I said to Teacher Li: "Let me take the child back first, I will talk to her, and then I will communicate with you."
Teacher Li nodded quickly and said to me: "That's good, you should do some ideological work on her. After all, she is a girl, so you should be careful about the people you associate with." After saying that, Teacher Li also added to me sincerely.
He said, "There is so much chaos outside the campus now. The safety of girls is the first priority. I am also afraid that something will happen!"
I nodded to Teacher Li and said, "I know, I will have a good talk with the child."
Teacher Li reluctantly smiled at me, and then we walked back to her office and walked to her daughter. Teacher Li said to her: "Xu Yueran, you go back with your mother first."
Tiaotiao stood up with a little pout, and slowly picked up the schoolbag placed on the chair beside her. I helped her put the schoolbag on her back, and then said hello to Teacher Li: "Mr. Li, let's go back first."
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Teacher Li smiled at me and nodded, and I took my daughter and walked downstairs.
I took a taxi in front of the school and took my daughter back to the house where I lived.
After returning home, I asked Tiaotiao to put down her schoolbag, and then asked her to sit on the sofa opposite me, with our mother and daughter facing each other.
During this process, Tiaotiao kept a straight face, didn't look at me very much, and didn't say a word.
I stared at my daughter's childish face, remained silent for a long time, and asked her seriously: "Why do you skip class?"
Tiaotiao raised her head and glanced at me, and retorted: "I didn't skip class! Physical education class is an outdoor activity. What's wrong with us going out for some exercise? We will be back before school..."
"You ran outside the school, don't you call it skipping class? What if something happens?" I asked her sternly, at this time both of my eyes were spitting fire.
Tiaotiao is actually a little afraid of me. After all, she is still just a child. Seeing that I really got angry, she wilts down, but she still does not forget to whisper in a strong voice: "Nothing will happen, and neither will we."
Go far, I've been to that bar many times, we all know the boss..."
"What's the name of the boy who skipped class with you?" I asked her sharply again.
"Chen Xiaotian." Tiao Tiao lowered his head and murmured.
"How is his academic performance?" I asked.
Tiaotiao lowered his head and wrung his fingers, and replied in a low voice: "Not good."
"What is his family situation like? What do his parents do?" I continued to ask.
Tiaotiao raised her head and glanced at me, then replied in a low voice: "His parents divorced and got married. Xiaotian lives with his grandmother, and his grandmother doesn't care about him."
I understand. It turns out that Chen Xiaotian also lives in a divorced family. It seems that he may be one of the problematic boys mentioned by Teacher Li.
"If you hang out with boys like this all day long, what good can you learn?" I lowered my head and approached my daughter and said to her sternly.
"Xiao Tian is not a bad boy! He is very righteous!" Tiao Tiao retorted at me, scratching her neck.
"Justice?" I asked with a glare.
He looked at me with a guilty conscience, lowered his head and nodded, and said to me in a barely audible voice: "He has a lot of good buddies. If I am bullied by anyone, they can all help me to deal with it."
I couldn't help but feel angry and funny when I heard it, so I said directly to Tiaotiao: "You were bullied by someone in school. Tell your mother, and she will help you to deal with it! Why bother looking for these stupid boys?"
Tiaotiao raised her head and glanced at me again, murmuring: "You adults don't understand the things between us children..."
When I heard this, I was stunned at first, and then I felt that I couldn't laugh or cry. Now I really wanted to jump up and beat this daughter up, so that she would wake up and make her obedient. However, I knew that I couldn't, I had to
I restrain my emotions just because my child's father and I have divorced, and more importantly because my child has grown up and rough education methods can no longer solve the problem.
"Why don't I understand? I came from that age too!" After a moment of silence, I said loudly to Tiaotiao.
Tiaotiao lowered her head again, pouting her little mouth and keeping silent, looking unconvinced.
Seeing her sitting there silently, I continued to say to her: "Tell me, boss, you all know him. You also said that Chen Xiaotian is very loyal to you, but do you know how many children have been killed just because they met random people in the bar?"
Is there a real case of a man who came out of prison and went to a bar to lure minors? He used some snacks and pocket money to seduce them, and then tricked them into their home and killed them. The police officers went to their home.
During the search, the bodies of more than a dozen children were dug out from the ground, and some of the children had their eyes gouged out by the man..."
The example I gave worked as expected. Tiao Tiao's little face turned pale with fright. She yelled at me: "Mom! Why are you making up such a story to scare me?"
I replied to her seriously: "Mom is not making up stories to scare you. This is a real case that actually happened in life, and such cases are not the same. Mom can even find this news from the Internet or newspapers.
Come out and show you."
At this time, Tiaotiao's eyes were filled with tears. She looked at me with her little mouth pouted, looking at her aggrieved look, as if she was about to cry.
In fact, I didn't mean to scare the children, but as the saying goes, don't give strong medicine and don't cure stubborn diseases. Sometimes, I think it is necessary to use appropriate threats to make children retreat when they are faced with difficulties.
Next, I said to Tiaotiao in a calm tone: "The badness of these bad people is not written on their faces. If everyone could see that they are bad people, there would not be so many children who continue to be deceived. And
The reason why he specifically picked children to attack is because children of your age do not have the ability to identify the ugly phenomena of society, nor do they have strong resistance ability, so he can succeed again and again. If he encounters such a bad person, that Chen
Let alone Xiaotian, he can't protect you, he can't even protect himself. And you don't know if the bar boss you are familiar with is actually a bad person behind him. The underground black bar is originally a place where evil and evil people live, who knows who is hiding in it?
What are the real identities of the people there? That’s why your mother and teachers forbid you from going to that place, just to prevent you from being hurt."
While sobbing, Tiaotiao nodded helplessly at me, and promised in a whimpering voice: "Mom, I know... it's wrong. I will never go to... that kind of place again..."
Seeing that my daughter finally changed her mind, I let out a long sigh, sat next to her, hugged her and coaxed her softly: "Mom knows you are a good child, but you also have to believe that she is doing it for your own good.
Mom hopes that you can grow up healthy and stay away from those dark things as much as possible, so the things mom doesn’t let you do must be for your own good."
Tiaotiao sobbed and nodded helplessly in my arms.
I stroked her little face and asked her softly: "Will you still skip class in the future?"
"No, no..." Tiao Tiao replied softly.
"If Chen Xiaotian asks you to hang out again, how will you answer him?" I asked.
Tiaotiao wiped her tears in my arms, and then whispered: "If he comes to me again, I will tell him... my mother won't let me... tell him not to come to me again in the future..."
I let out a long breath, stroked my daughter's back and said to her slowly: "That's right." Then I added to her, "If someone at school gives you trouble, you must tell your mother, and she will
I'll settle it for you."
Tiaotiao looked up at me with her big eyes blurred by tears, and nodded gently to me.
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That night, after putting my daughter to sleep, I made a long phone call to Xu Minghui, who was on a business trip in a city in the northwest.
On the phone, I said to Xu Minghui very sternly: "Xu Minghui, when we divorced, you desperately wanted custody of your daughter, and now that you are about to get it, you have failed to fulfill your responsibilities! If you continue to let your daughter be like this, I can sue you for dereliction of duty!"
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From the phone, I could tell that the environment at Xu Minghui's place was very noisy. He raised his voice and replied to me: "Why did I neglect my duty? Did the child lack food and clothing, or was there no one to take care of him? The child ran out of school.
That was a dereliction of duty by the school, how could it be blamed on me?"
I was so angry that I almost rolled my eyes. After I was angry, I yelled at Xu Minghui: "Xu Minghui! Stop arguing with me! Let me ask you, did you finally have a heart-to-heart talk with your daughter? Do you know what she is thinking? Do you know she is at school?
What kind of people do you date?"
Xu Minghui told me shamelessly: "I admit that I don't communicate with my daughter very often, but there is nothing we can do about it. It's not like you don't know that I'm busy with work. Who makes you have to divorce me? If we don't divorce, why don't we?
Is there no such thing anymore?"
I replied angrily to Xu Minghui: "Xu, don't bring the topic to this! I divorced you because of your character! It was a last resort! What I'm talking to you about now is the growth of your child.
Question, if you keep tying your daughter to your side like this without paying attention to it, and leave it to your old parents, I will consider taking back the custody of your daughter! Because the old man can only take care of the child in life, but rarely can communicate with her.
There is spiritual communication, which needs to be done by parents. Since you can't do it, then give your daughter back to me and I will do it!"
The noise from Xu Minghui's side became even louder. His voice raised several times and he shouted to me on the other side of the phone: "Want to take back your daughter's custody rights? No way! I will handle these issues when I get back. As for you,
?Either you remarry me and we will raise our daughter together, or you shut up! Stop gesticulating over there, I will educate my own daughter! In any case, Tiaotiao is the blood of the Xu family, no one can think of it
Take her away from me, not even you!"
After saying this, Xu Minghui hung up the phone.
Listening to the "beep" busy tone coming from the other side of the phone, I was so angry that I really wanted to throw the phone!
I gritted my teeth and looked ahead, and bitterly squeezed out a few words from between my teeth: "Xu Minghui, wait!"