On the day of the incident, a subordinate department in the city invited Minister Lei to dinner at a restaurant.
Originally, the matter would have ended here. The Chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference has said everything that should be said and what should not be said. If the matter could have ended here, the following incidents would not have happened. Maybe it was because of alcohol, maybe Minister Lei
Due to his character, just after the Chairman of the CPPCC left, when everyone at the table returned to their seats, Minister Lei suddenly said: "He is your local gangster, and he is used to being domineering.
, his brother is a gangster in society, I don’t know yet?”
This sentence immediately escalated the matter, because the Chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference did not actually go far. He immediately returned to the outside of the private room, just wanting to hear what unpleasant words the Organization Minister would say behind his back.
However, he did not rush in immediately, but returned to the private room where he was. After all, he was a person with status, and it would be bad if others thought he was eavesdropping.
After returning to his seat, he said: "This bitch has no shame."
Everyone asked him what happened, but he waved his hand and said, "Stop asking. Stop telling."
But after a while, he really couldn't think about it anymore, so he picked up the wine glass and left the private room again, and then went to the private room where Minister Lei was.
He went directly to Minister Lei and said to him: "Minister Lei, I forgot something just now. I haven't congratulated you on coming to Shangjiang City and taking office."
Maybe what he said just now was a bit loud, so Minister Lei did not stand up. He still sat there and said calmly: "Thank you. No need to congratulate. This is an organizational arrangement."
At this time, the Chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference got angry and said, "Minister Lei, my rank is higher than yours, right? I took the initiative to toast you, but you have to stand up, right?"
Minister Lei was stunned for a moment, but he quickly came to his senses and said coldly: "I didn't ask you to come over and toast me. I drank too much and couldn't stand up."
At this moment, several people suddenly rushed in from outside. They picked up the beer bottles on the table and hit Minister Lei head-on. These people were the people in the society who were drinking with the Chairman of the CPPCC.
They had just come with the Chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, but they did not enter the private room. When they saw that their eldest brother was so despised, they were filled with indignation, so they rushed in. In the eyes of these people, they did not care about each other.
Are they some kind of organization minister? They only have "big brother" in their hearts.
Although Minister Lei was tall and powerful, his reaction was very quick. He suddenly noticed that someone was rushing towards him with a bottle in his hand, so he instinctively blocked it with his arms and stood up immediately.
He got up and ran outside the private room. As he ran, he shouted: "The Chairman of the CPPCC is a gangster! He hired people to beat him!"
The few people who had just rushed in chased him out, but were immediately stopped by the Chairman of the CPPCC. At this time, the Chairman of the CPPCC suddenly realized something: this matter was troublesome.
Minister Lei ran out of the restaurant and rushed towards the other side of the road in a panic. Unexpectedly, he was hit by a rickshaw and fell to the ground. He felt no pain and immediately got up from the ground and continued to rush towards the other side of the road.
past.
"When did this happen?" I asked Secretary Qian immediately when he talked about this.
He answered me: "Last night. He later ran back to his residence, then called his driver, and then ran back to the provincial capital overnight."
I immediately asked again: "Does Secretary Rong know about this?"
He nodded, "I understand. She only found out this morning, just an hour ago. She has been called by the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee. It is said that Minister Lei went to the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee to file a complaint this morning. I am worried.
You don’t know about this matter yet, so I came here to ask you. This matter happened suddenly. As the mayor, it’s not good for you not to know. Actually, this is what Secretary Rong meant. She asked me to come to you, she said
She has to go to the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee immediately. I hope you and I can control the situation in the city and avoid any problems."
I shook my head and said, "No big deal will happen in this matter. But I feel very strange. Secretary Qian, why do you think things always happen in our Shangjiang City? Why can't we be clean in the past few years?"
He said: "Mayor Feng, I think this kind of thing is nothing. It's normal for something like this to happen in a place. Didn't something happen in Lianshan City recently? It was because the municipal party committee secretary and the mayor didn't get along, and both of them ended up...
I was transferred. Disagreement between the party and the government is the easiest thing to happen in many places. But we will not have this situation again in Shangjiang City. On the one hand, Secretary Rong is more tolerant, and on the other hand, you, Mayor Feng
He is also very good at handling relationships. As for the matter of Minister Lei, I think this is just an individual case. After all, there are too few people with a personality like his among the organization ministers. In fact, I think his personality is suitable for working in the police.
Director."[
I shook my head and said with a smile: "Director of Public Security? The Director of Public Security should keep a low profile at all times and have a clear mind at all times. Forget it, let's not talk about this matter. Secretary Qian, how do you think the province will handle this matter?"
He looked at me and smiled, "Mayor Feng, what do you think?"
I laughed and said: "I think it must be a slap between the two people. After all, both of them have problems in this matter. But I do find it strange why Minister Lei went to the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee to complain
Ah? Can't we just sit down and deal with such a matter after the fact? Why do we have to make the matter so big?"
He laughed "haha" and said: "I think this is very simple, that is, he thinks he has done nothing wrong. After all, he is the director of the Organization Department of the municipal party committee. How can he continue to work here after encountering such a thing? So he went to his superiors
Complaints are also normal."
I couldn't help but shake my head and smile bitterly, "Actually, it's the same sentence: It's really difficult for a person to evaluate himself correctly."
He said: "Yeah, yeah."
I think it’s best to end this matter here. We’ll wait until Secretary Rong comes back from the province to talk about everything. By the way, which unit leader was the one who invited Minister Lei to dinner yesterday?”
He said: "Municipal Personnel Bureau."
I nodded, "I'll ask the person in charge of the Municipal Personnel Bureau to ask about the situation. I guess Secretary Rong hasn't had time to ask yet."
He stood up immediately and said, "This is best. Mayor Feng, I suggest you call the captain of the Forestry Bureau's law enforcement team and ask him. He is the chairman's brother."
I looked at him with a smile, "Secretary Qian, what are you doing?"
He was startled, then laughed immediately, "Mayor Feng, don't blame me for things. After all, I've only been here not long ago, and I'm worried that there are some things and people that I can't control, so I'd better help you."
I shook my head and said: "You are the deputy secretary of the municipal party committee appointed by the organization. This is the legal authority. How can you not be suppressed?"
He smiled and said: "I have just started working in the local area, and I am not very familiar with the people and things in the local area. Mayor Feng, you are also a person who graduated from a university. I will ask you to help me more in the future."
I smiled and said, "Let's help each other. In fact, I'm not particularly familiar with administrative work, but I only have one idea, which is to do what I should do at work and find my place at any time."
He nodded and said: "Mayor Feng, your words are very insightful, but it is really not easy to do what you said."
I smiled and said, "It's actually very easy. You just need to use this place to look at everything at any time." As I said that, I pointed to my chest and the position of my heart.
He left immediately and I immediately called my secretary, Xiao Xu.
After he came in, I asked him: "Do you know what happened to Minister Lei last night?"
He replied: "I just found out."
I asked him again: "I heard that many people are rumoring some things about Minister Lei's past. Do you know all those things?"
He nodded.
I immediately asked him: "Then why didn't you tell me these things?"
He suddenly became nervous and embarrassed, "Mayor Feng, I thought you knew. And this is a matter for your leadership. The people below us should not discuss it too much."
I couldn't help laughing, "How do you know without anyone talking about it? Xiao Xu, I will give you one thing now: from now on, you must tell me everything you know about our Shangjiang City, including the common people.
Things that are often discussed include everyone’s opinions on our government’s work, including my personal opinions and comments. You should also tell Xiao Cui about this matter.”
He kept responding. Then I told him something else, "Have the personnel director come to me right away. In an hour, have the law enforcement captain from the Forestry Bureau come to me. He is the brother of the Chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference."
Just as I was talking, the Secretary-General of the General Office came in and said to me: "Mayor Feng, Chairman Ma of the CPPCC wants to see you. He will be here soon."
I hurriedly said to Xiao Xu: "Then don't rush and inform them first."
Not long after, the Chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference came. Of course, he and I have known each other for a long time. In fact, I still know him a little bit. He is a cadre who worked at the grassroots level and is a local. He used to be a section chief or a bureau chief, and later he was a cadre.
Deputy Secretary of the County Party Committee, and then moved from the position of Deputy Secretary of the County Party Committee to Chairman of the CPPCC. In fact, this was considered by the organization to allow him to enjoy department-level treatment before retiring.
This man is very good at taking care of himself. In my impression, he always looks energetic. Moreover, he is already in his fifties, and his hair is still black. I remember one time when we were having dinner together, he said something to me.
I once told an incident: When he was a mayor, he suddenly suffered from acute hepatic coma and almost died. Later, his family fed him soup with fish from the river every day, which finally made him wake up from the coma. Since then, he has been suffering from hepatic coma for many years.
Eat the fish in this river.
Generally speaking, hepatic coma often appears in the late stages of cirrhosis and liver cancer. However, I saw that his situation was definitely not such a problem, so I asked him: "Are you in coma because of hepatitis A?"
?”
He immediately smiled and said: "Mayor Feng is really worthy of being a medical student. He got it right right away."
I smiled and said: "Hepatitis A is very aggressive and can easily cause hepatic coma or even death. However, there will be no sequelae after recovery from such a disease. You can be considered a survivor and deserve congratulations."
He immediately laughed, "That's true. My luck seems to have gotten better since I got that disease. But now there are not many fish in the river, and I want to eat real wild fish from the river.
It’s getting harder.”
I smiled and said to him: "If you want to eat, there's still some. Right?"
He smiled and said, "Yeah. Restaurants in the city will call me as soon as they buy fish from the river, but you can't eat that food every day? I go there to eat it once a week."
At that time, he gave me the feeling that this person was very influential in the local area. Because of this, I always had a very respectful attitude in front of him. Because I knew that it was best not to go to the local area for people like him.
Instead of messing with him, you should build a good relationship with him. Maybe he will be of great help at work in the future.
But I never thought that Minister Lei would be like that, that something like that would happen to this very powerful person in the local area. I immediately sighed that people in this world are really all kinds of people, and anything can happen.
At this time, the Chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference in front of me looked different from his previous appearance. He seemed to have aged a lot, and I also noticed that he had a small amount of gray hair on his temples.
I asked him to sit down politely and enthusiastically, and then went to make him a cup of tea myself. I knew that he did not smoke, so I immediately sat across from him and said to him: "Chairman Ma, what happened last night?"
I've heard that. How could something like that happen?"
I was thinking in my heart that he must have come to me today because of this matter, because Secretary Rong has already gone to the province, so he came to me. In this case, I might as well ask him directly.
He shook his head and sighed: "Mayor Feng, they say you are an honest person, and you are indeed so. I thought you would be polite and talk to me for a long time first."
I smiled and said: "Chairman Ma, you are a senior, there is no need for me to be pretentious in front of you. No need. Haha! You think so, right?"
A smile appeared on his face, "Mayor Feng, why do you think there is such a big difference between people? You are also a leader from the province, but you are so humble.
You are also very capable, and you do things fairly. But why is that person Lei like that? He has been like that since he arrived in our Shangjiang City, carrying a shelf all day long, and looking like he can't finish eating.
, as if he has more power than the municipal party committee secretary and you, the mayor. I was so polite to him last night, but he didn’t give me any face. Mayor Feng, we are all officials, even he
Mr. Lei looks down on me, but he has to give me the minimum face when he is in public, right? Wasn’t he a division chief before he came to our Shangjiang City? I was a division-level cadre ten years ago, and he counts
what?!"
The more he talked, the more excited he became, but I didn’t know what to say, because at this time I was very cautious in my heart. After all, this matter involved two main leaders in the city. I pondered and said: "Chairman Ma,
I just heard about what happened yesterday. Before you came, I was talking about calling your brother to ask about the situation. I don’t know the specific situation of this matter, so I can’t say anything more. I know Minister Lei.
He is not bad, and he is also very capable. In fact, you and I have been drunk when we were drunk. Each of us behaves differently when drunk, but I think it is better not to worry about some things that happen after drinking.
It’s better to worry about it more. What do you think?”
He shook his head and said: "Which of us doesn't drink often? But how many people are like him? This is not the first time that something like this has happened. The people below will flatter him because he is the head of the organization.
, to please him. But he always puts on airs. That’s fine. Every time he says the same thing: I know you, you always behave badly! Mayor Feng, tell me, is there such a thing in an organization?
The minister’s?”
I smiled bitterly while listening, and then said: "Chairman Ma, everyone has a different personality and a different way of doing things. Now what has happened is that the person who was drinking with you was planning to hit someone. We
Let’s not talk about Minister Lei’s past, just talk about what happened last night. Chairman Ma, think about it, after something like yesterday happened, it will definitely have some bad effects on you. After all, he is the Minister of Organization, and he will work with you
The diner was actually ready to hit someone, and in such a violent way. Haha! Chairman Ma, I am not biased towards any of you, I am just discussing the matter. Chairman Ma, think about it, what will be the outcome of this matter?"
He was stunned for a moment, and then sighed and said: "Yes. Now I am also very worried about this matter. Now he is the first to complain, and I heard that he went to the province to complain. Mayor Feng, I know you
I have something to do with the leaders of the province. This matter has come out. Now I regret it. I should not have toasted him for the second time. I was really a little angry at the time, so I thought of teaching him a lesson in that way.
.Who knew those young people drinking with me were so impulsive? Hey! I regret it too much now."
I pondered and said, "Chairman Ma, now that Secretary Rong has been called to the province, I think Secretary Rong will handle this matter very properly. It would be bad if I came forward at this time."
He nodded, "That's true. Mayor Feng, but I still hope you can say a few good words for me in front of the provincial leaders. The impact of this incident is indeed too bad, and now it is too late for me to regret it. I have seen so many things
I will retire completely in 2019, and it would be unworthy to be punished or even dismissed from my post at this time. What’s more, there is a reason for this incident, and it is not entirely my responsibility.”
I thought about it and said, "Chairman Ma, do you think this is okay? We'll wait until Secretary Rong comes back to see the situation."
He nodded and said: "That's okay. Hey! Mayor Feng, it would be great if all the leaders from the province were like you. How come the former Secretary Chen and the current Lei are all like this? Look at me,
My mouth started to talk again. In the final analysis, this is because of my poor cultivation. Haha! Mayor Feng, don’t be surprised."
Of course I knew that he was not just talking nonsense. He knew that I had a disagreement with Secretary Chen before, so he used such words to try to get closer to me. I shook my head and said with a smile: "Chairman Ma, I am a better person."
That’s right. How can a person be cautious at all times?”
He sighed and said, "Yes, yes. Mayor Feng, it would be great if there were more leaders like you."
I smiled slightly at him and said: "Chairman Ma, please don't say that. Secretary Rong has done a lot better than me in many things. You are also the main leader of our city, and everyone knows who you are. Last night
What happened was just an accident. But Chairman Ma, I think that what happened last night was caused by the people who ate with you anyway, and now Minister Lei has gone to the province to report the situation, so it’s very
Maybe this matter will become very complicated and troublesome. Chairman Ma, you know that I like to tell the truth... Haha! I have something I want to tell you. I wonder if you are willing to listen to it.
Woolen cloth?"
He immediately said: "Mayor Feng, I am all ears."
I hurriedly said: "Chairman Ma, please don't say that. You are a senior, and I have to learn many things from you. But in this matter, you are living in this mountain and don't know the true face of Mount Lu. Chairman Ma
, maybe you don’t want to hear what I say, but I think I should still tell you.”
He looked at me and said, "Mayor Feng, thank you. You go ahead and tell me. I'll talk after I listen. I know you mean well and I will never blame you."
I immediately said: "Chairman Ma, I think the best way now is to calm down Minister Lei. Think about it, if he continues to report this problem everywhere in the province, things will not be easy to handle next. In fact,
You're right, people, it's often a matter of face. After all, this has happened. I guess what Minister Lei is most angry about right now is that he has no face. You also know, those things he said before, including yesterday
The situation at night, in the final analysis, was because he cared too much about his own face. So... Haha! Chairman Ma, I won't say much else, you should understand what I mean.
"
He shook his head violently and said: "Mayor Feng, do you want me to come to his door to apologize to him? No! Absolutely not! Why? I am an old comrade, who is he?! You want me to apologize to him?!"
I sighed in my heart, but said: "Chairman Ma, this is just my personal opinion. If you think it's not okay, I will say so. But I feel that I still have to state again that I am not biased towards him in any way."
I mean, I’m definitely just talking about things based on things.”
He nodded, "Mayor Feng, thank you. I have no other intention of coming to you today. I just want you to know the truth of the matter. Mayor Feng, I know that you are a very fair person, but what you just suggested
I can't accept my way, absolutely not. Otherwise, my face will make it impossible for me to survive in our Shangjiang City. Mayor Feng, I am not the so-called local snake that some people imagine.
, I grew up here and have been engaged in administrative work for so many years. Now I am still the chairman of the Municipal People's Political Consultative Conference. It is a fact that many people respect me. But I am definitely not the same person as the former Mayor Jiang. I once persuaded
He didn't want to do that, and as a result, he was alienated from me. The few people I had dinner with that day were not gangsters in society. They all had their own industries. Although the business was not big, they could still be regarded as ours.
He is a well-known local entrepreneur. They were drunk that day, and they really couldn't stand Lei's arrogance, so they couldn't help but take action. But I definitely didn't instruct them to do that, so
Although I have some responsibility for this matter, I feel that my responsibility is not very big. My brother did not do anything, and the person who did it was not my subordinate, let alone my relative. So I am not afraid."
I nodded, "Chairman Ma, I'm just making suggestions. That's just my personal opinion. Since you said that, I won't say anything else."
He immediately stood up and said: "Mayor Feng, I know you are very busy, so I won't waste your time. Thank you. Please!"
Then he left. I personally escorted him out of my office. We shook hands when he left. He said those three words to me again, "Please!", and then he held my hand.
The hand shook a few times.
I know what he means: he still hopes that I will tell the leaders of the province about his matter. But I will definitely not say more. After all, Secretary Rong is now handling the matter, and Secretary Rong is still there.
You have no intention of discussing this matter with me.
I sighed in my heart: In fact, the idea I gave him just now is the best way to solve this matter, but it is a pity that he cannot accept it. But this is also easy to understand, because she is also a very face-conscious person, like this
It was impossible for him to agree to the matter.
It's all about face.
In our country, many people have a face-saving mentality. They feel that some things are not suitable for them but they refuse to bow down.
Chinese society was first centered on the family, which determines that a person's honor and disgrace are closely linked to the family. For example, all scholars in the past dynasties, including the number one scholar and the second highest scholar, have to return to their hometowns in fine clothes to worship their ancestors, so that their honor can earn money for the entire family.
face.
Our country has been influenced by Confucian culture for a long time, and Confucianism advocates the principle of interpersonal communication that "harmony is the most important". Therefore, "leaving a little less face" to others has become an important means to maintain interpersonal harmony. Moreover, Confucianism advocates harmony between friends.
In symbiosis and mutual prosperity, even if a friend is at fault, he should not expose his fault to his face. Behind face is the law of human relations, which is the mutual maintenance and utilization of interpersonal relationships. The most fundamental thing is the exchange and satisfaction of mutual interests.
In Chinese characters in my country, "face" and "face" are connected in some senses, such as "wash face" and "wash face". But in the word "face", there are differences between "face" and "face". Big difference. "Lian" refers to judgment under moral laws, such as calling someone "shameless"; while "face" contains more meaning of power. This reveals the first psychology of good face Motive, that is, the desire to show off power. Many people think that they can do things that others cannot do, which means they have resources and power that others do not have. For example, some people nowadays are always willing to do things for others. When others praise them for their When he is capable, his mentality of showing off is most satisfied.
In addition, low self-esteem can also lead to bad face. Song Zhenzong believed that the "Chanyuan Alliance" had greatly hurt his self-esteem. He felt inferior in front of his opponents, so he made all the "Five Sacred Mountains" Zen in one go.
This is to protect his face. From this, we can see that some people clearly feel inferior in front of others, but they are not willing to let others look down on them, so they can only use the so-called face to make ends meet.
The same is true for Mr. Lu Xun's Ah Q. He was submissive in front of Mr. Zhao and had a very low self-esteem. However, after he was beaten, he always used "I beat my son" to try to maintain his poor self-esteem.
In psychology, the "herding effect" is also an important factor leading to good face. The so-called "herding effect" is a manifestation of blind psychology. There are many "prestigious schools" now. Your child can go to them, but if my child doesn't go
That seems so shameless. As a result, prestigious schools are like an oasis loved by sheep. As long as one parent enrolls his child, many parents will follow suit. The main reason for these people's good face is that they are afraid that others will look down on them. The safest way is to just follow suit.
Big flow.
"You have to live to save face and suffer the consequences." We have long recognized the dangers of having too much face. It can be as small as family weddings and funerals, and life is difficult afterwards, or even borrowing debt to survive; as big as a company, such as Hong Kong's Yaohan, in order to provide the company
Putting money on your face, blindly expanding regardless of reality, and finally fell into trouble.
But we cannot completely deny the role of face. After all, it is beneficial to give some face in moderation. Properly giving face to others is a sign of respect for others and is also the lubricant of interpersonal relationships.
Regarding the matter of face, I think the best thing is to be polite without giving up principles; to be polite without restraint; when emphasizing face, you must take into account the consequences; do not feel inferior because you have no face; do not be arrogant just because you have face.
I'm not going to look for Chairman Ma's brother anymore, but I think we should still call the personnel director to understand the specific situation.
Unexpectedly, after understanding the situation, I discovered that the real situation was somewhat different from what I had learned.
The author's digression:
My just-published book "Tengda Road, a Male Urology Doctor: A Legend in the Medical World (Complete)"
I didn't expect to meet my first love like this. She is my patient, and I am an outpatient doctor in the urology department. Chen Yao! I almost called her name. She didn't seem to recognize me, and suddenly thought that she was wearing
The hat and mask also covered most of her face. What's more likely is that she never cared about me at all, and a kind of resentment suddenly surged up. Aren't you so noble and arrogant? I want to see it today
Look, what kind of thing are you wearing pants?
This was the first time I had such vicious thoughts about my patient. But now, towards her, I suddenly had this despicable mentality that was not commensurate with my profession. I knew that this was a kind of hatred.
At the same time, it is also a kind of revenge, and maybe there is a common problem among men that they always find ways to pry into things they don’t get. Of course, I don’t need to pry now, because she will take off her pants immediately, and she
The most secret part of my body is about to be displayed in front of me...