Riding a bicycle, walking through the alleys, humming a tune.
"The red clouds are flying over the western mountains at sunset, and the soldiers are returning to the camp from target shooting. The red flowers on their chests reflect the colorful clouds. Happy songs are flying all over the sky. Misola, Miso, Lasomi are coming..."
He feels that he is becoming more and more integrated into this world and this era.
Perhaps after marrying a wife and having children here, the alienation in his heart will further disappear.
The upcoming meeting will definitely not be Su Yi's first date, but it will be Su Yi's first date with a blind date.
Frankly speaking, Su Yi was looking forward to this. He had a good first impression of You Juanjuan. He felt that this girl was smart and capable. If her temperament was simple, they could further develop into a couple.
The reason why he needs to be simple is because he needs his future wife to be of the same mind as him. A woman who thinks too much may not be able to do this.
In this world, Su Yi does not actually look forward to love, but only longs for family, simple firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea.
This is why the more he thinks Wen Hui is good, the more determined he is that this woman is definitely not suitable to marry him.
Many beautiful things are not inferior when they are close. Wen Hui is very beautiful now because the two of them still maintain a distance.
Su Yi could fully imagine that after getting married, the two would quarrel over a series of issues such as the dirty dishes on the stove, Su Yi's lack of motivation, Wen Hui's focus on work, and whether the children's education should be utilitarian or happy.
Will Wenhui still be so beautiful by then?
The biggest difference between love and marriage is that love can transcend all reality, but marriage rudely pulls everything back to reality, telling you to either face it or get out.
Of course, the two are not incompatible, but compatibility requires sacrifice. Both parties have to sacrifice something and compromise on something, and they need to constantly adjust.
This kind of running-in can sometimes be very torturous and even exhausting.
Compared with this result, Su Yi's needs are more determined and clear - he just wants to find a wife with clear boundaries and who will support him and take care of him wholeheartedly.
Could You Juanjuan be this person?
When Su Yi arrived at the agreed place, You Juanjuan was already waiting here.
She was carefully dressed, wearing a floral bragi, and the cloth shoes on her feet were white and faded after washing, but they were very clean.
She had her hair tied in a ponytail and stood quietly under the tree. She really had a feeling of peace and quiet in the years.
Su Yi parked the car under the tree and walked up to her.
"Hello, You Juanjuan." Su Yi said with a smile.
"Hello, Comrade Aid Korea." You Juanjuan smiled shyly, "Where are we... going? How about walking nearby? It's getting dark soon."
"Okay." Su Yi followed suit. He glanced in the direction of Youjuanjuan's house, and saw a figure retracting into the wall with a "whoosh".
He didn't care, he smiled with You Juanjuan, and they walked side by side to the alley on the other side.
I, I don’t know what to say,” You Juanjuan lowered her head and did not dare to look at Su Yi, “This is the first time I have been like this to a gay man... Comrade Aid Korea, if you ask, I will say. If you
If you want to know anything, just ask me and I will tell you."
Su Yi glanced at her and wondered, does this count as taking the initiative?
"How about we talk about our respective family situations first?" Su Yi suggested, "This way we can get to know each other better."
"Okay, my family's situation is actually very simple. My grandparents..." You Fengxia readily agreed and began to tell.
Su Yi's feeling this time was even more obvious. You Juanjuan was trying to take the initiative, or in other words, she was more eager to promote a relationship with Su Yi.
Normally, the man should take the initiative to initiate the topic of dating between a man and a woman, and he should take on the role of breaking the ice and setting the mood.
But now this job is obviously done by Youjuanjuan.
This is okay, Su Yi also knows that her condition is attractive to ordinary girls of this era. It is normal for You Juanjuan to want to catch herself.
In fact, Liu Guifen introduced her family conditions yesterday, but today You Juanjuan went into more detail and added a lot of details.
But it was these details that caused problems.
Su Yi clearly heard that there were many inaccuracies in it, and that You Juanjuan had concealed and lied in some aspects.
Of course Su Yi wouldn't expose it, and he could understand it.
It is human nature to beautify yourself appropriately and lie a little when meeting someone for the first time.
He himself also lied. No one can be 100% honest with others.
If you give up your family fortune when we first meet, that's not sincerity, it's just a stupid eldest sister.
So Su Yi was quite relieved.
The two of them were walking through the alley. It was now time for every household to have dinner, and most of them stayed at home or gathered together in the courtyard to chat.
The people walking on the street right now are either those who come home late from work, or they are stubborn gangsters.
The two met several people along the way, some were talking and joking to themselves, some were whistling at You Juanjuan, and some seemed to know something, their expressions changed, and they pulled their companions away.
"This is the situation in my family." You Juanjuan said a lot, and finally sighed, "My biggest headache now is my brother Xiaoyong. He has an unstable job and is impulsive. I have always wanted to find a solution for him.
I want a stable job so that he can have a steady mind. I’m so worried about his current situation that I can’t sleep all night long..."
Su Yi smiled and said: "A man has to rely on himself in the end. It's useless if you worry too much. He will definitely think about his own future."
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +55..."
"That's what I say, but if he has a stable job, many problems will disappear." You Juanjuan said, "In the end, I am useless as a sister. I can't help him with anything, and I always drag him down."
hind legs."
"Don't think like that, as long as you strive for your own success, you can do anything." Su Yi said.
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +66..."
Su Yi smiled.
You Juanjuan glanced at Su Yi and asked: "Tell me about you. Yesterday Aunt Liu said that your family was in good condition, and she also said that you had bought all thirty-six legs. Comrade Aid Korea, you just arrived alone.
Not long after I arrived in Beijing, my job has become stable and my family is well settled. I really envy you and admire you. How did you do it?"
"I had a small amount of savings before," Su Yi said, "plus I borrowed some money from others, it's actually nothing."
You Juanjuan asked again: "With such good conditions as yours, there must be girls who are better than me and looking for you, right? For example, those who have good jobs and are beautiful people."
Su Yi glanced at her and said, "Yes, yes, but I want to find someone who can live a down-to-earth life with me."
"I feed myself alone and the whole family is not hungry. I have no father, no mother, and no brothers or sisters." He said, "A family like mine actually has good and bad qualities. The good thing is that there are not so many things going on at home.
We are the masters of our own affairs, and there is no burden. But the bad thing is that in the future, we will have to rely on ourselves for everything, and we will have to worry about every stitch and thread. In the future, if we have children, we will have to rely on ourselves."
"So what I'm looking for is someone who can take care of my life and take care of people at home and outside the home. In this way, I actually prefer a woman who doesn't have a job. Otherwise, if both of us are busy with work, who will take care of the family?"
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +66..."
"Actually, it can be done both." You Juanjuan said, "In many families, both parents work. If they have children, they can send them to daycare..."
Su Yi smiled and said: "This is what I can't accept. In fact, being a housewife is also a kind of job. What I need is a woman who can accept this job."
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +73..."
You Juanjuan smiled and said in a joking tone: "If we really get married, you really won't let me work in the future? How hard will it be for you to raise a family by yourself? And if you are bored at home with your children every day, you will also be depressed.
of."
Su Yi shook his head and said: "So this is a question of two-way choice. There is no right or wrong in this kind of thing, only whether you want it or not, and whether it is suitable or not."
Some people want to work, some don't want to work; some find it too boring to stay at home, but some are happy with it.
The key is not to compromise reluctantly, but to really fit in and do it happily.
You Juanjuan smiled and said: "I think your idea is very good. The male leads the outside and the female leads the inside. It has always been like this. If your work is more promising and important, you really need someone to silently support you and take care of you.
Good logistical support for your life. But it will be very hard for you. By the way, comrade aiding Korea, how is your work? I heard Aunt Liu say that you are highly valued by the leaders in your unit, is it true? "
"It's not that they are valued, it's just that there happen to be things within my ability that are suitable for me to do, so they gave the job to me." Su Yi shook his head, "I just joined the factory, and I'm still far behind in terms of seniority.
This person doesn’t have any big pursuits. His wife and children are a close friend. I value family more than my career.”
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +88..."
"I think it's rare to find a man who can take care of his family." You Juanjuan smiled, "Actually, your salary is already very high now. The combined monthly income of my brother and I is half of yours. If you could
Earning so much from you, we can laugh out of our dreams."
While the two were talking, they realized that they had turned around and ended up under the big locust tree.
You Juanjuan stopped, lowered her head and kicked the stones on the ground and said: "Comrade Aid Korea, we have a deeper understanding of each other. I am very satisfied with you, but what do you think of me?"
Su Yi sighed and said: "It is true that we have a deeper understanding, but I am afraid that there is something inappropriate between the two of us."
Su Yi was a little disappointed because he actually had expectations for this blind date.
But he really couldn't go against his will and feel that a girl who always contributed malice to him but was very weak on the surface was suitable for him.
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +81..."
You Juanjuan was slightly silent and said: "I, can I ask why? Aunt Liu said that you want to find someone who can wash clothes and cook. I am good at all these things. You just said that you want to find a woman who cares about the family. You can
I can take care of you at home wholeheartedly. In the future, while you are busy working outside, I can take care of your home and children at home, so why do you still think I can’t?"
"Is it because I'm not pretty enough? Or do you think my family's conditions are too poor?"
"If you weren't beautiful, we wouldn't have met this time." Su Yi said, "I don't care if your family's conditions are good or bad. If we get married, we won't live in your house, but go to my place."
"Then why?" You Juanjuan asked.
Su Yi shook his head and said, "I feel like we don't get along. I'm a thoughtful person, so I want to find someone who can live a simple life. If both of us have our own concerns, life won't be enjoyable."
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +92..."
You Juanjuan was silent for a moment and then said: "We have just met, so it is normal that we can't get along with each other. Comrades who aid Korea, it takes time to get to know people's hearts. You can't ask a girl who just met you to share her heart and soul with you."
Su Yi waved his hand: "What I'm talking about is not a heart-to-heart matter, but a serious matter. I said, I want to find someone who can live a simple life."
You Juanjuan smiled: "These days, if you really know how to live, how can you be simple? If you really want to find someone who is simple and careless, just look at who has the worst life. Most of those who have the worst life have no life.
Heartless."
"It makes sense." Su Yi nodded.
"Do you really want to find him?" You Juanjuan looked at him.
"Why not?" Su Yi said with a smile, "The more miserable she is, the more she will think that life with me will be better, and the better she will be to me. As for being heartless... I like being heartless, like this
It’s easy to go home.”
You Juanjuan looked at Su Yi blankly and said: "If life is easy, I can do this too..."
"Comrade You Juanjuan, a person's character determines his future." Su Yi said, "You are a very smart girl, why do you pretend to be a heartless fool?"
"But what you want is a heartless fool!" You Juanjuan suddenly became excited.
"That must be a real fool." Su Yi said.
"Maliciousness from You Juanjuan +96..."
You Juanjuan looked at Su Yi for a while, then laughed at herself and said, "I knew there would be such a thing as pie in the sky? How could such an outstanding man like you like me?"
Su Yi said: "It's not that I don't like you. If I were more ambitious, you would be a good wife. We are just not suitable. It's not that anyone is bad. Do you understand?"
"Thank you for comforting me." You Juanjuan exhaled a long breath, "But I want to know, why do you say I am thoughtful?"
"Really want to know?" Su Yi asked.
You Juanjuan nodded.
Su Yi asked: "Did a very beautiful woman come to you today to talk about me?"
You Juanjuan was startled and blurted out: "How do you know?"
Then he suddenly realized: "Did you find this woman to test me?"
"No, no, no, I'm not that boring." Su Yi shook his head.
This is the biggest problem between two serious people being together - mutual suspicion.
"You wouldn't mention to me for no reason that you have a beautiful job so you can take the initiative to find my woman. Based on what I know about her character, it's not difficult to guess that she came to see you today." Su Yi smiled, "