Saying that, Xu Xinnuo advised me sincerely: "Really, Hai Chao, I think you should consider Lao Li. Lao Li has good economic conditions and doesn't urge you to have children. You can live a comfortable life with him."
You can even consider quitting your job and working as a full-time housewife at home. You usually follow him around the country and abroad. This is a life like a fairy!"
I reluctantly put down the magazine in my hand and said to Xu Xinnuo with a wry smile: "How can it be as simple as you think?"
Xinnuo asked me with wide eyes: "Then why do you think it's not simple?"
I sighed softly, and then thoughtfully said to Xu Xinnuo: "First of all, couples like us are married halfway, and their property is pre-marital property. Does it have anything to do with me? I
How can I just sit back and enjoy the success so easily? At least I still have a son and a daughter, and Li Wanxiang is not young anymore. Considering all aspects, just in case, I can't lose my career, because if he and I are together.
Together, if there is something wrong with Li Wanxiang in the middle, I might have to pack up my clothes and leave the house. All his property belongs to his children."
Xu Xinnuo listened to my words and nodded thoughtfully.
I stared blankly ahead, sighed again, and then continued: "Also, his child is so big, to be honest, I am quite taboo about it." As I said that, I glanced at Xu Xinnuo and said lightly,
"To be honest, his son and daughter are not much younger than us. They are all adults. They must have their own little plans. Especially for a family with a little wealth like theirs, the first-born children will be more or less afraid of their father's second wife.
Came to rob property."
Xu Xinnuo looked at me, laughed involuntarily, patted me lightly, and murmured: "Are you thinking too much? Lao Li's private property is at least tens of millions to 100 million. How can he
Maybe leave it all to your children? If you followed him, how could you get part of it?"
I smiled helplessly, looked at Xu Xinnuo, and replied to her: "It's not that I think too much, but this society is so cruel." Then I said to Xu Xinnuo seriously, "Xinnuo, actually, I do too.
Even though I have experienced some things, I am not as short-sighted as an ordinary woman who has never experienced anything in the world. Although I also value the other person’s financial conditions, it is not the most important thing. Especially if the other person is particularly rich, I feel even more
I'm a little at a loss. I would rather find someone who is a good match for my age and financial conditions, so that both parties will have no pressure and it will be easier to start their future lives. As for Lao Li..."
As I said that, I glanced at Xu Xinnuo again, smiled and whispered to her: "Others may think that he is rich, so it doesn't matter if he is older, but I don't think so. I don't think no amount of money can buy someone."
Youthful years, by the way, you said Lao Li is in his early fifties, is he in his fifties?"
Xu Xinnuo thought about it and murmured: "It seems to be fifty-two years old, maybe fifty-three," and then said to me seriously, "I will ask Liang Yongchen later and give you an accurate answer."
Hearing what Xinnuo said, I quickly waved to her and said repeatedly: "Forget it, forget it, I'm just asking casually." Then I leaned closer to Xinnuo and said to her sincerely: "You said, he is so big.
He's at least seventeen years older than me. When I went to see him, others thought I was just after his money. But in fact, I really didn't care about that. Besides, when I was in my forties, he was already in his sixties.
When I was in my fifties, he was in his seventies. In this world, women live longer than men. Men are also at high risk of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases because they smoke and drink all year round. When he was nearly seventy years old, he really had some disease, such as
Speaking of paralysis, we also had a certain relationship at that time. How could I leave him completely to the nanny to take care of him? Which nanny can take care of him as caringly as my own? Besides, starting from our sense of responsibility or conscience
, you can’t do that? So when that time comes, I still have to stay in front of the bed to wipe his feces and urine. Tell me, when that time comes, should I find a husband or a biological father? "
Hearing this, Xu Xinnuo couldn't help laughing. While laughing, she patted my shoulder and said to me out of breath: "Haichao, you are really good! You are so thoughtful.
...Hahaha...I'm about to die! What you said is so...too funny!"
I said to Xu Xinnuo seriously: "Don't laugh, what I said is all serious, that's why I said I want to find someone who is similar to me in all aspects, so there is no pressure."
Xu Xinnuo smiled enough, and then deliberately asked me: "Then have you found it?"
I glanced at her, sighed helplessly, and said lightly: "A thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but one person is hard to find!"
Xu Xinnuo gave me a "cut" with disdain, then lightly tapped my forehead, and murmured to me: "Do you know why you can't find the right one? In other words, you can't find the one you just said.
What age and condition are the same, but every time you see some crooked melons and cracked dates?"
I looked at Xu Xinnuo and asked, "Why?"
Xu Xinnuo said to me in a long tone: "Because the single or divorced men who are similar to you in all aspects of strength, such as age, income, and experience, will look at the outstanding ones among them.
The little girl in her twenties is gone, and what is left for you is of course some crooked melons and cracked jujubes that are defective in some way. That’s why you are repeatedly frustrated in the blind date process, and all you see are some conditions that are not good for you.
What kind of frustrated man."
Listening to Xu Xinnuo's sincere words, I was speechless for a moment. Then I sighed and murmured: "What you said makes sense."
Xinnuo sat down close to me, and then whispered to me: "So I think you can't give up on Lao Li easily. Don't you know how many single women of your age are vying to marry Lao Li? You still have
If you are thinking and worrying here and there, maybe while you are worrying, he has already been snatched away by other women."
I smiled helplessly and asked Xu Xinnuo softly: "Then what do you think I should do?"
"Shall we meet him? The two of us should start as ordinary friends, see how they get along, and then decide on the next step of development. Even if they are not husband and wife, they can become a pair of good friends. With a mature and steady person like Lao Li by your side,
It’s also a good thing to have someone around you to offer advice.”
I lowered my head and thought deeply. After a long time, I raised my head and nodded to Xu Xinnuo, saying softly: "Yes, then I'll think about it."
Xinnuo smiled at me and patted my shoulder again.
***
On Monday evening, I just came out of the company and walked out of the main entrance of the building. I was about to go to the parking lot to pick up my car. At this time, a white BMW car parked at the door suddenly opened the door, and a beautiful woman in elegant clothes came towards me.
At first I didn't recognize who she was because she had a pair of fashionable big sunglasses on her eyes. When she walked over and took off her sunglasses, I realized she was Zhao Bingyan.
I was a little stunned when I saw Zhao Bingyan standing in front of me. I didn't realize what was going on for a moment. At that moment, I thought she was just passing by by chance.
But seeing the way Zhao Bingyan walked up to me and stared at me intently, I knew she was coming for me this time.
We stood dumbly one meter apart. For a long time, I asked her softly: "Zhao... Manager Zhao, are you... are you here to see me?" As I said that, I pointed at myself.
My tone was a little stuttering, because I was really not sure that she was here to find me.
Unexpectedly, Zhao Bingyan actually smiled at me and nodded affirmatively.
This time, I finally let go of my anxious heart. It seems that she really came here for me, but I am still very confused. I have been away from Yiyou for so long, and she and I
What else can there be between us?
As if she could see what was on my mind, Zhao Bingyan said to me in a soft tone: "Don't worry, I came to you today because of some personal matters." Then she asked me solicitously, "We can find a place to sit for a while.
?”
I looked at Zhao Bingyan's sincere eyes and nodded thoughtfully.
Seeing that I agreed, Zhao Bingyan's expression showed a hint of joy, and she asked me softly: "Are there any high-end Western restaurants nearby? Or a coffee shop."
I looked at Zhao Bingyan suspiciously, and then said to her calmly: "Turn right around the corner, and there is a Shangdao Cafe."
Zhao Bingyan nodded slightly and murmured to me: "Then let's go there and sit for a while?"
I nodded to her, and just like that, she locked the car door and followed me towards the coffee shop on the corner of the street.
After arriving at the coffee shop and sitting down, we each ordered a cup of Blue Mountain coffee, and then we were relatively speechless for a long time.
I found that Zhao Bingyan looked very haggard today. Although she still wore a suitable amount of makeup on her face, she could not hide the faint sadness between her eyes and eyebrows.
While I was sipping the coffee, I silently looked at the beautiful woman sitting opposite me. At the same time, I kept sighing in my heart: "Time is not forgiving. No matter how beautiful a woman is, after thirty years old, she is as fresh as fresh."
Flowers tend to wither easily."
After a long silence, Zhao Bingyan raised her head and said to me calmly: "Zhou Yaze is getting married soon."
I was a little surprised when I heard the news, but I quickly suppressed the emotion in my eyes. I looked at Zhao Bingyan, forced a smile at her, and pretended to be nonchalant and whispered to her: "Oh, really?
?Then I would like to congratulate Mr. Zhou."
Zhao Bingyan stared at me blankly, and asked me softly, as if a little puzzled: "Don't you feel sad when you hear this news?"
I suddenly raised my head and looked at her, and asked her bluntly: "Sad? Why should I be sad?"
Seeing my extreme reaction, Zhao Bingyan smiled helplessly. She lowered her head and murmured to herself: "Forget it, maybe I'm worrying too much." Then, she looked at me again and whispered to me.