Gao Yuan had no way of commenting on Gao Lie's marriage. However, Feng Yuanyuan's selfishness and shirking of responsibilities made him unhappy.
He asked Feng Yuanyuan what she had done for her eldest brother over the years, and what practical things she had done for the Gao family?
When she chooses a soldier to be her lifelong partner, she should be fully mentally prepared to face the loneliness, loneliness, and life of separation after marriage. What is love? In fact, love is giving unconditionally without expecting anything in return.
That is true love. As a military wife, what did Feng Yuanyuan do? All he saw and heard were her complaints, harsh accusations, willfulness, and even betrayal.
As for the image of military wives she described, Gao Yuan had never seen it among the military wives she had come into contact with.
The military wives he saw were all unknown, kind-hearted women who took care of their families and children. Some of them were outstanding in all walks of life, such as Captain Qin's lover, Hua Jingyi, who had just been awarded the title of "Awarded by the Yunnan Provincial Artists Association" this year.
Good news about getting married on May Day. Not only them, there are many military wives in the team who have never met before. They have overseas return backgrounds and diplomas from key universities. They are not only social elites, but they are also fulfilling the promise of a military wife. No one is because of being accepted.
She filed for divorce because of loneliness and isolation, and Feng Yuanyuan was just a dance academy professor who had retired from the stage. Why should she be special compared to those military wives who suffered the same hardship and fatigue as her?
Is she the only one good?
Work is not an excuse, and dreams are not the shackles that hinder marriage. If Feng Yuanyuan knew that thousands of miles away in Mobei, there was an ordinary girl who gave up the temptation of money and material, gave up the opportunity to dream, and devoted herself to taking care of her seriously ill family members.
Just to protect family ties and fulfill love, will she feel ashamed?
Of course, he would not compare his most cherished Xiaoxue with Feng Yuanyuan, because they have never been the same kind of people...
He has always been lucky, much luckier than his elder brother who met Feng Yuanyuan. Therefore, he must treat Xiaoxue well and live up to her dedication and affection throughout his life.
Faced with his questioning, Feng Yuanyuan was naturally speechless. In fact, as long as she is willing to calm down and reflect on her marriage life over the years, she will understand what an incompetent wife she is.
If she really wants to save her husband, what she should do is not ask for this or that, or try to use her family to save her husband, but she should go to her elder brother's side and move him with practical actions.
However, he did not intend to make these suggestions again.
The last time, when Feng Yuanyuan took the initiative to confess her mistakes to him, he had already told her the way to solve the marriage crisis. The opportunity had always been in Feng Yuanyuan's hands. It was her short-sightedness and narrow understanding that led her to the point where she is irreversible today.
situation.
And for a woman who talks about divorce easily, how much sincerity does she have left for her lover?
He was deeply doubtful.
In order to make Feng Yuanyuan alert as soon as possible, Gao Yuan called Gao Lie in the distance in front of her.
As he expected, Gao Lie didn't give his brother any face at all. As soon as he raised his head, Gao Lie said he was in a meeting and blocked his phone.
When he got through, he clearly said that his sister-in-law was nearby, but Gao Lie didn't even give Feng Yuanyuan a chance to speak.
No matter how well-mannered and elegant she was, she was frozen by ice. Ten minutes later, when Feng Yuanyuan left the Gao family with a look of despair, she met Lin Suran who was concerned about their conversation. Maybe Feng Yuanyuan looked too scary.
, Lin Suran shouted in astonishment: "Yuanyuan..."
Before she could express her concern, Feng Yuanyuan said with a cold face, "Mom, I want to divorce Gao Lie" and ran out of Gao's house in a rage.
Lin Suran wanted to give chase, but was stopped by Gao Yuan, "Aunt Lin, please don't mind their business. For a woman like my sister-in-law, I want to teach her a lesson and make her understand what my brother wants!"
If you say you don't care, how can you not care?
As the mistress of the Gao family, she has the responsibility to safeguard the marriage of every child, including Gao Yuan's.
While looking for Feng Yuanyuan's mobile phone number in the phone book, she asked Gao Yuan: "A Yuan, your Xiaoxue doesn't have the same temperament and personality as your sister-in-law." Feng Yuanyuan has given her enough headaches, if Gao Yuan's little girlfriend is like this too
If you are a person, then the Gao family will never have peace.
Gao Yuan was happy when he heard this. He wished that Xiaoxue would become more dependent on him and become less strong. What a pity...
"Don't worry, your future daughter-in-law is much better than her..."
Lin Suran touched the phone, glanced at her younger son who smiled when he mentioned his girlfriend, and said angrily: "You are talking about something that cannot be said again, be careful your sister-in-law hears it!" She shook the phone.
Naturally, the call failed. Lin Suran sighed, rubbed his sore eyebrows, and looked at Gao Yuan who was checking his luggage: "A Yuan..."
Gao Yuan raised his eyes, "Yeah."
Aunt Lin seems to have something to say.
Things became more and more out of control, and the doubts lingering in Lin Suran's heart became more and more intense. She felt that her younger son must know something, otherwise, Feng Yuanyuan would not take the initiative to talk to him, and would let herself avoid it. She hesitated again and again,
For the sake of Gao Lie's marriage, he decided to seek confirmation from his younger son in person, "Alie insists on going to Sichuan to hide, but there is actually another reason, right?"
Gao Yuan felt the wise and open-minded attention of his stepmother Lin Suran, and could only smile bitterly to himself, thinking, big brother, big brother, you underestimate Aunt Lin's wisdom too much.
Your high-sounding rhetoric about defending your country and your country, being loyal to the party and the army, cannot fool Aunt Lin's sharp eyes at all.
He nodded honestly and acknowledged it, but he did not say anything about Feng Yuanyuan's reason, and he could not say it. "Aunt Lin, there is something wrong with my eldest brother's marriage. He wants to go up to the mountain for some quiet time, so don't stop him."
Lin Suran smiled bitterly and said, "If it's just for a while, that's fine, but that's two years. What does Ariel think about making your sister-in-law wait for two years?" No wonder Yuanyuan, whoever faces her husband,
You can't be calm even if you are estranged, so it is natural for her to file for divorce.
Gao Yuan doesn't think so. Aunt Lin thinks about Feng Yuanyuan because she doesn't know what mistakes she has made. If she is like herself and knows what mistakes Feng Yuanyuan has done, she will definitely feel that two years has really given her an advantage.
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You know, what Gao Lie will have to endure in the harsh conditions of the Sichuan-Tibet Plateau in the next two years is not just psychological torture.
He smiled and comforted Aunt Lin, "Don't worry. They won't divorce easily. As for my sister-in-law, don't be too spoiled. She really needs to reflect on her mistakes." According to Gao Lie's character, if he hadn't been there
If he gets divorced at the first time, it will be difficult to divorce later. He is even less afraid of Feng Yuanyuan. She will not let go of her eldest brother easily. Otherwise, she will not stupidly ask him for help several times.