that your wife will catch you. A confidante is a woman you can tell some secrets to.
A woman who listens but cannot tell her wife."
I smiled and said, "It seems like this is really the case."[
The old director immediately said: "A wife is a constraint, restricting you from dating other women casually; a lover is a compensation, compensating for the desire you want from your wife but cannot get; a confidante is a kind of encouragement.
, clarify the mystery in your heart. A wife possesses a man, a lover shares a man, and a confidante shapes a man. Your wife accompanies you to live your life; your lover accompanies you to spend money; your confidante accompanies you to chat. A wife cannot replace a lover, because no lover has
Sentiment; a lover cannot replace a wife, because she does not have the affection of a wife; neither a wife nor a lover can replace a confidante, because that is the need of the soul."
I couldn't help but give him a thumbs up, "Old director, you are really my senior. I admire you so much."
He smiled and said: "There's more. A confidante fully taps a man's potential and completes his mission as a confidant by perfecting men and helping men. Therefore, a confidante is another soul of a man. Sometimes she is close at hand, and sometimes she is there.
There is water on the other side, but you can feel her presence in your life; she may not agree with your outlook on life and values, but she absolutely respects you, believes in you and knows you well. [`Novel`] My wife is a person who has no blood relationship with you.
The woman you have a relationship with is worried about you not coming home late at night; your lover is a woman who has no family relationship with you, but she lets you taste the taste of being a man; your confidante is a woman you have not yet had a relationship with.
But she can share your happiness and sorrow. A wife is a home, a harbor that can bring comfort to your impetuous heart; a lover is a burden to the family, but you don’t want to get rid of it unless you have to; a confidante is an embellishment of the home.
You won't feel lonely without her, but you will feel that life is meaningless. A wife's concern is like a glass of boiled water, sometimes it becomes a nagging, but only becomes a kind of warmth when you are sick; a lover's concern is like boiled water with added
A spoonful of sugar, tasted slowly all night, is not enough; the care of a confidante is like drinking a cup of coffee after working until late at night, the more you drink, the more refreshing you become."
I couldn't help but nod, "Old director, what you mean is that this wife, lover and confidante are all indispensable. Right? Haha! I always thought you were quite old-fashioned, but I didn't expect you to be as open-minded as us."
He glared at me, "What does it mean to be open-minded? This is something that a man should experience. Just listen to me...Also, when your wife is pregnant with your child, she will ask you affectionately if you want
Is it a boy or a girl? If your lover is pregnant with your child, she will come to you crying and ask you: What should I do? What should I do? For your confidante, you will tell her the news that your lover is pregnant and ask her what you should do.
What should you do? As for your wife, you will only tell her after she discovers the secret that your lover is pregnant: In fact, I have wanted to tell you for a long time. Then you will try your best to explain and make a pitiful gesture. Your wife will not return to her parents' home for a week.
You don’t want to come back; you will call your lover if you haven’t seen her for three days; if you feel depressed in your heart, you want to find a confidante to talk to and tell her that you are exhausted between your wife and your lover and you really can’t stand it. The most unbearable thing for men.
It's the wife's nagging; the lover's tears; the confidante's misunderstanding. The wife's nagging makes a man's heart more confused; the lover's tears make a man's hard heart soften; the confidante's misunderstanding makes a man's heart become more confused.
The cliff leads to the deep valley. The best wife is when a man can find the two intertwined feelings of lover and confidante in her, but this feeling is difficult for men to find; the best lover is when your wife discovers your relationship with her.
Taking the initiative to withdraw without any conditions, but it is difficult for lovers to do this; the best confidante is to hope that one day she can become his lover or even wife, but this idea is difficult to realize. If possible, men would
I want to turn my confidante into my lover; if it is possible again, I will turn her into my wife. A confidante who just becomes my wife is no longer a confidant, because few men regard their wives as their confidants.
There are so many secrets that you cannot tell your wife casually. Otherwise, would you still be called a man?"
I immediately thought, "Wonderful!"
The old director suddenly glanced into the distance and said, "This woman is very suitable to be your confidante."
I hurriedly looked at it, and I couldn't laugh or cry immediately, because what I saw was Shanglong Bank walking towards us in the distance. I hurriedly said: "Old director, don't make such a joke. She is our colleague."
As we were talking, Shanglongxing had already arrived in front of us, holding medicine in her hand, "Director Feng, this medicine is really cheap."
I smiled and said: "The best medicine is one that is both cheap and effective."
She smiled brightly at me and said, "Only you doctors can know this. From now on, I will have to consult you often about this matter."
I smiled and said, "No problem." Then I took the medicine from her hand, opened a pack, poured out a third of it, and ate it with the milk, "Thank you, Director Shang."
She looked at us and smiled, "Old Director, you seemed to be having a great time talking just now. Why did you stop talking when I came here?"
The old director said: "Xiao Shang, you go and do your work. I will talk to Director Feng about something."
Shang Longxing smiled at us and left.
I immediately said, "What's going on with Director Liang? Why haven't you responded yet?"
The old director said: "Obviously, his classmate hasn't gotten up yet. Today is the weekend. Please be patient and let's continue talking about the previous things."
I couldn't laugh or cry. I immediately understood that maybe I had stirred up the issue that he was most interested in. But I think it's understandable. He is so old and was once a top leader. Isn't it right to have such feelings?
Maybe he was talking to other people, but now that he finally found someone to talk to, how could he stop?
At this time, I felt a little strange in my heart, "Old director, why do you think Shanglongxing is suitable to be a confidante?"
He smiled and said: "First, she is very beautiful, second, she is considerate, and third, this woman is very kind. Therefore, she is suitable to be a man's spiritual support. Such a woman is rare for men.
Yes, but don't blaspheme her, otherwise it would be meaningless. What you can't get is the best."
I shook my head and laughed. But in my heart, I felt that what he said seemed to make sense. According to what he said before, this confidante is a man’s spiritual support. If Shangguanqin and I had maintained our friendship and nothing happened later,
, then she should be a very good confidante. But...when I suddenly thought of her, my heart felt painful again.
The old director looked at me with a strange look in his eyes, "Xiao Feng, are you completely disappointed with your marriage now?"
I sighed: "Yes. My life is too tough and I am not suitable for marrying a wife. Forget it, I will never get married again."
He immediately said to me seriously: "That's not possible. Men need women to take care of them. What's more, you are now the deputy director. If you don't have a family, others will gossip."
I said disapprovingly: "Is it different now than before? As far as I know, Governor He has always been single, why did he become the deputy governor?"
He nodded and said: "That's true. But she is a woman, so the situation is different."
I was very surprised and asked: "Does this have anything to do with that woman?"
He said: "Why doesn't it matter? Governor He's previous man was a worker. Later, Governor He's official position became bigger and bigger. Her man's self-esteem couldn't stand it, so he often beat her at home. She really couldn't bear it.
She got divorced later. She is a woman, and her married life was so unhappy, so people understand her and sympathize with her. People always sympathize with women on such issues. Who have you ever seen who really sympathizes with men? People always sympathize with women.
I think the reason a man doesn’t have a family is just for the convenience of having sex.”
I couldn't help but feel ashamed, "This... seems to be the truth."
He said: "The director of admissions in a county once told me something. He said that he was the first person to buy a BB machine. At that time, a BB machine cost more than 3,000 yuan. One of his neighbors was very envious.
But he couldn't afford it. Later, he stopped using the bb machine because he switched to a mobile phone. At this time, his neighbor finally bought a bb machine, because bb machines were already very cheap at that time. But the neighbor was watching
After he started using his cell phone, he felt unbalanced again. A few years later, the director of admissions bought a house, and his neighbors were even more envious. Although he had also started using a cell phone, his heart became even more unbalanced.
Later, the admissions director bought a car, and the neighbor finally bought a small apartment. He still felt it was unbalanced, so he asked the admissions director: Why do you always live better than me? What's your secret to making money?
No? The admissions director said: Look, I'm not married yet, why should I not make money? In fact, I have always envied you, because you have a wife and children, and your life is much warmer than mine. Xiao Feng,
Let me tell you, the admissions director is right, for this person, having a family is the most important thing."
I found that the situation of the admissions director that the old director mentioned seemed to be similar to mine, so I asked: "Since the admissions director is so rich, why doesn't he get married?"
But the old director came to look at me and smiled, "Aren't you also very rich? Why don't you get married?"
I was immediately speechless: Yes, wealth and marriage are not necessarily synonymous. Everyone has his or her own reasons for life.
The old director sighed: "Xiao Feng, I'm saying all this for your own good. In fact, as a man, who didn't have ridiculous moments when they were young? It was the same when I was young. I had a few good friends and a confidante, but when it came to
Now that I'm older, I realize that the most important thing in our men's lives is our wives, wives, wives. Only when we get older do we realize how important our wives are. I have said so much to you, but actually I want to explain this to you.
Question. Xiao Feng, I still know a little bit about your situation. I am worried that you passed away like this in a daze. It will be very difficult for you to find a wife at my age, because men and women need a long time to get along.
We can eventually become each other's companions."
I shook my head and sighed: "Old director, I understand your good intentions. Let's talk about it later."
At this point, I suddenly realized something: Isn't he going to introduce me to his girlfriend? Otherwise, why would he talk so much in circles?
I was about to pretend that I didn't know his intention and change the topic to other aspects, but the old director immediately said: "Xiao Feng, don't talk about it again in the future? To tell you the truth, I have one on my hand.
A very nice girl. How about I introduce her to you when I go back this time?"
Sure enough, I smiled bitterly in my heart. But I didn't want to let down his kindness, so I said, "Let's talk about it after we get back."
He looked very happy immediately, "Then we have an agreement."
I smiled bitterly and said, "I have been married twice. Will people like me?"
He smiled and said: "If you like it, you will definitely like it."
I couldn't laugh or cry, "Old director, you are really good at ideological work."
He said very proudly: "Of course. After all, I have been a leader for many years."
I immediately joked with him: "Since you are going to introduce me to a girlfriend, why are you talking about who is suitable to be my confidante? Aren't you kidding me?"
He laughed, "What happened to the confidante? That is a very pure relationship."
I was even dumbfounded: How could this old man look like an old naughty boy?
While we were talking, Director Liang came and said to us: "Director Feng, old director, I asked her."
I asked hurriedly: "What did she say?"
He replied: "She said that it would be best if such a thing should not be known to outsiders. She also said that she would pretend she had never heard of it."
I looked at him in shock, "That's it?"
He nodded, "I asked her again and again, but she always said the same thing, and then she hung up the phone."
The old director sighed: "She is right. She should really avoid such things. After all, this is not within the scope of her work, and there is no need to take such risks for us."
Although I agree with the old director's statement in my heart, I can't help but feel a headache, "Old director, the trouble with this matter is that if it's too much, it's not worth it. After all, it's public money. If it's too little, I worry that it will be counterproductive. It must be appropriate."
sure."
The old director shook his head and said: "Where have we done such a thing before? Isn't it because the current trend has changed? Hey!"
I thought for a while and said, "Well, don't rush this matter. I'll think about it again."
We left the restaurant immediately. After returning to the room, I began to think painfully: Who should I ask about this matter? As a result, I thought about it for a long time and still felt that I couldn't figure it out.
Later, I suddenly thought: Wu Shuang may indeed have concerns about this matter, but no matter what, she should help me with this little favor, right?
I thought about it again, and then sent her a text message. The text message I sent her was very simple, just a question mark, followed by a few words: Thank you! I am grateful!
After a while she replied: twenty.
I immediately felt heartache: so much! But then I thought about how much money I spent on treating Mr. Dou to dinner that night, and also hooked up with Zhuang Qing, and I suddenly felt that it was not much.
Now I also feel: Wu Shuang still gives me face.
Immediately call Director Liang, "Please come to my room."
Not long after, Director Liang went out with the old Director. I didn’t tell them that this was the amount Wu Shuang told me. I simply said it was the answer I got after asking a friend from the Ministry of Health. Of course, I
I said it more cryptically. I said that I asked my friend how much it would cost to get services from their leaders in the province.
The old director and Director Liang had no doubts about my words at all, but the old director sighed for a long time and said, "What's going to happen if this goes on?"
I was also sighing in my heart: We clearly know that we shouldn’t do this, but is it okay if we don’t do it this way? Nothing can be done!
I still felt pain in my heart, and the wounds on my face became even more painful. Suddenly I remembered that Governor He was leaving, and I hurriedly called Ruan Jie, "Have you bought your tickets? When is it?"
She replied: "It's two o'clock in the afternoon. At noon, the Beijing Office invited her to dinner, and then the Beijing Office took us directly to the airport."
I said, "Please tell Governor He that I want to see her off."
She said: "Governor He said that you are very busy, so I don't need to bother you about sending her off. Just let the Liaison Office in Beijing send her off."
I said: "Okay then."
In fact, I still felt that I should call Governor He. At the same time, I also thought about Ruan Jie, "Director Ruan, do you really have something very important in Beijing?"
She said: "I have thought about it, let's go back with Governor He first. Try to come back today. Director Feng, I want to be transferred to your unit, do you think it is possible?"
She finally told me about this matter. In fact, this is easy to understand: some things may be difficult to say in person, but it is different on the phone. After all, you don’t need to face other people’s faces, so it’s okay.
There won't be too much pressure, and even if the other party disagrees, they won't be embarrassed in person.
I asked her: "Director Ruan, isn't the position of the deputy director of our unit also at the director level? Why do you go to such trouble?"
She said: "In the final analysis, I, the office director, serve people. The deputy director of the Provincial Admissions Office is still a leader no matter what. Director Feng, I pursue progress. Is there anything wrong with that?"
So that's what she thought. That's right, I thought to myself. Then I said to her: "I'll give you an idea: You can take the opportunity to accompany Governor He back to tell her about your affairs.
In the final analysis, she still decides on this matter."
In fact, I was completely offloading. From the conversation between Governor He and me, I already felt: Governor He is quite fair in work matters, and she should not be her temporary boss because of Ruan Jie.
The secretary changed his inner principles.
She said: "How dare I?"
I smiled and said, "You have to fight for everything. Well, I wish you a smooth journey."
People are not allowed to say "bon voyage" when flying. Planes are traveling against the wind. If you wish others a good trip, wouldn't it be like cursing the plane to fall? As far as I know, many people now don't know this taboo. Many people
When I heard that my friend was about to fly to a certain place, he still said "Have a good journey". It's just that people who fly don't know this taboo. All they know is "Bah! Crow's mouth!"
” scolded like this.
I thought about it and decided to call Governor He, "Governor He, I heard that your flight is at two o'clock in the afternoon? I will see you off then."
She said: "No need. You are busy with your business. Xiao Feng, you have done a great job on this matter. I will give you great credit when I get back."
I said: "Thank you for the leader's encouragement. Then you can leave slowly. I will report to you on the specific work situation when I get back."
She then asked me: "Have you studied that matter well? Remember, don't let anything happen."
I said: "We have studied it, mainly asking privately about the market situation here. Twenty. Do you think this is appropriate?"
She immediately hung up the phone.
I couldn't help but smile bitterly. But I already understood what she meant: it was enough for her to know about this matter, and she agreed with it. I immediately thought in my heart: It must make sense for a person to be such a big leader.
So I still felt that I was too anxious and risky on this matter: I actually decided on this matter without asking for instructions. But then I thought: The provincial recruitment expenses for one year are so much, this is just a mere
Two hundred thousand is not a big deal, right?
Of course, I was completely deceiving myself with this idea, because it was a bribe, not a normal office expense. Now, I immediately felt the risks of being a politician. Just imagine, if this thing happened one day,
Then don’t all the responsibilities have to be borne by me alone? Two hundred thousand dollars is nothing to me personally, but it is huge in terms of the legal quantitative standards for crimes.
At noon, I called Shanglong Bank and said, "Let's have dinner together. We are the only ones left in the hotel now."
She said: "Director Feng, can you go out? Let's go out to eat something special."
I asked her: "That's okay. Do you like roast duck or boiled mutton?"
She said: "Let's go to Wangfujing to eat Peking duck. Is that okay?"
I smiled and said, "Okay. As long as you don't laugh at my ugly movie screen running around."
She laughed.
The Quanjude Roast Duck in Wangfujing is decorated in a Chinese style. When I walked in, I found that there were quite a lot of diners. I guess most of them came because of the reputation of this place like us.
After sitting down, Shanglongxing and I each ordered half of the dishes, and then the dishes came one after another. The biggest surprise is that the dishes are presented in a very exquisite way, especially the appetizers and desserts, which are plated in Western style, but very practical
It has a Chinese-style decoration and is very attentive. The two appetizers are fruit champagne jelly with saliva chicken. The fruit champagne jelly is made by putting mango and other mixed fruits in a test tube. There is some frozen ice in it, so you need to suck it in from the bottom as soon as possible.
Otherwise, it will melt and fall off. The pickled vegetables and bamboo shoot tips, and the three white ducks are also arranged in a picturesque way. The signature roasted duck heart and safflower sauce, chestnut and cabbage are both delicious. As for the most signature roast duck, the finale,
Since we ordered too many other dishes, we only ordered half a duck. The chef brought a whole duck, sliced it in front of us, cut half of it, and took the remaining half away. This duck was really thin.
There was only a small plate. The most important thing was the duck skin. Shanglongxing asked me to dip it in some sugar to eat it. I tried a small piece and it was really good. It melted in my mouth. Although there was a lot of oil, it was still acceptable.
.
She asked me how I felt, and I said straight away: It's not like eating animal skins.
She immediately laughed, and then she made a roll for me, put in a few slices of duck meat, green onions, etc. I went to take the dipping sauce, and when I put it in my mouth, it felt a little bland, so I put in a few more slices of duck.
If I only eat meat, my taste is quite bland, but I still feel that duck meat is relatively bland and flavourful.
I found that she ate very little and mostly served me food, so I asked her, "Why don't you eat?"
She said: "I drank too much beer last night, so I have to eat less today. I have to control my diet to avoid gaining weight."
I sighed: "You women, you are so tired. What's wrong with being a little fatter? You are just as beautiful if you are round and round."
She smiled and said: "I know, it turns out that Director Feng likes round and round people."
I didn't know whether to laugh or cry, "What? I mean, you women don't dare to eat like this, but you are also particular about it. Life is really tiring."
She smiled brightly at me, "Director Feng, you used to be an obstetrician and gynecologist. Our women's flowering period is inherently short. How can we do it if we don't take care of it ourselves?"
I smiled and said, "That's true."
She then asked me: "Director Feng, you used to be an obstetrician and gynecologist, so tell me, what exactly do we women need to pay attention to in taking care of ourselves?"
I took a look at her and said: "First of all, women must keep warm at all times. Look at what you are wearing today, that's not good. You are wearing too little. You must know that cold is the root of all women's troubles. Cold is the source of trouble for all women.
It will cause women to have poor blood circulation, cold hands and feet, and dysmenorrhea. Poor blood circulation will cause spots on the face. The energy in the body cannot moisturize the skin, and the skin will be lifeless. Therefore, many women's skin is as perfect as fine porcelain, but not youthful at all. Fake
It feels fake; but some young women are still very energetic no matter how long they grow. More importantly, the female reproductive system is most afraid of cold. Once the body is too cold, it will choose to grow more fat to keep warm.
, fat will grow under the belly button. Once the qi and blood are sufficient and warm, there is no need for these fats to exist, and they will automatically disappear. Therefore, keeping warm is also the best way for women to lose weight."
Her eyes were full of surprise, "Director Feng, this is the first time I've heard of your theory."
I smiled and said, "Listen to me, that's right."
I couldn't help but chuckle, "I remember. What else?"
I said: "The other thing is to supplement hormones appropriately. From the first menstruation to menopause, a woman will produce more than 400 eggs. If you use one, you will lose one. When they are used up, the woman's fate as a little beauty will be the same.
It’s basically over. Because each ovulation process is a hormone metabolism, a woman with normal hormone levels in her body will have a ruddy and delicate face. A woman with poor metabolism will have various problems on her face. Of course, there are too many hormones.
It is also bad. Excessive hormones may result in particularly good skin, but it can easily cause breast and uterine hyperplasia. Artificial hormones are like this, but natural hormones are different. Many have two-way regulatory functions and can inhibit
There are too many hormones. So I am opposed to the use of artificial hormones, and it is best not to use those added to cosmetics. Some high-end cosmetics claim to add pure natural plant hormones, but I think it is better not to believe it. In fact, there are many things containing natural hormones. Eat
Wouldn’t it be better to drink more, such as: soybeans, pomegranates, yam, angelica, fennel, snow clams, royal jelly, etc. The most effective and effective way is to drink soy milk, because soybeans contain trace amounts of estrogen with two-way regulation function, and they are cheap and okay.
Drink as water. Then women should conserve their own water sources. Haha! Women are made of water. Their faces should be hydrated and their eyes should be watery. However, according to Chinese medicine, it is not about nourishing water, but nourishing yin. Then drink more.
Is the water good? Otherwise, drinking too much water will cause poisoning, the kidneys will not be able to bear it, and the eyelids will become swollen. That is not true energy. In fact, the water in a woman's body is already very sufficient. The most important thing is that it cannot
Excessive loss. Those spicy foods, especially those with added spices, tend to deplete women's water supply. If their temperature is not moderate, but extremely cold or extremely hot dishes, there will be even more loss."
She immediately asked me: "Then you mean you can't even eat hot pot? I really like that food."
I smiled and said, "I mean don't eat it often. If you eat it once in a while, hot pot can detoxify and nourish your skin."
She asked me again: "Is there any more?"
I smiled and said: "Actually, in the final analysis, the most important thing is to keep a happy mood at all times, use cosmetics as little as possible, don't lose weight, do more exercise, and eat more green food. Keeping a happy mood is the most important, there is no one way to say it
? Women who smile often are the most beautiful. Do you think so?"
She smiled and said, "Haha! You've been talking for a long time, didn't you just want me to eat more? Okay, here's another half of the roast duck."
In fact, I did see that she ate too little, and the things I mentioned were all things that women need to pay special attention to when taking care of themselves. Later, I actually ordered another roast duck because I hadn’t had enough of it yet.
We had a pleasant meal, and I found that the old director was indeed very accurate in observing people. Shanglongxing was really a very gentle woman. I couldn't help but think: Her husband must be very happy.
I asked her this question, "Director Shang, what does your wife do?"
She smiled and answered me: "He is a reporter from our Jiangnan Evening News."
I smiled and said: "The King of Crowns. Journalists are a good profession."
She said: "It's okay. But I'm too busy with work and running around all day. I take care of our children. In the past, when I went to work for a temporary job, I had to leave the children to my parents."
I immediately asked her: "What will you do when you come to Beijing this time?"
She said: "Now my parents live in my house, and my sister has also come to the provincial capital to study at university, and often runs to my house. Someone takes care of the child."
I nodded and suddenly felt a little pain in my heart. I said: "It's better to take care of the child by yourself. Director Shang, there aren't many things going on here in Beijing. We may have to go back in a few days. Well, you can go earlier."
Go back, because there is really nothing to do if you stay here. Of course, you can stay in Beijing for a few more days, you can decide for yourself."
She asked me: "Are you really not busy at work here?"
I nodded and said, "To be precise, we made the decision last night. Director Shang, you may be asked to travel more to other places in the future, such as Tongji University, Fudan University, etc."
She said: "Okay, I'll go back today. To tell you the truth, Director Feng, today is my son's fifth birthday."
I hurriedly said: "Ah, then go back quickly. I'll call Director Liang right away to book a flight for you."
Shanglongxing left on a plane after four o'clock in the afternoon. I went to see her off and bought her a gift at the airport: a sterling silver longevity lock.
On the way back to the hotel, I suddenly received a call from Mu Jiao, "Uncle Feng, are you still in Beijing?"
I was stunned for a moment and didn't know how to answer her.
The author's digression:
Today's "Promotion of Grassroots Doctors: Medical Career"
Introduction: Ouyang Zhiyuan, a grassroots doctor, got drunk. When he opened his eyes, he saw a noble and elegant beautiful dean lying in his arms, and there were bright plum blossoms dotted on the bed sheets. From then on, he relied on his exquisite traditional Chinese medicine acupuncture to make a breakthrough.
Entering the ever-changing and dangerous officialdom, in front of his career, there are beautiful and sexy female reporters, shy and smart nurses, mature and charming female bosses, and the avant-garde and tricky Taiwanese eldest lady, all smiling at him.
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