Fan Yujuan gave all my mobile phone number and QQ number to Xiaoling. From then on, this young man often sent me text messages at night. The contents were all innocuous, such as asking me: "Sister Su, what are you busy with at night?"
Yeah?" "Where do you like to go? Let's go together in the future?" and so on.
At first I barely managed to deal with him, but then I thought it couldn't go on like this. He was obviously trying to get money, but I didn't want to have any development with him. If this goes on, what if he takes it seriously?
So I think I should make a decisive decision and make my intentions clear to him.
My feelings towards Xiao Ling are completely different from my initial feelings towards Ye Xing.
Ye Xing has been teaching at my home for more than a year, and my understanding of him gradually deepened. There was no purpose in the beginning.
Ye Xing is such a refreshing and charming big boy, and he plays the piano well, and he can easily fascinate women. In addition, I was immersed in the trough of being ignored by Deng Wenliang, so I was so easily taken advantage of by him.
, in fact, when I had a relationship with him, I had completely accepted him psychologically.
But this Xiaoling is different. Judging from the precedent of Fan Yujuan's interactions with his friends, he has a purpose in approaching me, but I am obviously not a suitable sponsor for him. Firstly, I don't have that much money to support him, and secondly
, I am also very resistant to this kind of communication method of pure exchange of money and sex.
So one time, I asked Xiaoling directly during a QQ chat: "Xiaoling, why don't you get a girlfriend?"
This question touched Xiao Ling's sadness. He replied to me with an exclamation mark: "Oh, men should start a career first and then start a family. I am still poor and white. The girl followed me and I can't see the future! I don't see the future either.
I couldn’t bear to delay others, so I stopped dating for the time being.”
The conversation started, and I comforted him in the tone of a sister. I said, "Don't be so pessimistic. My husband and I were poor at the beginning. Not all girls are so materialistic. Maybe I will choose your girl at this time."
She is a good girl who really appreciates you. Besides, you are so good, I believe there must be many girls who like you."
Xiao Ling came over with a smile and said to me: "Thank you, Sister Su, for promoting me like this. To be honest, there are indeed many girls in the company and outside who like me, and some of them are very good.
But the better they are, the more pressure I have. I am also a tall, seven-foot-tall man. I can’t get married and I have to rely on the woman’s family, right?”
Looking at these words, I laughed, and I told him: "I appreciate a rational boy like you. I think you have been working for a few years, so you don't have any savings, right? Then the families of both parties will help.
I think you should have no problem starting a family in two years, so if you find the right one now, you shouldn’t miss it, let’s talk about it first.”
Xiao Ling smiled and said to me: "I have some savings. The main reason is that the housing prices in this city are too scary. I am wondering now. Maybe in two years I will return to the city near my hometown to develop. After all, I am far away from my parents."
My relatives are closer, and the house price is within my affordable range, so I dare not accept the right person around me now, for fear that something will change later."
I understood Xiao Ling’s thoughts and saw that this boy was indeed quite rational. In fact, the first time I saw him, I could see that he was different from that Xiao Chi. Xiao Chi was a relatively frivolous boy.
At first glance, he seemed quite shy, but once we got to know him better, the frivolity between his eyes and brows could not be concealed.