Many people have never been in love before and don't know the skills of falling in love, but as soon as they fall in love, they find that they don't know how to manage their own love.
And often, people who have never been in love don't know how to love someone, or how to make the other person love you more. In fact, love is not about blindly giving, blindly taking care of the other person, blindly being good to the other person. But like this
It will not make the other person love you more, it will only make her worse.
You should let your lover know how much he or she loves you, and let him or her know that he or she is at risk of losing you at any time. Then slowly guide him or her to invest in your love. In the beginning, because it is you who has always invested.
, so if you suddenly change, the other person will be a little uncomfortable with it. Learn slowly!
There are actually many versions of falling in love with you. One is that I didn’t notice you at first. It was my deskmate who noticed you first. At that time, she was still a little nympho and thought you were pretty, so I
I was entrusted by someone to inquire about you everywhere, and as a result, I spent time with you. The other time was when I saw you playing badminton during rehearsal in the school auditorium. You looked so beautiful in the sun wearing a white top, and my heart fell in love at that moment.
Another one is that time when I accompanied my classmate to play ball, I turned around and saw you resting aside, and my eyes met yours. My heartbeat was very fast. I probably fell in love with you that much.
Until now, I don’t know when I fell in love with you, but the most certain thing I know is that I really love you now. I have seen all the changes you have made for me over the years, and I believe it.
you really love me.
The next day you asked me to go to KTV and I went. The first thing you said when you saw me was, "It's you." You probably noticed me before, but we didn't know who the other person was.
It was winter at that time, and I wasn't wearing too much. You took the initiative to put on my coat, poured boiling water for me, and patiently cooled me down.
I held your hand like a douchebag and asked you to warm my hands, but you didn't refuse. I could see that you were nervous, but in fact my heart almost jumped out of my chest. I was just trying my best to hide it. I was so childish at that time.
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Later, you took the initiative to send me home and made an appointment with me to go to evening self-study the next day. My senior told me that you had never liked to go to evening self-study, but you were willing to accompany me. You must have fallen in love with me, as I was at that time.
, I actually didn’t think about it that much, and I still couldn’t let go of my ex-boyfriend. Now that I think about it, it’s probably because I couldn’t get it anymore, so I couldn’t forget it. Then I got you, and my ex-boyfriend has long been far away from my world.
I heard that he is very happy now, and I sincerely wish him the best. We did not go to study hall that night. On a whim, I wanted to stay with you and do whatever I wanted, so we went to a milk tea shop together.
We drank hot chocolate together. You wanted to give me an earring and offered to help me put it on. Since it was inconvenient for us to sit across from each other, you asked me to sit next to you. After maintaining the posture for a long time, I complained about my backache, so you helped me beat my waist.
At that time, I took advantage of the situation and leaned in. Well, this is how we are together.
Looking back on the past, I was like a female man, taking the initiative from the beginning to the end. However, I always believed that no one was chasing the other between us, we just happened to get the feeling and we got together.
Although it was only the third day that we officially met, that period of love was so high-profile that the whole school knew about it. Many people bet that the two of us would not be together for more than three months. After all, we had several exes before dating each other.
, their relationship was very short, and they gave everyone the impression that they were two carefree and ruthless people.
But you know, I have always been very sensitive. I don’t like physical contact with others, so I never really kissed or even held hands a few times at that time. I don’t want to delve into the relationship between you and me.
My ex-girlfriends were dating to such an extent that since we were together, we should cherish it, but after we got together, we attracted a lot of criticism.
Your exes and former exes accounted for a lot of those scoldings. I never understood why I never did poaching. I didn't take you away from them. I was sure that you were already single when I was with you.
After thinking about it for a while, maybe they felt unwilling, maybe they were wondering why it was me who got you, haha.
Allow me to be a little embarrassed, but I actually managed to carry it through like that. The high school campus is such a small circle. I live on the cusp of the storm, and I get scolded with all kinds of harsh words. And then your friends are the ones who strongly oppose me.
The reason is probably because there is her. I know that you are just good friends. At that time, she also had her boyfriend, a couple that everyone knew, but I didn’t understand her mentality. I wasn’t familiar with her, to be precise, I didn’t know her at all.
She kept trying to persuade you to break up with me. In fact, I read a lot of chat records and stuff. It was really dark during that time. Fortunately, you were there. When I was wronged, you said, "Don't be afraid. I was there to support you."
The happiest thing for me every day for a long time is to go to the canteen with you during the break to buy the opponent that Sa has seen and delivered to the customer. Snacks, even a pack of milk candies or a box of milk tea, I am very satisfied.
Later, you started skipping classes and we entered the running-in period. You always played games in the Internet cafe and you couldn't listen to me no matter what I said to you. The number of quarrels became more and more frequent, and we started to break up. In fact, we were scolded at the beginning.
It was so miserable and I felt so wronged. I said on the phone that I was tired and hung up. Then you left me a long message, saying that you were not a good boyfriend but that you wanted to be with me all the time.
That’s what it means. I forgot the exact content. After reading it, I was so moved that I cried. That’s how it came about.
The running-in period was really scary. I had a very explosive temper at that time and you were a very cold-blooded person. How could I argue with you? You just didn't say anything and let me cause trouble. You did whatever you wanted and didn't argue with me at all. I'm a very competitive person.
I was very strong-minded and had to fight to win or lose even if we quarreled. Your attitude of not responding was simply unbearable, so we became more and more violent. It was almost June or July. We were together on January 3rd. You had already finished the college entrance examination and were on long vacation.
Something happened that really broke me down. I went to a class reunion and I didn’t have any conversations with the people around me. After the dinner was over, everyone was going to sing. I declined and chose to see you, but the next day people started spreading crazy rumors about me.
At the class reunion, I made a big announcement about how I gave you my first time. She was your good friend and she told you. She said she had also heard about it. I was really helpless at the time. It turned out that this was how I gave my first time.
I, the person involved, didn’t even know. As a result, I followed the clues and questioned them one by one. It was obvious that this was a frame-up colluded by a group of girls. Don’t ask me why they came to frame me. I am not beautiful, but one of my exes in junior high school also
It's a pretty good run, I guess. I also had a period of being good friends with some boys I had a crush on, and those girls were my junior high school classmates.