I had an extreme dislike for this woman in my heart, but I couldn't express my dislike for her. I smiled and replied: "To answer this question, we must first talk about the relationship between China and Western countries about family."
Different concepts. For example, in the United States, the American word "fmly" is not the Chinese word "house", or even "home". The American word "fmly" emphasizes family members and family relationships, while the Chinese word "fmly" means "home".
It is equivalent to 'house' in American English, emphasizing the house rather than family members and family relationships. This is also the reason why Americans like to rent a house, take the house relatively lightly, and take family members very seriously, while the Chinese
People are just the opposite. They value their houses more than their family members. Even if the Chinese people leave their hometowns and their old houses in their hometowns are already empty, they still regard the old houses in their hometowns as their own homes. Americans do not
Think of family members as your own home. Home is where you are. If I explain it this way, you may understand why."
Mayor Wu nodded and said: "It makes sense. In the final analysis, this is just a necessity."
I smiled and nodded: "Yes. In the final analysis, this problem is about rigid demand. It is precisely because of such rigid demand that the real estate industry will continue to develop steadily. Maybe in the future, the value of investment in this industry will not be too great, but the value of preservation
It’s no problem.”
Mayor Wu smiled and said: "Then I will also buy one, but I can only get a mortgage. I don't have that much money on hand."
I smiled and said nothing.
At this time, a deputy director of the park asked me: "Mayor Feng, can we buy it?"
I smiled and said: "Of course, but our internal staff cannot enjoy any special discounts, so that everyone will not be able to explain it clearly. I still say the same thing, never go for small gains. In fact, a person can't enjoy any special discounts.
The more atmospheric you are, the more you can stand high and see far, and God will give you greater rewards."
I can only speak to this extent, because I can't encourage everyone to buy it. Although I think the risk of this project is not big in the future, if I encourage everyone to buy it, it may be considered in the future.
It is to seek illegal benefits for employees.
Things like this can only be understood by themselves. I believe in the truth contained in a sentence: poverty is a sin. If the society does not allow you to get rich, this sin should be attributed to the society; if a person does not work hard himself,
If you can't find business opportunities by yourself, then the fault should be your own fault.
We drank some wine in the evening, and several people in charge of the park respected Mayor Wu and me very much, so it was hard for me to refuse their enthusiasm. What’s more, their toasts all included congratulations to me.
Xiao Qianhua also toasted me several times. Although I was very tired of her, I still drank them all.
After dinner, Yu Yong suggested singing, but of course I wouldn't agree. Then I pulled him aside and asked him in a low voice, "Why is Xiao Qianhua here today?"
He answered me: "Mayor Feng, it's like this. She called me today and said she wanted to have a meal with you, but she was worried that she wouldn't be able to invite you. As a result, we just agreed to invite you and Wu
Mayor, so I called her."
I looked at him and said, "Tell me the truth, what is your relationship with her?"
I trust him very much, and he trusts me too, so I asked such a direct question.
He hurriedly said: "Mayor Feng, how could I have anything to do with her? Wasn't she my leader before? Since they mentioned such a thing to me, I am embarrassed to refuse."
I looked at him and said, "In the future, you have to talk to me directly about all such matters. You should know that Secretary Chen has just left and this is a sensitive period. It's not like you don't know about this woman. Why did you provoke her?"
What? Yu Yong, let me tell you, don’t think that I don’t know what you are thinking. As a man, there is nothing wrong with liking beautiful women, but you have to see who the other person is? "
He opened his mouth, but I stopped him from saying what he was about to say, "I didn't say what I just said, I just reminded you. You did a good job, and I don't want you to make some stupid mistakes. Understand.
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Then he bowed and said to me: "Thank you for reminding me. I understand."
I patted his shoulder and said, "Just be careful from now on."[
Then I took the car and left. I noticed that Xiao Qianhua wanted to come over and talk to me, but I pretended not to see her, then immediately closed the car and left.
Xiao Cui sent me downstairs and left, but I didn't go upstairs immediately. I stood there to look at the surrounding situation.
There were several dormitory buildings in front of me, and there was nothing special around the stairwell of my residence. I was thinking: Where did Director Lu install the camera before?
After watching it for a while, I suddenly remembered that the most likely place was the lamppost not far in front of me. Today's micro cameras are very small, and they are not easy to be spotted after being camouflaged.
I couldn't help but feel that I was very funny, so I immediately went upstairs. After going up, I first closed the door at the bottom of the stairs.
I never told Director Lu about removing the camera, because I knew he should know what to do. In fact, I hoped he would keep that thing, at least that way it would prove everything about me.
After returning to my residence, I took a shower, then lay on the bed and read a book. After a while, I heard my cell phone ringing. When I picked it up and looked at it, I found that it was Xiao Qianhua calling. I suddenly felt annoyed, and I didn’t care at all.
I am willing to answer this call.
After the phone rang for a long time, it stopped ringing. I suddenly felt much calmer and my heart became more comfortable.
But what I didn't expect was that less than a minute later, the phone rang again. It was still a call from her.
I still didn't answer.
Then, it finally became quiet again.
But after a while she sent me a text message: Mayor Feng, I want to talk to you.
I looked at her text message and sneered, and then threw the phone aside. I didn't think of deleting her text message because I was worried. If I deleted it, others would be suspicious. Of course,
I mean in case something happens.
Immediately, I couldn't help but start asking myself: Are you being too cautious? How will you carry out your work in the future if you are like this?
In fact, I know myself, but in the final analysis I still cannot be completely calm. Indeed, I have always had a kind of worry and lack of confidence in my heart: I always feel soft-hearted when facing beautiful women, and I often do so.
Make mistakes. So, knowing this shortcoming of mine, I can only stay alert at all times. Being alert to them is also alert to myself.
I hope that one day I can be calm and not be tempted when facing beautiful women. I said to myself in my heart.
At nine o'clock in the morning the next day, the city government's executive meeting started on time.
I sat in the seat previously occupied by Mayor Wen and later Mayor Liu. Next to me was Mayor Wu, who was sitting in my previous seat. There is a saying that an official with an iron-clad official position has a smooth flow of work. Today I
I feel deeply about this.
Before this, I had been a leader, and I used to be very casual in every meeting. But today I found that I couldn't be as casual as before. I was very nervous, an inexplicable nervousness, a kind of
I don’t need to be nervous, but the nervousness exists in my heart, and the feeling of nervousness makes me linger.
I took a sip of tea, coughed twice, and then said with a smile: "I want to say a few other things before this executive meeting." Then I looked at the people at the TV station and said, "What I said earlier.
Just don’t report it.”
Immediately I started the first government executive meeting chaired by me, "Our tasks this year are very heavy, and we must complete the work deployed by the Municipal Party Committee before the year without compromise. I asked Secretary Rong for instructions, and the Municipal Party Committee said
There are not many changes to this year's work plan, but some adjustments are needed on specific projects. Therefore, I hope that all leaders will think of more ways and spend more time studying their own work. Regarding this year's work tasks, I have
One idea is to strengthen the supervision of work progress. Mayor Wu please think about this matter and come up with a specific method. Here, I must first explain that I have no dissatisfaction with everyone’s work ability and attitude.
It is a reassuring thought, but our tasks are indeed too tight. It is currently a critical period of our reform, and this is a last resort. In addition, I have no time limit for everyone. As long as everyone has arranged their work,
You can freely arrange your time. You can go out to study, inspect, or even go abroad, but I hope you can tell me beforehand. In fact, I hope that everyone can go out more and learn more. Only by seeing more can we learn more. What we lack most now is
concept, including myself. So I encourage everyone to go out more, such as to the coast or to economically developed countries. Although our finances are poor, we must support such funds. Okay, let me
Just digressions. The bottom line is that I hope each of us can do a better job in our respective responsibilities. I only look at the results, not the process."
Everyone immediately became enthusiastic. Mayor Jin said: "This is great. In fact, it should be like this. As deputy mayors, we should not become clerks, but should learn more and constantly update our ideas, so that we can better serve the people."
Guide the following work well."
The other deputy mayors think this is good.
In fact, giving everyone the opportunity to go out more is not just a matter of being more informed and updating ideas, but more of a welfare. Who among leaders doesn’t want to go out more? Travel at public expense
Who wouldn't? Of course, I personally think that as long as everyone can get the work done, it is worth spending such money. This is actually an incentive mechanism. If the work is done well, greater value can be created, and that kind of expense
It's not enough. In addition, I know very well that as a leader, free arrangement of time is the most important, and it is also one of the manifestations of the value of power.
Next, we will officially start studying a few things today.
As a government executive meeting, the format is the same: the head of the department introduces the situation, talks about the problem and what problems he hopes to solve, then the deputy mayor in charge adds explanation, and then each deputy mayor
Express your opinion, and finally I make the final decision.
Regarding the decision-making issue, I have to do preliminary thinking and weighing of the things to be studied before the meeting, but in the end I have to listen to the opinions of the deputy mayors before making the final decision. Sometimes it is not necessary to listen to everyone's opinions.
, but I must explain the reason. For example, one of the topics we are studying today.
This topic is a plan proposed by the Municipal Construction Committee to request the city government to allocate funds to repair the river embankments. Because the embankments along the river that flows through our city have not been repaired for many years, soil erosion is now very serious and has caused some damage to the river banks.
The house has become a dilapidated building. However, the cost of this project will be very huge. According to preliminary estimates, it may cost at least hundreds of millions.
In fact, many things are not about what should or shouldn't be done, but mainly because of money. The same is true for this project.
Therefore, Mayor Wu first opposed this matter. His reason was simple: where would the money come from?
The other deputy mayors almost all have the same opinion.
Finally, I concluded my speech by saying, "This matter must be done because it is a people's livelihood project and it is very beneficial to the city's construction. We should regard this project as part of urban construction. Of course, the issue of money is a big issue, but
I think it can be solved. I think this matter should be settled first and the project established. As for the specific question of what to do, after the meeting is over, we will go to the riverside to have a look. It can be regarded as an on-site office."
I have decided on this matter, but I have not elaborated on my thoughts for the time being. In fact, I had an idea in my mind when I saw this topic yesterday afternoon, and I also asked my secretary to bring a map of Shangjiang City.
Were studied.
The next few topics were studied very quickly. In the final analysis, this is the result of everyone's preparation in advance. However, my purpose is to try to guide everyone to express different opinions, because different opinions can allow me to think about the problem in a clear way.
It's more open.
In the past, our government executive meetings often lasted for a long time, and the results were not ideal. In the end, many things were difficult to decide. However, in the end, decisions were made based on the mayor's personal will. This can certainly be said.
The power of the top leader lies, but it also increases the risk of the top leader's decision-making.
I felt that I should change that situation, and today's situation proved that my idea was correct.
After the meeting, I took everyone to the riverside. The place I chose was an open area on the river because I felt that such a place would be helpful in opening up everyone's minds. People's mood will be affected by the environment.
After arriving at the riverside, I pointed to the banks of the two rivers and asked everyone, "What do you think when you see this place?"
Mayor Wu said with a smile: "This river bank does need repairs. If this continues, the river will become wider and wider, and our city will have less and less land. But Mayor Feng, I am still worried about money."
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I went to look at the other people and found that they all looked confused and confused.
I smiled and said, "Think about it, everyone, if we repair the embankments on the river bank and reinforce the river bank with stone strips, and then build the river bank into a park for citizens to relax and entertain, wouldn't it be very beautiful?"
Mayor Wu immediately said: "Well, if this happens, 100 million won't be enough."
I nodded, "It's at least several hundred million. In addition to the increased construction costs, the park's supporting facilities and greening also cost a lot of money."
Mayor Wu looked at me, smiled and said to me: "Mayor Feng, just tell me what you think. Now I am even more confused."
I turned around and pointed to the edge of the city, "Everyone, look at this side. Think about it, if we build the area along the river into a park, and then use a wide road to separate the park from the city.
If we auction the land on the edge of the city, this will be the best river view house in the future. In addition, we can also turn a certain section of the coast into a food culture street, which will turn the land on the riverside into a golden zone.
How much revenue will this bring to our finances? Then, the money to build the embankment is no problem. What we need to do now is to invest first, but we can definitely borrow from banks based on the government's credibility. So, now we have to do
The first thing is to freeze the auction of this piece of land from today, and wait until we repair the river embankment before auctioning this piece of land. In addition, the bridge connecting us to the other side is about to be completed. From now on, the other side of our city will
It can also be built like this. The construction model of the provincial capital should actually become our template. Now the land price on the other side of the river in the provincial capital has increased several times. There is wealth everywhere under our feet. The key is that we need to be good at exploring it.
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Everyone started to discuss it enthusiastically. They were all very excited.
In fact, as deputy mayors, their standards are very high, and once their ideas are opened up, their intelligence will be greatly reflected.
Mayor Wu said to me: "Mayor Feng, after listening to what you said, I completely understood your intention at once. Your idea is indeed very good. Once we complete this project, our city will
It will raise the level a lot. So, which unit should implement this project?"
Of course I know what he is thinking, after all, he will still be the person in charge of the industrial park now and in the future. I smiled and said: "My idea is to let the Urban Construction Bureau and the company under the industrial park undertake the construction together.
River embankment and park projects. In the future, our renovated land will be open to the whole society for bidding, auction and listing. This is not only in line with the policy, but also conducive to competition. In addition, having two units undertake such projects is also conducive to mutual supervision and is conducive to
Reduce waste and reduce construction costs. However, this matter must be discussed at the Standing Committee after consulting Secretary Rong. After all, this is a big project and involves the overall development of our city."
He nodded.
I immediately asked everyone, "Everyone, do you have any opinions on the decision I made at the meeting?"
Mayor Jin said: "Mayor Feng, we have to learn more from you in the future. Your thinking and concept are far behind us."
I was secretly proud of myself. Suddenly, I was alerted: What’s so proud about? You, please don’t follow Secretary Chen’s old path. I immediately said: “Mayor Jin, you must not do this.
Let’s talk. I have never thought about such things before. In fact, I often feel that my thinking is very narrow, and I need to keep learning and open my mind. Because of this, I hope everyone will go out more in the future.
.But everyone can’t run out in a swarm, otherwise I will be a mere commander.”
Everyone laughs.
What I said are my true thoughts in my heart. In fact, as a first-level government, what we need to do most is to tap into various local resources, and then guide and drive the rapid economic development of a region. And to do this
For this, the first thing you need is an idea.
There is a very good saying: Character determines destiny, bearing determines pattern, details determine success or failure, attitude determines everything, thinking determines the way out, height determines depth, pattern determines the outcome.
In fact, what many people lack now is not knowledge and skills, but ideas.
When we analyze the reasons why successful people succeed, we will find that most of them have good mentality and ideas. To be like them, you must learn some thinking patterns:
The mentality of returning to zero. The so-called zeroing mentality is to completely let go of yourself. In this world, many people have been living in the past. Their biggest characteristic is that they compare the past with yesterday and today, and are immersed in the past and cannot extricate themselves. Experience is of course
A good thing is wealth, which can avoid some detours and losses, but we cannot hold on to it. The most important thing is to pay attention to letting go of ourselves. We should always ask ourselves three questions like this: What do I want to do, what can I do, what should I do
What to do with a learning mentality. A learning mentality is very important. The information produced every day in this world requires a person to learn it for 1,100 years, and knowledge is being updated at an annual obsolescence rate of 40%.
Therefore, future opportunities belong to those who can learn. There is a saying: Success represents the past, ability represents the present, and only learning can determine the future. This is the truth.
Innovative mentality. The only constant in this world is change. Change will lead to success, and generalization will lead to success. Especially in today's fierce competition, you must always be at the forefront of the times. In today's fast-paced world, no matter how busy you are at work, you still have to read the news.
Look for programs or books that can reflect society and market conditions, such as the viewing system. This way you will not be out of touch with society. There is a saying that goes like this: Follow good people to learn from good people, follow witches to learn to be gods, and to be successful, you must be with successful people.
The mentality of giving. Everyone is afraid of losing, and no one wants to get. The key is to give first. Life is actually a process of calculating the general ledger. Don't care about the immediate gains and losses. When a person succeeds, God will give everything back.
You. This requires us to have great wisdom or the tolerance and generosity of Buddhism.
The mentality of a boss. When you are an ordinary employee, and you say that our company or product will be completely in China in three years, go out of Asia in five years, go to the world in seven years, and the entire global village will be mine, is it possible? If you have already
I think it is still possible to be an entrepreneur with tens of millions of dollars. The boss regards work as a lifelong career. And employees regard work as a means to make money. This is the difference: if the company is a ten-story building, then the boss stands
The location is on the top of the building. The vice president is on the eighth floor, the manager is on the sixth floor, the supervisor is on the third floor, and the employees are on the first floor and basement. As an employee, do you have the realm and thinking of a boss? Can you think about it from the perspective of a boss?
When dealing with problems, can you treat the company as your own business?
Before now, I have never thought about the issue of river bank construction. Ultimately, this is because I do not have the mentality and thinking of a boss. A win-win mentality. Human growth is a process of independence and interdependence. The highest state is interdependence.
In order to achieve a win-win goal, small success depends on oneself, and big success depends on the team. In fact, any growth and progress in today's society cannot be separated from the support of others. This will be a combination of people living together. The structure of the word "人" is very strange.
One stroke and one stroke. You and I together form a strange support body. Without it, everyone will fall. A person has his price and value. The price is given by others, but the value is improved by oneself. How much do you want to be worth?
, you have to make yourself valuable. The basis of win-win cooperation with others is how much value you can give to others. Responsibility mentality. Each of us comes to this world with responsibility. The United States Military Academy at West Point stipulates:
Every student has the responsibility to perform his or her duties and obligations no matter when, where, or whether they are conducting their own private activities. This performance must come from a sense of responsibility from the heart, not to obtain rewards or other things.
What. Active mentality. There are only two kinds of human mentality: positive and negative. There are three levels of mentality: mentality, passion and belief. A person's desire to maintain passion and vitality mainly depends on his belief, that is, his ideal. When the ideal becomes
When you have faith, this positive emotion is lasting. A passionate state of mind, belief is the highest state of mind. There is another saying: a person's attitude towards life determines life's attitude towards you. A pragmatic mentality
.Be practical in your work, ask questions if you don’t understand, and learn if you don’t understand; don’t be too high-minded and do every little thing seriously. Every successful person starts from small things and does them to the extreme, just like
If a martial arts master wants to gain a foothold in the world, he must have unique skills, and the ability to execute is reflected in the details. An empty cup mentality. A person must be able to tolerate others, contain new knowledge and things, and absorb the advantages and advanced things of others.
Growth mentality. Don’t be afraid of making a fool of yourself, rush to do things, growth means making a fool of yourself, and making a fool of yourself is for growth. Successful people never give up, and quitters never succeed. Everyone will fail, and failure is not terrible.
Competitive mentality. We must learn to constantly enrich and improve ourselves, and formulate a competitive strategy and strategic plan for ourselves. The fittest will be generated and the unfit will be eliminated. This is a normal natural law.
A humble attitude. Be humble in everything. Unripe grapes will make you sour, and people who know you will become arrogant.
I plan to consciously instill this concept into my team members in future meetings, such as the organizational life meetings of government agencies. It is not a lecture, but a discussion method.
The first government executive meeting I chaired was quite successful. I hope that from now on, every member of our team will be able to establish a pragmatic and efficient work style.
In the afternoon, I called Rong and asked her to ask Secretary Rong for instructions: I wanted to report to her on my work.
Secretary Rong arranged the time after four o'clock in the afternoon.
When I arrived at her office, she smiled and said to me: "Mayor Feng, if you have anything to do from now on, please call me directly instead of going through the secretary."
I smiled and said, "Secretary Rong, this is the rule. I think this is the best. After all, you have too many things to do and I can't disturb you at any time."
She pointed at me and smiled, "You, aren't you deliberately trying to distance yourself from me? Mayor Feng, maybe you really don't understand me very well. I don't like that, and you do this."
It’s easy to isolate me. Mayor Feng, I am the municipal party committee secretary and you are the mayor. We can discuss work matters at any time. Why are you so divided?"
I felt the seriousness and sincerity in her words, and then I smiled and said, "Okay then. Secretary Rong, don't you think I'm annoying in the future?"
She smiled and said: "I know, you will come to me only when you have important questions...Mayor Feng, tell me, why did you come to me today?"
I immediately said: "Secretary Rong, today we held a government executive meeting, and there is an issue I want to report to you..."
Immediately, I reported to her what we had studied today about the development of the two rivers.
She listened carefully, and after listening she said: "Mayor Feng, I think your idea is very good. So...Mayor Feng, are you free now? Let's go to the riverside to have a look."
I smiled and said, "Of course I'm free."
At this time, I was very happy. What I was happy about was that she was also so pragmatic. She asked to go to the riverside for a look. This seemed like a very common thing, but it fully demonstrated her work style and work style.
Way.
Soon, we arrived at the riverside, and with us was the Secretary-General of the Municipal Party Committee Office.
At the scene by the river, I once again introduced her to her our vision for the project and the approximate investment budget. She kept nodding her head. She said: "Mayor Feng, your idea is indeed good. In this way, let's drive and take a look.
Look at the riverside part of the city.”
So we drove downstream and looked all the way down, and finally stopped at the bottom of the city. She got out of the car, and the Secretary-General of the Municipal Party Committee Office and I also got off separately.
Secretary Rong said to us: "I have another idea, that is, we need to build another bridge. In this case, the city will have more room to develop on the other side in the future."
I said: "The current bridge was built with funds from the province. If we want to build another one, we have to fund it ourselves. This requires a lot of funds."
She said: "The land on the other side should be worth more than one bridge, right? We should think long-term and consider the development of the city in the next few decades. What do you think, Mayor Feng?"
I think her idea is correct. She sees further than me on this point. I nodded and said: "From a responsible attitude towards the future, this is indeed necessary. This is very important for the future economy of our city."
It will be beneficial to development and solving employment and other issues."
She nodded, "Yes. Mayor Feng, please come up with a plan as soon as possible. Then the Standing Committee of the Listing Committee will study it."
Then she said to me: "Mayor Feng, I am planning to convene a Municipal Party Committee Standing Committee meeting in the near future. Do you have any other issues?"
I shook my head and said: "Not yet. But I would like to make a suggestion to you, that is, our work must have continuity. Secretary Rong, you told me last time that the city's development outline determined by the previous municipal party committee remains unchanged.
, This is very correct. But I also hope not to make too many changes in some details, such as the design of the future urban style that we have determined."
She nodded, "You are right to remind me. Although I have some different ideas about the previous design, it will cost more money to change the design. I am still hesitating about this matter today. Mayor Feng,
You reminded us very timely that we cannot put our subjective consciousness on such a big thing. Although Secretary Chen has many problems, he still has no major problems with the city's development direction. Work
Continuity...You did a great job of reminding me of this issue.”
I found that her working methods are indeed different from Secretary Chen. At least she is good at accepting other people's opinions.
Then, she whispered to me: "I mainly want to study personnel issues at this Standing Committee meeting. I hope Mayor Feng will support me in this matter."
I hurriedly said: "Of course."
She smiled at me and said, "Thank you."
At this time, I couldn't help but think: I wonder what Su Wen's attitude is now after she went to report her thoughts to her?
But it is impossible for me to ask her such a question now. What she just said has actually made it clear what she thinks: she needs my conditional support.
When I went back, the Secretary-General of the Municipal Party Committee Office came over and said to me: "Mayor Feng, I was very embarrassed by some things in the past. I hope you can understand my difficulties at that time."
What he was talking about was the incident when he asked me about it at the Municipal Party Committee Standing Committee meeting. I smiled at him and said, "Of course I understand. If I were you, I would probably do that."
He looked at me gratefully and said, "Thank you, Mayor Feng."
Now, I have truly realized that tolerance is also a way to gain the friendship of others.
Two days later, the assistant president of Jiangnan University arrived in Shangjiang City, and the new organization director also arrived at the same time.
A week later, the first Municipal Party Committee Standing Committee meeting since Secretary Rong took office was held.
It seems that Secretary Rong really attaches great importance to the adjustment of cadres and is very anxious. However, I think it is understandable that the first thing any newly appointed top leader should do is to make personnel adjustments. This is not only
The manifestation of power is also necessary to establish prestige.
The organization director has already begun to report the plan, and I am listening carefully...