Zhong Feng is very aggressive in doing things. She bought the plane ticket on the afternoon of the second day after I talked with Ruan Jie. (.om plain text) In fact, I also want to leave as soon as possible, so that I can temporarily avoid a lot of troubles.
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Zhong Feng told me that we had to take a plane to Shenzhen first, then take a fast boat to Hong Kong Airport, and then take an Emirates Airline flight to Vienna, the capital of Austria, after arriving at Shenzhen Airport. She also told me that this time we
You can go out on your own without joining a tour group.
I also think this is the best way to be free.
That afternoon, I called Ruan Jie until I couldn't help myself. To be honest, just when I was about to tell her what happened, her beauty still gave me some hesitation.[
She is indeed so beautiful, the kind of beauty that won't make people tired. Especially her eyes are always sparkling, which always makes people involuntarily think about her.
Then I finally spoke, "Let me ask you something. How is your relationship with your husband lately?"
She looked at me in shock, "Why did you suddenly ask me such a question?"
I ignored her rhetorical question and continued to say to her: "I am asking you a question. You answer me first."
Her eyes were full of suspicion, but she immediately answered my question, "He's not like that. He plays cards outside every day and barely cares about things at home."
There is a question that I have always wanted to ask her but never asked her. Then I asked, "He doesn't go to work? Does he make a living playing cards?"
She still had that confused look on her face, "Yeah. He doesn't seem to have lost much money playing cards. That's how he uses it to anesthetize himself all day long. In fact, I know that he is very miserable in his heart, so he just uses it to escape reality. So I
I have always had a sympathy for him. Maybe it is because of this that I can't bear to divorce him. Of course, children are also a very important reason. Why are you suddenly concerned about this matter today?
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I sighed: "Ruan Jie, it seems that you don't know him well. You should know that he is a man first. As a man, no matter whether he is decadent or degenerate, he still has at least dignity, and even his inner sense of dignity.
The desire is stronger than ordinary people. There is a saying that the more a person lacks something, the stronger his need for that thing will be."
She is a smart woman, and she almost understood it after listening to me talk like this. I noticed that her face suddenly turned pale.
She looked at me nervously, "Has he found out about us? Has he come to see you?"
I looked at her and said, "It seems that you still care about him. In that case, why not live a good life with him? Besides, you have children."
But she continued to ask me: "Did he really know about us?"
Now I was curious, "What would you do if he knew about me and you?"
She shook her head, "No, he can't know. He has never cared about my affairs."
At this time, I seemed to understand: There might be an element of revenge in what she did. She hated her man for not caring about her and being insensitive.
As the saying goes, because love is deep, hate will be intense. At this time, it seems that this may be the case between her and her man.
Then I said: "Your husband doesn't know what happened between you and me, but now he seems to be a little alert. Ruan Jie, this means that he still has you in his heart, or that he has grown out of that numbness.
I woke up from the state. I noticed just now that in fact you still care about him and your current family. In this case, why don’t you take the opportunity now to give him more care, encouragement and support, so that he can speed up as soon as possible
Cheer up. Wouldn't that be better?"
She suddenly asked me: "How did you know that he was alert? You don't know him. We were all together last night, but today you came to tell me such things. Why?"
One thing I know very well is that I must not let her know the source of the information that Nursery Rhyme told me. I said: "Don't worry about this matter. I must have a reliable source for this information."[
She looked at me with a kind of sadness in her eyes, "Maybe you are tired of me, that's why you talk to me like this."
I said to her sincerely: "Ruan Jie, don't you still believe me? Even if I am really tired of you, I will tell you directly. At least I think I am worthy of you, so
I don't need to go around in such a big circle. You think so? A friend of mine told me about this. But fortunately, your husband hasn't found out about you and me yet, but he has already started
I'm doubting you. Ruan Jie, no matter what, there are still some feelings between us. As for me, I feel that I should tell you this matter in time, and I also want to take this opportunity to advise you: First, if
If you still care about him and your family, you should immediately change your mind, treat him well, encourage him, and cheer him up as soon as possible. Second, if you feel that there is no need to maintain your current family.
, then you should break up with him as soon as possible, and then take the child to a new life. If the child continues to grow up in a family like yours, you should know that the child will become sensible one day, and when the time comes, he will become a child.
How big of a psychological shadow will it have on her after she understands everything? You should be very aware of this."
She was silent for a moment, and then suddenly asked me: "If I divorce him, will you marry me and accept my children?"
I was stunned for a moment, then shook my head and said: "Ruan Jie, that is impossible."
She asked me: "Why? Because I have other men in front of you?"
I shook my head and said: "Of course this is one of the reasons. You have had a relationship with those two people, and I am a member of this system. If that is really the case, where will I put my face in the future? Those two leaders also
It will be embarrassing because of this. Also, we are both in the same unit and we are both leaders here. Think about it, what will others think? Moreover, we had feelings during the process of your marriage. Also, this
The most fundamental reason is that I have no intention of getting married again. I am an unknown person, and the women I married did not end well. You should also know that my previous two wives have died.
I don’t want to harm another woman.”
At this moment, I felt very ashamed in my heart: I never thought that now I would use the death of my two wives as an excuse to get rid of women.
This seemed almost shameful. So, when I said this, I immediately felt panicked in my heart, because I suddenly remembered the look in Chenchen’s eyes, and at this moment, it seemed that that look was changing in another way.
A space is watching me, sneering and scorning me.
But at this time, I suddenly noticed that her eye circles suddenly turned red, "I, I understand."
I quickly calmed down and said to her softly: "Perhaps this matter will be good for you and your family, and of course for me and us. What do you think?"
She let out a faint sigh.
Immediately, she stood up and turned around slowly.
I immediately breathed a sigh of relief in my heart. However, I immediately saw her turning around suddenly. She was looking at me and asked: "So, should we continue the thing we said we wanted to do together?"
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In fact, I had already thought about this matter, so I immediately answered her: "Since this is the case, I don't think it is necessary. Now you need to return to your own family and give your husband more
Care and encourage him to cheer up and start his own business. You should spend more energy on this to help him. What do you think?"
She shook her head, "I understand."
Immediately, she turned around again and walked towards the door of my office. I knew that she probably misunderstood what I meant and thought that I wanted to take this opportunity to completely clear up the relationship with her. In fact, she thought that this should be the best thing to do.
Okay, I can take this opportunity to completely cut off all personal contact with her.
However, I don't know why, but I immediately said to her back: "Ruan Jie, don't worry, if you need it in the future, I will definitely try my best to help you."
She was stunned for a moment and stopped, but her back was still turned to me, "Thank you."
Then, she went to open the door of my office, and her figure disappeared outside the door in an instant. At this moment, I felt completely relaxed, and at the same time, I actually felt a sense of loss.
But then I thought: This is for the best. Although she is very beautiful, she is not my woman. She has her own family, and there was a mistake between me and her. I helped her and got her back.
I got the bracelet that her mother gave her, so I am not ashamed of her.
No matter, this is the best. Even if she is a passer-by in my life, or it can be said to be a fragment of a beautiful dream in my life, now that I have woken up, she should also leave this fragment of my dream.
Get out, disappear...
I also did one thing before leaving, which was to initially find a suitable place for Chenchen to open a music bar.[
After Ruan Jie left my office, I called Principal Wu after sighing. I asked him if he was free now. I said I wanted to visit him. He smiled and said, "You must have something to do with me."
Right? Just say it directly on the phone."
In fact, I had a lazy idea, because among the relationships in colleges and universities, only those from the Medical University had a ready-made relationship. Although the leaders of several other colleges and universities knew each other due to work relationships, they were far less loyal than Principal Wu and I.
.In order to let Chenchen’s affairs be implemented as soon as possible, I chose to take this shortcut.
Then I told him that Chenchen wanted to open a music bar. Of course, I just said that Chenchen was a junior of a friend of mine, and the matter was entrusted to me, so I thought of finding such a place in the Medical University.
most.
After hearing this, Principal Wu said: "It's not a serious matter. I'll ask the logistics before we talk. Okay?"
But I thought he was talking official talk to me, so I said: "Principal Wu, I am very urgent about this matter. I will go abroad for inspection tomorrow, and you'd better help me implement it today. I'll treat you to dinner tonight.
Okay? I'll come over now and come directly to your office to get the final news."
He laughed, "Aren't you cheating? Well, come on. I haven't seen you for a long time. You, I really can't do anything to you."
I laugh too.
I didn't tell him the truth just now, because I know that the Medical University and Jiangnan Group are now closely connected, and the Jiangnan Group is still involved in the construction of the Medical University University Town project. Now that Secretary Zhang has lost power, he will do things as Lin Yi has always done
In terms of style, he will definitely establish the same relationship with Principal Wu as with Secretary Zhang.
Going abroad for inspection is a normal thing for people of my level and the province recruits this kind of unit. Principal Wu will not have any doubts about it. {Free novel}
Now Lin Yi has basically stopped contacting me. I guess he is currently having a heated fight with Xia Lan. So he has no time and energy to pay attention to my affairs. What's more, he and Xia Lan may be avoiding meeting me.
.This is good, because I can be out of sight and out of mind.
Soon I arrived at the Medical University. When I arrived at President Wu's office, I found that his office was different from before. It must have been renovated. The furnishings inside have changed, giving people a brand new feeling, and
The area of his office seems to be larger than before.
"Hey! Principal Wu, you have changed a shotgun for a cannon. This office is so beautiful." I couldn't help but admire it after entering.
He said with a smile: "I renovated the entire administrative building some time ago. Our office conditions used to be so bad that even a guest would make people feel ashamed. In the past, our office didn't look like a university. It was simply...
Township government offices are as shabby as they come. Now I have converted the three offices into two, so they look much more comfortable."
I looked at it again and thought it was really good, "It is indeed much more beautiful now, and it also has a bookish atmosphere. The row of bookshelves in your office are so beautiful, like the office of a university president." Then I saw the top view behind him.
The banner said, "Principal Wu, the banner you have above is quite new. It only has the word '人'. Did you write it yourself?"
He laughed and said: "How can I write so well? Our school Youth League Committee invited a calligrapher from the Provincial Calligraphy Association to give a lecture, and I asked him to help me write such a word."
I was very surprised, "Why is it just such a word? Is there anything special about it?"
He sighed and said: "In recent times, violent incidents involving college students have occurred one after another. These incidents have exposed the abuse of violence by college students, their extreme methods, their lack of legal concepts, their arbitrary actions, and even their dehumanization and massacre of living beings. Blood is in their eyes."
It's not a bloody disaster. Once upon a time, the pure land of education and the palace of civilization, where people preached, taught, and solved doubts under the ivory tower, turned out to be so deformed. Alas... So recently, I have begun to seriously reflect on our education itself.
, reflect on the deficiencies in the concept of higher education.”
After hearing what he said, I was very interested, because what he said is indeed true. Recently, the media has reported many incidents of violence against college students across the country. For example: In a classroom at a university, when a class was about to start, suddenly several people were holding kitchen knives.
College students rushed into the classroom and slashed a student, causing the student's carotid artery and cervical vertebra to be severed, and he later died. In another university, several girls had a conflict over a trivial matter. During the fight, one of them
The female student suddenly pulled out the dagger from her body and stabbed six girls in a row. Then there was news about a small misunderstanding caused by missing underwear, which finally escalated into a vicious school violence case: This school violence case
The incident occurred at a university in the south. The incident occurred after 11 o'clock in the night. More than ten students surrounded the victim and beat him continuously. The violence lasted for more than five hours and lasted until 4 o'clock in the morning the next day. During this period,
The victim was first beaten and kicked by her classmates and roommates, and then leftover instant noodle soup was poured on her head, and someone wrote vicious insults on her face with an eyebrow pencil. It made her even more shocked.
What the victim couldn't predict was that the perpetrator imitated the "perverted group fight" video that appeared on the Internet and forced the victim to take off his clothes and expose his body in the presence of boys. At that moment, the mobile phone carried by the perpetrator
, with the V camera flashing, they told the victim in a stern voice: These ** photos would be posted on QQ space. More than a month later, the ten people had changed from students to criminal suspects and were arrested by the procuratorate;
Several murder cases of college students, etc.
So I asked: "What is the connection between these cases and the word '人'?"
He said: "This is actually a lack of psychological crisis intervention on campus. On the surface, we attach great importance to students' mental health, but in fact, the defense line of mental health on campus is very fragile. The continuous occurrence of violent incidents in recent years is related to these few years.
It has something to do with the annual enrollment expansion. With more college students, it becomes more difficult to find a job. Moreover, there are more students and fewer teachers in the school, and many managements have become rough management. In addition, this also shows that there are some problems in our education system. But simply put the root causes of these tragedies
It is not objective enough to blame the education system. The examination-oriented education that is currently commonly practiced does have many drawbacks, but it is undeniable that this education model has its rationality at present. In fact, the biggest drawback of our country’s education system is not
Whether it is exam-oriented education lies in the lack of a diverse evaluation system. Today is a period of social transformation, and the pain of this transition period is somewhat long. It is inevitable that some people have been confused and confused, and there is a lingering feeling.
Violence. Although there are hundreds of universities in China, the universities where violent incidents occurred are only a few, and the perpetrators are only a few college students. However, we cannot take it lightly just because it is a minority and an individual. The campus is a small society, and various phenomena in universities
It is the projection of social phenomena on university campuses. However, we also know that universities are not only the high ground of knowledge, but also the high ground of morality and civilization. The college students we train should not only be intellectual elites, but also moral models. From this
From a perspective, universities have become fighting arenas. Even though it is only an isolated case, it is already a burden that the university cannot bear. Therefore, rather than seeing it as an isolated case, it is more of a serious challenge to the ideological and political education work of universities, middle schools and even primary schools."
I nodded, "You're absolutely right."
He continued: "In the final analysis, this is a problem: the strengthening of the individual consciousness of college students today has posed a serious challenge to our previous education form. In universities, naturally, students are becoming more and more difficult to manage and disobedient. This is
Because our education ignores a fundamental content, human education.”
I deeply agree. I never imagined that such a university president who likes to associate with powerful people and has a huge desire for power would have time to think about such a problem. You know, what he just talked about is the true meaning of education that we need most today. So,
I think he is a man of conscience.
The bureaucracy in colleges and universities today is extremely serious, and is even getting worse. Leaders of colleges and universities are appointed by the organization department from above, and they must have connections to sit in such positions. Moreover, there is a very ridiculous person in colleges and universities.
Phenomenon: As long as a person sits in a certain position, his academic level will immediately improve many times, his former associate professor title will immediately become a full professor, and his identity as a master's tutor will immediately transform into a doctoral supervisor. More
What's more, if a university leader does not have any professional knowledge, he will start with management to obtain a senior professional title and the status of a master's or doctoral supervisor. This phenomenon is very common in universities across the country.
To be honest, I admire these people very much. For myself, although I have many years of clinical experience, published many papers, and have scientific research projects, in my heart I do not think that I am qualified.
I am a master's tutor, so this is also the reason why I have been hesitant to recruit graduate students, because I feel ashamed of my level in this area. I really admire some people, because they can enjoy such shamelessly
Sometimes I feel very strange: What useful things will they give to their master’s professors?
Therefore, today's universities are also places where power speaks. Academics are no longer pure, but have become another halo of power.
In short, the point is that today’s university leaders are very realistic. They spend most of their time on political tactics and adopt bureaucratic methods in daily management. However, those who really think about educational issues are very
, very few. As the director of the Provincial Admissions Office, if I purely look at my job, I should agree with the expansion of college enrollment. But after all, I am also a former education studio, so I am very worried about what will happen after the enrollment expansion.
A series of problems, because our current education system and educational philosophy simply cannot keep up.
I doubt that truly qualified talents can be educated in today's university environment. Because of this, I think President Wu's philosophy is even more valuable. I am thinking: In today's universities, people like him are
There are not many people who can still maintain the conscience of an educator. Therefore, I immediately had a true respect for him from the bottom of my heart.
While we were talking, someone knocked on the door and came in. It was a middle-aged man in his forties.
"Director Feng, this is the logistics director of our school." Principal Wu introduced immediately.
The director of the logistics department was reporting to Principal Wu, "Principal Wu, after you called me, I immediately asked someone to look for it. The commercial facades in the school must be gone now. Those facades were only rented out again this year.
,The contract period is two years.”
Principal Wu's expression suddenly changed, "Since it's gone, why are you here? Didn't I tell you? We must find it."
I immediately felt that these two people were acting, but I knew that such a thing was not big in the first place, and it might be really troublesome to ask Principal Wu to act. So I said: "Forget it. I will go to other universities to watch."
look."
But Principal Wu said: "No. Your brother asked me to handle such a small matter. If I can't handle it well, wouldn't I be laughed at?" Then he looked at the director and said, "You said, there are other ways.
No?"
The director smiled flatteringly and said: "Principal Wu, you interrupted me before I finished speaking. It's like this. There is a warehouse in the teacher's dormitory area behind our school. It was originally used to store students' used items.
The tables and stools in the student dormitory are now equipped with matching tables and chairs, so there is no need to repair it as often as before. The place is not bad, at least more than 300 square meters. After simple cleaning and decoration, it will be very good.
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Principal Wu asked: "Where is it specifically?"
The director said: "It is a relatively separate place between the classroom dormitory and the teaching area."
After hearing this, I immediately had a general impression, "Well, could you please take me to see it?"
Principal Wu said: "Let me go and have a look together."
Immediately, we went to that place together.
This is a small hill. There is a row of bungalows on the lower hill. They look pretty good. They are the kind of buildings from the 1950s and 1960s, with red bricks and black tiles, and a simple architectural style.
When I got there, the director opened the door, and I found that there were a lot of old tables and chairs piled inside, making the room look very messy. But this place is really good, it just needs to be painted and some tables and chairs purchased. Of course,
Lighting is very important.
The best thing about this place is that it is located between the teaching area and the family area, and it is relatively independent and quiet. It would be very suitable to open a music bar in such a place.
So I felt very satisfied. So I asked the director: "If you want to rent this place, I'm talking about everything here. How much is the annual rent?"
The director went to look at Principal Wu.
Principal Wu smiled and said: "Charge whatever you want. The purpose of setting up a music bar is to enrich our students' second classroom. The rent should not be too high. If the rent is high, the cost will be high, and it will be difficult for students to consume. In this way, it will be difficult for students to spend money."
It won’t last long. Let’s just say it’s about two thousand yuan a year.”
I didn't expect that Principal Wu would offer such a discount. You know, if you open a small restaurant in such a place, the annual rent will be at least 50,000 yuan. I said hurriedly: "Principal Wu, this price is too low and others will gossip.
Yes. I think it should be executed according to the minimum market price. What do you think?"
Principal Wu laughed loudly, "Director Feng is so enlightened. How can you be like this? You go shopping, and someone says it costs one yuan per catty, but do you want to sell it for two yuan? Haha!"
I also laughed, "Principal Wu, I am telling the truth. I am very grateful to you for helping me find this place. If the rent is too low, others will gossip about you."
Principal Wu said: "Who would gossip about me? I said, this is to enrich the students' second classroom. When the time comes, just ask your friend to hang up the sign of the Youth League Committee Activity Center of the school. I will say hello to the Youth League Committee.
that is."
I thought this was a good idea, as it not only gave me a way of saying it, but also made it easier for the music bar to survive in the future. So I kept thanking Principal Wu. Principal Wu then said to the director: "That's it, send someone to clean up this place as soon as possible."
Clean it up, remove all the weeds around here, and plant some trees. I didn’t know there was such a blind spot on campus. What do you think this mess looks like?"
The director promised repeatedly.
I couldn't help but thank him in my heart. I know that he did this to make the environment here better. But it is not convenient for me to express my gratitude here.
Then Principal Wu asked the director to leave. Then I started to keep thanking him. He waved his hand to me and said, "You're welcome, what's our relationship? It's such a small thing, it's very simple."
I immediately laughed and said, "Principal Wu, let me give you a suggestion."
He looked at me with a smile, "Oh? Tell me quickly."
I smiled and said: "Principal Wu, you are usually too serious with your subordinates. Look at the director just now, he was so frightened by you that he almost couldn't speak clearly."
After hearing this, he was startled and then laughed.
"Which country are you going to? Are you leaving tomorrow?" He then asked me.
I nodded, "Go to Europe. The current inspection is mainly about tourism. Don't you think so?"
He laughed again, "Well, let me treat you tonight. I invited the district chief where our school is located to dinner today to discuss our purchase of several pieces of land outside the school."
I hurriedly said: "Forget it. I said I'm here to invite you. Let's talk about it after I get back. By the way, since you are going to move to a university town in the future, why do you want to buy land nearby?
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He said: "As you can see, with the development of the city, our land is becoming more and more valuable. I do not intend to give up here in the future. This place in the school can be used for future intern accommodation, because
Our teaching hospitals are all located in the urban area, so that it is convenient for students to practice in the future. In addition, our master's and doctoral teaching points should also be placed here. Our campus is still too small, so I hope that in my area
We can try to expand the campus as much as possible. Anyway, the current land price is not particularly high."
I couldn't help but give him a thumbs up, "Principal Wu, you are really thinking long-term. This is a century-old plan."
He smiled and said: "Thank you brother for your praise. I like to do practical things. My purpose of seizing power is different from that of some people. Some people do it to satisfy their own selfish desires. I do it to do as much as possible for the future of the school."
Things. Haha! Of course, I also want my personal values and ideals to be reflected."
I said sincerely: "Principal Wu, you are at a level that many of us should learn from."
He laughed, and then said to me in a low voice: "Mr. Zhang recently sent a report to the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee and asked to step down."
I was very surprised, "Why? Isn't his age not yet reached?"
He said: "He doesn't have much fun being the party secretary now. If I were him, I would ask my superiors like this. He is a professional. If he retires now, he can not only enjoy the current treatment, but also return to his job."
If he continues to work in the previous department or visit outpatient clinics, wouldn't his life be better than what he has now?"
I couldn't help but sigh, "It seems that he has indeed figured it out. I'll go see him later. Anyway, he and I have been friends for many years, so I should go see him now."
He nodded, "That's true. By the way, I have already considered Wang Xin's matter and will go to the Standing Committee to study it recently."
I thanked him again, but suddenly I found that he was looking at me hesitant to speak, and suddenly I understood: I mean, he was so enthusiastic about such a small thing like me today, and he even accompanied me personally.
I came to a place like this. Thinking of this, I said, "If Secretary Zhang retires, won't the secretary's seat become vacant? You are now the principal, and the position of deputy secretary of the party committee is naturally yours."
He immediately came and patted me on the shoulder, "Brother, you are really my soulmate. I need you to put in a good word for me in front of Minister Lin about this matter."
I said: "Governor He also needs you to do some work. After all, she is the leader in charge."
He shook his head and said: "Governor He is a relatively low-key person. As long as she is determined by the Provincial Party Committee Organization Department, she will not object under normal circumstances."
I said, "Really? That's good. Okay, I'll tell my sister before I go out. Anyway, this matter of yours is just natural, it's not a big deal."
He looked very happy and said, "Brother, you might as well go drinking with me tonight. The district mayor is also a generous person, and you will definitely hit it off right away."
I hurriedly said: "Forget it for today. I have to leave tomorrow, and I have to go home to prepare today. By the way, Principal Wu, I will ask my friend to come directly to you then. She is the girl who is going to rent this place."
He said boldly: "No problem."
Then I actually went to Secretary Zhang’s office.
When I walked in, he was a little surprised, "Xiao Feng, you are a rare visitor? Why did you suddenly think of coming to my place today?"
I said: "I came here to do some errands today and stopped by to see you."
Only then did I realize that his temples had turned gray and he looked very old. I couldn't help but sigh in my heart: How strong was this man once? But now he has become like this. It can be seen from this that
Good flowers don't always bloom, good times don't always last. Everyone will go through such a process. Even the strongest leader will have to retreat one day. At that time, it will be regarded as withdrawing from the stage of history, and it will not be many years later.
Will be forgotten by people. So I couldn't help but ask him: You were so strong at that time, why did you bother?
Of course, I can only keep this thought in my heart.
He asked me to sit down and said, "Xiao Feng, to be honest, I really didn't expect you to come see me. Have you heard about me?"
I nodded, "I just heard it just now."
He smiled and said: "Do you sympathize with me? Do you think I have been so strong all my life but now I left in despair?"
I shook my head and said, "Aren't you despondent? It's because you don't want to do it, right?"
But he sighed: "Almost. Hey! Now I have figured it out. This is how people live their lives. After one generation has finished its work, it has to give up its place to the next generation. This is a law of nature, and everyone must obey this.
law."
I didn’t expect him to be able to think this way, “Secretary Zhang, will you go back to work in the hospital in the future?”
He smiled and said, "Yeah. It's good to go to the ward for check-ups and outpatient clinics occasionally. If you like it, you can go abroad to read poetry. How nice is that?"
I was stunned for a moment, "Shiyu, is she, is she okay?"
He glanced at me and said, "He has now found the son of a local overseas Chinese and is preparing to get married. Xiao Feng, it was my fault before. Things like marriage cannot be forced. Unfortunately, I couldn't understand it at that time. Feng Xiao
, please understand a father's feelings for his daughter. Hey, now I have understood it, but I no longer have the lofty ideals I once had. People, this life is actually very simple. When I was young, I had to
To look far, you have to have grand goals in life, not to care about the small gains in front of you, and not to be burdened by the small things in front of you; when you are middle-aged, you have to see through. The phenomena are complicated, and you must learn to see the essence through the phenomena.
, this is an ability and a unique vision. Now I have to take it lightly. Put fame and wealth aside, look down on the complexity of the world, be calm and calm, and do what you want. Human life is actually that simple.
I just came to this world and did what I should do. Now that my work is done, I should leave my post and enjoy my old age."
To be honest, I was very touched by his words, because I completely believed they came from his heart. I said: "Secretary Zhang, let's find a place to sit down tonight and call Wang Xin."
But he shook his head and said: "No need. Now I feel that it is most comfortable to go home and eat the food cooked by my wife every day. Wang Xin... he is still very young. From now on, he can walk his own path. You
Same thing."
He has really changed and become so calm.
In fact, I still admire him very much. In any case, he has finally safely concluded his career and can enjoy his old age safely. This is not something everyone can do. He used to
He moved forward forcefully, but now he was able to retreat decisively. This is not something everyone can do.
He is right, life is actually very simple, that is, it is just a trip to this world. Although everyone takes a different path, some people may be very successful, some people may be very unsuccessful and painful, and most of them
Some people live a mediocre life, but in fact everyone has their own wonderful things.
Life is really like this.
After I left school, I called Chenchen, but as soon as I pressed the transmit button, I immediately changed my mind: I started sending her text messages. Because I didn’t want her to think that I was asking for credit and showing my love to her, and I did.
It doesn't mean that. So, I hope the words can make this matter a little more plain.
Chenchen, I have already arranged your matter for you. The place on the campus of the Medical University is not bad, I have visited it. The rent is two thousand yuan a year. You have a direct connection with President Wu of the Medical University, and I have given it to him.
It’s settled. I hope I can see your new music bar open when I return to China. I wish everything goes well.
Now, I feel like I can finally go abroad with complete confidence.
However, after sending the text message for a long time, there was no reply from her. I thought to myself: Maybe she is not satisfied with that? Or maybe she doesn’t want me to help her?
Forget it, let her do whatever she wants. Anyway, I've done everything I have to do.
When I got home, I found that my father had not come back yet. I asked my mother to call my father. I said that I had something to discuss with him. But just when my mother was about to call, I found that Chenchen had texted me back: Take me there.
Let’s take a look, okay?
I quickly stopped my mother, "I have to go out right away. Let's talk about it when I come back."
At this moment, I suddenly felt as excited and impulsive as a young man. Then I went out and drove towards Chenchen's residence.
When I drove away, I saw my mother smiling in the rearview mirror of the off-road vehicle looking at the direction I was leaving at the door of my house.
Chenchen called me again while I was driving, and she told me that she was waiting for me at the entrance of the Conservatory of Music. Sure enough, I saw her when I got there. She didn't get in the car after I pressed the horn.
Meaning, she was gesturing for me to get off.
I went down and asked, "What are you doing?"
She asked me: "You haven't eaten yet?"
I shook my head and then asked her, "What about you?"
She said: "I haven't either. Then let's eat something casually in front of the school."
I suggested to her: "Let's go find a place to eat outside the Medical University. If you like that place, you will know where to eat in the future."
She nodded, "That's fine."
Then I drove her to the Medical University. She said that she wanted to see the place first before thinking about eating. I understand her feelings and hope that this matter can be finalized as soon as possible. If she feels that it is not possible here
If so, I can find a place for her again right away.
She immediately fell in love with this place after seeing it, "This place is great. How did you find it?"
I was also very happy in my heart, "I didn't find it. I said hello to the principal here, and he asked the people below to find this place. By the way, since you think this place is good, then you can go find Principal Wu tomorrow."
Well, he said, in the future you can put up the sign of the student club under the Youth League Committee, so that you can rent this place at a low price. I think this is very good, not only will it reduce your future costs, but you can also get the minimum number of customers.
Yuan. I think at least the teachers from the Youth League Committee will frequent your place, as well as the student cadres."
But she shook her head and said: "What I need is someone who really likes music and likes to listen to me singing."
I couldn't help but smile bitterly in my heart. I found that the gap between us seemed to be here: I was too realistic, but she was too idealistic.
Then we went out to eat together. When we were outside the school gate, I called Principal Wu and said, "She came to see it just now and thought it was very good. In this case, she will come to you tomorrow and please arrange a time."
He said: "Tomorrow afternoon. I have a meeting in the morning."
Then I told Principal Wu’s words to Chenchen, but she asked me: “Are you coming tomorrow?”
I shook my head, "I'm taking a flight to Shenzhen tomorrow afternoon. It's okay, I've already arranged it for you."
She nodded.
I suddenly remembered something, "What was the name of the other three of you before? Why can't I always remember her name clearly?"
She shook her head and said: "She left a long time ago. Now I have reorganized several people who graduated from the music school. One of them works in a primary school nearby. The other two have not found jobs for the time being. I am anxious about this."
This thing also comes from the work of these two people. They will have income after the opening of this music bar."
I immediately reminded her: "You opened this music bar for your own preferences and your ideal thing. You may have to think about the problems that the three of you had in the past. Since those two people are here to have a certain income,
This will inevitably conflict with your ideas."
In fact, I only said half of what I said, but she still understood, "They all like singing. This place is bigger than before, and I believe there will be more students and teachers coming here in the future. I definitely have to consider it."
Income issue." I immediately asked her: "So, do you need money now? If so, I can lend it to you first."
She was silent for a while and then said: "No!"
She needed money, otherwise she wouldn't have been silent for so long. But she still said "no" to me. I knew that she was very wary of me.
There is a question I have never been able to ask her: Since her parents are abroad, why doesn't she go out with them? Since her parents are like that, she shouldn't be short of money?
However, her word "no" blocked my mouth tightly, making it impossible for me to ask her.
In the final analysis, this is the distance between us.
However, she has accepted my help, which is enough to make me happy.
I don’t know why I want to help her. Maybe it’s because I feel guilty about Doudou? Or maybe it’s because her eyes look so much like Zhao Menglei?
Outside the gate of the university is the busiest place within a few kilometers, because almost all of them are restaurants. Small restaurants, noodle shops, barbecue stalls, bakeries, etc., you can find whatever you want, and the most important thing is the price comparison of these restaurants.
It's cheap and is a favorite place for students who are tired of eating in the big cafeteria.
According to my observation, the outside of any university in Jiangnan Province is like this. However, game arcades are often located at the side entrance and back entrance of the university.
As long as you find the right direction, it is easy for college students to make money. This direction consists of two words: eating and playing. That is to meet their material and spiritual needs.
I think the music bar that Chenchen is planning to open should also be of a type that meets the spiritual needs of college students, but it is more elegant than the game arcade. There are tens of thousands of students of all levels in the medical university, plus
There are thousands of teachers, and 1% of them go to her to spend money every day, which is a large number.
There should be more than one percent of people in college who like music, right?
Although Chenchen is more idealistic, I still told her my analysis. The purpose is very simple, that is, I hope she can think more about the commercial nature of the music bar in the future.
But she just smiled faintly after hearing this.
I know what she is thinking, "You think I have tarnished the sacred music, don't you? But I don't think so. Look at theaters and movie theaters nowadays, where ticket prices are getting higher and higher. Appreciating art is
The same thing is that those who provide art must first survive and survive well, so that they can provide better artistic products. This is a virtuous circle. In the past, Beethoven, Chopin, etc., they were certainly
They created such high-level music in poverty, but as human beings, they failed, because I never think that a person who has trouble eating can be a success."
She immediately laughed, "This is the first time I've heard someone comment on these two great masters like this."
I also laughed and said: "I'm telling the truth. Maybe you are pursuing pure ideals, but you can't ask others to be the same as you. Everyone's pursuit is different. Some people are very ideal, and more
People are very realistic."
She asked me: "What about you? Don't you have any ideals now?"
In my heart, I felt that her question was very naive, but I still answered her, because perhaps what I lack now is such naivety. I said: "Of course I have ideals. For example, I want to come back here to bring
Graduate student, and I also have such an opportunity, because I am currently a visiting professor at this institution. But I have to be realistic, because I think a person has many choices in the process of realizing his ideals, and his own
Choosing wisely or not is ultimately a reality.”
She asked me: "Then what do you think is the wisest choice for a person?"
I replied: "It's very simple, it is the greatest expression of the value of life. Of course, the greatest expression of a person's value is also a relative concept, but I have to make it clear in one sentence. For example, a person with mediocre qualifications has experienced his
I worked hard and finally became a university professor. A singer with a poor voice finally sang songs that many audiences liked. I think this can be regarded as maximizing the value of life."
She then asked me again: "You have heard me sing, so what do you think of my voice condition?"
I was stunned immediately, and then replied: "I don't really understand, but I really like the atmosphere of your music bar. I think, for you, liking is the most important thing
.I once said that each of us has our own dreams or preferences, but not many people actually pursue their dreams and persist. I think this is the most valuable thing about you."
She was looking at me, "I understand, you mean that my voice condition is not very good, and my singing skills are not very good either? Is that true?"
Originally, her previous question was already difficult for me to answer, but I didn't expect that she would ask it more directly at this moment. But judging from the current situation, I have to answer, because at this moment, she is looking with burning eyes.
Hold me.
I smiled bitterly and said, "Do you want to hear the truth or a lie?"
Her face looked a little ugly, "Of course it's the truth."
I thought in my heart: If I really tell you the truth, then I am a standard fool. I said: "There are only a few female singers I like most, Meng Tingwei, Liu Ruoying, and...
...Haha, I can’t remember their names because I rarely listen to music, but I found that they all have one thing in common, that is, their voices are not good and their skills are not very good, but their
The voice is very pure. So is yours."
She smiled immediately, and her smile was actually very pretty, "You really know how to talk."
I immediately said to her seriously: "It's not that I can speak, that's what I think in my heart."
At this time, she suddenly said: "I heard that you are very popular with women, but now it seems that you are indeed a little different."
I didn't expect that she would suddenly say such a sentence, and of course I knew that she was definitely not praising me, because I found that the corners of her mouth on both sides were slightly upward, and she had inadvertently revealed her love for her.
My despised heart.
I felt embarrassed immediately, and she seemed to realize that she had said something she shouldn't have said. We were in an awkward situation for a while.
The place we are at is outside a Lao Duck Soup Restaurant. The restaurants here are very small, so most of the tables are placed on the sidewalk outside. People who come here to eat are not particular about the environment, and this
The air outside is not bad. The old duck soup we ate was stewed with pickled cabbage and duck, and it tasted very good. We were chatting while eating just now, but now we suddenly became silent, and she also
So I started to drink soup to hide my embarrassment.
I went to see the people eating in this area, and the men and women walking by the road from time to time.
Suddenly, I noticed a couple in the distance walking towards my direction. The woman vaguely seemed to be Udon Mei, and her hand was held in the arm of the young man beside her.
It really seems like it's her...
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