Haha, I have just separated from a man I have been entangled with for many years.
Suddenly I found that breaking up is easy, but it is very difficult to break the habit of a person. I am used to thinking of him when I see a scene or listen to a song. I often feel pain in my heart.
However, you will be relieved later. If there is really no way to forget him so quickly, then take your time and concentrate on doing everything you should do, and do it well, so that you can feel that sense of accomplishment and relief.
feelings to distract yourself from him.
Moreover, there are many other landscapes in the world besides him.
Read, walk, breathe fresh air, friends above have given many examples.
I still feel pain in my heart, but I just tell myself that if there is really no way to forget, then remember first, and slowly fight against this pain, without rejection or disgust, just simply stay with this feeling.
, and suddenly realized that everything was not as big a deal as I thought. All of this was considered normal.
In the personalized signature, I wrote something like this, thinking that I would never forget it, but in fact the clouds were calm and the wind was clear. I thought the clouds were calm and the wind was clear, but actually I would never forget them. How can we distinguish these two feelings clearly?
Then there is no need for you to take her to that store.
Peng: I know you are angry about this matter. It’s not that you want to wear which store or wedding dress when you get married. Others cannot have the same choice. Also, I am different from you. I want to live a stable life.
Five years, five years have passed and I can’t wait any longer. I also made a lot of determination before I decided to marry her. Five years ago, I remember you said that as long as I let you afford Lan Yu’s clothes,
As for the wedding dress, you will marry me. Now we can finally afford it. But I'm sorry, I let someone else wear it. I went first. I'm sorry.
Maintaining such a relationship is very tiring! You need to spend a lifetime of patience! But there is a limit to people's patience! Because everyone has self-esteem and self! She doesn't understand what love is at all! It can only be gained but not lost, which is not love!
She is reluctant to pay for you and only wants to be cared for by you. To be honest, this is not love!
This is her wrong understanding of love, and you made her wrong understanding become the truth! She is too immature and too naive! Your relationship cannot withstand the storm!
Even if we are together, you are the only one who pays for her, and you don’t get any love at all! Because her love is too selfish and narrow! Maybe giving up is the way out, because if you hold on to her and don’t let her go, you will face every adversity and ups and downs in the future.
Frustration, her resentment and regret will go hand in hand! The bitter consequences then may not be something you and she can bear! Let go! Let each other grow!
Everyone will experience the process of falling out of love.
There is a saying that I don’t know if you have ever heard: Breaking up with your lover now is to find a more suitable one, to find a true partner in this life. This sentence still makes sense.
We are not afraid or sad when we break up. Slowly, as time goes by, things will get better naturally... Time is a good remedy for sadness.
Believe me, when you meet the next person you like, you will feel that what you are going through now is insignificant.
However, every relationship is still worth cherishing, keep it in your heart, and recall it slowly in the future.
Hello! Breaking up with your lover is actually a very important hurdle in life... As long as you have truly loved each other, the feeling after separation is no different from the pain and suffering... You can be considered strong... Appear
Here instead of using other extreme ways to solve it... Maybe the sweeter the love, the sadder it will be in recalling it... The more sincerity I gave you at the beginning, the greater the harm it will cause you now...
...I say now that I want you not to be sad... You will definitely not be able to recover all at once... After all, falling in love with someone is not that simple... so it is not that simple for us to leave someone.
.....Take your time first...Start by accepting this fact~~
When you break up, there must be problems that are difficult to solve and obstacles that cannot be communicated... You must have worked hard to recover... You have persisted... In fact, if you think about it from another angle, separation may not necessarily be a permanent loss.
You may not always be together... If you haven't broken up now and you love each other very much, in a few years you may find that the relationship will fade one day... The level of tolerance for each other will also change.
Weakness doesn't mean that you don't love each other anymore, but that people get tired of each other... There will always be one who gets tired first and turns around... maybe the person who keeps saying not to give up on him will give up on you first.
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Maybe you say you love him the most now, but you will change in a few years... Things in life are unpredictable...especially relationships, which are constantly ups and downs, but it's hard to say
Be clear about who is right and who is wrong.. We broke up.. You are no longer together. It will be difficult for you to accept when you think of every bit of the past..
But when you are together, what do you actually get... If it is the heart of love, the sweetness of getting along, and the happiness of the other person... If this is what you get...
...then separation does not mean loss...because he is still there...he still lives like that...and so do you, and the sweetness of your relationship will be deposited in him
In my memory...just like you...occasionally think of each other, you have all gone through what you have to go through. After passing by, we will separate when it is not suitable and not destined, but the other person is still in the same place and has not disappeared.
..... Your feelings have not disappeared. A few years later, he will still think of you. You will also think of him. If it is not suitable to be together... this distance is also quite good.
Love him...but you can keep it in your heart. Although it hurts and you are reluctant to let go, it is the best distance between you. Once this distance is broken, it may not be so perfect, and maybe he will fall in love with someone else...you
You will also slowly accept others. But your feelings are still there. After a few years, maybe they have gone round and round... You have matured, and maybe you still think the other person is good., What?
Nothing is certain. What is lost now is the form of your relationship. And people's hearts can change at any time... Instead of keeping that heart uneasy here... let's let go and look at you.
Is there any fate between the two people?
You have done what you should do and you must have worked hard... If there is anything left, leave it to time... First of all, if you are a woman, you should be sad. After all, you are living together, and you have lost everything.
Not only a love, but maybe even the most important thing is lost.
If you are a man, it will be easier, but you need to find out clearly the reason why you broke up, why you broke up, and why you broke up. Maybe you two just made an impulsive decision at the moment. Afterwards, you will feel regretful!
It's not a breakup, it can only be considered a hothead. In short, lz should reflect on it. Don't be impulsive. People often say breakup and breakup, but the hardest thing to forget is memory. I'm also in trouble now.
You should know that love is not the only thing in life. Be strong, try to travel, do some meaningful things, go out and see things. You will find that the outside world is very broad, and it is not worth being sad about a breakup.
Yes, then you will have more meaningful things to do, and you will live a better life than the other person.