Chapter 86 Educational concepts of two generations
Chapter 86 Educational Concepts of Two Generations
In the evening, the cool breeze was blowing and it was extremely refreshing. The beautiful mountains and rivers here are not found in bustling cities. Xi Bao liked it very much. He played for a long time and was sweating all over.
"Look at you, you're so dirty that my mother doesn't even want to hug you." Qiao Xinwei scolded him, "Look at you, your face is covered in black ash and your clothes are all black, are you embarrassed?"
Xi Bao defended: "Dad said you should have fun while playing. Isn't it just for playing today?"
"??" Qiao Xin was speechless. Her son was becoming more and more eloquent. What should he do?
Lin Caiyin on the side listened and said protectively: "That's right, you have to have fun playing, and when you get dirty, don't you just wash it off?"
Qiao Xinwei rolled her eyes at Xi Bao and said, "You have to play with caution when you play. You see you are covered in sweat. You can easily catch a cold if the wind blows."
Lin Caiyin was unhappy at the time, "Qiao Xinwei, are you criticizing Sang and Huai? Are you scolding me for letting Xi Bao play so crazy? You are also there, why don't you care?"
Qiao Xinwei quickly denied, "Mom, I didn't mean that. I really didn't??"
"Whether you have it or not, don't come and tell me."
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Back in the room, Qiao Xinwei put water in to give Xi Bao a bath. She also knew that grandparents cared about their grandson, and the education methods of the two generations must be different, but she really didn't want her son to be a spoiled child.
A child has poor self-control. He will definitely want to play. His grandparents will support him and pamper and protect him. He will know that if he has a problem, he will go to his grandparents. If he has a problem, he will be greatly compromised as a mother.
For example, when taking a bath, Xi Bao would consciously pick up a change of clothes by herself and wash herself when taking a bath. All she had to do was watch and help a little.
But now, he is too lazy to move and just waits for his mother and grandma to wash him.
It’s not easy to develop good habits, but bad habits will appear as soon as you relax.
Lin Caiyin: "Hey, who is this? Who is this handsome boy from? Look, what a pretty little body."
What Qiao Xinwei saw was that her mother-in-law was talking and bathing her grandson with a towel, while Xi Bao was still playing with the duck in the bathtub, uncooperative in various ways, standing up suddenly from time to time, and taking the duck's
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She couldn't stand it anymore and said, "Xi Bao, take a good bath and don't play."
Xi Bao was still obedient and stopped playing all of a sudden, but no matter how obedient he was, he couldn't stand being pampered by his mother. "Xi Bao, you can play if you like. Grandma will help you wash it."
Then Xi Bao started playing with the water crazily again. He automatically avoided his mother's glare and had a great time. Lin Caiyin was mostly wet.
Qiao Xinwei was extremely heartbroken.
When eating, Xi Bao only eats meat and does not eat vegetables. When the vegetables are put into his bowl, he picks them out and throws them away. He eats and plays, and when he gets to the back, he directly asks his grandma to feed him, and grandma even indulges him.
He got off the table and ran around, with grandma chasing after him to feed him.
Qiao Xinwei glared at Jiang Hao, you should just take care of it!!
Jiang Hao stood up and grabbed his son, "Xi Bao, can you eat like this? I've told you four times, but you still don't listen?"
Xi Bao smiled and thought it was fun to be picked up. He even joked with his father, "Look, Dad, I can kick you. I got it, hahaha."
Xi Bao was really not like this before. Jiang Hao was also angry and shouted sternly, "Xi Bao!"
Xi Bao was startled and stopped moving for a moment. Jiang Hao put him down with his back against the wall and criticized him harshly, "I've told you four times and you still don't listen, do you have to scold you? You can run away like this while eating."
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Xi Bao was so frightened that his little body trembled, and his father got angry. It was scary.
At this time, Lin Caiyin pulled Jiang Hao from behind and lectured: "The child is still young. What does he know? You can be as harsh as you want."
It was okay at first, but with grandma's protection, Xi Bao found a supporter, and his little mouth flattened and he began to cry.
Jiang Hao: "Still crying?! Why are you crying? Stop crying!"
Unexpectedly, Xi Bao cried harder and harder. Lin Caiyin pushed Jiang Hao away. She picked up her grandson, patted her back and comforted her, "Xi Bao, don't cry. Dad is really bad. Grandma will help you beat him."
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Xi Bao also hugged my mother's neck tightly and found support. With grandma here, my father would not hit me.
Seeing this scene, Qiao Xinwei felt really sad. Xi Bao had never been like this before, and she never had to worry about eating. She began to reflect on herself. She shouldn't always leave her children alone at their grandparents' house, let alone
When I work overtime, I entrust the child to my aunt, and the aunt will definitely support the child in every possible way.
At the end of the day, the mother-in-law hugged Xi Bao and went back to the room first. She didn't even eat dinner. Xi Bao said that she would sleep with grandma tonight.
At nine o'clock in the evening, Jiang Hao and Qiao Xinwei returned from the gym. Qiao Xinwei was too tired to talk. She walked on the treadmill for two consecutive hours. When she came down, her legs were shaking.
Jiang Hao put his arm around her shoulders and supported her, and said distressedly: "You don't listen to me when I usually tell you to exercise more, but now you are so desperate, why don't you?"
Qiao Xinwei shook her head, she really didn't want to talk.
Back in the room, Qiao Xinwei lay down on the sofa and didn't want to move.
"Get up, take a bath and go to sleep."
She suddenly changed the topic and said: "Jiang Hao, we can't indulge our children like this. We must not work overtime at the same time. One of us must accompany him to supervise him. We can't leave our children alone at their parents' house on weekends, otherwise he will really
will be spoiled."
Jiang Hao: "Parents also love their children. They feel that they owed something in the past and now they have to make up for it twice as much."
Qiao Xinwei: "I understand this, but you can't pamper a child like this. Loving him is tantamount to harming him. You saw it today. He didn't become like this all of a sudden. We have paid too little attention to him in the past six months."
Jiang Hao leaned over, lay beside her, and said tentatively: "Otherwise, will you resign?"
Qiao Xinwei turned to look at him and said reluctantly: "Resigning is the last plan. Let's try to take care of the child by ourselves to see if he can go back to the past. At least we can't let him think that his grandparents are protecting him and not listen.
Our words.”
Jiang Hao nodded in agreement, "Okay, but now, let's take a bath first." He directly picked her up and walked directly to the bathroom.
The night breeze is blowing and cool, the resort hotel is very quiet at night, and the chirping of insects outside adds a sense of harmony to the place.
Jiang Hao hugged Qiao Xinwei from behind. In urban areas, there would never be such a bright and pure moon. It would be a pity not to appreciate it.
"Ah Hao, dad gave me a problem. He asked me to persuade you to give up the idea of resigning and to persuade you to continue to stay in the prosecutor's office. What should I do?"
Jiang Hao hugged her tighter and tighter, "Father's orders are inevitable. I was thinking just now. In fact, it doesn't matter whether I am in the prosperous age or not, and whether I can set up a charity fund. Even if I work in the procuratorate, it can be established in the prosperous age.