Bian Xu has a cheerful personality and a bright image. When I'm with him, I treat him like a little brother. I don't feel any pressure at all, let alone think wrongly.
Bian Xu, like me, loves sports. Living in such a stressful city, sometimes exercise is the best way to relieve stress. So, Bian Xu and I both use sports to kill our spare time. We have the same hobby.
, let us form friends of the opposite sex who have never forgotten each other.
I have a friend who works in a sports hall. Through her relationship, we can rent relatively cheap balls and badminton courts. These two sports are what Bian Xu and I love. We often make appointments to play ball or badminton together during the week.
, sometimes it’s just the two of us, sometimes we’ll find two friends and have a mixed doubles game.
When the weather is bad, we will go swimming in several indoor swimming pools. Bian Xu’s physical strength is very good. He can swim several kilometers continuously without any problem. His backstroke and freestyle strokes are both beautiful. Although my speed cannot keep up with him,
But she is considered very strong among women. Swimming a thousand meters continuously is no problem for me.
I spend my spare time like this, avoiding those boring dating shows.
To be honest, a blind date is the biggest test of a person's endurance and patience. Two men and a woman sat awkwardly together, and then as a matter of routine, I was questioned: Where are you from? Which university do you go to?
?Where are you now? By the way, you were married once, right? Why did you divorce? Who gets the children after the divorce?
After mastering these basic questions, the other party began to inquire about my financial situation in a roundabout way: Are you busy at work now? I heard that planners make a lot of money! It is said that the annual salary ranges from hundreds of thousands to hundreds of thousands.
How much can you earn now? By the way, you have your own house, right?
These are the same boring questions. Almost every time I meet a blind date, the other party will ask these questions again. Whenever I am questioned by them, I think in my heart: If we are chatting on QQ, I can completely answer these questions.
These questions are set as quick replies, and when the other party asks a question, I just click on the set shortcut keys, which saves me wasting my time repeating the same questions to them again and again.
After asking these questions, the other party looked at me carefully with a scrutinizing gaze. This gaze was probably calculating in his mind, estimating my overall value together, then comparing it with other women he had been with, and finally making a final comment.
Rank first, second and third, then select the best among the best, and decide which one or which ones to continue developing with.
To be honest, this kind of repertoire is so boring that at this point, I feel like I'm a commodity being picked up from the shelf and carefully compared with other commodities before deciding which of us is the best.
He was satisfied and bought it home.
Many people's endurance and patience have been polished by the same cross-examination. If this kind of blind date is carried out too many times, people will have severe aesthetic fatigue. By that time, no matter how outstanding the opposite sex you meet next,
, may not arouse your special interest, because your patience has been worn away, and in your eyes, he is no different from the blind dates you have seen before.
What’s even more frightening is that some leftover men and leftover women have experienced no less than a hundred blind dates by the time they are in their thirties. This kind of blind date tactics, which is like a horse-race, has polished off the edges and enthusiasm of people.
People are more and more like a talking piece of wood, so under such circumstances, it is almost a joke that they can still meet someone they like in a blind date.
The reason why I paused the dating show is not because I don’t want to lose the little passion I have in my heart, because I am afraid that when I meet a man who is really suitable for me in the future, I will miss him, because by that time the passion in my heart has been worn away.
, so I paused this arduous program and went elsewhere to breathe a breath of fresh air. The exercise time I experienced with Bian Xu was the fresh air I found outside.
There are no worries when being with Bian Xu. He is still so young and has just graduated and started working. Such troublesome issues like marriage and housing are not his turn to consider because he still has plenty of time to squander.
His world is pure and his heart is pure and flawless. When I am with him, I don’t feel any troubles and confusions in the world at all. Our time together is happy. I feel that he treats me as his own person.
My eldest sister would tell me anything that bothered me. Of course, more often than not, she brought me happiness.
Because Bian Xu is engaged in technology, I basically ask him to help me with the computers and other electronic equipment at home. Bian Xu always takes the trouble to help me solve the problems. In terms of personality, Bian Xu is almost perfect.
He is a boy who is calm, yet enthusiastic and cute. I often think to myself that Hai Jing is just a few years older than Bian Xu, and now he is still a famous girl. If only Bian Xu had appeared in my life a few years earlier.
If he wins, I will definitely introduce my own sister to him, because he is really a reliable boy.
The days passed by unconsciously.
My boss Xu Wenbo is a fast-moving figure. In addition to this advertising company, he also has other businesses running, such as a clothing design company and a film and television company, so he does not always go to the advertising company.
Bian Lai, however, his main asset is still the Olin Advertising Company.
Xu Wenbo is an excellent man. This excellence mainly refers to his character and ability. He is not tall and has a medium build. If you only look at his appearance, you can say that he is not good-looking, but looking at his overall temperament, he feels different from others.
Because his smile and conversation naturally carry a kind of poise and detachment unique to successful people. His tone of voice is not high, but it is very intimidating. He always looks at you with a slight smile, making you feel that you are getting it.
If you pay attention to it, this is the kingly spirit of a successful person. This kind of spirit is definitely not something we ordinary people can have. It can only be possessed by those who have experienced the ups and downs, right and wrong, and have a profound understanding of life.
Because Mr. Xu doesn’t always come to the company, I don’t have much contact with him. This advertising company is mainly managed by two professional managers appointed by him. Moreover, with the profound lessons learned at Yiyou Advertising Company, this advertising company
I don’t want to get so close to my boss anymore, lest it cause any unnecessary criticism and affect my work and life.
In fact, my worries are unnecessary, just like Zhou Yaze will have a fiancée who is a perfect match for him. Good men are always in demand in this world. Don’t worry about which good man will be left alone for you. Maybe
Always outstanding, of course it is nothing more than that.
Mr. Xu’s ex-wife ran away with him when he was in trouble. This has been mentioned before, but now he is a very successful person in this society, also known as the person at the top of the pyramid, so naturally there are many
The outstanding beauty took the initiative to throw herself into his arms.
Although Mr. Xu has not remarried, he does have an official girlfriend. Her name is Ling Weiming. She is a very outstanding woman. She is twenty-seven years old. Not only is she married to Pingting and beautiful, but she is also very good at academics. It is said that she graduated from a French university.
She majored in fashion design at a prestigious school and is now a very outstanding young designer in the industry. Mr. Xu’s fashion design company was entrusted to this beautiful girlfriend to take care of it.
Sometimes when Mr. Xu comes to Oulin Advertising Company, he will bring Ling Wei over. Her beauty is obvious to all, her appearance is very pure, and her walking posture is also very elegant. I personally feel that overall she is not inferior to Zhao Bingyan and Wu Yanran.
flow.
Ling Wei is very polite. Every time she comes to the company, even if she is an ordinary employee, she will smile and greet us. This shows that this woman is also very well-educated. It also proves that Mr. Xu has a very unique vision and quality in choosing women.
Also very high.
After getting rid of the worries of blind dates, I have more time to interact with some friends who usually have no time to move around, including the aforementioned Xu Xinnuo who helped me with advice during my divorce.
Xinnuo's family seems to be perfect, with an excellent husband, a lovely daughter, an old father-in-law who refuses to accept old age, and a well-behaved sister-in-law.
One time I went to Xinnuo's place to sit around. The two of us leaned on the sofa boredly, drinking coffee and chatting endlessly. The topic of her conversation came to our boss Xu Wenbo.
Xinnuo held the coffee cup and said to me seriously: "Haichao, did you know? I know your boss's original wife."
I was flipping through a fashion magazine. When she said this, I put down the magazine and asked her curiously: "Oh? How do you know her?"
Xinnuo put down the coffee cup with a smile, and then explained to me softly: "That happened many years ago. At that time, I had just graduated and was interning in a legal consulting center. At that time, Xu Wenbo's ex-wife Ding Yun also worked in that consulting office.
, she is considered my senior, so I have worked with her for several years."
I felt very curious, so I murmured and asked: "So, Mr. Xu's ex-wife is also engaged in legal work? Then why didn't his ex-wife save him when he was in jail?"
Xu Xinnuo smiled helplessly and said to me slightly angrily: "According to your logic, wouldn't the family members of the lawyer's family commit a crime?"
I smiled awkwardly, and then murmured an explanation: "Then the chance is much smaller than normal people, right? After all, there is such a person who understands the law standing by to remind you all the year round."
Xu Xinnuo smiled helplessly, and then said softly to me: "It is said that no one could help Xu Wenbo when he committed the crime. Of course, I also heard what others said. I just went to work at that time and was very worried.
Young, I don’t know the specific details. But after the incident, his wife left with someone else, which is true." At this point, Xu Xinnuo looked at me and told me with some confusion.
He said, "Hey, you tell me I don't understand why Ding Yun would do something like that? I usually think she is a very nice person, unlike someone who would betray her husband when he is in danger, but she just did this.
"The problem is, she just left, and she left with Xu Wenbo's best friend, and the most outrageous thing is that she contacted me recently. It seems that her current situation is very bad."