"Old Liu, there is a big problem with you... Don't stare and listen to what I have to say... The problem with you is... you are too strong and you are very harsh and harsh in your treatment of your subordinates. It can be said that in the market, you are...
Most of the cadres here are afraid of you... and they also have opinions on you. After all, people have self-esteem. Although you are the secretary of the municipal party committee, you cannot reprimand others arbitrarily. It is acceptable for a short time, but over time
, a certain amount of resentment will form in the hearts of those cadres... According to my estimation, those cadres who are moving closer to Li Yongchang do not really want to unite with Li Yongchang, but want to give you a... warning... or a warning...
Reminder, remind you to change the way you do things in the future, stop being so forceful... I say this, do you understand?" Lin Haixiang said it very tactfully, for fear that if he said it too harshly, he would irritate Liu Yuncai.
Liu Yuncai was stunned. This was the first time he heard such remarks... Is it because he is too strong that the city leaders will move closer to Li Yongchang? Liu Yuncai's face twitched: "Old Lin, I admit that I am strong...
But I...I have always dealt with the situation rather than the person, and I have never done anything that goes against my conscience..."
Lin Haixiang waved his hand: "Lao Liu, I know you are right about the situation and the person, but you...sometimes you really don't pay much attention to other people's feelings. Some people have very strong self-esteem. If you reprimand them in public, they will not be able to stand up.
Can I not bear grudges against you? For example, if you meet a strong leader, and this leader reprimands you in public, making you embarrassed in front of everyone and unable to stand down, how would you feel in your heart? "
"I..." Liu Yuncai was speechless when asked, yes, how do you feel? He must be extremely angry!
"This is your problem. No one can make mistakes without being a sage. If a subordinate makes a mistake, you can reprimand him, but you should also pay attention to the situation and save some face for the subordinate. In this way, the subordinate will not be resentful towards you.
." Speaking of this, Lin Haixiang smiled and said: "Old Liu, to be honest, if I hadn't retired, I would never have told you this... because I was afraid that you would hate me and put on my shoes...
"
Liu Yuncai rolled his eyes at Lin Haixiang: "Am I so narrow-minded in your eyes? Even if you offend me, I can't put on small shoes for you."
Lin Haixiang chirped: "Don't be afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of what happens..."
"You..." Liu Yuncai was so angry: "I just realized why your words are so irritating!"
Lin Haixiang smiled and said: "Because I am telling the truth. Since ancient times, loyal words have always been harsh to the ears. Of course you will be angry if I point out your shortcomings."
Liu Yuncai curled his lips: "Old Liu, when you were the mayor, did you really hate me in your heart?" Liu Yuncai remembered that before Lin Haixiang retired, Liu Yuncai had lost Lin Haixiang's face several times in public, and let Lin Haixiang lose face.
Xiang was unable to get off the stage, and Liu Yuncai didn't take it to heart at the time. Thinking about it now, what he did at that time was indeed a bit excessive.
"How could I not hold a grudge... I am a person who wants to save face... But this person has a broad mind and quickly forgot the unhappiness in his heart. Besides, it was indeed me who did something wrong at that time. You can give me a few scoldings.
It should be..." At this point, Lin Haixiang paused and glanced at Liu Yun before continuing: "Not everyone is as ungrateful as me. I don't care, but others will care... Lao Liu, since today
Having said this, I would like to advise you a few words: restrain your temper, and be more considerate of other people's feelings. As the saying goes, only if you care about others will others care about you. I dare to say that as long as you restrain your own
If you have a hot temper and change the way you do things, you will definitely get the support of the people below, and no one will ever go against you in the future. Only then will your voice be truly stable." Lin Haixiang's words can be said to be heartfelt.
Damn it, if it were anyone else, Lin Haixiang wouldn't say so much.
Liu Yuncai was silent for a long time, then stood up and bowed deeply to Lin Haixiang.
"You...what are you doing?" Lin Haixiang was startled.
Liu Yuncai straightened up and looked at Lin Haixiang solemnly: "Old Lin, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your words today completely awakened me and made me feel enlightened. You are right, I have had some problems over the years.
What I did here is indeed inappropriate, and I will definitely make corrections in the future, pay attention to other people's feelings, and curb my hot temper."
"It's good if you can listen." Lin Haixiang's face was filled with relief.
"Huh..." Liu Yuncai breathed out: "I learned a lot today, which has made some progress in my thinking. It will be of great help to me in my future work."
Lin Haixiang smiled slightly: "Okay, let's not discuss these boring topics anymore. I asked the nanny to prepare a meal and let's go have a drink."
"Okay!" Liu Yun finally untied his knot and was in a good mood, following Lin Haixiang to the kitchen.
The dining table had long been filled with sumptuous meals. Liu Yuncai and Lin Haixiang sat at the table and started eating and drinking happily.
…
Shuiyuexuan Hotel.
In the VIP room on the third floor.
Two men and one woman were sitting around, talking and laughing, eating and drinking. One of the men was Li Ming, and the other was Ha Teng. The woman was Ha Teng's girlfriend Wang Xiuxiu. This Wang Xiuxiu had just graduated from college and was working at the Health Bureau.
I work, I'm in my twenties, I'm very pretty, I have a very hot figure, especially my breasts are ridiculously big, I just raise my hand and my breasts will tremble.
Ever since he saw Wang Xiuxiu, Li Ming felt a surge of passion in his heart. This Wang Xiuxiu was so plump, especially her breasts... they were so turbulent... While Li Ming was drinking, he secretly glanced at Wang Xiuxiu's breasts with the corners of his eyes.
Wang Xiuxiu kept toasting Li Ming. Whether it was intentional or unintentional, she rubbed Li Ming's arm with her chest several times, making Li Ming blush and have a thick neck.
Li Ming felt that he could no longer control himself. No, if he continued like this, he would make a fool of himself... Just when Li Ming wanted to find an excuse to go out, Ha Teng left the private room first, with the excuse of having a stomachache.
Have to go to the toilet.
As soon as Ha Teng left, Wang Xiuxiu acted even more boldly. She winked at Li Ming and leaned half of her body directly on Li Ming's shoulder.
It's really life-threatening! Li Ming took a deep breath: "What...you...sit up straight...don't...don't lean on me...it won't be good when Haten comes back later and sees...
"Although Li Ming didn't want Wang Xiuxiu to sit up straight in his heart, he had to do it out of rationality. Ha Teng is his secretary. If he has any thoughts about Ha Teng's girlfriend, Ha Teng will definitely be furious. I don't know when the time comes.
What trouble will it cause?
"Deputy County Magistrate Li... I'm drunk... I don't have any strength in my body... How about you help me up..." Wang Xiuxiu said softly.
Oops... This Wang Xiuxiu is so tormenting... Li Ming licked his dry lips and reached out to help Wang Xiuxiu. Unexpectedly, Wang Xiuxiu's body softened and she suddenly fell to the ground. Li Ming hugged Wang Xiuxiu subconsciously.
, coincidentally, one of Li Ming's hands happened to be pressed on Wang Xiuxiu's chest.
"Buzz!"
Li Ming's mind suddenly surged with hot blood, and Li Ming's face twitched uncontrollably... At this moment, he really wanted to rectify Wang Xiuxiu on the spot, but... Reason told him that he must not do this. Once he did it,
, it’s troublesome.
Wang Xiuxiu looked at Li Ming with a flushed face, her eyes almost dripping with water, and her red mouth opened and closed: "Deputy County Magistrate Li... your hands... made me breathless... let's change
Is the posture okay?"
Damn! Li Ming cursed in his heart, the girlfriend Ha Teng found is too bad... Li Ming found that his body was a little hot, a desire rose from the bottom of his heart, and he was about to collapse... What was going on?
?Although he usually likes beautiful women, his concentration is not that bad? Li Ming thought about it and attributed the reason to the fact that Wang Xiuxiu was too attractive, so Li Ming couldn't keep it up.
No, I really can't stand it anymore... At the moment when Li Ming lost his mind, the phone in his pocket suddenly rang. The rapid ringing directly woke up Li Ming. Li Ming took a deep breath and slowly relaxed.
Wang Xiuxiu then took out her mobile phone from her pocket, without looking at the caller ID, and directly connected: "Hello..." Li Ming tried his best to speak calmly, but his tone still sounded a little trembling.
"Boss, I'm sorry. I'm in a hurry and have to go home... I'll let Xiuxiu accompany you for a drink instead of me... I'll rush back after I finish handling the matter..." Ha Teng's anxious voice came from the mobile phone.
.
"Ah... okay... if you have something to do, just go and do your work and don't worry about me." Li Ming took a breath and said.
"Okay, I'm going to do something. I'll be back as soon as possible." After saying that, Haten ended the call.
"Huh..." Li Ming exhaled and looked up at Wang Xiuxiu: "Haten called... He said he left in advance..."
"Deputy County Magistrate Li, I'm really sorry. Ha Teng left because of something and can't drink with you anymore... But it doesn't matter, you still have me? I'll drink with Deputy County Magistrate Li..." After speaking, Wang Xiuxiu stood up and said,
She picked up the wine bottle and was about to pour wine for Li Ming. At this moment, Wang Xiuxiu swayed suddenly and the wine bottle in her hand suddenly fell on the dining table. "Crash..." All the wine in the bottle flowed out and spilled.
Li Ming was all dressed up... Wang Xiuxiu's face changed: "Deputy County Magistrate Li, I'm sorry... I'm sorry... I didn't mean to..." Wang Xiuxiu picked up a stack of paper towels and went to wipe Li Ming's clothes.
"It's okay...it's okay...uh..." Li Ming's eyes suddenly widened, and his breathing suddenly became rapid: "You...your hand...touch...where..." Wang Xiuxiu held a tissue to Li
Ming wiped his clothes and unknowingly touched Li Ming's lifeblood...
