From a psychological point of view, the so-called self-inflation means that a person's self-confidence exceeds his or her actual situation and evolves into blind arrogance and arrogance. [`Novel`] Excessive self-confidence is not only harmful to mental health, but also
It will also have a negative impact on interpersonal relationships. First of all, self-inflation is essentially an over-compensation for oneself when a person lacks sufficient self-confidence. It is a manifestation of inferiority; conceit and inferiority are like a coin.
The front and back are inseparable.
People with self-aggrandizement will intentionally or intentionally use more self-aggrandizement mechanisms to protect themselves, showing disdain, derogation, and cynicism toward others, which also makes it difficult for colleagues to get along with and work with them.
In addition, self-expansion can easily lead to a vicious cycle.
In the case of self-expansion, a person will often avoid accepting his own sense of weakness by avoiding reality, so his ability to judge and test reality will become worse, and he will not be able to accurately evaluate himself or the objective environment.
, which will make it difficult for them to make reasonable predictions about the future. As a result, they will fall into a new vicious cycle of "frustration-inferiority-defense-self-expansion".
This is just a psychological description of the phenomenon of self-inflation, but I don’t know if Secretary Chen is accompanied by inferiority. What happened to Kang Demao in the past was actually a kind of self-inflation, and he must have inferiority in his heart.
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The mayor of Chen City was very unsatisfied when he worked there. Because he did not get along with the municipal party secretary and was suppressed everywhere, so I think he still has an inferiority complex in his heart.
Because of this, when he arrived in Shangjiang City and took up the post of Secretary of the Municipal Party Committee, when the power in his hands reached a height that people can restrain, it was inevitable that he would be in such a situation.
I remember a famous person said something like this, and the truth behind it is this——
The imbalance in the human heart is due to uneasiness. Therefore, arrogance and inferiority are deeply connected, because there must be ups and downs. If the mind is at ease, it will not show such unbalanced emotions. Because people have a strong desire to compare, not only with
When you compare yourself with others, you also compare yourself with yourself in your memory and your ideal self. Some extremely arrogant people just hide their inferiority complex so deep that ordinary people cannot dig it out. There are those with inferiority complex who, if they have a chance to gain power,
And he will be incredibly arrogant.
I suddenly remembered what I asked Secretary Yang: If you go to a certain place to serve as the secretary of the municipal party committee in the future, will the same situation happen? He answered me: It’s hard to say. In fact, we are the ones who don’t know ourselves the most.
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I think he expressed the worries and confusion of a politician. His answer showed a kind of truth.
In fact, I am also thinking about this question. If one day I am lucky enough to sit in a position like Secretary Chen, will I also have self-aggrandizement?
I don’t know. Because a person cannot reflect on himself when he is in a state of self-aggrandizement, and he thinks he should be like that. When many people finally wake up, it is already too late.
But I believe I might not, because I will always remind myself, and I am not the type of person with a strong personality.
Since the rift in the relationship with Secretary Chen, especially after he refused to talk to me alone, I felt a lot more relaxed: Just forget it if you don’t talk to me, I’m too lazy to care about those things. So, I
He only cares about his own duties, pays great attention to details in everything he does, and tries his best to report to Mayor Liu before making a decision.
Mayor Liu's attitude towards me has changed a lot, and I also found that every time he gave me his opinions, he was very insightful, and some of his ideas were more advanced and applicable than mine.
Who said he was not familiar with government work? It turned out that he had been hiding his clumsiness before. Now I understand and understand this person.
Of course I know why he changed his attitude towards me. Mayor Liu must have taken note of his attitude towards me when I went to toast Secretary Chen that day and when we went to greet the deputy governor together.
But I was surprised: Mayor Liu never came to ask me what happened between Secretary Chen and me.
This is also a kind of tolerance. And this kind of tolerance is not something that anyone can achieve. From this point of view, he is not as simple a person as I thought before.
Now I believe in one sentence even more: if a person can sit in such a seat, there must be something special about him.
I do my own thing carefully every day, and from now on I try not to attend any dinner parties other than work. I always go back to the provincial capital if I don’t have anything urgent to do on the weekends. I spend Saturdays at home with my children and my mother, and Sunday I go to Zhu Dan’s place.
Now Zhu Dan has been officially transferred to the provincial TV station and has become the host of food, real estate and lifestyle programs. I will also watch her abbot’s program in the evenings when I am working in Shangjiang City. I feel more cordial every time I see her.
.She is so beautiful, and there is a special kind of elegance and confidence in her movements. She is my woman.
When she was first transferred to the provincial TV station, I once asked her how she got Zhong Feng’s promotional expenses. She smiled and said, “It’s very simple. I made the program and then recorded it.”
I took the tape to her and asked her to read it, and she immediately agreed."
I was very surprised, "Is it that simple?"[
She smiled and said: "It's very simple. I positioned her restaurant as a real food culture, a very unique food aesthetic culture, rather than a traditional advertising form.
, so she was very satisfied when she saw it. Moreover, after the show was broadcast, the effect was very good. It is said that if you want to eat at her restaurant now, you must make a reservation half a month in advance."
I immediately praised her and said, "You are so awesome. Now I regret it."
She looked at me with doubtful eyes, "What do you regret?"
I smiled and said, "You are so outstanding. Transferring you to the provincial TV station is really a big loss for our Shangjiang City."
She immediately laughed, "You just know it now? It's too late."
She is indeed very confident, and perhaps this is the real reason for her success. I thought to myself.
Later, she also told me that the ratings of the program she hosted were very good, mainly because the previous programs had good results, so many businesses came to ask for coverage of their companies.
"I will make a lot of money in the future." She held my arm and said to me with a smile.
I said: "You are a girl, there is no need to work so hard."
She smiled and said: "It's not hard work. Now I can get a commission for every program I do."
I immediately laughed and said, "Congratulations, you are rich."
She was a little embarrassed, "Don't laugh at me! The little money I earn is not enough for your change. However, I think making money is a very happy thing, because I earned the money myself.
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I couldn't help but put my arms around her waist. I like her sunny attitude, which is also the cutest thing about her.
In fact, I also like my current life. It is simple; although busy, it is very fulfilling; weekends are my warmest days, which makes me always feel a sense of happiness.
However, my happy life soon turned upside down when Zhuang Qing came back.
She came this time for the launch ceremony of a TV series that Dong Jie had just invested in, in which she was the starring role.
Zhuang Qing called me before coming back, and then Dong Jie also called and told me about the incident. I knew the time Zhuang Qing arrived in Jiangnan, because Dong Jie hoped that I could go with her to greet her.
I couldn't bear to refuse Dong Jie's request because I felt deeply sorry for her. So I agreed.
At that time, there were many people who went to greet Zhuang Qing, and many reporters sent by the media went to report. I noticed that after briefly saying hello to Zhuang Qing, I immediately stepped aside. There was a dinner party next.
It was a small-scale banquet hosted by Lin Yi himself. However, before that, Zhuang Qing would briefly accept interviews with reporters at the airport. In fact, this was to promote the upcoming TV series.
The driver Xiao Cui was very excited today. He asked me: "Mayor Feng, are you familiar with Zhuang Qing?"
I smiled and said, "You don't know, she used to be in the same department as me, and she was a nurse in our department. And we are good friends."
He was very surprised, "Mayor Feng, I would like to ask her to sign her name for me, can you?" [
I immediately laughed and said, "It's very simple to sign. I'll let her take a photo with you later."
He immediately became happy, "Really? That's great!"
I quickly reminded him: "Don't get excited, ease off the accelerator."
Lin Yi arranged the dinner in the VIP area of Nanyuan Restaurant. I didn't expect that Governor Huang was also there.
"Kid Feng Xiao, it's been a long time no see." Governor Huang greeted me with a smile. I was a little excited because he hadn't called me that for a long time.
I hurriedly went to him and said to him respectfully: "Governor Huang, hello."
He said to me with a "hehe" smile: "You have done a good job in Shangjiang City. The industrial park you are responsible for is being built very quickly, and our projects with Japan are also progressing very smoothly. Recently, many people have been working in our country.
I praise you in front of you."
Lin Yi said with a smile next to him: "Feng Xiao is very capable, and he also has great ideas and thoughts. Governor Huang, can you put some pressure on him?"
Governor Huang raised his head and laughed, "That's a matter for the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee. I can make some suggestions."
I hurriedly said: "Those things now are very difficult for me. Being able to do the current things well is already very good for me."
Governor Huang laughed again, "Modility is a virtue, but being too modest is not good. In fact, the leaders are very clear about how well our cadres are doing. If they are gold, they will shine and they will be given high priority in the organization.
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Lin Yi smiled and said: "The leader is wise!"
Governor Huang pointed at him and smiled, "Boss Lin, you do the same thing when flattering me."
We were chatting, and after a while I saw Huang Shang come in. He whispered something into Lin Yi's ear. Lin Yi frowned and listened, then he stood up and immediately said to Governor Huang: "Huang
Governor, I'm going out for a moment. Many reporters are following me here."
Governor Huang immediately frowned and said, "Didn't the Provincial Public Security Department arrange for people to be on duty outside?"
Lin Yi nodded and said, "Yes. I'll go out and make arrangements."
Governor Huang nodded, "I'll avoid it for now and go up there to rest for a while."
Lin Yi said: "That's okay. But don't worry, we will do a good job in safety."
Governor Huang took his secretary, and Lin Yi hurried out. Huang Shang followed him. He smiled at me when he left, "Doctor Feng, I haven't seen you for a long time."
I smiled at him.
At this moment, no one knows the complicated and uncomfortable feeling in my heart, because I suddenly thought of what happened after Zhuang Qing's brother got into trouble.
Zhuang Qing called me at that time, and Zhuang Yu was released even after I rejected her in embarrassment. Until now, I didn't know which leader helped her, but now, I know it very well.
There is no doubt that it must be Governor Huang.
From this, I thought of what happened during those times in Beijing. Now I suddenly realized that Wu Shuang, the former office director of our Jiangnan Provincial Office in Beijing, actually exchanged Zhuang Qing for his resignation.
I remember Lin Yu vaguely told me about this matter at that time.
And I suddenly recalled some details of every time I went to Beijing. Now I think about it, Zhuang Qing will definitely not see me at the first time when Governor Huang is in Beijing. And she gave me
My time seems to be arranged deliberately. That's because she wants to accompany Governor Huang.
Why is she like this? Why is she ruining her body so much? Is she short of money? She shouldn't be? Then what is she doing? Is it a natural instinct?
I really can't associate her with the concept of nature. However, Governor Huang appeared here today, which completely explains everything. He is the executive deputy governor, and under normal circumstances it is impossible for him to attend
Such a private banquet. Besides, he couldn't wait to avoid it just now.
Why should he avoid it? The reason is very simple: he doesn't want outsiders to know about his relationship with Zhuang Qing. In the final analysis, this is actually a guilty conscience.
Zhuang Qing came in, and she and Dong Jie came in chatting and laughing. There were a few people with them who looked very familiar to me. There were five or six people behind them, none of whom I knew, and they were probably from the crew.
people.
"Feng Xiao, you look more and more elegant." Zhuang Qing said to me with a smile as soon as she saw me.
Her smile immediately melted me, and the depression and discomfort in my heart just now dissipated in her smile. I smiled and said to her, "You are getting more and more beautiful."
Dong Jie smiled lightly beside her.
Zhuang Qing immediately introduced those people to me. Only then did I realize that the man in his forties was actually the legendary well-known director, and the handsome man next to him who was about twenty-five or six years old.
The man is an actor who is slowly becoming popular nowadays. His name is Xue Yong.
Because I rarely watch TV series and movies on weekdays, I only watch them casually when I turn on the TV occasionally. So although I thought they looked familiar, I didn't have much of a deep impression.
I immediately went to shake hands with them warmly. Everyone said some kind words to each other.
At this time, I saw my driver wandering outside, and I quickly stopped him, and then said to Zhuang Qing: "Zhuang Qing, my driver wants to take a photo with you. Is that okay?"
Zhuang Qing smiled and said: "No problem. Xue Yong, you can come with me too."
Xue Yong smiled and nodded.
Xiao Cui was so happy that his hands and feet were trembling with excitement.
The photo was taken by Dong Jie. After taking it, she said to me: "I will give the photo to you when the time comes."
At this time Lin Yi came in and said to everyone: "Mayor Huang of our province has arrived."
Immediately, Mayor Huang appeared at the door. He walked towards everyone with a smile, and then went to shake hands with the director and actors one by one to greet them.
The meal was quite relaxed and enjoyable. Mayor Huang kept chatting and laughing there. Today he looked less like a deputy governor and more like a university professor.
I was thinking: Maybe my previous guesses and suspicions were wrong, maybe Governor Huang's previous avoidance was just to show his leadership style. Because leaders always appear at the end.
Although I clearly know that my idea is too far-fetched, in my heart I really hope that this is the case. I don't think about it anymore because I don't want to make myself more troubled.
I discovered something at today's dinner: Dong Jie seems to be paying very close attention to the actor named Xue Yong.
After the dinner, Governor Huang left, and the crew members, including Zhuang Qing, went to the hotel that Dong Jie had arranged for. I felt that Zhuang Qing did not arrange time for the two of us alone today.
But I was still looking forward to it, so I didn’t go back to Shangjiang right away. Instead, I asked Xiao Cui to take me home.
After returning home, I felt lonely. After playing with my children for a while, I was ready to go to bed to rest, because at this time, I had no interest in doing anything else.
And at this moment I received a text message from Zhuang Qing: I am too tired today, I will contact you tomorrow night.
Reading the text message she sent me, I felt warm and complicated in my heart. I couldn't help but wonder: Is she really tired?
I didn't call her, but I still sent her a text message: OK.
But she immediately sent me another text message: What? Are you unhappy?
Me: I'm not unhappy. I know you are tired and busy. I just listen to you.
Her: Hehe! What I like most about you is that you are so kind to me.
Then, the phone went silent. Our contact tonight ended like this.
What I didn't expect was that about half an hour later I received a call from Zhu Dan. She asked me directly: "Have you come to the provincial capital?"
I was a little surprised, but I still told her the truth, "Yes. Come back to do some things."
She immediately asked: "Are you familiar with Zhuang Qing?"
I seemed to understand, but I still asked her, "How do you know?"
She smiled and said: "I just saw the interview video of today's entertainment channel on the station, and I saw you in the video."
I immediately regretted it: If I had known earlier, I would not have gone to the airport today. I said, "Zhuang Qing and I were colleagues before, and our relationship has always been very good. Of course I have to pick her up when she returns to Jiangnan."
She asked me again: "You must be more than just friends with her, right?"
I was stunned for a moment, and immediately realized that she was jealous. But I couldn't tell her the real situation, not for anything else, but because I didn't want Zhuang Qing's reputation to be affected. It wasn't whether I trusted Zhu Dan or not.
The problem is that I know that women often lose their minds because of jealousy. I said: "Zhu Dan, why are you so suspicious all day long? Do you think this is interesting?"
Maybe she herself felt that she shouldn't ask me that question, or she had realized that the question was meaningless. After all, I had already told her that there was no possibility of marriage between her and me. She then said: "I'm sorry,
I'm just asking casually. So, where are you now?"
I immediately felt that her question had other intentions, or she was asking if I was with Zhuang Qing at this time. I said, "At home. What's wrong?"
She hurriedly said: "Smile, what's wrong with you today? You seem to be very dissatisfied with me. Didn't I just ask you what you were doing today? Tell me, have I asked you such things in normal times? I really haven't.
What else do you mean, I just think that if you are still in the provincial capital, come and stay with me. I miss you."
I suddenly felt a sense of guilt in my heart, and at the same time I felt a sense of warmth, "No. Then, I'll come over right away."
She said in a very happy voice, "Well, come and pick me up. I'm at the TV station. I'm hungry and I want to go have something to eat with you."
I originally wanted to say "no" because I didn't want anyone to find us together. But then I thought about how many times we were together, including when we went shopping together. Besides, the provincial capital is such a big place, so there are so many places.
Is it easy to be met by people from Shangjiang City? Yes, I am not worried about being met by anyone else, I am only worried about people from Shangjiang City, because I don’t want Secretary Chen to hate me even more.
I immediately said: "That's okay. I'll drive to pick you up right away."
Soon, I met her at the entrance of the TV station, and I asked her what she wanted to eat. She said, let's go eat hot pot.
I immediately drove forward. I didn't know which hot pot restaurant was open at this time, so I had to drive forward and observe.
I walked several streets, but I didn't find any hot pot restaurant open. I suddenly thought that there might be one by the river, because the restaurants there usually open very late.
But when we arrived at the riverside, we found that there were no hot pot restaurants there at all. Zhu Dan said, "Forget it, we can just find one."
I shook my head, "No. You want to eat hot pot, which means you really want to eat spicy food now. I have to satisfy this small request of yours."
She looked at me and said, "Smile, you are so kind."
I couldn't help but smile bitterly, "Xiao Dan, your demands are too low, aren't you? Is such a small thing worthy of your gratitude?"
She was still shaking her head, with a kind of sincerity in her eyes, and she said softly to me: "Although the matter is small, you are sincere. I can feel it."
At this moment, my heart was suddenly touched: She is actually very good, can't she and I really get married?
However, I suddenly thought that I still maintain that kind of relationship with Yizhuang Qing and Lin Yuzai, as well as the two sisters Ruan Jie. The two sisters Ruan Jie are just that. I can sever that relationship with them at any time.
But is it possible for Zhuang Qing and Lin Yu? For Zhuang Qing, I can't help it, but for Lin Yu, it's impossible for me.
Thinking of this, I couldn't help but sigh in my heart: Feng Xiao, don't have such wishful thinking, this is actually your fate.
Later, I drove around half of the city before I found a hot pot restaurant. This hot pot restaurant was located in a cave, and its name was Dongzi Hot Pot Restaurant.
This cave should be a former air raid shelter. After entering, I found that it was very big inside, and the walls of the cave were made of neat stone strips. And there were quite a few people inside at this time, but they were all drinking beer at night, and those who were punching inside
People are scumbags.
I hesitated immediately, "Xiao Dan, it's too noisy in there. Let's move to another place."
But she smiled and said to me: "It's very nice here. I smell the hot pot here is so fragrant that my mouth almost watered. There are so many people and it's lively."
I immediately laughed.
Not to mention, the taste of this hot pot restaurant is really good. It is the type that we locals eat, which is very spicy and has a lot of butter.
Zhu Dan ate a lot. I smiled and asked her, "Aren't you afraid of gaining weight?"
She smiled and said: "I will run to work tomorrow."
I almost laughed.
It was close to twelve o'clock when I returned to her place. When I was in the car, I asked her: "You won't go to work during the day tomorrow? Can you get up after sleeping too late? It's best for women to go to bed early and get up early.
It is best to go to bed before 11pm every night, otherwise you will get older easily. From 11pm to 2am, sleep during this period is the most precious. One hour can be equivalent to three to five hours of sleep quality.
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She smiled and said: "Anyway, I'm still young now. I'll take care of myself after I'm thirty years old. And you're so powerful in bed, I can fall asleep right after you're done."
Her words made me excited immediately, but I said with a smile: "What do you think I am? Your sleeping pills?"
She kept laughing, "You are my sleeping pill."
As soon as we entered the door, I hugged her tightly again. Then, one by one, the clothes and pants flew from our bodies to different corners of the room. The volcano erupted, the dam burst, and the two bodies were finally entangled.
Together, collision, friction. Everything is so natural, everything is so familiar, I am still like a crazy idiot, and she is still doing her ecstasy. I don’t know how long it has been, we hugged each other wetly, panting.
.She who had not spoken a word finally showed a fleeting smile, and I caught her happy message...
After a while, she went to wash herself and lay next to me, nestled in my arms. I reached out and hugged her, hoping to let her fall into a wonderful sleep with me. But at this time, I
Suddenly I heard her ask me softly: "Smile, are you more comfortable when you are with Zhuang Qing or when you are with me?"
I almost followed her words and said: It's all very comfortable... However, I immediately reacted, "Your question is very interesting."
She immediately chuckled, "Smile, you should become a spy. Beauty won't let you be fooled."
I laughed all of a sudden, "Do you think being a spy is that easy?" At this point, I suddenly thought of someone, "Haha! What you just said reminded me of a friend who once said
I said, if he was an underground party member, there would be no need to torture him at all, just make him drunk with white wine, and then he would tell everything."
She laughed immediately, and then the laughter stopped suddenly, and I heard her soft voice in my ear, "I fell asleep, I'm so sleepy..."
She really fell asleep in my arms. But I couldn't fall asleep for a while because I suddenly thought of the person just now.
That sentence was said by Yang Shuguang. He said it as a joke when we were drinking. But in fact, after his accident, he didn't say anything. Except for the part with clear evidence, he didn't say a word.
vomit.
He was sentenced to eight years in prison. For the amount of his crime, this was very light. I have every reason to believe that the amount of his crime was far more than that, but he used his silence to make his crime clear.
In order to alleviate the problem, he is a very smart person who is well aware of the current legal situation in our country and understands the huge role of the unspoken rules of officialdom in the law.
Moreover, he also preserved most of his property.
After four years, or maybe in a shorter time, he will come out of it, and his sentence will be commuted or he will be released on medical parole. This is inevitable. I can completely predict it now.
This is not something that anyone can do like him. He must have a strong psychological quality and a clear understanding of his current situation.
Therefore, Yang Shuguang is really a very powerful character.
I thought about what Zhuang Qing wanted to contact me the next day, and I thought about the work arrangements in the city. It seemed that there was nothing particularly urgent, so I took a rare nap the next morning. When I woke up
Zhu Dan was still in my arms, but she didn't even go to work.
I asked her in surprise: "Why don't you go to work?"
She said: "My time is relatively free. I have finished several programs that will be broadcast in the near future, so I can take a break occasionally."
After hearing what she said, I immediately felt relieved. At this time, her hands began to explore my body, and she quickly touched the key part, and I immediately had a reaction.
I also touched her lower part and found that it was already wet. Passion suddenly aroused and entered directly without any prelude... However, when she was moaning softly under me, I was full of passion.
At that moment, my cell phone rang suddenly. I stopped moving immediately.
Now I am particularly sensitive to my cell phone ringtone because I am always on guard.
She immediately felt something strange about me, "Don't stop..."
The phone was still ringing, and my passion suddenly faded away. I hurriedly pulled out of her body, then quickly picked up the phone and answered it.
The moment I heard the voice of the person inside, I suddenly became nervous: Oops!
Because the call came from the Secretary-General of the Municipal Party Committee Office, "Mayor Feng, Secretary Chen has informed us that a standing committee meeting will be convened immediately. Please arrive as soon as possible."
I hurriedly said: "Yesterday I was in the provincial capital on business, and I'm still in the provincial capital now. If I rush back right away, it might be too late."
He pondered for a moment and then said: "Then... let me report to Secretary Chen."
After hanging up the phone, Zhu Dan came to me on the bed and asked, "What's going on?"
I smiled bitterly and shook my head: "We have a meeting at short notice. It's a very important meeting."
She also became anxious for me, "What should I do?"
At this time, the call came in, and of course it was the Secretary-General of the Municipal Government Office, "Mayor Feng, Secretary Chen said, since you are not in Shangjiang, forget it."
I was very surprised because I didn’t expect that Secretary Chen was not angry. “Did he really say that?”
He said: "Yes, Mayor Feng."
I was still not at ease, so I asked him tentatively: "Secretary Chen, isn't he angry at all?"
He smiled and said: "Mayor Feng, what's wrong with you? When I went in to report to him just now, he was approving documents. After hearing what I said about you, he immediately said: Forget it if you are not here. Most of them
As long as the Standing Committee is here. Since he is not in Shangjiang, there is no need to participate."
Only then did I realize that Secretary Chen was indeed not angry at all, but in his heart, it didn't matter whether I participated in this Standing Committee meeting or not. In other words, in his eyes, I was just a kind of indispensable person.
Can.
This makes people feel more uncomfortable than him being angry. Being angry at least represents a kind of caring.
After hanging up the phone, I went back to bed, and Zhu Dan came and snuggled next to me again, "Aren't you going back?"
I nodded, "It's too late anyway."
She immediately laughed, "We won't do such things during the day from now on. If we do, you have to turn off your phone. It's very disappointing."
I couldn't help but smile bitterly, "There aren't many cases like this. But I can't turn off the phone."
She came to touch my lower body, which was soft and soft, and immediately she laughed, "I really can't do it anymore."
I hurriedly took her hand away and said, "Stop making trouble. It's mainly because I'm thinking about something."
She looked at me and said, "Then, you'd better rush back."
I shook my head, "That's not necessary."
She came to hug me and put her face against my cheek, "You, why are you so entangled? Since there is no need to go back, and you clearly know that it is useless to go back now, then you might as well completely
Just relax and take a good rest. How good is that?"
I think so, but people are like this. They understand many principles, but if you really want a person to do it according to the principles, not many people can really do it. It is the inherent nature of many people to worry about gains and losses.
Seeing that I was silent, she immediately left my arms, then brought her face to mine, smiled and said to me: "Smile, I have heard a saying: Every successful man has a
Or a few imaginary friends. Is that so?"
I knew she was trying to divert my attention from worrying about today's meeting. I said, "Maybe. Because successful men are often lonely, and it's hard for them to have real friends in the real world."
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She smiled and said: "Yes. Also, it is because successful men have too high requirements for their friends, requiring them to be equal to themselves in terms of quality, taste, and status. But as a successful man, it is even more important
What you need is to be able to make the other party listen to what you have to say. Since the other party is in similar conditions to you, how can they have so much patience to listen to what you have to say? This is a contradiction in itself. So, naturally, there are fewer friends."
I smiled and said: "What you said makes sense. This is actually a feeling of being overwhelmed by the cold at a high place."
She then added: "Actually, not only successful people now have their own imaginary friends, but also young people. Because today's only children are very lonely. Someone recently conducted a survey and found that today's young people have about the following imaginary friends.
Type. The first is a character in the game called Super Mario. His image is like this: a hat and overalls with suspenders, a big nose, a beard and other features, which are far from the image of a hero. In addition, he has a slightly fat figure.
, if you are not careful, you may mistake our hero Mario for a middle-aged uncle who works in a convenience store. The second is the death knight Arthas, who is also a character in the game Warcraft. Many people will...
An Arthas appeared, using his unique arrogance, mighty eyes and temperament to inspire himself. In fact, Arthas is the most complex and least understood hero in World of Warcraft. At the same time, he has the highest glory and is the most popular one.
One of the tallest Warcraft characters. The third is Lara Croft, the heroine in the movie "Tomb Raider". With her strong skills, perfect figure and the classic quality of "Tomb Raider", she has become the favorite of many otakus.
The fourth is Li Xiaoyao, the protagonist in the martial arts novel "Legend of Sword and Fairy". This Li Xiaoyao combines all the temperaments of a ruffian hero: playful, carefree, brave, clever, handsome...
....There are also sports stars such as Messi, Ronaldo, Kobe, James, etc. In fact, the real imaginary friend for many of us is our other self, because everyone has more or less a double-sided personality.
There are always different ideas in China. Many of us always have another self in our hearts, working hard to calm ourselves and overcome our shortcomings like a close friend."
I smiled and said: "Xiao Dan, I didn't expect you to have such in-depth research on such a thing. I didn't see it."
She smiled and said, "Don't you want me to read more books?"
I touched her back gently and said to her with a smile: "Not bad, keep up the good work."
She kept laughing, "Actually, there are many men who have another strange fantasy. Do you know what it is?"
I smiled and asked her, "What is it?"
Her lips came to my ear, "Many men like to fantasize about being able to sleep with goddesses and do things like that with Japanese porn stars..."
Her words immediately made my heart sway, and I had a reaction immediately. I stood up and said, "I don't fantasize anymore, my goddess is by my side now..."