My cousin introduced me to a man named Mou, who was thirty-nine years old and divorced. He had a ten-year-old boy who followed his ex-wife. According to my cousin, this man was a local and worked in a leisurely administrative unit with a high income.
It is very stable, has a car and a house, and overall the conditions are very good.
I don’t judge people by their appearance. I am an ordinary person myself. Besides, I am so old that I cannot be so naive. So since I want to find someone to marry and live in a down-to-earth manner, I don’t ask too much about his appearance characteristics.
I asked my cousin what her temper was like and whether she had any bad habits. She said no.
Mr. Mou's mother and my cousin's aunt live in the same community. The two old ladies often danced square dances together when they were young, and they became familiar with each other. Recently, Mrs. Mou often asked my cousin to help her divorced son find a suitable partner.
object, so my cousin thought of me.
In this way, Mr. Mou and I met.
Although I don't judge people by their appearance, before meeting me, I routinely asked my cousin how the person named Mou looked like.
My cousin said that this person is not ugly, but because he has always lived a relatively leisurely life, he is a little wide and fat, making him look white and fat.
I was somewhat prepared at the time, thinking that this man must have gained some weight, but when we actually met, I was still a little surprised.
At that time, we made an appointment to meet at three o'clock on Saturday afternoon, on the second floor of a famous teahouse in this area.
That day, I got dressed up and arrived at the teahouse in advance. I sat on the second floor drinking tea while waiting for Mr. Mou's arrival.
On the second floor of this tea house, when people came up from the stairs, they had to pass by a screen. I had nothing to do, so I just stared at the screen, because the time was almost up, and I guessed that Mr. Mou should be here.
Sure enough, as soon as three o'clock came, Mr. Mou came to me. As soon as he came in, I recognized him. The reason was obvious and very funny, because he had a huge beer belly. The scene at that time could be...
It is said that before the other person has completely walked out of the screen, his belly has already appeared from one side of the screen. If he were a woman, based on the shape of his belly, he would look like he was about to give birth.
This Mr. Mou is not only fair and fat, but also has a slight baldness on the top of his head. His height seems to be a little over 1.7 meters at most, but his weight definitely seems to be higher than his height, at least 100*
*Ten pounds.
Looking at this situation, I couldn't help but secretly smack my tongue. This person is not a little fat as my cousin said, but really fat.
But now that I'm here, I have to have a good chat with him, so I put on a professional smile and waved to him.
Mr. Mou recognized me at a glance, because he had talked to me on the phone before he came, and I told him what color clothes I was wearing today and even what color bag I was carrying, so now he walked up to me with a smile.
He sat down next to me, said a few polite words to me, and then cut the topic to the topic.
The first question he asked was: "Miss Wei, how old are you?"
Hearing him ask this, I felt a little unhappy. Would he not ask my age before going on a blind date?
But I still politely replied to him: "Oh, I am thirty-five years old this year."
Mr. Mou nodded slightly, squinted his eyes and murmured with a smile: "This age is not too young for a woman!"
Hearing this, I felt even worse. He said that I was not young, but he was almost forty too, right?
I glanced at Mou and said nothing.
Perhaps seeing that I was slightly unhappy, he sneered and changed the subject at the right time: "Oh, it's so hot today!" As he said that, he moved his belt.
I knew that a fat man like him would feel uncomfortable if he didn't loosen his belt when he sat down, so I pretended not to see him.
Next, Mr. Mou asked me again: "I heard that the reason why you divorced your husband was because he cheated?"
Hearing this, I was a little surprised. I raised my head and glanced at the person named Mou. I thought to myself that my cousin was really honest. She really knew everything about her. She even told her the details of my divorce.
But since the other party asked this question, I couldn't pretend not to hear, so I nodded to him lightly and said: "Yes, I caught you red-handed. I can't stand this kind of behavior. Emotionally, I have
I was a bit mysophobic, so I filed for divorce."
After hearing what I said, Mr. Mou immediately seemed to have found a close friend. He opened his eyes and said to me repeatedly: "Me too! I can't stand this kind of behavior! Emotionally, I also have mysophobia. Our experiences are really similar.
Why!"
When I heard this, I was a little surprised. I looked at Mr. Mou and asked him softly: "Did you divorce her because of her... cheating?"
Mr. Mou nodded to me in the affirmative and said indignantly: "Yes!"
I smiled helplessly, and then asked him: "You said that our experiences were very similar. Could it be that you also caught them on the spot?"
Mr. Mou stared back at me and said, "Really? I always suspected that she was having an affair with a man in her work unit. After work, she always called those people to chat. I asked her what she was talking about, and she said yes.
Talking about work, and then going out to party with them, I followed her several times..."
This time, my interest was piqued, and I quickly asked, "What did you see next?"
Mr. Mou rolled his eyes and said, "I saw her partying with a bunch of her friends and colleagues!"
"A group, not a single person?" I was a little confused.
"That man was also present, but there were other colleagues around." Mr. Mou replied to me frustratedly.
I was a little disappointed when I heard this, and I murmured to him: "If there are other people around, there shouldn't be any problem, right? Didn't you catch them dating alone?"
Mr. Mou shook his head dejectedly: "No," and then said to me unconvinced, "If they really want to do that, how can I catch them? But I think their relationship is abnormal!"
After talking for a long time, Mr. Mou suspected that his ex-wife had cheated on her, which was just based on rumors. At this time, I had completely lost interest in continuing with him because I could faintly smell the best scent of Mr. Mou.
But in order to prevent it from being too difficult for my aunt, the introducer, I still had to bite the bullet and exchange a few words with Mr. Mou. I asked him casually: "Is this why you are getting divorced?"
"Yes," he told me with wide eyes, "her social circle is so wide, I feel her style is not decent!"
I smiled helplessly and murmured: "But you have no evidence!"
"My intuition will not lie to me..." Mou insisted.
I smiled helplessly and shook my head. I was trying to figure out what kind of excuse I could find and got up to leave. At this time, Mr. Mou said to me again: "So I decided that if I look for him again this time, if he is unmarried, he must be a virgin! I am.
I can’t stand this kind of woman with bad behavior all the time!”
Hearing this sentence, the tea in my mouth almost spurted out. I looked at Mr. Mou and asked him directly: "Then you still come to meet me? Don't you know that I am divorced? My children are all
More than ten years old!”
Mr. Mou quickly smiled and said to me: "Look, weren't you introduced by my mother's friend Aunt Xu? I have to give her face no matter what!"
Holy shit! I cursed in my heart! It turns out that such a fat guy, who suspected his wife was cheating on her but couldn’t even find any evidence and looked like she was about to give birth, actually agreed to marry me just to sell a favor to my aunt.
I meet?
At that moment, the anger in my chest suddenly surged. I stood up, picked up my bag, and said coldly to the person named Mou: "Okay, let's do it today."
Well, I’d better not delay your life-long plan to find a virgin, let’s just do what we should do with each other!”
After hearing what I said, the man surnamed Mou quickly tried to smooth things over. He kept saying, "Hey, Xiao Wei, don't leave. I have a pretty good impression of you. Although you are a bit older, your age can hurt people."
Well!"
As he said that, he wanted to come up and grab my hand.
I threw his hand away and said to him coldly: "I'm sorry, I don't have a particularly good impression of you." As I said that, I raised my eyebrows at him, "You think I'm old? I think you're too old.
My belly is big!”
The man surnamed Mou rolled his eyes in anger at my words. I smiled proudly at him, then strode downstairs, ignoring the fat man's nonsense behind me.
***
After this guy named Mou, I met several more blind dates, some of whom were introduced by my cousin, and some who were introduced by sisters and aunts who lived in the same community. Each of these men was better than the last.
There was a man who was an auditor, forty years old and divorced. He made an appointment with me to meet on the basement floor of a large shopping mall.
In fact, that shopping mall has many places where couples can sit while dating, such as Shangdao Cafe, Starbucks, etc., but he didn't go there, and instead asked me to meet on the open space on the basement floor of the shopping mall.
And made a secret code.
I thought to myself that this person was engaged in auditing, and he must be very meticulous, so he may have made such a date plan out of the consideration of saving costs and reducing waste. I am not a person who likes to take advantage of others, so I agreed.
.
As a result, that day, we sat on the benches for tourists in the underground shopping mall for a long time, and bought two bottles of mineral water in the middle of it. Because the auditor man didn't come up with the money for a long time, I paid for it.
The audit man chatted with me for a while and then went straight to the topic, talking about his ideal remarriage life, which must be aa.
His AA system is as fine as a hair. After getting married, the two people are responsible for all their personal belongings and personal expenses. The couple just put the money for meals together. However, if there is an opportunity for one person to eat at home
The more you pay, the more you have to pay for living expenses.
After finishing speaking, the audit man emphasized to me: "The amount of food I eat at home is very small. I have a small appetite. I usually eat breakfast outside, lunch is provided by the workplace, and only dinner is eaten at home."
, and just have some porridge or whatever for dinner, so if the dinner is particularly rich, I won’t pay for it, because I can’t eat much, and I won’t be able to digest it if I eat too much.”
The audit man is from the Jianghu area and wears a pair of glasses. When he said this, his tone naturally had the caressing tone unique to some men from Jianghu, which made me want to laugh.
I suppressed my laughter and replied solemnly to the audit man: "It stands to reason that in modern society, new models of family relationships are also emerging. I think the AA system is actually good, but I think we need to pay attention to the methods.
Enough is enough. If you only focus on sharing everything equally and fearing that the other party will take advantage of everything, such fussing over things will only hurt the feelings of both parties in the end. What's the point of living like this? So, you still
First find the woman who is willing to make a living with you, and then tell her your plan!"
With that said, I stood up, picked up my bag, and said to him: "I'm sorry, I have something else to do, so I'll take my leave now!"
The audit man stood up behind me holding his glasses, and murmured, "Don't you want to try it with me?"
I sneered and shook my head, ignored him and strode out of the shopping mall.
***
The life of a blind date is so boring. In the process of a blind date, I feel like a commodity that has been sold and then returned to the market. I am put on the shelf for people to pick and choose. I have really had enough of this kind of life.
!
But if I don’t go there, there will be a group of people around me making irresponsible remarks. My parents will call me every night. Hai Jing also advises me to find a suitable one for me while I am in good condition. Moreover, I live in
In this community, when I first moved back, no one made any comments. But later, when I came in and out every day, some kind-hearted aunties came to ask questions.
The house I live in now, although Xu Minghui and I have never lived in it before, is mainly used for renting out, but I will come back regularly every month to check, otherwise you will not know if the tenant has damaged something in the house.
I have a warm and greeting personality, so I am fairly familiar with the neighbors around me.
Now seeing me coming in and out of this house every day, Aunt Zhang, who lives across the door, asked me curiously: "Xiao Wei, why did you move back? You and Xiao Xu don't live over there in Pingyuan anymore?"
I smiled helplessly at Aunt Zhang and added to her awkwardly: "Xu Minghui and I divorced, and this house was given to me."
Upon hearing the news, Aunt Zhang was surprised, and then she sighed and said repeatedly: "Oh, what a pity, what a perfect match for a pair of wonderful people? Why did they divorce?"
All in all, I was very embarrassed by asking questions.
However, after the initial inquiry, as time went by, Aunt Zhang began to care about my personal affairs. Every time she saw me in the corridor, she whispered to me: "If there is a suitable one, I should find a woman."
It’s not safe to live alone in such a big house!”
As he said this, he also cited a single woman who was killed by gangsters who broke into her house because she lived alone. It took a long time for her neighbors to find her and call the police.
I felt helpless in my heart, so I could only agree with "Yeah, yeah, yeah."
Apart from this incident, I was actually pretty happy with my work at that time.
Our department manager is a young man in his early thirties, and his wife is from a neighboring county in the same province as mine. They are both very nice people, and they take good care of me in every way. In addition, we have successfully planned several cases since coming to Oulin.
, which won me honor and respect within the company, and the department even assigned me a deputy, so that I would have no worries at work.
However, despite my frequent successes in the workplace, I suffered a series of defeats when it came to marriage and love. The more blind dates I met, the more afraid I became of going on blind dates.
This kind of blind date between mature men and mature women is not like the blind date between young boys and girls in their early twenties, because most of these people have already experienced one marriage or even experienced severe trauma. To be honest, everyone has lost their longing for love.
and eagerness, more and more people are pursuing the idea of living together, so the cold and helpless faces of various realities are undoubtedly exposed.
In addition, many people in this age group have formed their own fixed living habits and behavior styles, and it is difficult to change these characteristics when living with others, so my road to remarriage can be said to be even more difficult.
There are a lot of men who I feel are suitable for me, but there are almost no men who are really willing to sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk with you or even imagine the future. Most of the people who go on a blind date come to the blind date with the mentality of just coping, and I am not a very attractive person.
Stunning beauties with a photographic memory, so more and more blind dates stop contacting her after one date.
I really felt like I had a headache, but at this moment, an uninvited guest whom I hadn't seen for a long time suddenly came to my door.