Wei Haichao has always been a person who dares to think and act boldly. This is her character.
Haichao's ex-husband, Xu Minghui, was a small leader of a public institution. He didn't have a big official position, but he had some power.
On the surface, Xu Minghui appears to be a very humorous and amiable person. In fact, he is indeed very popular with his wife, children, colleagues and subordinates, and relatives and friends.
But such a good man actually cheated on him, and the reason why he cheated was because he thought Wei Haichao was too strict with him.
To be honest, Hai Chao was a bit strict with Xu Minghui at that time. According to her own words, Xu Minghui's salary card was in her hands at that time, and Hai Chao was also in control of her family's savings. She usually gave Xu Minghui a very small amount of personal pocket money. At the same time, Xu Minghui's time to go home from get off work was also very tight. If he came home a little late, he would be bombarded with phone calls to urge him to come back. As a result, Xu Minghui would have problems over time.
In fact, it is inevitable for a man to have social events outside, and it is impossible to do without some money in his hands. Hai Chao has her own ideas, and she still feels aggrieved. In her words: Do you think I want to take care of it?
So strict? But the current social atmosphere is not good, and there are shameless women who are willing to rely on married men. If men have money and want to spend it, I have to be tighter, okay?
After she found signs of Xu Minghui's cheating, she began to check his phone records and QQ chat records. She even installed a listening device under his car seat to find out if he was in the car with another woman.
On "Cheating."
After going back and forth like this, Wei Haichao finally caught the clue that her husband Xu Minghui was cheating on her.
Previously, Hai Chao had already suspected the relationship between her husband Xu Minghui and one of his former female colleagues through some clues, but because there was no evidence, she created a fake business trip opportunity to lure the snake out of the hole, but she did not expect that her husband was really fooled.
He took his affair partner home in the middle of the night.
Haichao was not really on a business trip. She returned home in the middle of the night, broke into the door, rushed up and started fighting with the adulterer and the adulterous couple, threw their clothes out of the window, and then kicked them out of the door.
The person Xu Minghui cheated on was a former female colleague of his. The woman was also married, and her husband was often away from home. Maybe she couldn't bear the loneliness, so she hooked up with Xu Minghui back and forth.
Afterwards, Wei Haichao had a talk with Xu Minghui. In fact, Xu Minghui had always been afraid of Haichao before. He was somewhat of a henpeck, but during this negotiation, he actually had the courage to list all the things that were wrong with Haichao, such as her usual attitude towards Haichao.
I took it too seriously, controlled her too much, took money too seriously, even said she spoke too loudly, etc.
Originally, Xu Minghui cheated on her, and Wei Haichao was holding back her anger. Now, instead of repenting, she listed all her shortcomings. Of course, Wei Haichao felt angry, so she decided to divorce immediately, even though Xu Minghui kept dragging her away.
In the end, Hai Chao appealed to the court and divorced the marriage.
Their daughter's nickname is Tiaotiao, and she is a few months younger than Tongtong, but her personality is completely different from my Tongtong.
Xu Minghui is a humorous person who always makes jokes and wisecracks, while Wei Haichao is a shrewd person who dares to think, speak, and do. So with such a pair of lively parents, it is easy to imagine that their daughter is also a villain.
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After Wei Haichao decided to divorce, the ownership of her children became the biggest issue. Of course a mother loves her daughter, so of course Haichao hopes that her daughter will follow her.
Like me, Haichao also had a talk with her daughter at that time, but the scene was very different from that time when I talked.
At that time, Haichao was afraid of hurting her daughter's heart, so she was still cautious when speaking. Unexpectedly, her daughter Tiaotiao said to her directly: "Mom, if you have anything to say, just say it directly. Stop beating around the bush. I'm still busy, right?"
Do you want to divorce my dad? Just divorce!"
Wei Haichao was furious when he heard this. This little guy is not even thirteen years old yet, why is he so choked when he talks?
Hai Chao blurted out: "Hey, you little rabbit! When parents get divorced, the children will cry and stop them from leaving. How can you think so?"
Tiaotiao rolled her eyes and said to her mother, "What's wrong with you? You two have a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every seven days. I'm already fed up with it, so we should leave as soon as possible!"
Wei Haichao was so angry that he couldn't speak for a while, but then he thought about it. Now he was talking to his daughter about who to talk to. In order for her daughter to live with her willingly, she couldn't offend this little ancestor just yet, so Haichao tried his best to pretend.
With a gentle look on her face, she said to Tiao Tiao in a friendly manner: "Tiao Tiao, who are you going to follow after your parents get divorced?"
Unexpectedly, Tiaotiao answered directly without thinking: "Follow me dad!"
When Wei Haichao heard this, she became furious. She blurted out: "You little rabbit, do I usually love you in vain?"
Tiaotiao glared and scratched her neck and retorted: "You hurt me? Isn't it okay if you hit me?"
You may have heard that Tiao Tiao is not an honest child. When she was young, her parents were busy with work, so she stayed with her grandparents for a while. The elders were very pampered when raising children, so she developed a naughty and rebellious child.
tube personality, after
Back to Hai Chao, of course Hai Chao cannot let her continue to be willful like this, and her management method is also quite extreme, that is, if she is still disobedient after three sentences, then start spanking! Hit the child's butt hard! Until the spanking begins.
Until she squeals and becomes obedient.
Anyway, the beatings had some results. Tiaotiao was more obedient than before, and her academic performance also improved. However, she and Haichao were no longer close, and she was very close to her father.
Xu Minghui is not often at home. Usually his daughter is in charge of Hai Chao, taking care of her eating and dressing, taking care of her going to and from school and doing homework, and restraining some of her bad personalities. In this way, Tiao Tiao certainly finds Hai Chao annoying.
As for Xu Minghui, as soon as he returned home, he played the role of a white-faced person, taking care of his daughter whenever she asked. The bad guy was played by Wei Haichao, a red-faced mother. In this way, her daughter Tiaotiao would of course kiss her father, so
It was only when she got divorced that she decided to stay with her father.
Speaking of this, Hai Chao felt aggrieved in her heart, especially when she came to my place. Sometimes she could see my daughter Tong Tong, which aroused her thoughts of missing her daughter even more. Every time Hai Chao saw my daughter Tong Tong, she always felt
He couldn't help but sigh with emotion: "Oh, look at how obedient and sensible this big girl is! Look at my little rabbit, hey, I really hurt her in vain!"
Wei Haichao shook his head as he spoke, and even the circles under his eyes turned a little red.
While my Tongtong was sucking the juice, she blinked her big eyes and looked at her Aunt Wei who was sighing. I laughed secretly in my heart. I wanted to say to Haichao: You haven't seen the real side of my Tongtong. The so-called biting tiger doesn't show its teeth.
, if my Tongtong becomes powerful, it will be much harder to tame than your Tiaotiao...
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Ye Xing comes to my store to check in every night after get off work. He, Xiaomei, and I all have dinner in the store. Ye Xing will also help me do whatever he can here.
After closing the store at nine o'clock, we sent Xiaomei back to her residence, and then Ye Xing accompanied me to take the bus. After getting off the bus, he would escort me to my home, watch me go upstairs, and then take the bus.
Take the evening bus back to the rental house in the urban village.
The relationship between the two of us is a bit strange. We say that we are friends but not friends, and that we are lovers are not lovers. In short, we cannot tell clearly.
Every night, when he walks with me on the path home, I want to ask him: How long can you stay with me? How long can you last in this kind of life?
Finally one day, I couldn't help but ask this question. Ye Xing looked at me and smiled faintly. He answered me softly: "Persevere until you don't have to work so hard anymore..."
I smiled bitterly and walked forward slowly, thinking in my mind: When is that day? As long as I open the store for one day, can't you just give it away for one day?
But I didn't say this in the end, because I had to admit that I actually enjoyed how he took care of me at the moment...
Unknowingly, we had reached the entrance to the corridor of the building where I rented a house. I slowly turned around and said softly to him: "Go back."
He stood in front of me, smiled and nodded to me, looked at my window, and said softly to me: "I'll watch you go upstairs."
I had no choice but to smile and let him go, and walked upstairs alone.
When I opened the door and turned on the light, and then walked to the living room window, I could see Ye Xing standing downstairs, looking towards me, seeing me appearing in front of the window, he waved at me vigorously, and I also
Subconsciously, she stretched out her hand and waved at him, signaling him to get in the car quickly.
Ye Xing smiled, turned around briskly, and walked towards the door.
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Ye Xing often comes to my store, sometimes on Saturdays and Sundays, so he has the opportunity to meet my daughter Tongtong.
Ye Xing taught Tongtong, he was very patient with children, and his teaching ethics and conduct were exemplary. Therefore, Tongtong naturally liked this young and handsome piano teacher very much.
However, I did not expect that this information would reach the ears of my ex-husband Deng Wenliang through some unknown channel. So, on a Saturday when my daughter Tongtong did not arrive, Deng Wenliang unexpectedly came to my house.
Side shop.
At that time, Ye Xing, Xiaomei and I were busy. I was serving customers in front of the shabu-shabu rack, Xiaomei was greeting customers in the store, and Ye Xing helped us put the drinks and wine that had just been delivered into the freezer.
At this moment, Deng Wenliang came quietly.
That day, he was wearing a beige half-sleeved shirt, iron-gray trousers, a pair of gold-rimmed glasses, and a pair of brand-new leather sandals on his feet. He looked gentle and elegant. He always looked like this, no matter where he was.
Everyone everywhere pays great attention to their appearance and image.
The moment I saw him, I was almost stunned because I didn't expect him to pass by.
Logically speaking, with his usual high standards and high demands, he would not patronize a large philistine area like a village in the city where the lower class people live together.
So it was obvious that Deng Wenliang came with a purpose this time, so I waited quietly to see what he had to say to me.