There is nothing wrong with doing this to an old person who is unable to work, but that child still has a lot of room for growth, and he still has a long way to go in the future. If you do this, it will be easy for him to develop the habit of pretending to be with others.
If someone pretends to be poor so someone can give him money, he will have to be a beggar in the future."
Looking at Shi Wen's thoughtful expression, she decided to give an example, "My inn has a farmer who regularly supplies vegetables to us. There are only old people and children at home. My parents are both dead. I made an agreement with them.
You can add a little extra to the price, but the dishes must be fresh.
The old man in this family is responsible for growing vegetables. The children will wash the vegetables every three days and lay them out for the cooks in my shop to collect. The children in that family work very hard to help the adults because they know that as long as they work hard, they will be able to grow vegetables.
You will have money, food and clothing.
A child is like a small tree. The influence of external forces depends on what kind of external force it is. Some external forces guide the small tree to grow taller and straighter, while other external forces bend the small tree and make it grow crookedly.
When a child who receives reasonable and correct guidance grows up, not to mention being more promising, at least his view from childhood is that only by working hard can he get money and other things, and he will not become a lazy person.
Personally, I don’t like giving money to beggars. For a person with sound limbs to be a beggar is a sign of laziness and laziness. Giving money to such people is unfair to hard-working people who work hard without complaining.”
Shi Wen nodded, "What Benefactor Man said makes sense, but I have always thought wrong and almost killed a child."
Manmiao was speechless at this kind of eminent monk who didn't eat the fireworks of the world, "It's not that you are thinking wrongly, it's that you have no chance to think about it at all!
You have lived in the temple since you were a child and have always been trained as a talent. How many times have you gone to the temple to sweep the floor? When the temple provides alms, how many disaster victims and refugees have you seen?
Have you ever chopped firewood or planted the land yourself? You don’t know the hard work. You think that as long as there is a temple, there will be pilgrims coming to make offerings and alms. These people do not want nothing from you, it is the role you play that satisfies their needs.
Only when they have psychological needs will they be willing to give money.
When you chant sutras and perform rituals, have you ever thought that you are also working by doing so, and you have also used your own labor in exchange for rewards. Not to mention that it is all voluntary for pilgrims, and no one is so stupid.
You have worked hard to make money for you to spend freely. You have met their spiritual needs, so they give you money. It's as simple as that.
The environment you grew up in was too simple, with only your master and fellow apprentices. You have not experienced the joys and sorrows of various emotions, love and hatred. Without the understanding of these, your persuasion to others will not be convincing.
For example, if a woman is abandoned by a man and talks to you, how do you comfort her? If you don’t even understand love, how can you understand the pain of breaking up after falling in love?
Someone who has been betrayed by his family and cronies comes to you for guidance. You have never been betrayed by anyone, and you cannot understand the feeling of being betrayed and betrayed by others, so your advice can only be feeble.
Most of the famous eminent monks in history became eminent monks after going through a lot. Their words are believed by others because their words contain their own understanding and perception of worldly affairs. Only when they persuade others can they speak to the point and make people feel the same.
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After saying that, she glanced at Jiang Shang. Jiang Shang held a fan and looked at Man Miao Luo Luo, who was generous in discussing Taoism with Shi Wen. He smiled encouragingly at her, and Man Miao continued, "Literati advocate reading thousands of books and traveling thousands of miles."
The path is as simple as what you see on paper, but you must know how to do it. The same goes for monks, the Dharma is profound and cannot be understood unless you have an insight into worldly affairs."
After hearing this, Shi stood up, clasped his hands, and bowed deeply to her, "Almsgiver Man is a man of great wisdom, and a poor monk is ashamed of himself."
"Master, thank you. It's just a random talk by a country girl. It can't be true. I hope you can forgive me." Manmiao took a few sips of tea, which was probably made from mountain spring water. It is much more fragrant than ordinary tea and has a sweet aftertaste.
The tea is also different. It always feels like the monks picked and roasted the tea themselves. It smells like sandalwood.
Before he could say a few words, a novice monk came over to report that a guest was looking for the host. Shi Wen had to leave first and hurried out. He was probably a big pilgrim in the temple.
"You don't seem to like monks very much?" Jiang Shang came over and asked quietly after watching Master Shiwen disappear from the door.
Manmei thought for a while, "It's not that I don't like it. They play a role in guiding people's minds in this era, which is a very important part. But how can I put it? I hate this kind of people who have never experienced anything and have to pretend to be themselves.
People who know everything, he knows nothing! A little kid who has lived in a secluded temple since he was a child, has never touched a woman and still talks about philanthropy, he doesn't even know what love is."
Jiang Shang was helpless with her arguments. Although they made sense, they always felt like fallacies, and he couldn't find anything to refute her. The two of them muttered for a while, exclaimed, and Jiang Shang winked.
, Manmei shut up decisively, and Master Shiwen hurried back a few seconds later.
After saying a few polite words, he kicked Jiang Shang and signaled him to get out of the way quickly. Jiang Shang quickly reacted and stood up to leave after saying a few words. Master Shiwen seemed to want to continue the conversation, but he was smart.
He could see their attitude, so he politely sent them to the foot of the mountain, watched them get on the carriage, and then said goodbye.
It's been a rush all the way, and this martial arts conference was held in Laizhou.
Yu Han quickly caught up with their convoy the next day and walked with them.
Jiang Shang attended on behalf of the Jiang family this time, and he brought many guards and servants with him. In order to put on a show, he brought several maids with him. Basically, it can be done. Except for using other people's houses, you can use your own for everything else.
Jiang Shang and Manmiao both set out lightly. They made a carriage and set off. Yu Han had been preparing before they arrived. When they set off, he led a large group of people to catch up.
He and Jiang Shang had always been close friends. If they were in modern times, they would definitely be considered good friends who love each other.
Yu Han is more talkative than Jiang Shang. He will tell you a lot of news one by one without asking for it.
The Laizhou family responsible for this martial arts competition is the Deng family. The Deng family is the largest family in Laizhou and the leader of Laizhou.
The head of the Deng family, Deng Jiexiong, has a son, Deng Yanbin, who is about the same age as Jiang Shang. According to Yu Han, the two often keep an eye out for each other, and Jiang Shang always wins. This is the home court of the Deng family, and it is estimated that the Deng family will definitely fight.
Something happened to put the Jiang family in the limelight.
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