Chapter 117 What qualifications do you have to teach me?
After I got home, since I had already prepared the meal, after changing my clothes, I asked Tongtong to wash her hands and asked her to come over for dinner.
Because I expected my daughter to come over today, I specially made her favorite braised lion heads and fried lilies with green bamboo shoots. However, in the face of my hard work, Tongtong didn’t seem to be interested. During the meal, she had a sullen face.
She didn't say a word, just immersed herself in her hard work, and when she asked her something, she just responded to me with "um" and "ah", which made me very depressed.
Of course, in line with the code of conduct that I taught her before, "Eat without talking or sleep without talking", there is nothing wrong with doing this, but my daughter's coldness makes me feel a little uncomfortable.
However, there are no cruel biological parents in the world. Although my daughter was very cold to me this time, I still loved her as always and kept giving her food in her bowl. Facing my kindness, Tongtong seemed to behave indifferently.
A little impatient, she looked at the bowl full of vegetables, frowned and said to me: "Okay, Mom, you put so much and I can't eat it, it's all wasted, let me do it myself."
Looking at my daughter's impatient look, I smiled helplessly and murmured, "Okay, you can do it yourself."
After dinner, Tongtong went to her room to do her homework. After I washed the dishes, I made a cup of hot milk and sent it to my daughter's room.
I knocked on the door lightly and walked in. Tongtong raised her eyes and glanced at me without saying anything.
I gently placed my breasts on her table, then pulled up a chair and slowly sat down next to her.
I felt that my daughter was always a little absent-minded when doing those exercises. Deng Wenliang came to me last time to tell me that my daughter’s grades had dropped. For this reason, I used a special time to call her class teacher, Teacher Zhou. At that time, Teacher Zhou said to me
He said that Tongtong's grades have indeed declined recently, especially in the last proficiency test. She, who had been ranked in the top five in the class, suddenly slipped to outside the fifteenth place, which surprised the teacher, especially her math scores.
, dropped more obviously.
Teacher Zhou said to me: "I always feel that Deng Tongtong has something on her mind recently. As a teacher, I will strictly demand her and constantly urge her to make progress. However, at the same time, I also hope that you parents can communicate with her more and do some side work."
Do some ideological work on her and see if she has any psychological baggage, because you should also know that in a...separated family situation like yours, the children will be somewhat shadowed."
Although Teacher Zhou’s words were very cryptic, I also understood the meaning of her words. Teacher Zhou may have good intentions, but the insinuations in her words still made me uncomfortable. The divorce was not what I thought.
In today's situation, there are some things that I can't do anything about.
Of course, I also know that since I brought my child into the world, I must be responsible for her to the end.
So, since Tongtong is here today, I want to talk to her about this issue.
I looked at my daughter and hesitated to speak. At this moment, Tongtong raised her head and looked at me and said to me coldly: "Mom, are you okay? You can go out if you have nothing to do. I can't even sit here while you are sitting here."
I concentrated on doing the questions."
Hearing what Tongtong said, I was startled. I originally wanted to go out first and talk to her after she finished the questions, but I saw that she was looking like a carefree person, especially when she was talking to me, one of her legs was still stretched across her body.
Swinging back and forth on the chair, this is completely different from the cute and cute Tongtong I used to be!
Thinking of this, I became so angry that I frowned and reminded her: "Tongtong, sit down first! Look at the posture you are sitting in? That is not good for bone development!"
When Tongtong heard what I said, she retracted her legs angrily and sat upright on the chair as if she was quite unhappy.
Looking at her livid complexion, I asked her softly: "Tongtong, I talked to your teacher Zhou on the phone. She said that your grades have dropped sharply recently, especially in mathematics. Have you ever found out the reason?"
Finished, I thought about it, and then added, "Is it not conducive to improving your grades if you live on campus and study by yourself at night? If this is the case, your mother can apply to the school to let you no longer live on campus and change to day school, and then you
Live with your mother or... your father, and we will hire a tutor for you to help you improve your math scores."
Tongtong sat there silently. After a moment, she raised her head, glanced at me, and asked me in a low voice: "Is it convenient for me to live with you?"
When I heard this, I was stunned, and then murmured back: "What's the inconvenience?"
Tongtong sneered, turned around, and said to herself: "Huh, don't think I don't know anything, dad told me everything..."
When I heard this, I was stunned!
At the same time, my daughter's disapproving and sarcastic remarks completely angered me. I couldn't hold it in any longer and shouted at her: "What's your attitude? Have you ever talked to your mother like this? Your mother is talking to you properly."
When you talk about things, look at your attitude. Turn your face to me!"
As I said that, I pulled my daughter and asked her to face me. I was so angry that my face turned purple.
Tongtong saw that I was indeed angry. She stared with big eyes. A trace of fear flashed through her eyes. Seeing the fear in her daughter's eyes, my heart softened again. Teacher Zhou's words echoed in my ears again: "You guys
In such a family, the children's psychology is more or less shadowed..."
Others may look at our divorced family with sympathy or strange eyes, but this situation has been created. I should give my daughter more care. How can I lose my temper with her so easily?
At that moment, a trace of guilt flashed through my heart. I was about to say "I'm sorry" to my daughter, but I didn't expect that at this moment, my daughter would explode!
Tongtong pushed me away. She cried loudly to me while crying: "What qualifications do you have to teach me a lesson? Don't think that I don't know what you have done! Didn't you say that you and Brother Ye Xing are just ordinary friends?"
?Then why do you want to live together?"
My daughter's sudden outburst of questions stunned me. After being stunned for a moment, I grabbed her arm and asked her blankly: "Is this what your father told you?"
Tongtong threw my arm away and said to me while sobbing: "Don't care who told me, I know everything anyway! It turns out that I thought Yang Kexin was hateful because she broke up you and my father, but you
Now...you have become disgusting to me now! How can you...how can you be with Brother Ye Xing...you know we call him brother, he is your junior just like me! You
Living with him like this, and asking me to go out in the future...how can I meet people?"
As she said this, Tongtong burst into tears, "Uh-huh."
My daughter's cry made me feel the pain of heartbreak. I hugged my daughter and tried my best to explain to her: "Tongtong, listen to your mother, listen to your mother..."
But at this moment Tongtong couldn't listen to any of my words at all. She struggled to break away from my arms and shouted to me hoarsely: "You don't have to tell me anymore. Dad told me everything, and even told me about you and Ye."
Brother Xing hugged each other in this house... and showed me the photo of him playing the piano, huh huh huh..." My daughter cried and reprimanded me for my behavior, "My good friends Ranran and Xiaolin all saw it.
Brother Ye Xing, they, like me, all worship Brother Ye Xing...as an idol! How much older is he than us? He and we are the same age! You live with him, huh huh
...What should I say to my good friends in the future? Uh-huh..."
What my daughter said completely confused me.
I didn't expect that my relationship with Ye Xing would have such a big impact on her. At that moment, I really felt at a loss.
That night, Tongtong cried for a long time. I coaxed her for a long time, and her mood gradually calmed down, but she refused to listen to my explanation.
Later, Tongtong fell asleep. Seeing that she was sleeping peacefully on the bed, I dragged my tired body and walked back to my room step by step.
I sat on the bed blankly. I didn't understand why Deng Wenliang had a photo of me and Ye Xing playing the piano together in his hand.
In my memory, we did sit next to each other and play the joint piano. It was because Ye Xing taught me to play the piano and to pass the lonely time at night. However, why did Deng Wenliang have a photo in his hand?
Tongtong got up early the next morning, put on her schoolbag and went back to her father's place. No matter how I tried to persuade her to stay, she wouldn't listen.
I hate Deng Wenliang's shameless behavior. He actually used his daughter to try to control my life after divorce. This behavior is very shameless from every angle!
But right now, it’s not the time for me to settle accounts with him, because I want to find out immediately why Deng Wenliang has photos of me and Ye Xing in this house?
With this question in mind, I brought Ye Xing over.
Ye Xing usually doesn't come to my place on Sundays, because we have a tacit understanding for a long time. He knows that his daughter Tongtong comes to my place, so he will consciously avoid it.
Today I asked Ye Xing to come here to find me, and he was also very surprised. When he arrived, he was even more shocked when he saw the anger on my face.
"What's wrong?" He gently held my hand and asked me softly.
I threw his hand away and replied harshly: "Don't ask me what's wrong! I'm just asking you, did you secretly take photos of us together again and give them to Deng Wenliang?"
Upon hearing this, Ye Xing was stunned, and then he replied firmly: "No! I swear absolutely not!" Then he asked me, "What happened?"
Seeing Ye Xing's firm denial, I felt a little more at ease, so I told him the story in a relatively calm tone. The more Ye Xing listened, the tighter his brows became. When I finished speaking, he scolded him fiercely.
"Son of a bitch! I'll go find him!"
Seeing this, I grabbed his hand and asked him loudly: "Why are you looking for him?"
Ye Xing said to me angrily: "He must have found someone to secretly take photos of us together on the floor opposite us. I'm going to find this turtle to settle the score!"
When I heard this, I felt that it was possible, because there was indeed a residential building less than ten meters across from us. If you wanted to take secret photos there, you could do it. And when Ye Xing and I were together, if the sun hadn't set, basically
The curtains are not drawn, and the piano is placed in front of the window. The sill of the window is relatively low. If you use a high-power telescope on the opposite side, you can see the scene in our room.
But none of this is what I care about most. What I care about most now is my daughter's attitude. I'm afraid that I will completely lose my daughter's trust because of the fact that Ye Xing and I are together. I can't handle that outcome no matter what.