It is said that the Japanese are lustful, and even Westerners are shocked by them. (.Pure text) In the 19th century, a German doctor named Sebol came to Japan. In the suburbs of Edo, he saw prostitutes who were scrupulous in and out of brothels.
, couldn’t help but be dumbfounded. He was in his
Everything is centered on economic work. This is not just a slogan, but also a national policy. Once certain problems of an official are raised to this level, his problems will become very serious.
Maybe I'm too cautious and too sensitive, but I can only do this because I don't want to make mistakes on such things, because such mistakes are not worth making.
The next night, we met at Zhong Feng's restaurant, and of course I called him Minister Wu.
Tanaka actually came with two women. To be honest, they were not pretty, and they were relatively short. I visually inspected them, and they were only about 1.58 meters tall at most.
They don't seem to be Chinese, because I heard them speak with a strong foreigner's Chinese accent. In addition, they also have habitual bowing movements.
It is early spring now, and they are wearing trousers. If it is summer, it may be easier to tell if they are wearing skirts, because I heard that most Japanese, both men and women, have bow legs. This
It has something to do with their living habits, because they have been accustomed to kneeling since they were young.
Japanese culture has a strong imprint of the etiquette of our country during the Tang Dynasty. At that time, many Japanese studied abroad in Chang'an, the capital of China, and brought the culture back to Japan, thereby establishing Japan's existing habits and etiquette.
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The Japanese only sit when they are in the office, and kneel in all other leisure places. Their kimonos also have the shadow of ancient Chinese costumes, especially the costumes of the Tang Dynasty. The makeup of Japanese geishas is from the Han Dynasty in my country. of
Under the heavy makeup, the geishas wearing gorgeous kimonos and fragrant with perfume and makeup, combed in high buns, revealing a snow-white neck covered with snow-white foundation and perfume, as well as the beautiful shoulders and back, painted with bright red oil paint The little mouth... This is actually the makeup of court women during the Han Dynasty in my country.
However, these two women are relatively young, and their Chinese is basically understandable, so there is no big problem in our communication.
I specially hired a food guide.
This catering lady is very beautiful and has a very good figure. Catering is also one of the characteristics of this restaurant. I guess this catering lady was specially arranged for us by Zhong Feng. But I am very happy, at least this
Eating with a position guide makes me feel proud, because she is much more beautiful than these two Japanese women.
In fact, for us Chinese, there are many people like me who have narrow nationalism. Because many of us always want to be more serious about small things when we are with foreigners. I think this is mainly because
Because our nation has suffered too many invasions from foreign enemies, there is something called dignity in our genes.
This is not a question of right or wrong, but the national complex of many of us.
The food guide lady will not actually eat with us. She just sits with us and introduces us to the raw materials, cooking methods and nutritional value of each dish. She can drink wine at our request. Of course, the food guide lady is
I asked if there was a fee, and her tip was two hundred yuan.
The word tip has changed its meaning now, so I think for the tour guides here, such fees should be called labor fees or service fees.
At this time, the flower fairies came and then disappeared again, but several exquisite and beautiful dishes were already placed on the table.
Tanaka was stunned.
I laughed suddenly and said, "Mr. Tanaka, isn't it nice here?"
Only then did he wake up and said, "This, this is a fairyland, isn't it? It's so beautiful, so beautiful!" [
Minister Wu also smiled and said: "It's really nice here. Eating here is simply a pleasure. Why didn't I know about this place before?"
I smiled and told him: "This is the restaurant owned by Boss Zhong who donated to us."
He suddenly realized, "No wonder. Where did she get so much money? In a place like this, it's impossible not to make money!"
Then we started drinking, and I raised my glass, "Mr. Tanaka, and your two friends, as well as Lao Wu, today we are a gathering of friends, so I won't say more polite words. Just one sentence, I wish you all
Have a happy weekend and wish these two Japanese ladies from Beijing a pleasant stay in our Jiangnan Province."
After I finished speaking, I immediately felt that my words were a little strange: What does it mean to have a good time?
They all said "Thank you." Then we all drank the wine in the small glasses.
In fact, Tanaka was very polite and well-spoken at the beginning. He used serving chopsticks to pick up food for the two ladies, which showed no trace of Japanese male chauvinism. But when we were half drunk, he
Things began to change. His hands began to cling to the shoulders of the two women beside him, and he became a little excited when he spoke.
Minister Wu smiled secretly at me several times.
But I suddenly remembered something Tanaka once said to me. He once told me that in Japan, even if a man touches a woman’s butt while at work, women will not object. At this time, I discovered
These two women looked exactly like that, with smiles on their faces. I couldn't help but feel funny in my heart: These Japanese people really make people feel strange.
At this time, Tanaka came to toast my drink, "Mr. Feng, I heard that you used to be a doctor, right? And you were also an obstetrician and gynecologist, right?"
I was immediately shocked by his words. In fact, I have never felt that there was anything bad about my previous career, but today's situation is different. Could it be that he wants me to check up on his two girlfriends?
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But I calmed down immediately. Because I am no longer a doctor, so even if he made such a request, I would have a very legitimate reason to refuse. I smiled and nodded: "Yes. Mr. Tanaka, you
Why are you asking me this question?"
He continued to ask me: "Mr. Feng, have you ever studied psychology? In my impression, it seems that doctors will study psychological issues, right? Because psychology is also a very important auxiliary treatment method for diseases.
One. Is it like this?"
I secretly breathed a sigh of relief, then nodded and said, "That's right. Of course I have done general research on psychology."
He immediately looked very happy and said, "That's great. Mr. Feng, that's it. I keep having the same dream recently. Can you analyze it for me?"
His question immediately aroused my interest, and it just scratched my itch. I hurriedly said to him: "Okay. Come on, you can tell me slowly after we drink this glass of wine."
Then we drank the wine in the glass, and he immediately said to me: "That's right, I often dream about snakes recently. But every dream is different. Sometimes I dream that I am being stared at by a venomous snake, as if it
It was about to pounce on me. But I woke up suddenly with fright. Also, I dreamed that I was entangled by a big python, and I was so entangled that I couldn’t breathe. Last night, I even dreamed that I was
I was swallowed by a big snake. It scared me to death. Can you tell me? What are these dreams of mine?"
I immediately laughed, "Mr. Tanaka, from a psychological point of view, our dreams can only appear in light sleep, either before falling asleep or before waking up, especially in the morning."
When we are bloated with urine and about to wake up, dreams are more likely to occur."
He immediately said: "It seems like this. My dreams are all before I wake up, but after I wake up, I still remember the content of those dreams."
I nodded and said: "Dreams actually reflect the subconscious mind of each of us. The subconscious mind is what we don't know ourselves, but it is the real thoughts in our hearts. For example, you just said that you often dream about snakes recently.
In fact, many of us often have snakes in our dreams. A popular saying among the people is that dreaming about snakes is a symbol of wealth. However, in the psychological analysis of dreams, snakes do not represent wealth, but have a sexual nature.
Wisdom, intuition and other multiple meanings. Mr. Tanaka, the dreams about snakes you just mentioned are very representative. You dreamed that you were stared at by a poisonous snake. In fact, this poisonous snake represents a beautiful woman.
In other words, your dream means that you are attracted to a beautiful woman. Because snakes represent a kind of temptation in dreams. The temptation of snakes is manifested in the fact that they will stare motionlessly when preying on frogs.
The frog will lose its vigilance and then suddenly bite. Similarly, if a similar scene appears in a dream, such as being stared at by a snake, it often symbolizes that you have met a very attractive woman."
He was startled for a moment, then smiled and said: "It seems like this. So, what do the other two dreams mean?"
I smiled slightly and then replied: "Generally speaking, the boa constrictor represents mother, and the entanglement symbolizes restraint. In other words, in your heart, you feel that you are too restricted by your parents or family.
So much so that it affects the development of your career."
He was stunned and said, "My emperor! Mr. Feng, you are so awesome!"
Minister Wu and the two Japanese women also looked at me in surprise. I felt very proud, and then said: "Mr. Tanaka, your dream last night was different. You dreamed that you were swallowed by a big snake. This
It shows that you lack a sense of security nowadays and need help and protection from others. But Mr. Tanaka, please rest assured that in Shangjiang City, we can absolutely guarantee your safety, so you don’t have to worry."
He immediately gave me a thumbs up, then picked up the wine glass again, "Mr. Feng, you are really a knowledgeable officer. I admire you so much. I sincerely toast to you. Thank you so much!"
He and I drank it immediately, and then I said: "Mr. Tanaka, in fact, each of us has some psychological problems to some extent. You may be able to admit this. In fact, in economically developed countries like Japan, people pay more attention to
Your own psychological problems. It’s just that many people don’t know where their psychological problems lie. Once you know your problems, you can adjust yourself.”
He nodded, "Yes. However, there are currently no places for psychological consultation in China. They usually have such departments in hospitals. Psychological problems involve a person's privacy, so it is best to have a dedicated place and a professional one.
doctor."
I nodded and said, "That's right. But this still involves the customs and cultural issues of a nation. We Chinese are good at tolerance, and many people have big misunderstandings about this issue."
At this time, the woman on the right side of Tanaka said to me: "Mr. Feng, I also had a dream about snakes recently. I dreamed that a little snake was spitting water at me. It looked so cute. What does this mean?"
I almost laughed, but I restrained myself in time. I smiled slightly and said to her: "Miss Sakuragi..." Tanaka introduced her just now, so I remembered her name, "I'm sorry.
, this dream of yours has some privacy elements, and it’s not convenient for me to tell you here.”
Tanaka suddenly became interested, "Mr. Feng, please tell me. I really want to hear it. Sakuragi, do you have any objection?"
Perhaps because she was drunk, this woman named Sakuragi didn't taboo anything at all. She smiled and said to me, "Just tell me. It's nothing."
I then said: "Actually, snakes in our dreams sometimes symbolize sex, and in women's dreams, snakes are mostly symbols of male genitals. Therefore, the little snake you dreamed about actually symbolizes male genitals.
The process of it spitting out water also symbolizes ejaculation. Haha! You think it is cute. I don’t need to explain it anymore, right?"
Everyone laughed, but this Japanese woman named Sakuragi was also laughing with us.
At this time, another Japanese woman came and asked me, "Mr. Feng, I also dreamed about snakes. But what I dreamed about was that I was bitten by a snake. When I woke up, I still felt some pain in my calf."
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I nodded and said: "Your dream is still the same. The snake represents the male genitals. The process of you being bitten actually symbolizes the process of sexual intercourse, but you may be a little afraid of being hurt. If what you dreamed about is
Poisonous snakes mean harmful sex. In addition, in men’s dreams, snakes symbolize women. For example, the python Mr. Tanaka dreamed about earlier represents his mother. In addition, in some men’s dreams, snakes symbolize women.
In dreams, snakes also represent the female element in one's character. If the appearance of a snake makes the dreamer fearful, it means that the dreamer does not accept the female element in his character. This is reflected in real life, in the form of having sex with women.
*There is an underlying fear..."
Having said this, I glanced at Tanaka meaningfully. Moreover, I was a little confused: How could this Japanese woman feel nervous about sex? Logically speaking, she took the initiative to come to our Jiangnan Province to see Tanaka.
Sebi, shouldn't she have such emotions?
At this time, Tianzhong quickly waved to me, "Mr. Feng, come, the three of us will toast you and Mr. Wu a glass of wine."
Of course I wouldn't continue talking, but after we finished drinking, Minister Wu brought up the topic again. He said to me: "Mayor Feng, I didn't expect you to be so knowledgeable about dreams. So, dreams also represent something What’s the content?”
I said: "The problem of dreams is very complicated, and it is difficult to explain it comprehensively at once. Freud has a special monograph on dreams. If I were to talk about it now, I can only summarize it in a few sentences: 1. Dreams are a reflection of the subconscious mind. I have already talked about this issue before. Second, dreams often represent sexual issues. Third, the ending of dreams is often the fulfillment of our wishes. For example, the endings of many of our dreams are actually based on To achieve the results we want, if we really can't achieve them, there can only be one result: waking up. This kind of waking up is actually a kind of escape, because our subconscious is unwilling to face that terrible result. . ”
Minister Wu nodded and said: "It makes sense."
I continued: "As I said before, animals like tongues appear in many of our dreams, so let me briefly talk about dream-related issues with dreams about snakes. Dreaming about snakes sometimes symbolizes intuition. Intuition is one of the four psychological functions of human beings. The other three are feeling, thinking, and emotion. The function of intuition is to instruct people on what to do. Snakes are precisely animals with keen responses, similar to people's intuitive reactions. Therefore, people We often get inspiration from snakes in our dreams. For example, a student dreamed that a snake got under his mattress and disappeared. During the day, he was looking for his meal card everywhere. The next day, he opened the mattress full of doubts. , he actually found the meal card. In fact, it was his intuition that helped him find the meal card, and the snake in the dream symbolized his intuitive activity. Mystery is also the main characteristic of snakes, according to Swiss psychologists Snakes often appear in Jung's dreams. He and the analytical psychology he founded are also called mysterious by the world, so his connection with snakes is close. His intuition and sense of mystery come from him. The snake in the heart. Secondly, physiologically, the snake also represents the spine, and spinal lesions will be represented by injured snakes. From the perspective of yin and yang, the snake represents yin. Thirdly, the snake also represents evil, cunning, cold-blooded, deception and Temptation is the same as the image of the snake in many myths and folklore. In the Bible, it is the snake that tempted Eve to eat the forbidden fruit. The snake is often seen as an animal in hell or a messenger of the devil, dragging people towards darkness, degradation and Evil, and the main method it uses is temptation. According to folklore, when a snake eats a frog, it does not actively capture it. Once the snake finds the frog, it will stare at it with its eyes. At this time, the frog will jump step by step as if it is hypnotized. Entering the snake's mouth. In people's minds, snakes represent such a hypnotic power of temptation. Therefore, when people find someone tempting and evil, they call it a poisonous snake; if the tempter is a woman, those who We call it a beautiful snake, a femme fatale, or a poisonous snake. Haha! That’s what Mr. Tanaka’s dream mentioned earlier was like. Therefore, the snake in the dream may be an evil, cunning, deceptive, and hypnotic person. A person with similar allure or charm. However, snakes have completely different interpretations in China and abroad. In China, dreaming about snakes is a symbol of wealth, while in the West, dreaming about snakes is a symbol of sex. However, through continuous research in psychology in recent years It is found that when dreaming about snakes, especially for women, the result is a symbol of sex. Freud said in "The Interpretation of Dreams": Dreaming about snakes is a manifestation of sexual unsatisfaction; seeing snakes is generally It is a symbol of sexual repression, being attacked by a snake is a symbol of disease, and being injured by a snake is a symbol of sexual life. In addition, snakes are also a symbol of male sexual organs and patriarchy. In addition, red or green snakes represent poor health. Black and brown snakes represent your physical and mental fatigue, etc. In short, the problem of dreams is very complex, and when interpreting dreams, it must be analyzed according to the specific situation of the dreamer."
Minister Wu sighed: "This is really a profound knowledge."
I smiled and said: "Actually, it is very simple to analyze it after understanding the truth. However, a psychologist recently asked a question, which I think is very reasonable. This question is, psychologists think that each of us should
Train yourself to be kind to snakes in your dreams.”
They all looked interested, "Oh? What does this mean?" I said: "Generally speaking, when you encounter a snake in a dream, especially when you are in fear of the dream, it is easy to choose to hit or kill the snake.
Burning snakes and other methods can be used to deal with it. But this is really not the best way. Image psychology research shows that snakes, as a common image in dreams, often carry greater psychological energy. If you use beating, killing, burning,
Throwing and other methods will affect the balance of the overall psychological energy. Therefore, the best way to see a snake in a dream is to pay attention to and train it. However, it is indeed difficult for the dreamer to treat the snake well in the dream, but in the dream
It can still be remedied later. For example, we can tell ourselves after the dream that if we dream of snakes or similar scenes again, we must first see clearly and don’t rush to act; we can also return to the snake scene in the dream in our imagination and experience it carefully.
Your emotions in this dream will not be experienced until they are clear and thorough. The advantage of these two methods is that the psychological energy represented by the snake in your heart will not be suppressed, but you can use this psychological energy for your psychological growth.
Service. In other words, through this experience, you can enhance your intuitive ability, discover more of your wisdom, and make your personality more complete and perfect."
Minister Wu shook his head and said: "This is too profound. I can't quite understand it."
I smiled and said: "I'm sorry, why did today become an academic lecture? Let's not talk about it. Come on, let's continue drinking. Mr. Tanaka, I have a question for you: Can you tell the authenticity of this Moutai?
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He shook his head, but immediately smiled and said to me: "But I believe you will not invite me with fake Maotai."
I smiled bitterly in my heart, but with a smile on my face I said to him: "Thank you, Mr. Tanaka. I still say the same thing: our mutual trust and sincerity are the most important."
Tanaka nodded, "Mr. Feng, you are right."
We drank a lot of wine that day and kept talking about our topics. As a result, the catering lady was ignored by us.
Later, Tanaka got drunk. At this time, I also felt that today's dinner should be over, and I also felt a sense of relief: it was finally over.
I asked the catering lady to bring the bill. At this time, Minister Wu whispered to me: "I'll pay the bill. It's better to bring it for reimbursement."
I immediately said to him: "I am inviting friends today, please don't worry."
Maybe I drank a little too much today, so my tone of voice seemed a bit harsh. But Minister Wu just smiled and said nothing more.
After paying the bill, we went out together, with two Japanese women supporting Tanaka. Minister Wu and I looked at each other and smiled.
This meal cost nearly 10,000 yuan, including four bottles of Maotai. I knew Zhong Feng still gave me a discount, otherwise it would have cost more than this. You know, the consumption here is already very high.
I gave the catering lady five hundred yuan, and she accepted it with a smile, "Thank you, Mr. Feng. Can you leave me your phone number? If you want to dine with us in the future, you can call me directly.
Our boss Zhong said, you can just contact me directly from now on."
I couldn't refuse her in front of so many people, so I immediately gave her my number.
Tanaka's driver was waiting for him outside. When Tanaka was leaving, he pulled me aside and said to me vaguely: "Mr. Feng, Miss Yamaguchi is still a virgin. She is often laughed at because of this. Do you like her words?"
Let her accompany you today and help her solve this problem."
I immediately understood the reason why I felt strange before. I smiled and said to him: "Mr. Tanaka, you can solve it yourself. I am not interested in such things."
He shook his head and said: "I don't like virgins, I don't understand the style at all."
I immediately felt that this guy was seducing me, "Mr. Tanaka, don't make such a joke with me. You can go to the hotel to rest early. We'll see you next week." Then I helped him get into the car.
I found that his behavior when he got in the car was not very drunk. I immediately understood: this Japanese really has bad intentions!
After seeing off Tanaka, I went to say goodbye to Minister Wu. Like me, he drove here by himself.
But he had no intention of leaving immediately. He then asked me a question, "Brother, I found that you are really knowledgeable about dreams. I also had a dream about snakes. Just recently, could you help me?"
Analyze it."
I smiled and said to him, "Come and let me listen."
He immediately told me his dream about snakes. He said: "My dream was actually very simple. I dreamed that I got a walking stick carved with snakes, and I felt very happy. What does this mean?
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I immediately understood: his dream was actually not simple, including him.