Unless the family is separated, you will be far away from the big family and choose another place to live far away.
Otherwise, if we get together, Yue Zhongyao is not a cruel person, and if his mother cries and begs, nothing will be done.
His temperament is like a real man apart from his mother, but when he is around his mother, he is controlled by her, and he is completely different.
Jin Niang has a cold temperament and is impatient of flattering and fawning over others. She is afraid she will suffer a lot in the future.
It's just that she has suffered all her life, and she doesn't want her granddaughter to live a cold life like her. She had a son at the beginning, and Jin Niang had Wan'er by her side, and Wan'er would get married in ten years.
When the time comes, her parents will be old, and no matter how close the brothers and sisters are, they will each have their own families. The care will be limited, and Jinniang is afraid that she will be alone.
Her Jin Niang...
How come Jin Niang, whom she had raised in the palm of her hand since childhood, was so unhappy?
Lan's eyes felt sore and he no longer wanted to talk to Yue Zhongyao.
Yue Zhongyao saw the sadness on Lan's face and knew that she had always been partial to Jin Niang.
Then he added: "Although I quit my job at the Yamen, I still have enough energy. Whether I work in the fields or go out to work, I can always earn money to support the mother and daughter. Last time I took a job and helped people escort people.
After trading for less than a month, I got back ten taels of silver. The owner still valued me and invited me again two days ago. This time I sent Jin Niang back to my father-in-law’s house and will go to the city in the afternoon.
I'm afraid I won't be able to return for half a month or a month. When I'm not around, I'll let Jin Niang go back to my father-in-law's house to stay until I come back. Then I'll pick up Jin Niang and her daughter's house. Jin Niang is not here, and my mother is also making trouble.
Can’t get up.”
Hearing this, Father Qiao looked at him and said, "You don't want to do any errands at the Yamen and have returned to your hometown. Are you going to look for work outside again?"
Lan also hummed: "Jin Niang has been worried for four years, will she have to worry about this for the rest of her life? If this is your plan, write the divorce letter as soon as possible, so that I can ask Jin Niang to find her again.
A family that lives a stable life!"
Yue Zhongyao felt pain in his heart.
He hurriedly replied: "That's not my intention. I just think it will bring me money quickly. I still have a lot of skills to work with, and they need me right now. When we separate, I have to save some money for Jin Niang and Wan'er. In the past,
All the monthly money I got was given to my parents to support the family. From now on, I should also make more plans for Jin Niang and Wan'er. After I save a sum of money and buy a few more acres of farmland, I can live with them.
Mother and daughter can live a stable life for a few years."
Lan was unconvinced.
Father Qiao was somewhat relieved. His daughter was already married, so what else could she do?
He has been studying since he was a child, and he is very traditional in his heart. He believes that a woman should stay together for the rest of her life. Even if her husband dies, she should keep her husband's integrity. If she has children, she should keep her husband's integrity. How can she give up her own child and choose someone to marry?
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Father Qiao glanced at Lan's side, and hurriedly pulled Yue Zhongyao to his feet, and Weng and his son-in-law took him to the hall to talk.
After Qiao's mother came back, the family talked about their farewells affectionately, and then sat around and had lunch affectionately.
After dinner, Father Qiao helped Yue Zhongyao find a smooth ox cart in the village and took him to Qingchuan City.
Yue Zhongyao looked at Jin Niang standing in the yard from a distance. As he was looking towards him, the wind blew a few hairs on her cheeks, flying in disorder, just like when she first got married...
The days at Qiao's house passed very quickly.
The three sisters sat around doing needlework, and Mrs. Lan taught them a lesson from time to time. Father Qiao moved a cane chair and sat in the courtyard to read, with a pot of tea beside him and the smoke curling up.
Mother Qiao took Wan'er to Yun's house and brought Yun Luan back.
The two children followed Mother Qiao closely, playing endlessly in the vegetable field...
After Qiao Mingjin coaxed her daughter to sleep at night, Lan called her into her room.
Qiao Mingjin lifted the quilt and lay next to Lan, talking to her in a low voice.
"Jin Niang, what are your plans? After listening to Zhong Yao's words today, my grandmother saw that he really wanted to live a good life. Although he has a difficult mother, who doesn't have many troubles? Don't tell me.
There are intrigues in the backyards of rich families, and even in farmers' houses, there is a lot of chattering. Even in a simple family, who can guarantee that the man lying next to him has no second thoughts? Even if the man has no second thoughts, are his children obedient and filial? Living life is no different.
There is no peace. Every family has a headache of one kind or another."
Qiao Mingjin leaned on Lan's shoulder and nodded: "Grandma, I understand."
Lan touched Qiao Mingjin's hair and said slowly: "You have been a worry-free person since you were a child. You are well-behaved and obedient. You learn quickly and take everything you teach seriously. My grandmother has always had migraines.
You. What I hope most is that you can live a stable and peaceful life."
"grandmother……"
Lan patted her head lightly and said: "At first, I didn't want to marry you to your in-law's family, but your father said that although that family is not a rich and noble family, the man you married is not the first-born son, nor the
Yao'er, life will be much easier when the family is separated in the future. There will be no worries when living as a family, and there will always be a moment or two of stability. Grandma agreed to the marriage. Who expected you to eat it?
These past few years have been hard... but now that Zhong Yao has said that we will separate the family, the stable life that Jin Niang wants is not far away."
Qiao Mingjin rubbed Lan's shoulder.
Then I heard Lan said: "Grandma probably knows some of your thoughts. It's just a divorce. I don't say whether you can find a good family in the future. Just because you are the second marriage, your husband's family will definitely look down on you. If that man is in front of you,
If you have children left behind, it will be difficult for you to be a stepmother, neither right nor left. If someone deliberately tells him some lies, he will always suspect that you are not good to the children left behind by your ex-wife. No matter how good the couple is, no matter how good they are,
Emotions can be wiped out."
Qiao Mingjin thought for a while and then said: "Grandma, I don't want to get married anymore. It's good now. The two of us are separated. I have an identity. Even if I have to walk outside, open a shop and buy property, it doesn't matter.
No matter what people say, I don’t have to worry about their families coming to bother me. After a while, I want to move to the city. When the time comes, I will move the workshop to the city, which will also save the journey of transporting piles back and forth. Now I am in Xiahe Village
The piles and piles nearby have almost been collected. The wooden piles used now are all transported from other places, and they have to travel a long way to deliver them. Once they are done, they have to be transported to the city again, which is very time-consuming and laborious."
Lan nodded: "That's true. It's just that the land price in the city is not cheap, and the labor is not cheap either. How can it be easy to build such a large workshop?"
He added: "Grandma doesn't understand business matters either. It's just that you mentioned the matter of separation and separation. From what you said, do you want to stay with Wan'er in the future? But have you ever thought about it, Wan'er will eventually get married?
, it will only take ten years if it is early. Ten years later, you will still be in your prime, how will you live in the future? By then, maybe your grandmother will be gone, your parents will be old, and although Mingyu and Mingjue will...
Okay, but they each have their own families, and if you are alone, isn’t this going to tear out your grandmother’s heart?”
"Then when Wan'er gets married, my granddaughter will adopt a son."
"Nonsense. How can an adopted child compare with one's own biological child?"
Seeing Qiao Mingjin's disapproval, Lan said: "Grandma didn't say that if you adopt someone, you must not be able to raise him well, but no matter how good he treats you, it won't be as good as the affection of a husband and wife when you grow old? You will be sick in the future.
No one can explain it. You are lying alone on the bed, but the child you raised is living in harmony with your wife and children. Then you will know how hard it is."
After Qiao Mingjin listened, she turned sideways and said to Lan, "It's not bad to be like grandma. Although grandpa is gone, dad always listens to grandma, and mom treats grandma like her own mother. Our family is happy and happy.
Isn’t that great?”
Lan took a deep look at Qiao Mingjin, let out a long sigh in the dark night, and held Qiao Mingjin in his arms.
He slowly said: "Grandma has never seen anything in her life? Although your father is filial and obedient, your mother is also very filial. Your sisters and brothers are also well-raised, but sometimes grandma thinks about the future and the past, and always thinks that maybe
There is another way to go."
In the dark night, Lan paused for a long time.
After a long time, he said again: "If grandma could have hardened her heart, maybe she wouldn't be like this now. And your dad didn't have to suffer hardships with grandma at a young age, and his body was broken at a young age. He should have been
He lived a happy and worry-free life with fine clothes and good food. He also had the most talent in reading since he was a child. If he was still in his family, he might have his own ambitions by now, and there would be no need to sit back and forth like this.
This is a small mountain village.”
Qiao Mingjin knew that her grandmother and father were related to each other.
Now after hearing what my grandmother said, I am even more sure.
When she was a child, her grandmother was very particular about everything. No matter how poor her family was, the bowls were always the same as the dishes, and the teacups were the teacups. Even the chopsticks were divided into public chopsticks and private chopsticks, as well as chopstick holders.
It is necessary to wash hands before eating, and no matter how nervous or sad the family is, everyone has their own water and a handkerchief to wipe their hands with.
Her grandmother was literate and dignified.
Even if my father hired a mother, I heard that in the past few years, she rarely went to the village or went to my grandfather's house.
Not to mention that I don't like him, I just feel that I have greatly wronged my father by hiring my mother.
I heard from my mother that in the first few years after she got married, she was very cautious. No matter how well she did, her grandmother never boasted about it.
Even though she was very happy and gave birth to Qiao Mingjin ten months later, her mother was not allowed to raise her. In addition to carrying her to breastfeed her, and even changing diapers, her grandmother did everything herself. And she had eaten and slept with her grandmother since she was a child.
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Later Mingjue, Mingyu, Mingqi, and Mingheng were all personally raised by their grandmother.
Maybe the past is always a scar for my grandmother.
If she didn't say anything, Qiao Mingjin and others wouldn't ask.
Even Qiao's mother only knows that the men in her family are different from those in the farmer's family.
Tonight, when Qiao Mingjin saw that Lan was willing to open her heart, she said, "Grandma..."
Lan glanced at her, brushed the messy hair on her face, and said softly: "Go to sleep."
Qiao Mingjin blinked twice, nestled next to Lan, and after a while, she really fell asleep.
At night, there is only Lan's long sigh... (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for recommendations and monthly votes. Your support is my greatest motivation.)
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