This pregnancy caused more reaction than the last time. Qiao Xinwei asked herself that she has never been a delicate person, but she really vomited everything she ate. She was obviously very hungry and wanted to eat, but as soon as anything came to her mouth, she felt nauseated.
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There was no way to work in this state, so she could only stay at home and rest.
The aunt stayed with them full-time and worried about her food every day. She cooked eight meals a day, although most of them were vomited.
Lin Caiyin comes to see me every day and says the same thing every day, Xinwei, you have lost weight again.
Xiang Ling also comes here often. Yang Jiajia has never been pregnant, and Xinwei is already pregnant for the second time. She sometimes complains to her daughter.
"Mom, have my brother and sister-in-law gone for a checkup?"
Xiang Ling nodded, "I've been to several hospitals. It's your sister-in-law's problem, but your brother's is normal."
"Can it be cured?"
"I've been taking traditional Chinese medicine for treatment, and if it doesn't work, I'll try in vitro fertilization. Hey, I can't speak in front of them anyway. If they give birth, I'll help take care of them. If they don't give birth, I won't say anything."
Qiao Xinwei took her mother's hand and comforted her: "Mom, don't worry, my brother and sister-in-law are still young and they will have children."
"Xinwei, I can only tell you what's on my mind. Regarding having children, the Yang family is much more anxious than us, so I'm not worried about anything. They have a lot of money, and they have many connections and methods. What I care more about is you.
My little grandson and I, you are my blood relatives, my closest relatives. Just tell mom what you want to eat."
Qiao Xinwei shook her head, "The food prepared by Auntie is very good, but I just want to vomit."
Xiang Ling: "I was like this when I was pregnant with you. I would vomit whatever I ate, but I couldn't do it without eating. At that time, your dad made me pickled sweet and sour radish, and I could barely eat some."
"Sweet and sour radish?" Qiao Xin only wanted to eat it when she heard it, and her mouth watered.
"Yes, do you want to eat?"
"think."
"Well, I'll go back and buy some radishes to pickle, and then I'll bring them to you."
"Thank you, Mom."
"Silly girl, you are my daughter, why are you thanking me?"
Qiao Xinwei hugged her mother. No matter how old she was or how many children she had, she would always be her mother's little cotton-padded jacket. Xiang Ling patted her back and asked with concern: "How is your mother-in-law treating you now?"
"She is so nice to me now. You don't even know it, Mom. She peels the shrimps herself and feeds them to me. I feel guilty even while eating them. Can you understand?"
"Haha, that's good. As time goes by, people's hearts will change. As long as you are sincerely good to her, she will definitely be good to you."
"Well, I think so too. Although she changed her attitude because I was pregnant, I don't care. Just treat me well no matter what."
"That's right if you think so."
In the evening Jiang Hao came back from get off work. As soon as he opened the door, he heard the sound of Qiao Xinwei vomiting.
Auntie and Xi Bao were nearby, one passing tissues and the other carrying water, but they were unable to help.
"Dad is back, Dad, Mom is so pitiful??" Xi Bao almost cried. Why is my sister tormenting her mother so much? My sister is not obedient at all.
Jiang Hao ran over to help her, but he could only watch her feel uncomfortable and couldn't do anything to help her. "What did you eat to make you vomit like this?"
The aunt said: "I just ate a mouthful of white porridge and didn't even eat the side dishes, so I vomited."
Jiang Hao felt extremely distressed. Looking at his wife who was so weak, he felt helpless and blamed himself. "Come on, let me help you sit down."
Qiao Xinwei slumped down on the sofa, drank some water, and felt a little better.
"I'm asking for leave tomorrow to accompany you for a prenatal check-up and ask the doctor."
"It's okay. It will be fine when the fetus is a little bigger?? Xi Bao, you go over and eat first. I will eat later. Auntie, you all go to eat."
Jiang Hao knew that it was hard for a woman to be pregnant, but he didn't know it was so hard. Whenever he thought of her being alone in that simple rental house when she was pregnant with the baby, he felt sad and blamed himself.
How did she survive that time?!
There is an electronic scale at home, and she weighs herself every day to record her weight. Her weight has been plummeting over the past few days. Other pregnant women's weight has skyrocketed, but she is getting lighter day by day.
Lying in bed at night, Jiang Hao suddenly said: "Honey, tell me about the time when you were pregnant with your baby."
"Whatever you were doing at that time has already passed."
"Tell me, I want to know."
"Really want to know?"
Jiang Hao looked into her eyes and nodded firmly, "Yes."
Qiao Xinwei thought about it for a moment, lay sideways next to him, took a deep breath, and said, "At that time, I hated my own aloofness the most. Why didn't I ask for your money during the divorce?! If I had taken it,
With your money, I don’t have to work while pregnant with a child. As a librarian, I have to move books all day long, up and down, heavy, and smell of moldy paper scraps. I was led because I couldn’t hide it.
When I found out, my boss took pity on me and didn't fire me, and even gave me a lighter job."
"Later, my belly got bigger and bigger. Thanks to Aunt Qin, she introduced me to the confinement nanny in the community. The confinement nanny saw that I was pitiful and asked for the basic price. After confinement, I brought it by myself and used my savings to keep it.
Keep at it, luckily I still have a little savings.”
Now while recalling it, Qiao Xinwei said it very calmly, as if the suffering at that time was not suffering.
Jiang Hao felt more and more guilty and asked: "What about the time of birth?"
"It's a natural birth, haha, I don't have more money for a caesarean section. I don't have any prenatal check-ups, not even once, because I don't have a birth certificate, and prenatal check-ups also cost money. Now that I think about it, I was quite brave at that time. Fortunately, Xi
Everything is fine, Bao. Aunt Qin sent me to the hospital on the day of the birth. Suddenly my water broke at home. I was really frightened. When I got to the hospital, the doctor said that I didn’t have any documents, not even my family, and he was unwilling to accept me.
I begged her, and Aunt Qin also said good things for me, so the doctor relented and agreed."
"It was very painful when I was giving birth. The doctor said that I didn't have a prenatal check-up and didn't know the condition of the fetus. If I couldn't give birth in half an hour, I would have to have a caesarean section. It was impossible. If it was a caesarean section, I wouldn't have money to hire a confinement nanny."
So, I gritted my teeth and insisted on giving birth naturally. The process went smoothly and I was born in half an hour. The labor pains were a bit long, but the birth was relatively fast."
"Looking back now, in fact, people are forced to come out. The harder the environment, the more impossible things are, but the more they can be done. At that time, I was alone with Xi Bao, so I came here like this
At that time, I only told my mother. Every time we talked on the phone, she would cry on the phone. At that time, I felt that I was very unfilial, but there was no other way. Every time I felt that I could no longer hold on, I watched
Look at Xi Bao, as long as you look at Xi Bao, nothing will happen."
Jiang Hao hugged her tightly and said with a scratchy voice, "I'm sorry."