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The relationship between men and women is a relatively complicated process.
After their contact with Wei Hongqi in the south on May Day, Che Huancheng and Yu Shaoying made rapid progress in handling their relationship with Zhao Wen.
When you receive kindness from others, you should repay it with a spring of water.
In fact, there are many people in life who do not have no talents or abilities, but they are just busy in inconspicuous positions throughout their lives. For these people, life just owes them a chance to show themselves and be recognized by others.
Attention, and thus the opportunity to rise to prominence and receive applause.
Don't say that gold always shines. There are so many talents that have been forgotten in this world. How many unexploited gold mines are there in the distant and sparsely populated mountains? The ones that are known are always a few, and the ones that are unknown always occupy the most.
Most of it.
In fact, everyone is different from others and has their own strengths. What is lacking in this world is never talent.
And living in human society, the most indispensable thing is people. In busy days, how do you know which of every face you pass by does not have his own unique insights and excellence in some fields?
of ability?
Without a suitable opportunity and a good stage, everyone is ordinary. Without opportunities to show their talents, no matter how talented people are, they can only live in mediocrity for life.
Three hundred and sixty lines, and he will be the number one scholar.
Without Bole, the thousand-mile horse can only live among the horses and die of old age, unknown to the world.
The rarer it is, the more it will be cherished.
Before success, all possible opportunities should not be lost easily, so for Che Huancheng, who has worked hard in the agency for many years, he felt deeply.
As for opportunities, for Che Huancheng, there was a time when he could not offend Princess Deng Huarong and Deng Er. Of course, in the end, he could not offend Deng Zaitian himself.
Therefore, when Zhao Wen learned that Che Huancheng was erratic regarding the Ni Hong family's Yu Shuxuan matter, although he was angry for a moment, he later understood Che Huancheng's behavior in his heart. Similarly, in subsequent contacts, Che Huancheng, of course,
I am grateful to Zhao Wen for his tolerance.
In Che Huancheng's view, Zhao Wen was of high rank, had a prominent family background, and had outstanding abilities. In southern Ganxi, what he lacked was some close friends of the opposite sex, so he asked his wife to bring out Dou Yan, a colleague in his youth, to introduce him to Zhao Wen.
. He couldn't help but say that this was a good move. At least he could see that Zhao Wen still had a good impression of intellectual women like Dou Yan, and it didn't matter what Dou Yan thought of Zhao Wen.
In the process of intercourse between men and women, women are always passive. As long as the man takes the initiative, the result will generally develop toward a happy ending. This is also in line with the general rules of intercourse between men and women in society.
During the short few days in the south, Che Huancheng saw that Zhao Wen and Zhen Ni had a good relationship, but Che Huancheng didn't think it was inappropriate for Zhao Wen to have a few friends of the opposite sex around him.
A rare young talent like Zhao Wen has a bright future. I don’t know how many women want to get to know him, but Zhao Wen is indeed very busy and his social circle is very small. Otherwise, give Zhao Wen the opportunity to introduce some girlfriends.
How could it happen to me?
After meeting Zhao Wen for the first time, Yu Shaoying asked Dou Yan what he thought of Zhao Wen. Dou Yan replied that Zhao Wen lacked knowledge. At that time, Che Huancheng wanted to laugh. When he returned home, Che Huancheng told his wife Yu Shaoying.
Zhao Wen is not a teacher who specializes in knowledge teaching and educating people. It is normal for him to not know much about certain aspects of knowledge.
If Zhao Wen knew everything, he wouldn't work as a secretary next to Wei Hongqi. He should instead become a professor in the university.
Yu Shaoying knew what her husband was thinking. She still had a good feeling for Zhao Wen. She felt that Zhao Wen was not as frivolous as some young and successful people when dealing with others, so she was still willing to be a matchmaker. However, after meeting her,
After seeing the bright and colorful Zhen Ni, I thought that all men in the world are the same. They eat what is in their mouths, look into the bowl, and think about what is in the pot. However, this is a trend. It seems that since ancient times, males have been the dominant force.
The dominant society is like this.
For the sake of her husband and future life, Yu Shaoying still supported Che Huancheng in action and brought Dou Yan out tonight. As for what will happen to Dou Yan and Zhao Wen in the future, Yu Shaoying feels that it has nothing to do with her.
Now, I only care about getting married and not having children.
When Zhao Wen heard Che Huancheng invite him out for dinner, he had the intention of inviting Dou Yan out with him. It wasn't that he had any other thoughts about Dou Yan, but he just liked hearing about the gentle and quiet Dou Yan.
When a woman talks and talks about something she doesn't understand, it's like asking a teacher at school who she thinks is amiable to ask some class questions, and she likes the subject because of the lecturer.
Che Huanguo actually heard the ambiguity in Zhao Wen's voice during the call, so he asked his wife to call out Dou Yan.
However, Dou Yan and Yu Shaoying had already had dinner and were sitting aside to accompany Zhao Wen and Che Huancheng.
Che Huancheng and Zhao Wen drank a glass of white wine, and Yu Shaoying and Dou Yan accompanied them by a glass of red wine. Che Huancheng said: "In the past, when we drank with a close friend, a thousand glasses of wine would be enough, but now when we drink with a close friend, a thousand glasses of wine would be too few. If you can find someone to drink and dine with,
, these days are also like digging for gold in the sand.”
Zhao Wen listened to Che Huancheng's words to please himself, but he also felt it and laughed: "To be successful, you need friends; to achieve great success, you need enemies."
Yu Shaoying said that Zhao Wen said it well. Dou Yan asked: "Then do you have many enemies?"
Che Huancheng smiled: "Yes, Dou Yan asked well. Friends can help each other, and enemies can keep themselves motivated and clear-headed."
Zhao Wen said: "Teacher Dou exaggerated. I don't think I have succeeded, but there are many potential enemies." Seeing that Dou Yan was about to speak again, Zhao Wen continued: "Actually, a person's biggest enemy is himself. For example,
For me, I think about reading more books every day, but I always use the excuse of being busy. When I read a book, I feel restless and can't read it, or I feel sleepy. Reading has become a good hypnotic medicine, haha."
Che Huancheng said: "Study with peace of mind? How can it be so easy? Not to mention that you will let me read books, you just let me study specially. It's strange that I can calm down at school."
Yu Shaoying echoed her husband's words and said: "I run around all day just because I am hungry. When I am full, I think about clothes. I have enough food and clothing, but I also want a beautiful wife."
"People's hearts are always dissatisfied. Just like this, why am I thinking about taking a vacation just after the holiday? It can be seen that Zhao Wen is right. A person's biggest enemy is himself."
Yu Shaoying couldn't call him Xiao Zhao or Xiao Wen as Zhao Wen asked, and she didn't want to call him by his position, so she simply called him by his name. Just like those students who studied in the party school and had positions, it felt more natural to call him by name.
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Dou Yan said: "If you are simple, the world will be simple for you. The two great tragedies in life are that one is completely hopeless and does not want to do anything; the other is that one is complacent but only wants to do nothing."
Zhao Wen looked at Dou Yan and said, "Teacher Dou's words are always philosophical. I'd like to toast you."
Dou Yan took a sip of his cup, and Zhao Wen said, "I met Teacher Dou Yan. My problem is here again."
Che Huancheng smiled: "Come on, now I really have to take the time to become a disciple."
Che Huancheng stood up as he said that, as if he was going to the bathroom. Yu Shaoying understood, so she said I'll go with you, then she climbed on Che Huancheng's arm and left.
Dou Yan did not feel restrained just because she was alone with Zhao Wen. She looked at Zhao Wen and said, "Please speak."
Zhao Wen laughed and said: "Actually, it's just a story. I can't understand its meaning after listening to it. You see, my complex facial features cannot hide my simple IQ. If intelligence can be seen on my forehead,
If I get there, I guess as soon as I step out, thousands of birds will fly across the mountains and thousands of people will disappear."
Dou Yan laughed after hearing this: "Self-mockery is the first step towards maturity. Many people live in a state of self-expansion throughout their lives. They cannot look at themselves clearly - I said you have many enemies, but you don't
Approved.”
"Then I have only just begun to mature. Apart from the fact that I don't know any other enemies," Zhao Wen smiled and said, "The story goes like this. It is said that when Zeng Guofan led his troops to station in Anqing, there was a
A relative came to him from the countryside..."
What Zhao Wen retold was the second story told by Wei Hongqi at the Standing Committee meeting. He stopped when he told Zeng Guofan that he did not like the behavior of his relatives and spent money on traveling expenses to send his relatives back to his hometown.
"Teacher Dou Yan, look, what is this story going to say?"
Dou Yan said: "I call you Zhao Wen, you call me by my name, you call me teacher, you always feel that I am a little old."
Zhao Wen said: "Spiritual maturity can also make people feel old and tired. This has nothing to do with age."
Dou Yan laughed when she heard this. She likes Zhao Wen who is so meaningful and yet calmly pleases her.
Zhao Wen felt that it was natural for Dou Yan to say anything.
Dou Yan said: "If you only ask this, the simple and concise statement is that Zeng Guofan did not like the behavior of this relative, and was worried that if he was promoted by him in the future, he would be extravagant and wasteful, and that he would change his character and become a sycophant.
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"The original text of this story tells it well. People who were born into poor families traveled thousands of miles to join Zeng Guofan. Why did they change their original ways in a few days and be picky about things?
Isn't it the first step to lose one's true nature if you don't get tired of details?"
"Nipping bad signs in their infancy is to nip them in the bud. From Zeng Guofan's point of view, he felt that if his relative could not keep calm, he would probably cause trouble to himself in the future, that is,
This man had an impetuous nature, so he was sent away."
After listening to Dou Yan's explanation and considering the situation at the Standing Committee meeting at that time, Zhao Wen still didn't understand what Wei Hongqi was talking about.
Seeing Zhao Wen remain silent, Dou Yan said: "If you choose the wrong direction in life, stopping is progress. Sometimes it is more important to set the goal than to implement it in a hurry."
"Just like what Sister Yu said just now, after people solve the problem of eating, they will think about clothing. When they have no worries about food and clothing, they will think about their beautiful wives and concubines, and then they will think about the official position of Young Master Tian, even if they become
If the emperor wants to live forever, the people's hearts are always not enough."
Zhao Wen looked like he was being taught something, and Dou Yan said, "If you only ask these questions, that's probably what it means. However, the ending of this story will change in the second half."
Zhao Wen was startled and asked: "Is this story not over yet?"
Dou Yan nodded, and Zhao Wen said, "Then what happens next?"
Others have spent a lot of money and decades to acquire knowledge, but Zhao Wen lacked almost all the knowledge before this, and he had to learn what is useful for the present in a short period of time and turn that knowledge into his own
This is quite difficult given the way of thinking and behavior.
However, he really couldn't figure out why Wei Hongqi told a half-story at the Standing Committee meeting. What would the second half of this story be about?
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