From ancient times to the present, this kind of situation is not uncommon in China. Otherwise, there would be no love tragedy like Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai. [ ]
In fact, not only China, but also every big family in the world has this tradition of friendship. The same goes for Romeo and Juliet. Big families are willing to sacrifice the happiness of their children for the benefit of the family.
Many of these are active and many are passive and involuntary, but the result is the same.
Luo Wan'er's words to her son made him fall into deep thought.
For a long time, Ye Huang thought that he had let his grandfather save Chen Yan once and that the matter would be a happy ending. However, his mother's words made him realize the reality clearly.
If in the end, he and Chen Yan did not get together, Chen Yan's fate would still be as tragic as before. Not only Chen Yan, but Tang Guo would also be the same.
In the maelstrom of Yanjing, no family can survive alone, including the Tang family, and even the Ye family is no exception.
"Your Majesty, it's not that my mother deliberately made the reality so cruel. In the circle of Yanjing, there are far more cruel things than you think, and the strife you see between some so-called noble sons is nothing more than
It’s just a small fight.”
"You are worried about whether Guoguo and Chenyan's parents and elders will object to your being together. This is natural, but once you understand the rules of the Yanjing circle, you don't have to worry about this anymore."
Luo Wan'er smiled and continued.
"It can be said that you are a lucky person, because the Ye family where you live has a huge business and great influence. Few people in Yanjing dare to mess with us. Many people even want to cling to us and want to marry their daughters into the marriage.
You have the right to choose among them, you can choose the beautiful girl you like, such as Chen Yan."
"As for Guoguo, although the Tang family is very powerful in the military, you have to understand that a good politician can kill a good soldier, so in many cases a military family may not be able to defeat a politician family. In Yanjing and Tang Dynasties,
There are also people and families that they are afraid of. So, if it weren't for your appearance, Guoguo would probably have become a victim."
Hearing his mother's words, Emperor Ye was deeply shocked.
He had never thought about this, but now that his mother said this, he completely understood the sorrow of the big family.
What his mother said was right. If Guo Guo and Chen Yan hadn't met her, they might have become the weight of the family marriage, even if Guo Guo was already the chief scientist.
But in front of the family elders, these titles are useless. What the family wants is a strong ally!
Putting aside the circle of Yanjing, wasn't the marriage between me and Qingyin's baby also the result of the marriage between this family?
The only thing that made Emperor Ye and his daughters happy was that they fell in love and the family had no objection.
This point, in addition to Ye Huang’s own outstanding strength and unlimited potential, is more about the affirmation of the Ye family’s strength by several female families. Without the giant Ye family, I am afraid that Ye Huang would not even be able to pass the first level.
.
Or it can be said that even if I have passed the test of having several female parents, I am afraid that I will not be able to compete with my love rival.
Thinking of this, Ye Huang also understood a cruel reality: happiness requires one's own strength to strive for...
"Mom, what do you mean, even if Guoguo and Chenyan's parents know that I have other women, they won't object to our relationship?"
"I don't know very well whether I object to it or not. After all, Mom can't guess what everyone is thinking, but one thing you can rest assured is that they will not embarrass you, let alone talk nonsense. This matter concerns them and Ye
Family relationship."
"Don't forget, you and these girls really love each other. No matter how cruel parents are, they will never ignore the feelings of their children. Since they like you, and you are so good, and the Ye family is strong, why should they oppose it?
Woolen cloth?"
"Anyway, Prince, don't worry too much about this matter. Mom still wants to have a few more daughters-in-law. When the time comes, they will really object. At worst, I will lower my face and try to persuade them. I don't believe that I can't persuade them. Then, I won't be able to persuade them."
No, let’s learn from the Wang family’s tricks.”
Upon hearing his mother's words, Ye Huang was shocked and waved his hands quickly.
"Mom, please don't use this. If you really use the Wang family's dirty tricks, they will probably hate me to death."
It is true that I like several girls and hope to live with them for the rest of my life, but some things are full of setbacks and it is not easy to get together.
Although his mother's method did have the effect of removing the firepower and bringing the families of the girls into submission, this situation was not what Emperor Ye wanted to see.
Even if the girls finally get together with him, the family was destroyed by his own family, and both the girls and he will carry a heavy psychological burden.
This was not the scene he wanted to see.
"Look at how scared you are. Mom is not confused. Do you think I would really do this?"
Seeing her son's reaction, Luo Wan'er burst into laughter.
My son is so cute, I will believe whatever I say!
He could think of the disadvantages, how could he, as a parent, not think of them.
"Mom, so I can rest assured about this banquet?" Ye Huang said flatteringly, holding his mother's hand.
"Don't worry, nothing will happen to me when I'm here. Just keep your heart in your stomach. But don't get too carried away, kid. You have to be polite when meeting other people's parents and elders. Do you understand?"
"Hey, Mom, don't worry about this. I'm very well-behaved. Isn't today a good example?"
Ye Huang said with a sweet smile.
Hearing her son's words, Luo Wan'er felt distressed again.
Today, this boy was tortured quite a bit by his grandfather and uncles. If he hadn't intervened, he might not have been able to withstand the questioning from several people.
However, Luo Wan'er also knew in her heart that the two elders and the others were so enthusiastic because Ye Huang went back for the first time. They wanted to ask clearly about some things that had happened to the child over the years. In fact, all this was because they cared about him.
"You, I don't know how many things my mother will need to worry about in Yanjing from now on. As long as you and your sister can be safe, there will be nothing more for my mother to ask for in this life."
After poking Ye Huang's forehead, Luo Wan'er muttered something dotingly with a smile on her face.
Although Ye Huang has reached adulthood at the age of twenty-five, he is still just a child who is not very sensible in her eyes.
In the eyes of the mother, no matter how old the son is, he is still a child, his own child!