I think there is no need for Lin Yi to tell me like this. His meaning is very obvious, that is, he hints that I should not get involved with Xia Lan, because Xia Lan belongs to him.
This was the first time I saw her smoking. I don’t know who I heard once saying that a woman who smokes will never be without scars. I think a woman who has not been hurt will not fall in love with cigarettes. I don’t know if she likes it.
I still like the smell of cigarettes.
To be precise, smoking is not a physiological need, but a psychological need. The vitality of smoke is short-lived, and the vitality of all ecstasy things is short-lived. Most women who smoke are beautiful and sad.
Behind the strong appearance there must be a fragile heart.
Others have said that a woman who does not smoke is like a blush, while a woman who smokes is like a mandala. A woman who smokes has a cold heart like a soaring flower.
Some people have also said that love is a kind of harm, but women find happiness in harm. In fact, cigarettes are also a kind of harm, but at the same time, cigarettes can make women forget the harm.
She in front of me put out the cigarette butt and lit another one, but she didn't smoke again, she just watched it burning quietly. I noticed that at this time, a moist crystal was flowing out of the corner of her eyes.
I watched the light smoke of the cigarette flying into the air, and then disappeared into the air. It gradually left no trace, but there was a faint aromatic smell in the air.
Her slender fingers went to the ashtray and elegantly put out the almost burned out cigarette. Then she raised her head and looked at me and smiled, "Actually, I don't know if I really like it anymore."
I fell in love with him. However, he was very nice to me. Really nice. He was considerate to me. He didn’t look like a man who was nearly fifty years old at all. He treated his feelings exactly like a little boy. No matter what
No matter where I went, he would have people send me flowers every day. The most touching thing is that when I went to Japan last month for location shooting, he would have people send me flowers without a break.
To be honest, he is the best man I have ever met in my life. I am very touched."
I sighed in my heart, because I know one thing: what women fear most is to be moved. Sometimes a woman's request is actually very simple, a word of love, a warm gesture, a cheap gift...anything will do.
Let her endure all the suffering in the world with the man she loves, and take pleasure in suffering. To put it bluntly, what women fear most is being moved.
Most men are actually very careless. It seems that men are always much smarter than women. In fact, many times, once a woman catches a man’s carefulness, she will be moved by him immediately.
Every time after saying goodbye, the man would hold her tightly in his arms and stare into her eyes silently, as if letting go would lead to the end of the world. Every time at this time, she would always feel like a deer in her heart, hoping that it would be the end of the world.
Being held like this forever. A hug without desire is the most touching. To borrow Archimedes' theory: Give me a hug, and I can have all your love.
If two people have not yet reached the stage of intimacy. If she secretly cries in her seat while traveling together, it will not be too embarrassing if the man quietly pulls up his clothes and turns off the small light to let her vent her heart. When she is in a mood
After a sudden change of scenery, you will immediately recognize that this man is a trustworthy person. Therefore, love is important, but respecting a woman's feelings and dignity is more important than blind and subjective love. "Pure text first release"
The man was so busy in the office that he was sweating, but she was chatting and laughing with her friends. On the phone, she said: Those women blamed me for not buying banana smoothie. Without saying anything, you put down what you were doing and took a taxi to Starbucks. When a man
When a banana smoothie is delivered to a group of women, she will not only feel honored, but also shocked. If you really love her, you don’t necessarily have to fall in love with the crow on her roof. If a man treats her family and friends as his own
, women will also take action when their hearts are moved, and they are no different from the man's relatives and friends.
Two people are wandering around the book market. The man suddenly stops in front of the tool bookshelf and searches for a book meticulously. His serious eyes are shining with the light of wisdom. At this time, the woman can't help but feel excited. Many women like to read books at work.
Men, when a man is working, he has a nail-like strength in his body, which triggers a woman's reverie, and she will think: How wonderful it would be if she used this concentration to love me!
Before eating, the man scraped off the crumbs from the bamboo chopsticks; while drinking soup, the man brushed her long hair behind her ears; after the steamed fish was served, the man helped her remove the fish bones, and then she was satisfied.
Watching her enjoy the meal... A trivial man may be said by his friends to be like an old woman, but he is worried that women will think that this man is a good man worth marrying in the world. The man's trivial love behavior permeates the mother
How can a woman not be moved by such insignificance?
Therefore, now I am absolutely sure of one thing: Xia Lan has actually been moved by Lin Yi in her heart, and her heart should already belong to Lin Yi. Maybe she doesn't fully know it herself.
I then said to her softly: "Xia Lan, maybe he is the Mr. Right you have been looking for for many years. Life is actually very simple. As a woman, career is important, but being truly liked is the most important thing.
It’s important, you say, right?”
But she immediately looked at me and said, "I understand, you have never really liked me. Is that right?"
Her words made me seem to understand: Maybe she still has the last glimmer of hope for me. Of course, this is just my personal guess. But I don’t want that to happen again, because I can’t give her what Lin Yi can give
Those things about her, including the emotions that Lin Yi could give her.
I looked at her with a sincere expression, "Xia Lan, you have to think clearly. There is a kind of man that many women find difficult to meet in their lifetime, so once you do, you should cherish it. The abbot of Kuchan Temple
We have already predicted your emotional destination, which shows that your emotional destination is destined by God. We humans are very small, and the only thing we should do is to obey God's destiny."
I believe that it is impossible for Xia Lan to know that the abbot was cheating at that time, so I think that using superstitious methods to persuade her may be the best way. Most women are more superstitious, especially those in the entertainment industry.
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Sure enough, she immediately said: "Yes. It was also because of that incident that I accepted Lin Yi's pursuit. That time, he drove after me as soon as I arrived in Jiangbei, and then went directly to the set to find me. Right there
That day, he invited everyone on the crew to dinner, and told the director on the spot that the next film must be based on a classic script, the male lead must be a first-line star, and the female lead must be me. He was willing to make all the investments.
One million is fine, or tens of millions are fine. At that time, everyone on the crew looked at me with envy. Feng Xiao, it’s not that I pay too much attention to my career, or that I need face, but that I felt his sincerity towards me.
.That’s why I quickly agreed to spend some time with him.”
I immediately understood the process, and I thought it was indeed similar to what I had analyzed. For a man like Lin Yi, if he really falls in love with a woman, no matter how beautiful or noble the woman is, it is
It is difficult to resist his kind of attack. One is because he is too rich, and the other is that his attack method is very direct. The combination of the two will allow him to be simple and effective.
After all, Lin Yi still treats his feelings in a business way: he can do anything for a certain purpose.
Such a man is very scary for a woman, and at the same time very lucky. If this man is too sentimental, then the woman he pursues will be terrifying. But Lin Yi is not that kind of man, so for Xia Lan
It's a kind of luck.
I nodded, "It seems that he really likes you. Is what I said before correct?"
She came to look at me, her face flushed, "Feng Xiao, he and I have never had that kind of relationship. Do you believe it?"
I was stunned for a moment, but then I understood the meaning of her words: she was telling me that she, Xia Lan, was not that kind of casual woman.
When I understood the true meaning of her words, I immediately said: "Xia Lan, I know that you are not the kind of woman who is too casual. We are together because you have that feeling for me, but I
The situation is different, because I am afraid of marriage, and I don’t want to cause any harm to you. The women who have married me, or even prepared to get married later, have not ended well. Also, my emotions are too confusing and self-control.
My strength is very low, so you were right to leave me, and now that you have him, you are even more lucky."
She sighed quietly, "I hope so."
I immediately felt: She still has a fear of her future emotional life. This is actually a manifestation of marriage phobia.
Marriage phobia is a very representative modern social psychological disease. In terms of its social psychological level, modern social life is ever-changing, there are many temptations, marriage life is also complex, and phenomena such as extramarital affairs are common. In addition, social public opinion has a negative impact on marriage life.
The negative publicity of the marriage has also caused some young people of the right age to hesitate to move forward with marriage. This has created a huge gap between the romantic and perfect love and the happy and dedicated marriage in people's dreams, and anxiety and fear are inevitable.
Marriage is a major life event, and the psychological impact caused by the change of roles makes some people escape and fear is understandable. At this point, men and women also have different worries due to physiological factors. Women are more worried.
Most of them come from the spiritual level, such as worrying about family life after marriage, including handling and coordinating relationships with other family members, not being able to do housework, etc.; women are becoming more and more financially independent, and marriage is no longer the only part of life. Men's anxiety about marriage is
More comes from doubts about the ability to bear the burden of the family. The main consideration is one's own responsibilities in the family, which actually amplifies the pressure of life. At the same time, men are more eager for freedom and are afraid that life will constrain themselves. In the final analysis, it is for themselves and each other.
no confidence.
And Xia Lan is a woman who has suffered emotional setbacks, so she has no confidence in herself, and is so full of fear about her future marriage. In the final analysis, she still has no confidence in herself emotionally.
A woman's confidence in marriage cannot be equated with the success of her career. Suspicious women are even less confident about their emotional issues. I think Xia Lan is exactly such a woman.
I said: "Actually, marriage is just a gamble for a woman. If the gamble is right, she will grow old together. If the gamble is wrong, she can only accept her fate. Of course, management during the marriage is also very important. But I still think that the foundation of a stable marriage is genuine
Feelings. Now it seems that Lin Yi really likes you. From a gambling perspective, your chances of winning are very high. So I think you should not hesitate anymore."
But she immediately came to ask me: "Why is marriage just a gamble for women? Isn't it the same for you men?"
I said: "Xia Lan, you have to admit that no matter how old a man is, it is easier for a man to find a suitable partner than a woman. This is the difference."
She nodded and said: "That's true."
I think our conversation should end today, because Lin Yi’s previous instruction forced me to control the time I spent with Xia Lan. But now, it seems that what we should talk about has been finished. Now it seems that Xia Lan just left
I just wanted to chat with me casually, nothing special.
So I said: "Xia Lan, you should go back and rest early. Otherwise, he will be worried."
But she looked at me, with the familiar amorous look in her eyes, "What is he worried about?"
I suddenly coughed violently in embarrassment, "Xia Lan, please stop joking like this between us, okay? After all, he is my former father-in-law. Haha! I should still call you aunt from now on."
Her face turned red again, "You...hehe! Then just scream now."
I immediately felt that we really couldn't continue talking, otherwise it would become more and more serious. So I hurriedly said: "Xia Lan, that's it. I wish you happiness."
But she immediately said: "No, wait. I have something very important to ask you."
I was stunned immediately, "Oh? What's the matter?"
She looked at me, but didn't speak immediately. She took out her cigarette case again and took out a cigarette. When she was about to light it, I couldn't help but call her, "Xia Lan..."
She stopped lighting her cigarette and immediately looked at me in shock, "What's wrong?"
I said, "When did you learn to smoke? Smoking is bad for your health, and...is he disgusted by your smoking?"
She looked at me in astonishment again, "There are so many women who smoke. Moreover, every time I smoke, he doesn't say anything. Sometimes he even comes to light it for me like a gentleman."
I shook my head, "Xia Lan, that's because he has just started dating you. Men and women who have just entered a relationship are the same. They tend to ignore or tolerate each other's shortcomings. In fact, there is a deep-rooted concept in men's hearts that
I just feel that women who smoke are not the type of ladies. Although this concept is not correct, it exists in men's hearts. This is actually a traditional concept that can never be changed. So, I hope
Whether it is for your own health or for the long-term future of you and him, you should quit the habit of smoking. You should know that the relationship between a man and a woman will become dull after a while, and it is difficult to maintain the relationship between two people.
There is only true love. But true love is also very fragile. Maybe a small thing or a bad habit will slowly weaken true love. Think about it, when you kiss a man, the man suddenly feels
How would you feel if there was a strange smell in your lips? Xia Lan, my words may be a bit unpleasant, but what I say is the truth, and it is all for your own good."
She was startled for a moment, and immediately crumpled the pack of cigarettes into a ball, and then threw it into the ashtray. I felt embarrassed for a moment, "Are you angry?"
She smiled bitterly and said, "Feng Xiao, you are really annoying and hateful sometimes. But you are quite sincere. Forget it, I'm not angry with you anymore. You know that I used to
I don’t smoke, so I can’t say I’m addicted to cigarettes. I smoke because it’s fun, and when I’m alone, I think smoking feels really good. Since you just said that, I think you’re right.
, then I’ll just stop smoking from now on.”
Only then did I realize that we had taken the topic too far, so I hurriedly said: "Xia Lan, didn't you say you had something important to tell me? Please tell me quickly."
She then subconsciously reached out to the cigarette case that had been crumpled into a ball by her, but then she realized her gaffe. She smiled awkwardly at me, "Now I finally understand why so many people smoke.
, this thing can make people feel less empty in their hands. Feng Xiao, let me ask you something: Did Lin Yi have another woman not long ago? And that woman also gave birth to a child for him?
"
I was stunned for a moment and found it difficult to answer this question, so I asked her tentatively: "Did he tell you?"
She shook her head.
I immediately felt embarrassed and a little surprised, "Then how did you know?"
In fact, this is my answer. And I believe she can hear it.
Of course she could hear it. After all, she is a relatively smart woman, not to mention that such a question does not require much IQ. She said: "It seems true?"
But I disagreed and said: "A person of his age must have many stories. To be honest, he is one of the few such wise people I have ever met. As a person in the shopping mall, someone as wise and elegant as him
Not many. Xia Lan, do you admit this? Not to mention him, even I have been married twice. It is not important. What is important is that the woman he likes now is you. As a woman, I think
Speaking of which, this is enough."
She looked at me, "Really? Feng Xiao, I didn't expect you to be a chauvinist! Feng Xiao, but do you know? Every woman wants someone to love her, but is just being loved enough? Yes.
For a woman, loving her is sometimes just empty talk. Marrying her is the most sincere way to show her sincerity. Love is what you want, and no one is right or wrong. Marriage is about responsibility, how can it be treated as a child's play? 'I love you' belongs to
It doesn't matter if you say sweet words ten thousand times. 'Marry me' is a solemn promise and cannot be said casually. The former is light and the latter is heavy. If you go around hunting for women but don't talk about marriage easily, it will be just a love affair at most.
; If you frequently threaten to marry someone, but always don't do it in the end, you must be a bad guy. Romantic and talented people are very carefree. It is easy for them to say "I love you" to women. They just blurt it out to please people, but they never imply that they will.
There is a future. Marriage scammers take advantage of this gap. They say the three words "I marry you" the loudest, making every woman happy. A married man makes a close friend in love with her, is obsessed with her beauty, and appreciates her.
She is smart, tells her everything she knows, and swipes her credit card generously. When our love for each other is strong, a man keeps saying that the other person is the love of his life, but he does not really want to be with her forever. Love is one thing,
Marrying is another matter. It's okay to send nine hundred and ninety-nine roses, but when a lover mentions getting married, he either takes the opportunity to run away. If you love her but can't marry her, love her but can't get married, this kind of thing
In this situation, I am afraid that most women are unwilling to accept it. Whether it is a man who only wants to fall in love without getting married, and is chasing comics to avoid responsibilities, or he really has a soft spot for you but lacks psychological preparation. Anyway, the most beautiful sentence
, he just refused to say it. As a result, when women heard it occasionally, they were completely knocked down. I once knew a boy who was both good-looking and good-looking, and his live-in girlfriend was from a well-off family and looked outstanding. Everyone was surprised by these two people.
How did they get together? Later, the boy proudly revealed that the secret to getting his girlfriend was "I love you" and "I will give everything for you." It's ridiculous when you think about it carefully. The two of them are just freshmen and sophomores.
I'm a stupid kid, my career future is all question marks, but I can say such big words, but girls will believe it. I also have a friend who has been in love with her boyfriend for a long time, from studying to working, but I don't know if the relationship has faded over time, or the longer we get along.
The more conflicts there are, the more the relationship is almost over. Girls often complain to us about their boyfriend’s faults, wondering how much love is left between them and whether they are together just out of habit. She can’t make up her mind to break up, but she still
She felt that this relationship had no future. Until one day when the two of them went out on the street and passed by a jewelry store, her boyfriend suddenly asked her if she wanted to go in and see Ebeers' ring, and then told her that he wanted to marry her. At that time, she pretended to be reserved and put on airs.
My heart was filled with joy. After that, the girl's face was clear for many days, and her dissatisfaction with her boyfriend had long been wiped away. Asking your lover for forgiveness requires no nonsense, as long as you are willing to marry her home. This can often be seen in American movies.
Similar plot: The heroine and the hero went through ups and downs, separated and reunited several times, and were on the verge of breaking up. When they met again, the heroine scolded each other for being unkind and unjust, crying, punching and kicking, but the hero just looked guilty.
Without saying a word, the little pink fists rained down. Finally, she couldn't resist anymore, and suddenly took out a big diamond ring and knelt down to propose. The beauty screamed with joy and threw herself into the dead man's arms. The little pink fists came again.
It was a burst of happiness. In a woman's heart, a man's willingness to marry her is the greatest compliment and respect for her. So the three most beautiful words in the world are not 'I love you', but 'marry me.'
"
Her words made me blush and feel ashamed, but I remembered that I had never said anything like "I love you" to her. But what she just said still made me feel ashamed. If it were true
To be honest, I am not even as good as those who flatter her and say "I love you", because in the past I completely and simply avoided such a question.
But I agree with what she said, and it also made me understand what she really thinks as a woman, and other women may think the same way.
However, I felt that what she just said was not exactly the same as the question I talked about before, and her words also made me feel a little confused. I immediately asked her: "You mean, because Lin Yi
He hasn't proposed to you until now, so you doubt whether his feelings for you are true?"
But she shook her head, "After all, we haven't known each other for a long time, so even if he proposes, I may not agree immediately. He has never said the three words 'I love you' to me. After all, he and I both
I am no longer a young man, and these three words cannot be said casually. But I was thinking in my heart, he is not even willing to tell me his past, how can this mean that his feelings for me are true? He
Whether you tell me or not is one thing, and whether I accept it or not is another matter. I think back when I was dating you, didn’t you tell me all about your past? I also told you about myself.
Things in the past. This is the basis for two people to understand each other, don’t you think? Feng Xiao, originally I didn’t want to mention the past things between us in front of you, because I know that we are no longer possible. To be honest, now
I truly discovered that you are not very responsible for women..."
I suddenly felt even more embarrassed, "I..."
She ignored my embarrassment and continued: "But my relationship with you is different from my relationship with him, because you are younger than him, and I was very attracted to you at the time. We first had a relationship."
Through physical intercourse, I can also know how much passion you have for me and how deep your feelings are for me. I am a woman, so I tend to be more emotional, and I can definitely know from your obsession with my body.
What are your inner emotions? Maybe I didn’t fully understand it at that time, so I thought of establishing a marriage relationship with you, because my idea at the time was very simple, that is: you can make my body greatly satisfied, if you
It would be perfect if you were more sincere towards me. But later I realized that I was wrong and that I expected too much from you. Feng Xiao, in fact, you are a person who wraps up your emotions very tightly.
Man, as you said yourself, you are afraid. But Lin Yi is different. He is so much older than me. Maybe he will not give me much physical satisfaction in the future. And because of this, I am emotionally attached to him.
The requirements are higher and more demanding. But now, he doesn't even want to tell me his past. You think, how can I completely let go of myself and let all my feelings be invested in him? Wan
If my relationship fails again this time, wouldn’t my life be even more miserable?”
I don't know what Lin Yi thinks on this issue, but I can analyze the matter from his perspective. I said: "Maybe he cares about you too much, so he is worried that you can't accept him.
In the past. But one thing I know is that his love for you is real. If it were me, I wouldn't be able to be like him at all."
She sighed softly, "Maybe. But I can also think this way: He is so rich, it is not difficult to do this. I am a person in the entertainment industry, do things like this still happen less often? Those
In order to pursue a certain young and beautiful female star, the second generation of officials and the second generation of rich people gave away high-end luxury sports cars one after another, let alone flowers. But in the end, the ending of those beautiful female stars was different.
Begin with chaos and finally give up?”
I hurriedly said: "He is different. He is a mature man, and he does things prudently and very steadily. In our Jiangnan, no one has ever heard of any scandals about him."
She said quietly: "Maybe. But I am a woman who has been deeply emotionally hurt. There are some issues I have to think about."
I took a look at the beautiful jade necklace around her neck, and then asked her: "Did he give you this necklace?"
She was startled for a moment, then nodded.
I understood immediately, "Xia Lan, since you have accepted such a precious thing, it means that you have accepted him from the bottom of your heart. I feel that I know you better, because I know you
She is not the kind of woman who is particularly greedy for material things. But now I don’t understand. Since you have accepted him, why are you still doubting him? Why on earth is this? "
She shook her head slightly and said, "Because I heard a piece of news recently. This news makes me so scared."
I seemed to understand it all at once, but I still asked her, "What's the news? Can you tell me?"
At this time, her face suddenly turned pale. She said: "I heard that he had a child with a young girl before me, and then the girl died, and her death was said to be murder. I
I also heard that his ex-wife has always been dissatisfied with him finding another woman, so some people suspect that his ex-wife ordered someone to do it. Feng Xiao, you must know this matter, can you tell me if it is true? "
It's true, I thought to myself. But I felt a little strange, "Who told you this?"
But she shook her head and said: "I, Xia Lan, am not that kind of young and ignorant girl. I am already so old. If I am going to marry him, I have to investigate him, right? Now, I
I have to think about a question in my mind: If I really marry him, will I die like that girl in the future?"
I thought about it and said: "That thing is true. I know that girl, and the police also suspect that she died of murder. However, if it is said that his ex-wife did it, there is no evidence.
But Xia Lan, I think you should take the initiative to talk to him about this matter instead of letting him take the initiative to tell you. Have you thought about it? Maybe it’s because he is also afraid, so he doesn’t dare to tell you.
What about this matter? What is he afraid of? In the final analysis, he is still afraid of losing you. Do you think so? "
She came and looked at me, "Will he tell me?"
I said: "If he really likes you, then he will definitely tell you. What do you think?"
She thought for a while, then smiled at me, "Thank you, Feng Xiao."
At this moment, I suddenly remembered the principles that Governor Huang told me, but I had already violated them. Now I realize how difficult it is not to violate those principles, because
The relationship between me and Lin Yi is so special, and the inextricable connections between it make it impossible for me to avoid certain problems.
And what I didn’t expect was that this conversation between Xia Lan and I would have such a huge impact on my future. Later I thought that the relationship between Lin Yi and I was really like a spider web.
When one thread is touched, the entire web will tremble.
Later, Xia Lan took the initiative to leave here because she got what she wanted to know from me, including what she should do next.
I personally sent her to Lin Yi's stretched Lincoln who had been waiting below. I found that there were several people in black suits waiting around the car.
The driver was Xiao Li, of course I knew him. I looked at him with doubts, and he said, "These people are sent by the boss to protect Miss Xia."
This explains everything: it seems that Lin Yi really likes this woman from the bottom of his heart.
The author's digression:
"Close to the Big Leader for Revenge: Lonely Beauty"
Who touched her mother?
In order to explore the truth, she gave up her first love and got closer to men who had power and financial resources.
A dark night affair, the mysterious death of Boss Hei, revealed a shocking secret, which put the mayor, prosecutor, director of the Provincial People's Congress, the ex-wife and old love of Boss Hei into an irreversible situation. When the truth emerged, she fell into another...
In confusion.
When her first boyfriend comes back to look for him, will she return to her true nature? Or will she continue to sink?
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