After returning home in the afternoon, my mother suddenly came to me and said very seriously: "Smile, I want to discuss something with you. Please update me as soon as possible."
I smiled nonchalantly and said to her: "Mom, tell me, what's the matter? You have the final say on family matters. There is no need to discuss it with me."
My mother said, "Let's move. I don't think it's good to live here."
I was immediately shocked, "Mom, why are you doing this? Where do you want to move to?"
The mother sighed and said: "This place is full of rich people. It's not good for us to live here. It's not good for our children either. I think it's better for families like us to live in ordinary places. In such a place, everyone interacts with each other."
It doesn’t mean anything if they don’t interact with each other. The child is still young now, and he will have a sense of superiority when he grows up, which is not good for the child’s education. Also, you are a state cadre now and you live in such a place.
The local impact is not very good either. Laughing, Mom doesn’t understand any big reason, she just thinks it’s inappropriate for us to live in a place like this.”[
Although what she said was not very clear, I already understood what she meant. But I felt that her worries were not unreasonable. I asked her: "Then, where do you think we should move to live?"
The mother said, "Whatever. Anyway, I don't want to live here anymore. I can't sleep lately because I'm always worried that my child will be gone when I wake up."
I immediately understood that my mother was actually more worried about this problem. It is indeed difficult to eliminate such a psychological tension. From a psychological point of view, this is an inner anxiety that is difficult to control.
I was thinking: It is definitely not possible to buy a house right now. At least it will take half a year to decorate and dry it out. The house that Chen Yuan and I lived in... let’s forget it, that place is
I left too much pain. Then only the place where Zhao Menglei and I lived together was left. But that was the house that Zhao Menglei bought. Although I have the right to inherit as her husband, I have a feeling for her in my heart.
Deeply guilty.
So I was very hesitant. After a while, I said to my mother: "I'll think about it again and try to find a better place to live."
Mother was silent.
I immediately drove out and went to find the agency that sold my house for me last time. After I explained my purpose, the boss there immediately laughed and said, "There happens to be a house owned by a Taiwanese boss. His business has not been good recently."
, so I plan to move back to Taiwan. It’s a garden house, and the price is quite reasonable.”
I asked the boss of the agency to take me to see it immediately. When I got there, I found that the house was very good. It was on the ground floor and had three floors including the basement. It was very stylishly decorated and the furniture and appliances were basically all new. The price was very good.
It is indeed very reasonable. In fact, this house is not much smaller than the one I live in now, and the surrounding gardens are more beautiful.
But I didn't decide to buy it right away. Instead, I went home and took my mother to see it first.
After seeing it, my mother felt very satisfied, but she suddenly hesitated, "Smile, how much does this house cost?"
I smiled and said, "If I sell the villa we live in now, I only need to spend half of the money to buy this place."
Then the mother said: "Then buy it."
So I immediately went to the agency to pay the deposit, and the remaining balance will be paid in one lump sum after the transfer of ownership. I am familiar with this agency, and the boss of the company said that they will arrange for someone to clean it immediately, and we will do it tomorrow and the day after.
You can move there. I thought about it and realized that my villa was of little use if I kept it there. Now the value has almost doubled, so I entrusted this company to help me sell it.
My mother went home to pack her things. I actually didn’t have many things, mainly the books in the study room. I packed all my things into cardboard boxes at night, but my mother packed everything in the house cleanly. There were basically some things in the house.
It's empty.
The child is the happiest, he can't understand what we are doing.
I told my mother that I had something to do tomorrow and would find a moving company to come in the afternoon. My mother said, "Let's go do your work in the morning and I will take care of the moving."
I think this is what it means, anyway, everything is a matter of the moving company, and what the mother and nanny have to do is to tidy up in the new place.
I suddenly remembered something, so I immediately called Governor He’s secretary. I asked her which leader in the province was in charge of the Cultural Relics Bureau. She smiled and said, “It’s Governor He. What do you have?
matter?"
I thought to myself, what a coincidence? So I asked: "Where is Governor He today?" [
She said: "She is resting at home this weekend."
I quickly thanked her.
In fact, I really wanted to ask Secretary He to call the Cultural Relics Bureau, but then I thought that her words might not have much effect, so I called Governor He directly. Governor He was very happy when he heard my voice.
"Xiao Feng, you haven't contacted me for a long time?"
I said: "As you know, I am too busy now and often travel on business. Governor He, I am calling you because I have something to ask you to say hello to me..."
Then I told her about the temple, and also mentioned the recent destruction of the temple ruins. After hearing this, she said: "Okay. Let me tell them. Xiao Feng, where are you now?"
Where is the place? In the provincial capital, right?"
I couldn't help but lie to her when I asked her for help, so I told the truth, "Yeah. At home."
She said: "I have been reading the materials at home all day and I have a severe headache. Please come over and help me heal."
I hesitated immediately, and I remembered that she once told me that I should try my best to reject her. I said: "Governor He..."
But she immediately said: "If you don't want to come, forget it."
I had no choice but to promise her, "I'll be right over."
In fact, I knew in my heart that the purpose of her asking me to go was not for any **.
When I got to her place, I found that she seemed to have just taken a bath, because her hair was still wet. I found that she seemed to be much older recently, but her face was flushed after just taking a bath, and she looked a little charming.
She said to me: "Let's go to the bedroom."
I nodded towards her.
After arriving in the bedroom, she whispered to me: "Take off my clothes for me."
So I walked forward, gently took off her shoes, picked up her feet, put them on the bed, and then sat sideways next to her. First I lowered my head and kissed her fingers and arms twice.
, turned around again, lifted up her nightgown, and then lifted her ass up. Underneath her was a pair of light red briefs, protecting her triangle of privacy.
I caressed her skin gently, and then gently pressed my hand on the briefs, and I could feel the warmth inside. I took off her briefs, and there was a thin black slit, covered by slightly sparse hair.
Snaking between the legs.
At this time, I heard her breathing slowly becoming more rapid, and the gap below her became slightly open under my constant caressing. I stood up, took off her lower body clothes, and separated her two calves.
Open it and stand on the bed. Supporting the little brother, she goes straight into the center. With my powerful entry, she let out a cry of "Oh" and there was no reaction at all.
But I knew she was enjoying it and was prepared for it. As I penetrated, there was a flood of vaginal fluids there, and the squeaking sound was accompanied by twitching again and again. She turned her head sideways, and followed me
She let out a gasp as she was having sex. Suddenly, she stretched her legs forward and tightened them hard. I knew she was having sex, so I twitched even more powerfully, and at the same time, she kept her legs from closing.
I was able to thrust deeper.
After a few more strokes, I felt a burst of contraction inside. At this time, she couldn't bring her legs together, so she had to turn her upper body sideways. I felt the heat and contraction inside her. After a while, I knew she had reached her peak.
. Then I flattened her again. This time, she no longer had the previous orgasm, and just cooperated silently. Her moans were gradually increasing, and every time I penetrated her, she would let out a moan, and
She pushed her butt high and then lowered it hard. Whenever I wanted to pull out, she would tighten it tightly, as if she was afraid that it would really leave. When I went deep, she tightened again and moaned,
It was as if she was enjoying every torment, which made people feel that it was not about making love but about twisting her body and dancing to an indulgent disco to a strong rhythm. In the end, she gritted her teeth and shouted: "Oh.
.....oh!"
With a long howl, I finally let it pour out.
She was still sleeping when I left.[
When I got up early the next morning, I found a text message on my phone. This text message was from Governor He: Go find Director Sun. His phone number is... I have already told him.
alright.
In fact, there is still a kind of sadness in my heart, because I think this is an exchange, and this exchange makes me feel ashamed and regretful. At the same time, I also regret the phone call I made to her yesterday.
Just pay me, it's official business anyway.
But I like to take shortcuts too much, and this is something I did myself.
I called my secretary Xiao Xu and asked him to come to the provincial capital immediately and bring photos. Of course he knew how to notify my driver.
Although Governor He has already informed the Provincial Cultural Relics Bureau, we should still explain the matter clearly to them. These are separate matters.
The director of the Provincial Cultural Relics Bureau warmly received us. I explained my purpose of coming and also told him about the historical origins of the temple.
Director Sun nodded and said: "It seems that this site is indeed very important and may also have archaeological value. However, our Provincial Cultural Relics Bureau currently has too few manpower. Recently, ancient tombs have been discovered during construction in several places across the province.
So our manpower is really tight. And archaeological excavations like this take time, and equipment transportation is also a lot of money..."
I immediately understood that what he was talking about was actually about money. I said: "Governor He is also very concerned about this matter of ours, and since you also think that this ancient site is of great archaeological value, I have to ask you to discuss how to arrange it."
Manpower must be excavated as soon as possible. The place has been destroyed so far. Although we have arranged for manpower to be on duty there, it cannot continue like this? You think so?"
He said: "Of course we have to listen to Governor He's greetings, but we also have our own practical difficulties. Mayor Feng, please understand."
Originally, I wanted to suppress him in the name of Governor He, but I didn't expect that he still wouldn't let go. I immediately understood that it might not work if I didn't spend money. So I asked: "Like this
How much does it generally cost to conduct archaeological excavations for various projects?”
He said: "Since it was Governor He who said hello, we will charge a small cost. One hundred thousand yuan, maybe."
I thought to myself that the cost was not much, so I said: "Okay. We will pay for the 100,000 yuan. But I hope Director Sun can send someone out immediately."
Director Sun smiled and said, "Well, I'll send someone there right away after you pay the fee. But you still have to be responsible for the on-site protection work."
I smiled bitterly in my heart: Money is sometimes too important. I said, "I will go to your finance department to make payment right away."
After leaving his office, I called Mayor Liu first and told him the requirements of the Provincial Cultural Relics Bureau. But what I didn't expect was that he immediately criticized me, "One hundred thousand yuan? How can you ask for that?
How much? No, this is not possible."
I immediately became anxious, "One hundred thousand yuan is not much for such a thing, and we don't need to invest in future reconstruction work. Besides, I also agreed to it."
He said coldly: "Since you have agreed to this, why are you still calling me?"
I suddenly became angry, "You are the mayor, I should report this matter to you, right? Secretary Chen also said that this project must be focused on, and the money for road construction in the future must also be invested by the city. Me too
Considering that the other party only wants 100,000 yuan, such a request is not too much. And this is only a discount given by Governor He after he said hello."
He said calmly: "Then it's up to you."
I thought he would change his words after talking to this extent, but I didn't expect that he would still have this attitude. I felt even more unhappy, "Forget it. The government won't pay for this money. Then I will start from donations."
I’ll consider it inside. Now I’ll pay it privately.”
Then I ignored him and hung up the phone immediately.
I was very depressed. No matter what, I am the executive deputy mayor, but I can’t make the final decision on a matter worth only 100,000 yuan. What’s more, it’s not my personal matter!
Immediately I went to the Finance Department of the Provincial Cultural Relics Bureau to transfer 100,000 yuan using my card, and asked them to issue an invoice. Then I went to Director Sun’s office, and he said to me with a smile: "This afternoon
Our people will be on the scene. Please send someone to assist."
After contacting the moving company and paying the fee, I returned to Shangjiang City.
On the way back, I called Minister Wu, "The Provincial Cultural Relics Bureau will send people to the scene this afternoon. Please arrange a few people to assist them. They asked for a fee of 100,000 yuan, and now I have personally advanced the money."
.Mayor Liu does not agree with the government paying this money, so it will be paid from donations when the time comes."
He sighed and said: "What's wrong with Lao Liu? Isn't it just one hundred thousand yuan? How big a deal is it? Forget it, just do as you say."
I handed the invoice to Xiao Xu and asked him to keep it properly. "You must remember to take out the money and return it to me at any time after the donation is received in the future."
In fact, I don't care about the money. I can just donate the 100,000 yuan. But the crux of the problem is not here. As the executive deputy mayor, donating such a large amount to such a project will cause criticism from others. I
I also know that Mayor Liu is not opposed to government funding because of the 100,000 yuan thing. I feel that he is just out of temper and even deliberately trying to make things difficult for me.
There is no way around this. Who put me between him and Secretary Chen?
After returning to Shangjiang City, I went to Secretary Liu's office and said to him: "I have negotiated with Minister Chen of the Ministry of Public Security and the money will be paid from future donations."
A faint smile appeared on his face, "Isn't this better? The government's finances are already tight, and a lot of things can be done with one hundred thousand yuan."
Now I realize that the problem actually lies with me: this matter should have been dealt with from the future donations from the beginning. In this case, he would have nothing to say. However, no matter what method it is, I have to report it to him.
He can only report it. This is Nai who is the deputy.
And under such circumstances, I had to admit that I didn't think carefully about it. I said: "I didn't think carefully about this matter."
He smiled and said: "It's okay, just pay attention from now on."
It would be a lie to say that I'm not depressed, and I really want to stop caring about such things. I almost want to go back to the provincial capital immediately to check on my family's move. Because I feel that work matters are really boring.
Thorough.
But I restrained my impulse. I understood that I could only endure such things. Now I feel a little regretful: Why did I agree to Lin Yu to work in the local government? I did a good job in the provincial recruitment office.
The work there was so leisurely, and the most important thing was that I was the leader, at least I didn’t often look at other people’s faces. Now, I don’t have the right to decide everything, and even if I want to do something meaningful, I can’t do it.
.
Only sigh.
Ou Qing came in the afternoon and told me that the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee had talked to her. I smiled and said to her, "Congratulations, you must work hard in the future."
But she said with some dissatisfaction: "Since I am asked to take charge there, why do I need to be on probation? I have been in the position of full-time department for four years, and it is normal for me to be promoted? What's more, for such a broken person?
Unit. To be honest, I can’t figure it out.”
I immediately said to her seriously: "Xiao Ou, I don't agree with your statement. What do you mean by breaking a unit? The city currently attaches great importance to the work of the art troupe, so it has taken a series of measures to try to change the original situation.
. Including transferring you there, which is also one of the most important measures. Next, the government will allocate a start-up fund to you, and also introduce many policies to support your future work. The municipal party committee is in this matter
The recruitment is bold enough. There are so many division-level and deputy-division-level cadres in the city. Who can’t be hired? The main reason is that you are more suitable. However, there are many uncertainties in the future work of the art troupe, and the organization does not know who you are.
Is it really suitable for that position in the future, so I adopted the trial method. But then again, if you do your job very well, you can become a regular at any time in the future. Moreover, the head of the Municipal Art Troupe is a division-level position
, it is not impossible to get you to the point in one step in the future. Xiao Ou, I think you should think more about your future work now, rather than looking at issues of rank and position. You are still young, so you should consider issues from the perspective of
Long-term planning is the key. As long as you have the ability, any higher position in the future may be yours. Don’t you think so?"
She nodded and said: "Mayor Feng, I understand when you say this. Don't worry, I will definitely do a good job. In fact, I also think you are very approachable, so I dare to say these words to you."
I smiled and said: "You are really good at flattering people. But it's useless. I only look at your future work performance. If you do a really good job in the future, I will say something. But if you
If you can't do your job, I will also suggest that the organization remove you."
She immediately stuck out her tongue at me and said, "Mayor Feng, your words are too scary."
I laughed suddenly, "I'm not trying to scare you, I'm telling the truth. By the way, you have to prepare as soon as possible. The affairs of your art troupe may be studied at the recent government executive meeting. You have to make your next work plan and preliminary preparations."
Make a report on the required cost budget.”
She asked me: "I have never participated in a government executive meeting, Mayor Feng, from what aspects should I report?"
I said: "You have to discuss this matter with Mayor Jin, he is your leader in charge."
She said: "Oh."
To be honest, I was really worried about her, because I just realized now that she didn’t seem to understand anything. But then I thought: Wasn’t I like this before? It was my first time to attend an executive meeting of the provincial government.
Aren’t you also feeling anxious and uneasy when you were there?
Therefore, everything from now on can only depend on her. It depends on whether she likes to use her brain and whether she is able to handle that piece of work on her own. It is a very good platform, but it does test a person's ability.
But there are some things I can't tell her too much. After all, Mayor Jin is very motivated now. After all, Mayor Jin is in charge of this area of work, so for the details of future work, she should go to Mayor Jin.
Ask for instructions and report. This is not only something she needs to pay attention to, but it is also something I should avoid.
I went home after get off work in the afternoon and found that the house was almost tidied up. The happiest thing was the child. He was in such a new environment and his own room was full of toys, which made him very excited.
After staying at home for a while, I returned to Shangjiang City. On the way back, Xiao Cui asked me, "Mayor Feng, why did you move there? Wasn't that place very good before?"
I thought it was difficult to answer his question, but my mind immediately moved and I said, "My father-in-law bought that place for me. My wife has been dead for so long, and I don't think it's appropriate to live there anymore.
"
He said thoughtfully: "Oh. So that's it."
Now I immediately felt that this was the right place to move. Indeed, I am a government official after all, so living in a villa will inevitably lead to gossip.
Many people today are like this. They don’t care whether the source of the money you have is legal, but as long as an official appears to be too rich, they will naturally think that there must be something wrong with this person. In fact, there are many reasons for this kind of thinking.
On the one hand, many officials do have problems, which has caused a very bad impression of officials as a group among the people. On the other hand, the gap between the rich and the poor is getting wider and wider, which has caused many people to develop a mentality of hating the rich and hating officials.
.
In fact, I believe that a large number of officials still have legitimate sources of income, because it is easier for officials to earn huge amounts of wealth. This is because officials often have abundant resources and information, which allows them to control
There are many opportunities to make money. In addition, many officials have good economic acumen, so it is easy for them to see the right direction in investment. In the final analysis, this is because officials have a sufficient understanding of the macroeconomics of our country or a region.
understanding.
Investment is indeed a science. It requires a unique vision, a sensitive business sense, and the courage to make decisions. These factors are the basic elements for a person to make money, and they are indispensable. Because many times opportunities are just a few moments away.
Once you see it, you must invest immediately. Of course, one more thing is needed, and that is the psychological preparation and ability to withstand failure.
The next day I received a call from Lin Yi. He told me that he would be coming to Shangjiang City tomorrow. I asked him how he planned the trip. He said he would look around the city in the morning and go up the mountain in the afternoon.
I immediately went to report the matter to Secretary Chen.
Sometimes it makes me very embarrassed: I should have reported things like this to Mayor Liu, but I don’t want to see his yin and yang face. Who knows what he will say?
But Secretary Chen is different. He will at least take my face into consideration.
Of course, it makes sense for me to report this matter to Secretary Chen. After all, Lin Yi is the largest private entrepreneur in our Jiangnan Province. Now that he is interested in Shangjiang City, this in itself is a good thing for us.
Secretary Chen was very happy after listening to my report, "Okay. Mayor Liu and I will go to the expressway to greet you tomorrow. It is a good thing that Jiangnan Group can pay attention to our Shangjiang City. By the way, Mayor Feng
, have you told Mayor Liu about this matter?"
I shook my head and said with a wry smile: "If he was not my father-in-law, I would definitely report it to Mayor Liu."
He looked at me in surprise, "What does this have to do with him being your father-in-law? If my father-in-law had such strength, I would also ask him to invest. It's the same thing."
I sighed and said, "If I reported this to him, who knows what kind of attitude he would have? Secretary Chen, you know that I don't like to speak ill of others behind their backs."
, but I am indeed in too much trouble. To be honest, if I were caught between you and Mayor Liu, many things would be difficult for me to handle. Sigh..."
He immediately looked at me thoughtfully, "Tell me, what's going on?"
Then I smiled wryly and told him about my trip to invite people from the Provincial Cultural Relics Bureau to conduct archaeological excavations. Finally, I said: "Maybe I didn't think comprehensively, but the money itself should be advanced by the government first."
After all, the donation has not yet been received. By the way, my father-in-law also said that day that if he visited the place and found it good, he might donate five million. There is also the owner of Nanyuan Restaurant,
She has sold all her shares in the restaurant and is planning to donate 10 to 20 million yuan. Secretary Chen, what do you think this mere 100,000 yuan is? It's okay for me to advance the money myself. I can just donate the money.
But that’s not the case. It’s not like this for me to donate money, right? Anyway, I think he thinks I’m too close to you, so he’s trying to take advantage of me everywhere.”
He also sighed and shook his head, "Lao Liu's problem in this regard does exist. In fact, more than one person has come to talk to me. I have talked to him before, and he expressed his position well in front of me, but in the end he still
Don’t change. After you reminded me last time, I also felt that I was controlling him too strictly. As a result, it’s hard for me to talk to him anymore. Forget it, Mayor Feng, just bear with it now.
There is nothing you can do about these grievances, but I know that you are indeed difficult to deal with. But the work must continue to be done. If he doesn't want to do it, just let him ignore the matter. Anyway, you should report to him instead. Some
If he doesn't agree with something, I'll tell him."
I was very embarrassed and said: "Secretary Chen, wouldn't he be more disgusted with me in this case?"
He frowned and said, "Then let me talk to him again. It's not just about you, it involves everyone in your government team. How can Lao Liu do this and make the people below not do anything? How can this be done?"
?The reform in Shangjiang City has begun. It’s okay for the government’s work to fail to keep up. I especially hope that every member of your team can take the initiative to discover and solve problems like you, so that our work can be carried out faster.
Move forward with reform. Or this...Okay, don't worry about this matter, I will take care of it."
I don’t know what kind of idea he meant when he said “or something like this”, but I believe he will handle this matter well. To be honest, I find myself now blindly worshiping him.
After returning to the city hall, I thought about it and felt that Secretary Chen's words were right. I felt that I should report to Mayor Liu about Lin Yi's arrival tomorrow. No matter what his attitude was, it was me who reported to him.
What the deputy should do. This is the rule. Rules in the officialdom cannot be ignored. Those with lower officials can only swallow their anger. Even Governor Huang, as the executive deputy governor of Jiangnan Province, can only
If you can humble yourself in front of Governor Wang, you can only obey him completely.
These are the rules, and no matter how high-ranking officials are, they can only and must obey them.
I reported to him like this, "Mayor Liu, I have something to report to you. Lin Yi, the chairman of Jiangnan Group, will come to our Shangjiang City for inspection next year."
He looked at me with a faint smile on his face, "Oh? Isn't he your father-in-law?"
I nodded, "Yes, he is indeed my father-in-law. Although my wife has passed away, he is still my father-in-law. But he came to our Shangjiang City for inspection this time not as my father-in-law. He is
As the chairman of Jiangnan Group, I made a special trip to Shangjiang City to inspect the investment environment and the temple ruins."
He nodded, "Well, let the municipal government office make arrangements, and then I will personally receive him. This is also a major event for our Shangjiang City."
I didn't expect him to say this, and I felt a little ashamed: It seems that I still underestimated him. In such a big matter, when it comes to my face, he actually still cares about it. Now I don't
There was so much to say, "Okay, I'll say hello to the municipal government office right away."
He immediately said: "I will report this matter to Secretary Chen immediately. Jiangnan Group is the largest private enterprise in our province, and we must receive it well."
I smiled and said, "I'm just reporting this matter to you. You can decide on the specific arrangements."
He nodded towards me, the expression on his face seemed a little strange.
After leaving his office, I suddenly realized that I had made a mistake that I shouldn't have made today: I complained to Secretary Chen for a long time, but I didn't expect Mayor Liu to be so considerate of the overall situation. Doesn't it seem like I have become a
A villain now?
At this moment, I suddenly had a feeling in my heart: Mayor Liu is by no means as simple as I thought before.
I suddenly thought of a saying: Showing weakness is actually a kind of wisdom. There is also a saying: Only the strong shows weakness, and the weak shows strength.
Among the figures in the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, there are three people I admire the most.
The first is Xiaozhuang. This is a woman who cannot be described with ordinary smart words. She turned to the forefront of politics, assisted two generations of young masters throughout her life, and opened up a great foundation for an empire. She worked hard to preserve the power of Emperor Shunzhi.
The emperor was willing to surrender to Dorgon, and for the sake of Kangxi's smooth succession, he did not hesitate to show weakness to the powerful minister Ao Bai. He remained unfailing in the face of the turbulent power struggle, and was willing to sacrifice his dignity to preserve the overall situation. This is a man's heroism and wisdom reflected in a woman.
It makes people feel overwhelmed.
The second is Sony. As the leader of the three dynasties and the head of the four auxiliary ministers, he faced the fact that Kangxi was still young and had not yet taken charge of the government, the Empress Dowager Xiaozhuang was already old, and the treacherous minister Obai was domineering. He excused himself to be ill and did not participate in the government affairs.
After showing weakness, when the time was right, he finally succeeded in assisting Kangxi in taking charge.
The third is Bamboulshan. Banburshan summarized the three major dangers of being a minister since ancient times: if his achievements are too great, the master can reward him, but he can only give him death; if the minister is powerful and powerful, the master cannot tolerate a mountain.
Two tigers will definitely kill the minister; if the minister is strong and the master is weak, the monarch and his ministers will be suspicious of each other and cannot live in peace with each other. The master is afraid that the ministers will rebel, so he will definitely punish the ministers and kill them all.
Once, Banbulshan played chess with Sony's son, who was later the prime minister of the Kangxi Dynasty. Banbulshan abandoned his son and surrendered, and Suo'etu was very proud. As a result, Sony looked at the chessboard and said in surprise: "This game is obviously his.
You win! Bamboulshan is more powerful than Aobai. Aobai always strives for strength, but Bamboulshan always shows weakness. You have to be careful with him!"
It should be said: everyone can demonstrate to others, but only a few people can do it if they know how to show weakness to others at the right time. Because showing weakness often requires wisdom, and it also requires a belly as big as the sea. From this, it is not difficult for us to understand why, in nature,
Survival of the fittest, not survival of the strong. Because being strong at all times and everywhere can gain temporary benefits, but it does not guarantee final victory. In fact, the same principle applies to being a human being. If you are too strong and competitive, you will often encounter problems.
There are more twists and turns. But some people know how to be moderately tolerant when things happen, but don't be too pushy or take the lead in everything. They have a peaceful and tolerant mind, can abandon all selfish thoughts, are not disturbed by outsiders, and can persevere in doing things. They
Even if they encounter a blow, they will not lose all hope because they have a calm mind and can handle it calmly. Such people are not very aggressive and do not run fast, but they can often persist to the end.
In fact, don’t try to build your own perfect life and let life maintain its original nature. You have to show weakness when it’s time to show weakness. It’s easy to be killed if you are strong in everything. As the saying goes, you can shoot the first bird with a gun. “When you are quiet, you are like a delicate flower.”
"Looking at the water, you act like a weak willow supporting the wind." The real strong person is not the one who is always ahead.
The strong show weakness and the weak show strength. Don't let your outward vanity and inner weakness obscure your eyes and become the Obai who shows off his bravery for a moment. This is the correct way to be a human being.
In addition, in the process of getting along with others, showing weakness appropriately is actually an attitude of sincere acceptance. Showing weakness is the lubricant that eliminates barriers, enhances communication and establishes good interpersonal relationships. But showing weakness does not mean retreating or being weak.
Bullying is not a self-deprecation and compromise of principles, but a kind of respect, courtesy and tolerance, and a kind of wisdom in communication and life.
The author's digression:
Hot-blooded male novel: "Zhongnanhai Bodyguard in the City: Hero"
Introduction: Chen Chu is a top internal service soldier of the Central Security Bureau, commonly known as the Zhongnanhai bodyguard. After learning that his grandfather, who depended on his sister, passed away, he resolutely retired and chose to return to Dongjiang to take care of his sister.
In the bustling city, his aloof demeanor attracted elite female white-collar workers, young lolita, and beautiful ladies to secretly fall in love with him. Facing the temptation of power, Chen Chu insisted on the loyalty in his heart, but one day, he was betrayed by his loyalty.
harmed
From then on, he threw away his repressed conscience and revealed his ferocious nature. He joined the killer organization of the stunning sister Chen and used the fastest knife to kill the most ruthless people. He traversed the domestic underworld and competed on the international stage...
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