I have been controlling the time this afternoon, because today there will be new guests coming to our Jiangnan Province. [`Novel`] I asked Minister Dou before he got on the speedboat, I asked him if he would attend those university leaders tonight
reception dinner.
He shook his head and said: "I don't want to go today. Let's meet everyone at the meeting tomorrow. By the way, Xiao Feng, I'm going back to Beijing tomorrow afternoon. I may still come to this national admissions conference."
I asked: "You can stay for two more days. Is that okay? Anyway, this is your first time coming to Jiangnan, and you haven't been to many places yet."
He shook his head and said: "It's best to leave some regrets."[
In fact, my attempt to persuade him to stay just now was just a kind of hypocrisy, but it was very necessary. I would do this even for ordinary guests. This is the most basic way of hospitality. I can't just say:
Okay, you should go back quickly.
To be honest, I have long hoped in my heart that he would go back soon, but tomorrow’s meeting requires him to show up and say a few words. Of course, his speech will be very important, because he himself represents the country’s recruitment
attitudes and policies.
It's really hard for me to accompany him these days. Such reception is simply not a job for human beings. Now that I heard that he will go back tomorrow afternoon, I can't help but feel happy - such a hard life has finally come to an end.
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I immediately said: "If you have decided to go back tomorrow afternoon, I will immediately ask the office to book air tickets for you and Director Sun. You are a big leader and your work is very busy. I may not be able to keep you here. You can tell me
Yes, it is best to leave some regrets. Let's do this. We will make good arrangements for you next time you come. Sorry, Minister Dou, we did not make good arrangements for you this time when you came to our Jiangnan Province. Please be kind
Please forgive me for criticizing."
He smiled and said: "It's very good. Your arrangements are so thoughtful. Thank you, Xiao Feng. Xiao Feng, although you are young, you are very safe in doing things. Our country also needs talents like you in recruitment."
I was immediately startled by his words, "Minister Dou, I don't dare to climb high. You are a state agency, and my level is not suitable for you."
I suddenly became worried, because I know one thing: a person must have connections to work anywhere. And my connections, my roots are here, in Jiangnan Province.
My concerns are certainly justified.
In today's officialdom, the so-called youth or ability are very abstract and one-sided things. Age and ability are important in the process of job promotion, but that is just a need. In other words, if the organization wants to promote someone
, such conditions are needed to show their importance. If the organization has no intention of promoting a person at all, it is likely to regard the person's youth as lack of experience and underestimate his ability.
Consider it an act of impulsiveness.
Without Lin Yu and Governor Huang, I, Feng Xiao, would be nothing. I have a very clear understanding of this.
At this moment, I couldn't help but have to think about this question: Why did Minister Dou ask me to go to the National Education Commission? Is it because he was very satisfied with my arrangement this time? Or was his son telling him about Zhuang Qing?
When I go to Beijing to work, I can find a woman for him at the same time?
The more I thought about it, the more I felt something was wrong, and the more I thought about it, the more worried I became. You know, he and I have no special relationship at all. If I really went to work at the National Recruitment Office, wouldn’t I be in bad luck right away?
Therefore, my first thought was to politely refuse immediately. I thought to myself, if he really meant that, then I must make it clear immediately, and I must refuse firmly and immediately.
Minister Dou then laughed "haha" and said: "Xiao Feng, it seems that our country's recruitment pool is still a bit small for you."
I hurriedly said: "Director Dou, please don't say that. I have many shortcomings, and you may not know much about me. Jiangnan Province is my hometown, and I feel safe working in my hometown.
Even if I make a mistake in the future, I can still do other things to support myself. There are too many big leaders like you in Beijing, and I am not used to it."
He laughed, "That's right. Haha! Don't be nervous, I'm just asking you casually. In fact, I'm also thinking that for a young and capable cadre like you, even if I want it, you guys in the province won't
Give it to me. It is very difficult to train a young cadre now."
Hearing what he said, I immediately breathed a sigh of relief, "Director Dou, you think too highly of me. I have no ability, I just like to do things seriously."
He then looked at me with a very serious look, "Xiao Feng, this time I came to your Jiangnan Province, I am very satisfied with your reception, and you have worked very hard. So, I will give you a message, I hope you
Be sure to remember it at all times.”
He went to look at the slowly flowing river, then turned to me and said: "If the king does not keep secrets, he will lose his country; if the ministers do not keep secrets, they will lose themselves; if secrets are not kept secret, it will cause harm. Xiao Feng, you understand this sentence
What do you mean?"[
I understood immediately, nodded hurriedly and said, "I know what this sentence means. Thank you, Minister Dou, for reminding me."
He smiled at me with satisfaction, and then walked quickly to the speedboat.
Just now, when Zeng Yufang came to talk to me, he was actually ready to get on the boat, but he was waiting under the boat. It was obvious that he wanted to tell me this specifically.
What he just told me was the words of Confucius. The original text is as follows: "When chaos arises, words are regarded as orders. If the king is not secretive, the country will be lost; if the minister is not secretive, there will be corruption; if the affairs are not secretive, there will be harm. So.
"A gentleman is cautious and never comes out." This means: The reason why chaos always occurs is that the source of chaos is often caused by words. If the king speaks carelessly, he will lose the country, and if the minister speaks carelessly, he will suffer himself.
Failure to be discreet about important matters will cause disaster. Therefore, a gentleman should be discreet in everything he does and say, and never talk nonsense.
Of course I can understand Minister Dou's words as his warning to me to enter official circles in the future, but I am more willing to believe that he is warning me not to tell anyone about some of the things about his trip to Jiangnan.
Of course I won't talk about some things casually. After all, some things will be harmful to me if told. Besides, many things are arranged by me personally.
I controlled the time very well, and we returned to the hotel a little after five o'clock in the afternoon.
For the convenience of reception, we have arranged other guests who are coming today to this hotel, and I ask that everyone can only have a separate room. I had a rest in that city last night, and their
The arrangement made us very dissatisfied, especially Secretary Luo. This incident also reminded me of the importance of arranging separate rooms for guests. In fact, not everyone who asks to live alone is doing bad things, mainly because
From a human psychological perspective, we all need a private space.
Since we have such reception conditions and the funds are not so tight, why not make better arrangements?
This is the case today. Diligence and thrift are no longer considered a good style by others. Instead, they will be misunderstood by others as stingy. In fact, it is quite polite to say stingy, and some people may even think it is a kind of disrespect for him. So, like that
The arrangement can only have one result: a good thing turns into a bad thing. Things that have been prepared so hard will suddenly come to naught.
Of course I don't want this to happen.
Man Jiangnan called me a few days ago and told me that someone in my work unit has been whispering behind my back that I am a prodigal because they think I spend too much money.
Man Jiangnan has left our company, so he can hear more real news about our company. I believe his words are true, but I can only smile bitterly: It's not that I spend money well, it's that I can't help it.
I think: The top leaders of other units must have the same frustrations and worries as me. So sometimes I often think: In a situation like this, how can the cost of official receptions not be high? Nowadays, it is like this from top to bottom.
People from above enjoy such a standard of reception, how dare people from below still neglect it?
So I never believe that the consumption of the three public affairs will be effectively controlled. {Free novel}
After returning to the hotel, I first sent Minister Dou to his room, and then called Ruan Jie to inquire about the arrangements for the guests. She told me that more than a dozen guests had already arrived, and a few more would have to arrive at night.
I said to her: "Then it would be best if a leader from the Provincial Education Commission would accompany us to dinner tonight. From our side, you inform Director Ke and you will accompany him. Director Liang and I will have to accompany Minister Dou. By the way,
You call the old director as well."
She said: "The Provincial Education Commission...may only have one deputy director."
I was just worried that Secretary Luo had given up his job, and now Director Leng was in hospital again. After all, these guests were leaders from prestigious schools, and the standard of reception was too low. I said: "Today is just a registration time, and it is impossible for leaders from the province to come forward."
The reception. Governor He has arranged for tomorrow evening. So it is best for a full-time leader of the Provincial Education Commission to participate in the reception tonight. I can’t do anything about it, after all, Minister Dou is here. I will propose a toast to you at that time, and you will also toast to me.
Guests, please explain. Secretary Luo will ask you to say a few more words. I believe he will agree. After all, this is a big matter."
Although I estimate that the relationship between Ruan Jie and Secretary Luo is not normal, it is impossible for me to let Ruan Jie feel that I know about this matter. So I can only say this, and I fully believe that only her intervention can invite Secretary Luo to come.
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Secretary Luo may not necessarily sell my face again. After all, he has participated in the reception for several days. It is not convenient for me to say anything if he wants to ask for today's matter. So the best way is to let Ruan Jie come forward.
She said: "I will try my best."[
I laughed "haha", "It's not my best, it's a must. You used to be the office director of the Provincial Education Commission and you know how to do leadership work. Director Ruan, please!"
Then before the meal, Director Liang and I went to meet each guest separately, which meant briefly saying hello. After all, I am the host, and doing this can make the guests feel a kind of enthusiasm. Of course,
I also told them that Minister Dou was in Jiangnan Province and that he would attend the meeting tomorrow.
In this case, I believe they will not have any thoughts about me because I cannot accompany them to dinner today. They are all leaders and should know the difficulties of being a leader.
I didn’t drink much tonight because Minister Dou said he was a little tired. Governor He said: That’s okay. In fact, what I’m most afraid of is drinking.
Later, I went to the private room where the vice-principals were received to toast a few glasses of wine. The reception task tonight was completed. This was the most relaxing day in my opinion.
Then I went to my office, because I needed to familiarize myself with tomorrow's speech again, and at the same time, I also thought about whether there were any other problems in this meeting that I had not thought of yet.
At night, most of the entire office building has no lights. Only a few rooms on our reception center floor have lights on. When I stood under the office building, I immediately felt that the place seemed a bit eerie.
But I still insisted on going upstairs.
After staying in the office for less than half an hour, my cell phone suddenly rang. I glanced at the caller ID and was stunned because the call was actually from Director Leng.
I could only answer it, even though I was scared inside.
"Xiao Feng, please come to my ward. I live in the ward of senior officials." He said, his voice was a little hoarse.
Ruan Jie must have told him that my reception mission was over today. I thought to myself.
He agreed repeatedly and immediately left the office door. I was thinking: What did he ask me to do at this time? Maybe he asked me to keep the matter secret for him? This is the only possibility.
I couldn't help but smile bitterly: Feng Xiao, why are you worried? It's not you who is in trouble! But at this moment, I seem to understand the true meaning of what Director Dou said to me. Knowing the secret of the leader is indeed not a good thing. Worry
The only one who is scared is myself.
Director Leng's ward is easy to find because he lives in a single ward for senior cadres, on the top floor of the internal medicine inpatient building. This floor is full of wards for senior cadres.
I used to be a doctor, so of course it was easy to find him. I just went to the nurse station and looked at the inpatient sign, and I immediately knew which room he was in.
There was a small glass on the door of the ward. I looked in from there and found him sitting on the sofa inside watching TV, wearing a striped hospital gown.
I knocked on the door, and he immediately looked at me in the small window, and waved to me. I immediately opened the door and went in, then put the fruit basket in my hand on the bedside table next to the hospital bed.
This ward is very good. Although it is not big, it is very cozy. It is about more than ten square meters, with a bed, a sofa, and a toilet. It is also equipped with a TV, air conditioner, microwave, etc.
"Come on, Xiao Feng, come and sit down." He greeted me, very kindly and enthusiastically.
I immediately went to sit down and asked with concern: "Director Leng, your family didn't come to accompany you?"
He said: "I've gone back. This is a senior cadre ward, and you don't need family members to accompany you. If something happens, you can call the nurse at any time. You used to be a doctor, don't you know?"
I clearly felt the sense of superiority revealed in his words. I said, "I know, I'm just asking. Director Leng, are you feeling better now?"
Of course this is nonsense. He almost died, and now he is here watching TV alive. But I can only ask him this way, otherwise what other topics can I find?
He nodded, "I feel much better..." Then, he had nothing to say, and I could only sit quietly. I didn't know what I should say, after all, what happened between him and Ruan Jie
This thing is so embarrassing.
But the silence didn't last long. After a few seconds, I heard him continue to say: "Xiao Feng, thank you. If it weren't for you, I would no longer be in this world."
I hurriedly said: "Director Leng, what are you talking about? What does this matter have to do with me? I just heard that you were sick yesterday, but I have been with Director Dou these two days and I really can't spare the time.
Look at you. Director Leng, please don’t blame me."
In fact, I had already thought of a countermeasure before I came here: I must send him a signal, that is, let him know that I will never tell this matter.
He looked at me and said, "Xiao Feng, you are very smart. There are fewer and fewer young people like you now. I understand what you just said. Of course I believe you. You did a great job that night."
Okay, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. If it hadn't been for you, I would have been ruined even if I didn't die."
I hurriedly said: "Director Leng, don't say that. If other people encountered such a thing, they would do the same thing."
He shook his head, "You are so kind. Maybe other people are hoping that something will happen to me. Xiao Feng, let's not talk about this matter anymore. This matter is really hard for me to talk about and makes me feel ashamed. Sigh.
!It’s all my fault for not being self-disciplined..."
When he spoke like this, I immediately didn’t know what to say anymore, because I couldn’t persuade him on such a topic, and it didn’t feel right if I didn’t, so the only way was to remain silent.
I was silent when I heard him suddenly come to me and ask: "Xiao Feng, why don't you speak?"
I couldn't help but smile bitterly, "Director Leng, I don't know what you are talking about."
He came to look at me, his eyes sharp, but then turned soft, "Xiao Feng, I know what you are thinking. You are right to do this. Okay, I will tell you directly. Today I call you
There are two things I want to do here: First, please take more care of Ruan Jie when she arrives at your unit. She can't have anything happen to her. If something happens to her, I will be ruined. Second, I hope you don't tell this matter.
Anyone, especially Minister Lin from the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee."
Only then did I fully understand the truest purpose of why he called me here today: it turned out that he was actually worried about this matter. After what happened that night, I dealt with it in that way, which made him no longer worry about me.
He would talk about this matter casually, but he knew about my relationship with Lin Yu, so this was something that made him feel uneasy. After all, his position was managed by the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee.
But I find it difficult to promise him this, because I always tell the truth in front of Lin Yu, and there is also the matter of Ruan Jie. How can I guarantee that nothing will happen to her? Who knows that she is in the Provincial Education Committee?
Have you ever done anything illegal in the office? Who am I to guarantee this?
But it was impossible for me to refuse his two requests in front of him. After thinking about it, I said: "Director Leng, you should know that I will not talk casually. Think about it,
What good will it do me if I tell the story? You are the director of the Education Committee, I can't replace you, right? Even if something happens to you, it won't be my turn to sit in your position, right? After all, I am still very young
, her qualifications are not enough. There is also the matter of Ruan Jie. Now that she has come to our unit, isn’t our unit also your subordinate unit? As long as she abides by the law, how can anything happen? Director Leng, you should be more careful with me.
You know, I don’t like to bully others. Under normal circumstances, I won’t do things that harm others and benefit myself, unless she puts me in danger. Director Leng, don’t you think so?”
He nodded, "I believe what you said. What you said is very true. Well, Xiao Feng, I know you are very busy these days. You should go back and rest early. Thank you for coming to see me and buying something for me."
Here comes the fruit.”
Only then did I notice that a nurse had come in. She was here to give him an injection. No wonder Director Leng suddenly said such serious words.
I said, "Okay. Director Leng, you should also take a good rest. You need to recover slowly from your illness, especially get a good rest."
After I left his ward, I couldn't help thinking: What's going on with me? Why do I always encounter such inexplicable things? I obviously don't want to get involved in such things, but I happen to be encountered every time.
arrive.
Now, I have to think about this problem.
I can only give one explanation: perhaps the circle around me is itself a group of people prone to those things. Most of the people in this circle are filthy, so it is not surprising that I often encounter such things.
It should be like this. The officialdom itself is a filthy place. The people here are full of greater desires than ordinary people, and the ravines of their desires are more difficult to fill. And the most important thing is that they hold the power, so they
Will be even more fearful.
I have always had a good impression of Director Leng. I always felt that as a scholar-type official, he should be different from other officials. At least he would not do such a thing, but now it seems that I was wrong. But at the same time, I also thought
Said: Feng Xiao, aren’t you considered half a scholar-type official yourself? Aren’t you the same as him? If you compare yourself with him, you are equally shameful and obscene in some things.
Why is this happening? Why can't I restrain my desires? I asked myself. Then I answered: Because I am a human being and I have emotions and desires. And because I have the advantage of making those mistakes, and no one is supervising me.
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Yes, this is the root of the problem.
In the final analysis, it is still the same sentence: a kind of power without supervision is terrible, and the only one who suffers in the end is yourself. However, you cannot restrain your inner desires at all. This is a vicious circle. People in official circles
Most people find it difficult to escape from this vicious cycle.
Hey! I couldn't help but sigh. Because I knew that the only way to solve this problem was to leave officialdom and leave the temptation of power.
But I can't do it, and I don't think anyone else can.
Now, I think the only way for me is to do more good deeds and do more good deeds, and try not to make financial mistakes. Maybe this way I can reduce some risks.
Suddenly, I seemed to understand why so many officials believed in Buddhism. In fact, when officials went to temples to burn incense and pray to God, they were not doing it to stimulate their inner compassion, but mostly because they were afraid of doing evil things and wanted to seek blessings.
The blessing of a kind of supernatural power can find sustenance and a home for my dirty, fearful heart.
I went directly back to the hotel. Although today's reception task was relatively easy, I felt deeply tired at the moment, not physically, but mentally.
Entering the hotel lobby, and preparing to go to the elevator, I suddenly saw Ruan Jie at the reception desk in the lobby, talking to a middle-aged man.
Ruan Jie also saw me, and she called me immediately. I walked towards them, Ruan Jie introduced the middle-aged man to me, and then I realized that he was also one of our guests this time.
I chatted with the vice-principal for a few words, and then told Ruan Jie to make arrangements for him. I also asked the vice-principal if he had had dinner. The vice-principal said that he had something to eat on the plane, but now there are some
hungry.
I thought that all the guests who came here tonight might have this problem, and I also thought that it would be better to make this event more lively and casual. So I said to Ruan Jie: "In this case, you ask all the participants
If any of the university leaders at the meeting want to go out for a drink or a late-night snack, we will meet here in half an hour. By the way, Ruan Jie, please arrange the car. Also, ask Director Ke and the old director
"
Ruan Jie agreed repeatedly, and the vice-principal kept thanking her.
When I came down from upstairs half an hour later, I found that most of the guests were here. I was very happy, and immediately asked everyone to take the car to the food stall by the river.
The old director did not come, but Director Ke did come. Now I also find that my previous shortcomings in my work actually made me a little tired of him, so I often did not give him tasks to do, and it was difficult to connect to the meal.
Don't call him less. Now I know that he is actually very willing to do things.
Ultimately, the reason why he had opinions about me before was because I didn't pay enough attention to him. To put it more seriously, I didn't respect him enough.
The relationship between people is sometimes very strange. We may meet some people every day but remain strangers to each other all our lives, while there are some people who will become friends immediately even though it is the first time we meet. Today, our guests
We were all a little reserved with each other at the beginning, but after I suggested having a few drinks, we quickly became familiar with each other. The reason for this is that on the one hand, everyone is from the university, or has something to do with the university.
People with connections, so they have a common language with each other. In addition, there is a more important factor, that is, these people are leaders. There is always some reason for a person to sit in such a position. Relationship is one aspect, at least
They should also have the ability, not to mention that these people have seen a lot of the world, so it is not difficult to break their reserve, and these people all have extraordinary communication skills, because everyone is a person who mixes in the scene. Therefore, it is not difficult to break the reserve.
After a while, our atmosphere became heated.
Leaders of colleges and universities also drink, and they may drink more boldly. However, leaders of colleges and universities are senior intellectuals after all, so they will not shout or punch like some people in society.
In short, the effect of the late-night snack I arranged was very good, at least it quickly brought us closer to each of our guests. However, I insisted on not talking about the symposium on such an occasion.
Specific matters, because this matter is tomorrow's task.
We drank until midnight, and then the group returned to the hotel happily and contentedly.
After returning to the room, I first took a shower and turned on the TV when I came out. I didn't want to go to bed right away because I had to completely empty out the beer, otherwise I would definitely have a lot of dreams at night. I got up again and again to go to the toilet.
It would be strange if you don’t have many dreams.
I used to be a doctor and know that five minutes of deep sleep can be equivalent to an hour of light sleep, so I don't mind wasting such a little time.
Suddenly I heard someone knocking on the door, and I was very surprised: Who else came to see me so late? So I went to the peephole and looked outside, and found that it was Ruan Jie standing outside.
What happened to her? I was very confused. I immediately opened the door, but did not invite her into the room. I just asked her: "Director Ruan, is there anything urgent?"
Only then did I realize that her hair was wet, her skin was made whiter by her wet hair, and I smelled an intoxicating aroma wafting from her body, and her beautiful face was so attractive.
I felt intoxicated. After I drank wine today, I immediately felt that I could not resist the charm she displayed.
She was looking at me, and I found that her eyes were as clear as water, and her dark pupils reminded me of those innocent female students. What's even more terrible was the seductive and charming look in her eyes. She was looking
He smiled at me and said, "Director Feng, I couldn't sleep, so I wanted to come and talk to you. Can I come in?"
I clearly felt that she gave me an irresistible power, but I still tried my best to restrain myself, "Director Ruan, there will be another meeting tomorrow. Let's try another day. Okay?"
The smile on her face disappeared in an instant, and then she showed a faint sad expression. She said: "Director Feng, I know you went to Director Leng today, and I want to talk to you about something. We
Don't stand at the door and talk, okay? Others can easily misunderstand."
Under such circumstances, I could no longer shut her out again, because I found that her attitude was very determined. To be honest, I didn't want others to misunderstand her.
So I turned around and sat down on the sofa. When I turned around, I said to him: "Please come in."
She came in, and then I heard the sound of the door being closed. With the slight sound of the door being closed, my heart suddenly trembled.
"Please sit down." I calmed down and said to her immediately. I was wearing underwear. After that night, I didn't dare to sleep naked anymore. Now it seems that I am really prescient.
She sat down, sitting on the edge of the bed.
I don't want to wait for her to speak first, I hope to end our conversation as soon as possible, because I can't trust my ability to restrain myself. It's not that I'm thinking randomly, but I have analyzed something that she will probably use some way to seal it off
My mouth, because she can't completely trust me, just like why Director Leng called me in today.
I said: "Ruan Jie, Director Leng did call me today, and I guess you told him that I have completed today's reception task, right?"
She nodded.
I looked at her and saw a blush on her face. I quickly looked away and continued: "Actually, you should know what Director Leng and I talked about. Maybe he won't tell you the details.
, but you now know a little bit about my attitude, right? So, I don’t think we need to talk about this matter anymore. Ruan Jie, to be honest, what I hope for now is to let myself forget that matter, completely
I will forget about it. Maybe you don’t know me very well, but I hope you believe me. I will definitely not talk about that matter. I did that that night, which is actually complete.
I have made my attitude clear. Do you think so?"
She nodded.
I immediately breathed a long sigh of relief, "Okay. You should go to bed early. It's getting late, and there are things to do tomorrow."
But she suddenly came to look at me and said, "Director Feng, don't you want to know why I want to be with him?"
Who says I don't want to know? It's just that I don't want to cause more trouble. I said to her in my heart. I shook my head, "Ruan Jie, I am not interested in other people's privacy."
She had no intention of leaving immediately, "...Director Feng, I know that from now on you will look down on me from the bottom of your heart. Right? In this case, I might as well not have come to the Provincial Admissions Office in the first place.
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To be honest, what she said is correct. Now that I know what kind of person she is, I will definitely despise her deep in my heart. Men and women are different. Men can allow themselves
He makes such a mistake, but he cannot tolerate women being the same as him. If a man makes such a mistake by his own wife, it will never be forgiven, but for other women, he will at least have
Contempt from the bottom of my heart. And when that happens to me, the most I can do is feel guilty.
The biggest difference between men and women is that men basically have affairs just for fun. This is the biggest secret in most men’s hearts. This secret is very cruel to women, so many women who are involved in the whirlpool of affairs end up having affairs.
Everyone will be disappointed because of this. Women understand life by feeling, and their understanding of love is based on men’s actions. The structure of women’s brains makes it impossible for them to use logical thinking to analyze the truth and falsehood of things, so as long as men do a little
Strategies and a little action will make women take out their hearts. In addition, in the hearts of men, it is absolutely impossible to use their sincerity to collect or truly love an affair woman. Even if the IQ is not very high,
Men, when they treat a woman with whom they have an affair, they will not truly believe her. In the hearts of many men, on the one hand, they play with women's bodies like children who like toys, and on the other hand, they can't help but think of the things in front of them.
In fact, this woman is not a good thing. They always say to themselves: Even if I don’t touch her, she will let other men touch her. She and I are just an opportunity in time and place. If it were another person,
In a certain space or time, she would definitely be another man's doll. For a man, an affair can at best be a kind of physiological consumption in a leisurely and leisurely situation, rather than something he does with his heart. A man is most sincere to a woman from the bottom of his heart.
His love is to marry this woman as his wife. Therefore, since ancient times, many women have been able to forgive men for cheating. This is unreasonable. Because most men have true love for their wives, but this does not prevent them from still cheating.
However, men cannot forgive women for cheating. On the surface, this seems to be unfair to women. They think that men in the world are too stingy and not as magnanimous as women. In fact, this is not the case. Women’s cheating has the biggest relationship with men.
The difference is: women cheat with intention. Once they cheat, they devote themselves wholeheartedly to the relationship and give everything they have. Therefore, once a woman cheats and has an affair, all men of Chinese origin cannot forgive the woman in their hearts.
To use an inappropriate metaphor: If a woman is compared to a pot of porridge or soup, and different men are rice or grains with different smells. If another man pours his own special smell of rice or grains into this pot, you will
No matter how much you clean and filter it, it is no longer the original flavor. It is like a clear water tank mixed with a strange smell, and no matter how hard you try, it is difficult to remove the smell. Another man's stuff is injected into a woman's body, and it mixes with the blood to remove it.
If it is not clean, it is better to change the soup. And even if a man's grain is sown in other pots or fields, it is at best a waste. He can look back and understand his waste, so he can work harder and produce more.
Throw some into your own field, and your pot will still be as fresh and tasty. It is not a big problem and can be forgiven. Therefore, whether a man is willing to take this woman home as his wife is the only way to distinguish a man's true love.
The most effective way to pretend.
Although I already realized that her worries were reasonable, I was unwilling to admit it in front of her. I said: "Ruan Jie, work is work, and I will not get involved in dealing with work issues."
It’s about personal emotions. It’s getting late, so you should go and rest early.”
But she was shaking her head, "Director Feng, I haven't had a good rest for two nights. If I can't tell you something clearly today, I'm worried that I will go crazy. Just listen to me, okay?
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At this point, she began to cry.
I immediately softened my heart and said, "Okay. You say."
The author's digression:
Today: "Road to Revenge: Beauty Plays in Officialdom"
Mi Tao, who gave up her first love and became the secretly married daughter-in-law of the director of the Provincial People's Congress, secretly had an affair with the gang boss Chen Guangyou, which not only led to Chen Guangyou's mysterious death, but also caused the mayor Jiang Guodong, the city prosecutor Zhao Xiangjun, the director of the Provincial People's Congress Ma Weiguo and Chen Guangyou's ex-wife Zhong Tianhong to...
Old love Ouyang Piaoxue and other bizarre characters fell into a situation of no return, but she herself rose rapidly thereafter and became an important non-official figure in G Province.
Who is the power behind this little woman? Only Peach himself, who is laughing wildly in secret, knows.
When your first love comes back to look for her, do you return to your true nature? Or do you continue to be ups and downs?
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