Zhou Leer's sudden departure made the classmates who were originally excited and looking like they were watching a good show suddenly let out a series of disappointed sighs. They found that there was not the scene of jealousy as they imagined, and they left the library somewhat disappointed.
However, Zhou Leer's departure had no impact on Luo Tian at all. He seemed like a passerby in life, bringing nothing and taking nothing away. Just like a normal person, he returned to his original position without sadness or joy and continued to look at his hands.
The book "Carnegie Communication and Interpersonal Relations".
In fact, Luo Tian was attracted by this book from the beginning. After Zhou Leer left, Luo Tian devoted himself even more. And because of professional training, Luo Tian's reading speed is naturally unparalleled, and his memory is also very good.
After reading it once, I can usually recite it intact.
Of course, many people call this ability: photographic memory.
However, Luo Tian did not rush to finish the book like he was swallowing the jujube. Instead, he tasted it carefully and read it carefully, just like the royal family in ancient Western Europe tasted the sweet and delicious red wine. He was meticulous, elegant and indulged in it, deeply absorbed in it.
He couldn't help himself.
In fact, modern urbanites are accustomed to reading books online, because almost all the books you want to read can be found online, but perhaps because of the influence of the old man, Luotian still maintains the most primitive habit of reading - reading. Yes.
He said that except for reading a book called "The Mad Lord's City Travel" when he was bored, he had never read online again.
[PS: Kuangzunzi City Travel, another book by Fatty, has been completed, Urban Waiwai Novel, I have nothing to do to advertise my book——tsk tsk——]
There are not many books with hundreds of thousands of words. Luo Tian can read about one or two thousand words in one minute if he concentrates, so Luo Tian quickly finished reading "Carnegie Communication and Interpersonal Relationships", but Luo Tian was not in a hurry
Go read the other book "The Body Language Code". What he needs now is digestion.
In fact, reading a book does not mean that you have read it. Reading is not as superficial as everyone thinks, it contains inner enlightenment!
When it comes to enlightenment, everyone will obviously think of Shaolin Temple for no reason, because they often pay attention to the word "enlightenment" when practicing Zen.
Of course, that seems a bit confusing——
In fact, enlightenment is not as complicated as everyone thinks. To put it simply, it is feeling. What feelings do you have after reading a book? What did you learn from it? Or in other words, after reading this book, what impact do you have on you?
What impact will it have in the future?
For example, most students should have seen the classic movie "Young and Dangerous" series in the late 1990s, right? Because of the movie "Young and Dangerous", both in Hong Kong and China at that time,
A craze for Young and Dangerous boys has arisen. Everyone will see a strange phenomenon, that is, boys who were not very angry in their speech begin to become extremely aggressive, and treat their brothers like they are worth 2,500,000 to 80,000 yuan.
When I was young, I suddenly became loyal, and many even formed gangs in small groups at school. Some of the more ferocious ones directly imitated Chen Haonan in group fights and fights. Anyway, the whole school was in chaos.
According to incomplete statistics at that time, the flowing long hair of Chen Haonan, played by Ekin Cheng, became the most popular hairstyle in the late 1990s. Even if the school tried to ban boys from having long hair and weird hair, they still had long hair regardless of the cost.
All of them have a posture that even the destruction of the earth cannot stop it all, and the purpose of doing this is to get praise from the classmates: Wow, it looks like Brother Haonan!
Of course, if this example is not classic enough, then let’s talk about Bruce Lee, who made outstanding contributions to our Chinese Kung Fu. When you were in school, have you ever seen your classmates suddenly jumping briskly, and suddenly bursting out of their mouths?
Saying something like "A hit! A hit! A hit!"? More or less students must have seen this weird phenomenon (Fatty used to see a man imitating Li Xiao when he was on the road)
Dragon, it shocked me at the time - Damn, that's not Bruce Lee, he's just a muscle cramper.). Some even imitated Bruce Lee's classic dialogues and speaking postures, curling their noses and shaking their heads.
Pointing his finger, he said coldly: "I haven't read many books, don't lie to me!" Some students learned well, and naturally received praise and praise from their classmates, which gave them a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.
And metaphor...
There are still some funny moments, but it is undeniable that Bruce Lee had a huge influence on their actions and reactions.
This is the influence of a movie and a charming movie star on people, and books have the same effect.
Luo Tian's most profound insight from this book is one point, and this is also Luo Tian's most profound point: praise.
Carnegie Dale quoted Lincoln's words in his book: "Everyone likes to be praised", and also quoted William James's words: "The most ardent need in human nature is the desire to be affirmed", and Luo Tian
The most important thing I learned in this book is these two words: praise.
Everyone feels very happy when they are complimented, right? Even when you are buying groceries, does the uncle or aunt who sells groceries casually say "handsome guy" or "beautiful girl" to you? Doesn't it make you feel comfortable? It's like
Suddenly I rubbed Dabao sod on my face and it made me feel like I was crazy. It looked so shiny and it felt so good.
Of course, as a student, the most exciting thing is when the teacher announces the results and simply says "***, you have improved again this time", "***, you did very well this time" and so on.
Words of appreciation will definitely make people's blood surge and their faces flush, giving rise to the illusion that this teacher is the best teacher in the world! Who knows, maybe this teacher just called his parents to the school for an interview a few days ago...
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Praise, appreciate, satisfy one's vanity! The most important point Luo Tian read in this book is this.
Of course, this does not mean that this book teaches people to be hypocritical, but as an individual, this is what Luo Tian read in this book.
Perhaps what another reader sees in this book is sincerity or leadership. After all, Shakespeare once said: There are a thousand Hamlets for a thousand readers.
Everyone's vision, worldview, and outlook on life are different, so the things they see are naturally different.
After reading this book, he began to reflect on his relationship with Yi Ruoxuan. He suddenly found that he was a little strange, or a little bored. Why would he care about such a fuss with a young lady when nothing happened? Yi Ruoxuan was originally
Isn't it just a lamb in wolf's clothing? Then why don't you know how to prevent this lamb from becoming a wolf? If a sheep in wolf's clothing is always praised, it will think twice before doing evil...
As he was thinking about it, Luo Tian suddenly felt that he had become a lot more cheerful. A ray of light suddenly flashed through the world that had originally seemed to be "dark", allowing him to suddenly see the future.
In fact, when the old man left, he told him that this mission must not be abandoned halfway. He must learn to be patient and tolerant in the city. He must also learn how to get along with others and treat the people and things around him well. When he thought of
Luo Tian started to feel a little ashamed these days.
Yes, this shameless guy started to feel a little ashamed. He found that he had failed the old man's expectations. His first reaction after encountering trouble was to go back to Lijiacun, like a loser, and return in despair.
Lijiacun continues to live a carefree life until life slowly erodes his spirituality and slowly becomes ordinary and ordinary...
But now he realizes that he made a mistake!
I'm not a coward, so how can I shrink back when faced with problems? Besides, will Miss Qiaoer like such a brother Luo Tian?
Luo Tian asked himself, it was absolutely impossible!
In the heart of Qiaoer, he is an omnipotent person, an absolute all-powerful warrior. In front of Qiaoer, Luo Tian always shows his 120% strength and does everything perfectly. Now, although
Sister Qiaoer is not by his side, but should he choose to escape like that?
After reading this book, Luo Tian seemed to have woken up. He was no longer groggy, but full of fighting spirit.
Even the dense hail of bullets and bullets on the battlefield could not knock him down. Could it be that the current level of mischief and sugar-coated bullets could corrode him? Even Luo Tian really wanted to be corroded, but the arrogance and domineering in Luo Tian's bones were not enough.
Will agree!
In the library, Luo Tian held his chin with his hand, his head clear, and his eyes stared blankly ahead. His clear, dark eyes had no focus at all. Unless he was a fool, he would know that this guy was actually in a daze.
"Why don't you go to class?" At this moment when Luo Tian was in a daze, a somewhat surprised voice sounded from behind Luo Tian, with a hint of surprise and a hint of dissatisfaction in his voice.
Luo Tian recovered from his daze, and saw Zhou Leer appearing in front of Luo Tian again, standing in front of him handsomely. Luo Tian frowned and asked: "Why don't you make any sound when you walk?"
"This is the library! Tell me, why don't you go to class?" Zhou Le'er put her hands on her hips and looked at Luo Tian eagerly, looking like a little girl, and asked Luo Tian.
Seeing Zhou Le'er like this, Luo Tian didn't feel any disgust in his heart. He just smiled softly and asked, "You haven't been in class either, haven't you?"
Zhou Leer was asked the question by Luo Tian instead, with a look of embarrassment on his face. He suddenly realized that there was indeed something wrong with what he just said. It was a bit like "only state officials are allowed to set fires and people are not allowed to light lamps", uh, and listen
The tone of voice was not quite right either.
Of course, she just felt that the way he spoke just now seemed a bit like her friend, but was Luo Tian her friend? Obviously not, and certainly not her enemy.
After all, they are just two strangers...
In fact, after Zhou Leer went back, she replayed the scene of her talking to Luo Tian in her mind. She found that Luo Tian's treatment of her was not unreasonable. After all, she had looked down on him because of his dress from the beginning.
She even spoke to him in a condescending manner, which was particularly incorrect.
Naturally, she had also watched "Carnegie". She found that she was very wrong from the beginning, so she had realized her mistake, so when she appeared in front of Luo Tian this time, she deliberately put her posture in a low position.
It was low, it was like that from the beginning.
Looking at Luo Tian, Zhou Leer showed a sly smile on her face and said, "I - I came to read a book."
[PS: The next plot will get faster and faster, and it won’t drag on like this anymore. Some people say that the book "Carnegie" is suspected of filling the word count, but the fat man just wants to say that this has a profound meaning and needs to be changed.
There must be an opportunity. After all, Luo Tian is also a human being. And a good book is a bowl of chicken soup for the soul. It is extremely normal for people to suddenly realize something... Are you satisfied with Fatty's explanation? 】