Zhou Yaze looked at me, his brows tightened, and he asked me softly: "Leave? Are you saying this in anger?"
I looked at Zhou Yaze calmly and replied to him affirmatively: "No, I made this decision after careful consideration and not out of anger. In fact, I had this idea since my divorce. At that time, I
I just got divorced and I felt depressed, so I wanted to change my environment, but the idea was not as strong as it is now. Now, in my heart..." At this point, I lowered my head slightly, and my tone was a little embarrassed. After a while, I raised my head and continued, "
This idea is very strong in my mind now. I hope that changing to a new environment can give me a new start and no longer make me live in such a...depressed..."
After hearing what I said, Zhou Yaze sighed softly. He took out the cigarette case from his pocket, took out a cigarette and put it into his mouth, then slowly lit it. He looked a little irritable.
Smoke swirled around his handsome face. After taking a few puffs of cigarette, he asked me helplessly: "What is the depression you are referring to? Do you mean interpersonal relationships? But you don't want to think about where you will end up without human connections."
Relationships? In a new environment, don’t you need to get along with your colleagues? Don’t you need to deal with your boss?”
At this point, Zhou Yaze's tone became a little harsh. He put out his cigarette butt, lit the table and said to me: "I can tell you clearly that the problems you will encounter today will probably happen in any environment.
, the form may change slightly, but if your personality and way of doing things do not change, you will still encounter similar problems even if you change to a new environment. Maybe you don’t think what I say sounds good, but this
But it’s a fact.”
I admit that Zhou Yaze is indeed on point. I, Wei Haichao, need to be competent and courageous in my work, but even in interpersonal communication, I am not very flexible, otherwise I would not have left that large state-owned enterprise in the first place.
, because at that time I could not stand the bureaucracy in state-owned enterprises that relied on nepotism and cliques to form gangs, so I resigned angrily in my thirties, hoping to find development opportunities in modern enterprises with a more open atmosphere.
So that’s how I came to Yiyou.
When I first came to Yiyou, I felt that the atmosphere at Yiyou was quite relaxed and humane. After all, the boss and employees were very young, so many modern elements and fashion styles were incorporated into the company, giving people a refreshing feeling.
At that time, it was the golden period for Yiyou to take off. The leadership team headed by Zhou Yaze led all employees to work as one, working overtime day and night, striving to make this emerging advertising company bigger and stronger.
It was in this atmosphere that I resolutely decided to stay and contribute to Yiyou’s grand cause with my own modest efforts.
In fact, although I have had unpleasant experiences in Yiyou over the past few years, looking back now, most of them were pleasant experiences, especially when planning those successful cases and those sleepless people who worked overtime until late at night.
At night, when I recall those warm moments of mutual encouragement and coexistence with my colleagues, as well as the encouragement and appreciation Zhou Yaze gave me, I feel a sincere sweetness in my heart.
I admit that the conflict with me, Zhao Bingyan and Wu Xiaona, stems from my overly outspoken and public personality, and also from the fact that I am not very good at hiding my sharp-edged behavior. However, sometimes people's behavior has been formed since childhood.
As she grew up, it was gradually infiltrated into her heart and code of conduct, and it would not explode because of one thing or a few things. Therefore, even if I can learn lessons from the conflicts with Zhao Bingyan and Wu Xiaona,
It doesn't mean that I will completely change my behavior. I can temper my sharp edges, but I will still have the persistence I need.
I acknowledge and thank Yiyou for the good times he has brought me, but I also know that it is not wrong for me to leave now. If I continue to stay here, because of this public conflict with Wu Xiaona and Zhao Bingyan, I will not be able to leave in the future.
My career at Yiyou Advertising Company will be even more difficult. Then my whole body and mind will be affected, and it will definitely affect my performance in my career. In that case, the gains outweigh the losses. And if I choose to leave at that time, it will obviously be too late.
It's too late, so choosing to leave at the right time is actually a wise choice.
As the saying goes, there is no feast that lasts forever, and the same is true for a modern enterprise located in a metropolis. With an iron-clad camp and flowing soldiers, who can guarantee who will stick to which position for a lifetime?
When I thought of this, I looked at Zhou Yaze, gave him a faint smile, and replied calmly: "Mr. Zhou, you are right, even if I change the environment, if I don't change my temper, I may still end up like today.
It’s an embarrassing situation, so I will learn from this matter. After I resign, I will take a break and adjust my mood before looking for a job again. If I change my working environment, I will restrain my personality.
Let myself no longer be so sharp. However, judging from my current situation in Yiyou, I have indeed reached a point where I should leave. After all, the conflicts between me and several key employees are on the surface. If I don't leave,
It will be awkward for us to get along in the future, and there may be... a lot of troubles, so I thought about it and decided that it would be better to leave. I just feel a little ashamed of your trust and trust in me. To be honest, I am very grateful to you for your treatment of me over the past few years.
With your support and trust, I hope that if there is an opportunity in the future, we can work together again."
I said these words sincerely. When Zhou Yaze heard these words, he smiled helplessly, then looked at me, his eyes became much gentler, and he said softly to me: "The trouble you are talking about is
What do you mean? Are you afraid that someone will cause trouble for you in the future?"
I smiled awkwardly, lowered my head slightly, and did not answer his question, because I really didn't know how to answer his question at this moment.
Zhou Yaze leaned forward slightly, looked at me, and said to me meaningfully: "Actually, the problems you are encountering now can be big or small. You should not think about things too pessimistically. I have carefully investigated this matter.
, I also listened to the accounts of some people present at the time, including Qian Yaya, and I have a relatively thorough understanding of the plot. Although you went too far in this matter, Wu Xiaona’s behavior that day was not entirely
No fault of hers, it can be said that she caused the fuse, which finally caused your bomb to detonate. Of course, the way you exploded was a bit too extreme. You poured a plate of rice with vegetable soup just like that.
On the part of a young girl, this behavior is really too..."
Seeing Zhou Yaze smiling slightly but hesitating to speak, I smiled helplessly. I followed up on his words and asked, "What's too much? Isn't it too aggressive?"
Zhou Yaze smiled and nodded, without saying the word, he just smiled lightly and said: "Anyway, your behavior is beyond my expectation. In the past, I only knew that you were a quick and talkative person, but I didn't expect you to initiate a quarrel."
Was it so shocking? The moment I heard someone tell me about the scene, I was really disappointed, but at the same time, I also felt that maybe you were so angry at the time, otherwise you wouldn't have done such an outrageous thing.
."
Listening to Zhou Yaze put himself in my shoes and speak like this, I felt warm in my heart, but at the same time there was an indescribable sourness surging through me. I knew that Zhou Yaze had always valued me and even favored me. To be honest, he was like this
As a boss, no one is willing to leave, but I know better that if I continue to develop in Yiyou, Zhou Yaze may be even more embarrassed in the future, because once the conflicts between Zhao Bingyan and Wu Xiaona become public, with their sharp personalities
I will definitely not let it go in the future. Even if this incident can be suppressed by Zhou Yaze on the surface, all kinds of open and covert arrows will be fired at me in the future. At that time, I will be attacked from both sides and I will be unable to defend myself.
As expected, Zhou Yaze looked at me and smiled. Zhou Yaze thought that I had accepted his opinion, so he said to me pleasantly: "Now that you are aware of your problem, I have also considered this matter carefully.
Do you think this is a good solution to the problem? I will step in and let you, Wu Xiaona, and Zhao Bingyan sit down and talk calmly. Anyway, both sides are wrong, so why not just give in and say some things in front of each other?
Let's apologize to each other, and the company will come forward to give some compensation to Wu Xiaona and Zhao Bingyan. After all, they suffered a certain amount of losses that day. Then let this matter pass like this. From now on, you will shake hands and make peace. How should you get along with each other?
How to get along without affecting each other's attitudes towards work, let alone your own career development in Yiyou, what do you think of my idea?"
As he spoke, Zhou Yaze looked at me with inquiring eyes, as if seeking my opinion.
Looking at his sincere eyes, I felt really uncomfortable. I wanted to say that I agreed with his suggestion because I didn’t want to leave Yiyou, but these words surged through my chest several times and finally made me suppress it.
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I knew that I couldn't waver or retreat at this moment, because if I retreated, I might put myself and Zhou Yaze in a desperate situation. Although our situation had not reached that point at that time, I already had this hidden worry in my heart.
So I smiled bitterly, raised my head and said sincerely to Zhou Yaze: "Mr. Zhou, you think about things too simply. You are a man, so sometimes you don't understand the world of women, let alone the conflicts between women.
Once it is engraved in my heart, how deep it will be. I thank you for putting yourself in my shoes and proposing that solution. But to be honest, I cannot accept your solution, because even if the conflict between Zhao Bingyan and Wu Xiaona remains,
Through the mediation between you and the company leaders, we can get a temporary solution, but these are superficial phenomena. In the future, there will be undercurrents between us. Although there may not be overt disputes, there will definitely be secret fights in private. In that case
, my enthusiasm for work was completely restrained and restrained, and I couldn't perform to my best, so I decided to leave."
After hearing my words of rejection, you can imagine the disappointment on Zhou Yaze's face.
He looked at me silently and didn't speak for a long time.
Later, he asked me softly in a low tone: "It seems that you have decided to leave?"
I looked at him helplessly and nodded lightly to him.