Xu Minghui smiled bitterly and murmured to me: "Haichao, do you really want me to find another one?"
When I heard what he said, I was stunned for a moment, and then said to him coldly: "Whether you look for it or not, it has nothing to do with me, because you and I are nothing now."
Xu Minghui leaned against the back of the sofa, looked at me and smiled meaningfully. His hand reached into his pocket and took out a pack of cigarettes. Seeing this scene, I frowned and whispered to him
: "Don't smoke in my place."
Xu Minghui is a long-time smoker. His smoking history can be traced back to his college days. Since we fell in love, his habit has been restrained, because I am always by his side to supervise and remind him: Smoking is harmful to the human body.
Second-hand smoke is more harmful. You don’t want our lungs to turn into charcoal when we get old, right?
Xu Minghui agreed on the surface, but behind my back he still sucked a lot.
In fact, he has had stubborn tracheal inflammation since he was a boy, and it would become severe every time he caught a cold. Since he started smoking, his trachea has become even worse, and he even has some lung problems. So after getting married, under my repeated coercion, he
Xu Minghui quit smoking for a while, but then his position was promoted, and people would inevitably pass cigarettes to him when socializing, so his habit relapsed. However, I still tried to control his smoking when at home.
Thinking of this, I felt a little uncomfortable. Now that we have parted ways, he no longer has to listen to my annoying nagging. It has nothing to do with me how much he smokes or what the shape of his lungs are.
Hearing my stop, Xu Minghui retracted his hand angrily. He leaned forward slightly, crossed his hands in front of his knees, and stared at me like this.
"Didn't you say you came up to talk to me about Tiao Tiao? How is my daughter these days?" I sat there and asked him calmly.
Hearing his daughter's name, Xu Minghui's face flashed with joy, and he replied softly: "My daughter is doing very well recently."
"Oh, what about my grades? Didn't they drop?" This is the question I am most concerned about.
Xu Minghui put down his hand and answered me calmly: "It's okay."
"Oh." I breathed a sigh of relief, but I didn't know if Xu Minghui's "not bad" was mixed with any moisture.
"Since you are so worried about your daughter, please come back with me." Xu Minghui tentatively mentioned to me again.
"You -" I frowned and looked at him, the anger in my eyes was self-evident. I knew that Xu Minghui had done ideological work for his daughter before the divorce, and I also knew that he desperately wanted to keep his daughter by his side.
I just hope that I can change my mind, but now that I have walked out of the Xu family, it is impossible to go back.
"If nothing happens to Tiaotiao, then you can go back and don't say useless things to me." I issued an eviction order.
Xu Minghui looked at me and said to me helplessly: "Haichao, you have scolded me and hit me. I want a divorce. I just let you go. Your anger should be almost gone, right?"
I bit my lip and looked at Xu Minghui, frowning. For a moment, I asked him sternly: "Do you think I divorce you just to fight for a living?"
Xu Minghui sighed, sat up straight, and asked me slowly: "Then what are you doing? Do you want to live your future life?"
I stared at him, remained silent for a moment, and asked him: "What will happen next?"
Xu Minghui spread his hands: "You can't always live by yourself like this, right? Have you ever thought about what kind of person you can find in the future?"
I narrowed my eyes and asked him coldly: "Xu Minghui, is this an issue you should be concerned about?"
Xu Minghui sneered and said lightly: "I don't care about you, who cares about you? Do you think you can find a man who is more suitable for you than me after you leave me?"
I looked at Xu Minghui intently, and for a moment, I sneered. After laughing, I said to him in a sinister tone: "Xu Minghui, you have been making trouble for a long time. Are you here today to care about your ex-wife's life-long affairs?"
Xu Minghui smiled bitterly, and then slowly said to me: "Haichao, I actually can't bear to part with the relationship between our husband and wife for more than ten years. I hope you can give each other a chance. After all, we have a daughter in common."
Hearing Xu Minghui say this, I sneered secretly in my heart, why are you mentioning a relationship of more than ten years and a daughter to me now? Why don't you think about this when you take off your pants and fuck other women?
But I didn't say this, because I knew that once I said it, Xu Minghui would think that I meant to turn around, and with his sharp tongue, he would definitely have to chew on it for a long time, so I kept silent at the moment, just
I want to send him away quickly.
"Haichao, we have been in love for so many years, and I will not hide it in front of you today. To be honest, at your current age, what kind of thing can you find without me? I'm afraid it has to be four years old.
Are you a very open divorced man? If you are living together half way, can you guarantee that he will treat you better than me? Can you guarantee that he will never cheat on you in his life? Can you guarantee that he will follow you all the way to the end? "
After hearing what Xu Minghui said, I sneered, and then said to him loudly: "Xu Minghui, some people have been together as childhood sweethearts since they were young couples, but in the end, don't they betray their families and end up falling apart? This
There are so many possibilities in the world, how do you know that I won't find a man who is better than you?"
Xu Minghui laughed self-righteously again, and then lowered his eyebrows and said to me slowly: "Haichao, I am a man, and I know men better than you. I will open the sky and speak frankly today. If you leave me, you will definitely not find someone better than me."
A better man, this is determined by the current situation of the marriage and love market; and what about me? Even if I leave you, I can still find a good partner, and I may even find an unmarried girl in her twenties, do you believe it?"
Hearing this, I was stunned for a moment, then smiled and said: "I believe it! Xu Minghui, then I congratulate you on finding a daughter of the Communist Party of China who is both talented and beautiful. She will paint the old cucumber, score twice, and then get a second."
spring?"
Xu Minghui sneered, and then said to me calmly: "Haichao, I am not kidding you. I heard that I am divorced. Someone in our unit actually introduced me to an older girl. She graduated from graduate school and is twenty-seven years old this year.
The conditions were good in all aspects, but I refused directly at that time because I still thought about you and Tiao Tiao, and I didn't want to easily break up the family of three that we had built with great difficulty."
I lowered my head, and there was a sour feeling in my heart. I thought to myself: Xu Minghui, you had known this, why did you do it in the first place?
But I didn't say these words. For a moment, I raised my head and pretended to be cynical and said to Xu Minghui: "Xu Minghui, it seems that I have to thank you for your favor?"
Xu Minghui smiled lightly and said: "No need, I speak from my heart. I hope you can also treat this issue with caution."
I looked at Xu Minghui silently, thought deeply for a moment, and then said to him solemnly: "Xu Minghui, even if I can't find the right one in the future, or I am really deceived by a heartless person again, I will not regret being with you."
Divorced people, I won’t go back and eat your rotten grass. At worst, I will be single for the rest of my life. Anyway, I have the ability to make money, so why do I use it? Enjoy it, travel around the world, and eat something delicious.
Yeah, have some fun. Isn't that all there is to do in this life? So, you'd better not worry too much. You're wasting your time here. Go back quickly. If it's later, you've made a reservation.
What a big girl and little wife, maybe someone else will snatch her away."
Xu Minghui lowered his eyes and listened to my words silently, then nodded with a sneer and whispered to me: "Okay, Haichao, since you have said this, I won't bother you here.
It's too much to get in your eyes, but," at this point, Xu Minghui looked at me, the smile in his eyes disappeared, "but I have something to say here."
"What words?" I asked.
Xu Minghui pondered for a moment, and then said calmly to me: "I will give you half a year. No matter what others introduce to me in these six months, I will not go to see you. I will only wait for you to look back. If you look back, we will make it clear."
As we said before, the family of three is still as loving and happy as before; if you haven't come back to me in the past six months, then I'm sorry, I won't wait for you anymore. When the time comes, the man and the woman will have nothing to do with each other."
I smiled and nodded to Xu Minghui and said: "Xu Minghui, I thank you for looking at me so highly, but I will leave it here. Your time is precious, so don't waste it on me these six months, because I definitely won't
I’ll look for you later, so you’d better grab the older girls and younger wives around you as soon as possible.”
Xu Minghui nodded with a sneer, stood up, and said goodbye to me: "I'm going back first, but what I just said must count."
I didn't look into his eyes or send him out. I just sat on the sofa expressionlessly. It wasn't until Xu Minghui walked out and closed the door heavily that my eyes fell on the tightly closed door.
At this moment, my heart towards Xu Minghui is like that cold and tightly closed door, which has been closed.
***
I have a biological sister who is eight years younger than me. Her name is Wei Haijing. She is not in City S where I live. After finishing college in City B, she stayed there and started working directly.
Haijing has also suffered deep emotional trauma. When she graduated, our family advised her to either go back to the city near her hometown to develop. After all, she has many relatives and friends there who will take care of everything.
Come to my place to develop. After all, Xu Minghui and I had a stable foundation in this city at that time. After Hai Jing came over, we could take care of her to some extent.
But at that time, Haijing stayed in city B for a man she had been in love with for a long time, and gave her most precious first night to that man. However, she never expected that the man would actually hook up with Haijing while they were in love.
The daughter of their boss, for the sake of his own future, he threw himself into the arms of the boss's daughter and abandoned Haijing.
This incident dealt a heavy blow to Haijing. She was alone in city B at the time. She resigned from her job because of some unhappiness at work. The double blow of unemployment and broken love made her almost commit suicide at that time. These things she
I didn't even tell my family at the time, but I just managed to get through it later, and finally found a good sweetheart.
Now, knowing that I am divorced, I am afraid that I will feel lonely and uncomfortable. Hai Jing will make long-distance calls to me every night. Our sisters often talk on the phone for an hour or two at a time.
On the phone, I roughly repeated to Haijing what Xu Minghui said today. After hearing it, Haijing said to me: "Sister, the more Xu Minghui says this, the more you have to live out your true style and give him