Chapter 1050 The Prodigal Son Turns Back For Money?
Chapter 1050: The prodigal son will not be able to exchange for gold?
Author: Time flies like water
Although Ling Xiao herself strongly disagrees with Cousin Lin getting back together with that rotten man, in her opinion, this is just picking up sex from the pile of sex. If a man like this is picked up, he might still miss his second wife.
Cousin Lin, who holds a grudge and refuses to admit defeat, or is depressed, no matter how you look at it, Cousin Lin will suffer.
The reason why Ling Xiao thinks so is because she has traveled through many worlds, has seen too many people and things, and met many strange people. She generally knows what men might think, so she feels that it is a man.
Le Se. With his horizons opened, he naturally despises that man. He is not a good man, and he would not want it even if it was given to him for free.
But she still remembered that this was Cousin Lin's own life. Everyone had the right to choose their own life. As long as she did not violate laws and regulations or touch the moral bottom line, she could not force the other party to change her mind.
In fact, from cousin Lin's point of view, it is not unreasonable for a wife to insist on continuing that marriage. Years of education in women's ethics have made her never think about leaving her husband. Being divorced is like a bolt from the blue to her.
In Ling Xiao's opinion, the man was a slut, but perhaps in Cousin Lin's opinion, there was still a possibility of saving the man.
There is a saying that says: A prodigal son never changes his ways. Most of the so-called prodigal sons do worse things than Cousin Lin's husband, and everyone often has certain expectations for a prodigal son to change his appearance. Therefore, Cousin Lin cannot be blamed for having the idea of getting back together.
Even in later generations, there are still some people who feel that they must be the prodigal's true love, and don't care about their boyfriend's affairs at all. They feel that they must be the last woman for a man. The previous women are all passing by, and she is the only one who is the man's true love.
Uh! Ling Xiao has no intention of commenting on this. You must know that vagrants are at most a moral issue. Those kind of people mostly think they are very attractive, which is also a way of life. They just don't like to stay away.
But what Ling Xiao really can't understand is that some people would have a favorable impression of a gangster leader who kills people like crazy and regards laws and regulations as nothing. In the eyes of some people, as long as you are good-looking and powerful enough, and it's not you who gets hurt,
I have been thinking about marrying that kind of person.
If you make a comparison, you will feel that Cousin Lin has nothing to say if she wants to continue her marriage. How can you say that a cheating husband is not on the same level as those legal couples? At least the man has not broken the law.
Another very important reason is that cousin Lin has worked hard to plant fruit trees for many years. When she finally gets the sweet victory fruit, she suddenly finds that the fruit has become the object of another woman. No one is happy, naturally.
If you want to snatch it back, there's nothing wrong with it.
If the more stubborn first wife would never give up on her marriage easily, why would anyone want to take her place? And it’s okay if she’s not doing well, and her children must not suffer.
In addition, Cousin Lin did not have the opportunity to receive much normal education and has been exposed to the old-fashioned ideas over the years. Therefore, it is impossible for her to think about so many things. She can only think about making her husband change his mind and the family can continue to live on.
For many of the above reasons, even if Ling Xiao doesn't like Cousin Lin's reunion, he will not make decisions for her. Cousin Lin must learn to control her own life. This is something she should learn.
Cousin Lin who was asked bit her lower lip. She didn't know for a moment whether she should say her truest thoughts. She didn't mean to say it, but she was holding many things in her heart during this time and needed to find someone to help her.
Sort out your thoughts before you can really make a decision.
After hesitating for a while, she began to express her thoughts: She didn't want to leave her husband's family. It wasn't that she was still thinking about the man. In fact, she had always felt that she was widowed for a long time, and the relationship she had felt after so many years had become dull.
It's thin, there really isn't much affection between husband and wife, and there's no thought that they can't live without the man.
There is a reason why she is afraid of divorce. If she is divorced, it means that she cannot stay in her husband's house and has to go back to her parents' house. Although her parents are still there, the person who calls the shots has become her brother and sister-in-law, and she cannot always live there.
Keep her at her parents' house.
This means that she will be married off again soon, and after experiencing a failed marriage, she actually does not have much hope for a new marriage. As she is older, it is impossible for her to have any good men waiting for her.
I am afraid that I will become a stepmother.
She is most concerned about her children now, but after remarrying, she may not be able to take care of her children. There is so much work in the country that it is impossible for her to have the opportunity to take care of her children again, and she may have other children again.
, it’s really possible that she can’t do anything about the child in front of her.
Even the mother-in-law has no qualifications to take care of the child of the ex-law's family, because the child is the child of the man, and there are biological parents, stepmother, and grandparents, so it is not the turn of the mother-in-law who remarries to take care of it.
But she was afraid that her two children would meet a bad stepmother, and she was also afraid that her ex-in-laws would not care about her children. The two children would end up in a situation where their father would not marry her and their parents-in-law would not care, while her biological mother could only watch and watch.
Looking at it, there is nothing that can be saved.
All these circumstances made Cousin Lin unwilling to give up her marriage easily, but she knew that even if she snatched the man back, she would be too strong-willed. When she said this, she hugged her two children and shed tears. She really didn't want to.
Know exactly what to do.
It is said that the man has remarried and said that he has everyone's blessing. If he goes to make trouble, will he be warned? If this is really the case, even if she forces it, there will be no good results.
Uh! Ling Xiao said: Not necessarily. For example, the private life of a famous scholar named Hu is also very messy. He has lovers outside marriage (1). His wife naturally knows about this situation, but she just turns a blind eye.
He just pretended that his husband went out to have fun and had to go home afterwards. Later, Hu Caizi wanted to marry his lover and wanted to abandon his first wife under the pretense that he had no feelings.
His wife did not make a fuss when she found out. Instead, she took out a kitchen knife and said that if her husband divorced her, she would kill her two sons first and then commit suicide herself. Hu Shi was a little afraid that his wife would dare to do this, so he did not divorce in the end.
marry.
Although Ling Xiao suspected that there should be other reasons for this, he had to say that the woman who dared to use a kitchen knife to force her was really cruel. In fact, women should be more cruel sometimes in life and not be what others say they can bully at will.
Honest person.
If Hu Caizi's wife had followed what she did, cousin Lin should have gone to the man's workplace with a kitchen knife to find someone and ask what the so-called divorce was about and why the woman involved didn't know anything.
Did he remarry?
Anyway, if you don’t let the man give a reason to tell the past, you won’t let the man go. At worst, he will return to his original form. It depends on whether the woman who once shared a common language with him will follow the man back to his hometown to farm. There is a high probability that she won’t.
meeting.
Most of the people who are able to find older men to marry are aiming to become officials because they can live a good life and wait for the men to come home to support themselves as old farmers. They are not willing to follow.
What else can a man do at that time? Cousin Lin can get back together again. If you want to do this, there are many things you can do in the middle. As long as Cousin Lin wants to continue her original marriage, Ling Xiao will definitely make the unwilling man eat her.
If you can't just walk around in circles, you have to be willing to remarry.
After hearing Ling Xiao's words, Cousin Lin couldn't help but look at Ling Xiao in surprise. How could he still do this? If he did, he would have completely ignored the man's face and beat him back to his original form.
Haha, didn’t you think you were a country woman before? The man who was sent back to the country had also been an old farmer all his life. Thinking of this, Cousin Lin felt an indescribable pleasure.
But after taking a look at her child, Cousin Lin gave up this approach and went to find a man to destroy his job. This meant that all the man's previous efforts were in vain. The other party was afraid that he would completely hate himself as the instigator, even if it was
They are still husband and wife, and there is no friendship at all.
The most important thing is that if the husband's family knew the reason why the man returned home to be a farmer, he would not feel that he had done a good job. The man's family would also hate him, and the children would not benefit. In the past, the children bullied their own children.
, I’m afraid it will get worse in the future.
She has never read a book and does not have much education, but she knows that it is really difficult for one of her relatives and friends to be an official. It might be useful if she encounters something difficult. Therefore, generations of people care about their clan members.
If she messed up the matter of becoming an official, those people would just want to kill Cousin Lin.
From Cousin Lin's point of view, this kind of approach would injure the enemy a thousand times and injure oneself eight hundred. Of course, the man would not gain anything, and he would not gain anything either.
Ling Xiao secretly nodded when he heard this. Although Cousin Lin had never gone to school and didn't have much knowledge, she had a clear mind. She actually didn't think much about maintaining a relationship with a man. She was just afraid of being kicked out of her husband's house.
There's nowhere to go.
Then the woman can divorce the man. This divorce will allow the woman to have the upper hand, rather than letting Cousin Lin finally leave the house as the man and his family think.
Why didn’t the party who was at fault during the continuation of the marriage get nothing? What? The man promised to return the woman’s original dowry. This is a basic operation. A woman’s dowry belongs to the woman. If the woman dies, only her biological children have the right to inherit it.
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Therefore, it is certainly not enough to just let the woman get back her dowry! The woman has been responsible for supporting her parents-in-law all these years, purely because of her husband's affection. Now that they are not husband and wife, they naturally have to settle the accounts carefully. The woman cannot be allowed to pay in vain, and the man must not be allowed to pay.
What kind of divorce is there unilaterally?
The man said that he would oppose arranged marriage when he got divorced. Why can't the woman object to arranged marriage? Since we want to fight against feudal dross, everyone is treated in the same way. We cannot have a marriage between both parties. Only the woman's marriage is feudal dross and needs to be dissolved, while the man's marriage is feudal dross.
It's completely innocent, which is funny, because it's the man who asked the matchmaker to come to the house.
To fight against feudalism, everyone needs to fight against feudalism. Both men and women should fight against feudalism. Standing on the same position, how come the woman has paid so much but got nothing and will only be driven back to her natal family?
Since it is a marriage, why should we divide the property within the marriage? We should also discuss who should own the children, and why should we give the children to the man? Why can’t the woman have children? There are many things that can be done here.
The original owner, who was very excited by what Ling Xiao said on the phone, immediately applauded. Naturally, she didn't want the Lin family daughter to be treated so poorly. Why? Yes, men risked their lives on the battlefield, but neither did the women who stayed at home.
In a good life, if it weren't for the efforts of his cousin, I'm afraid the man's family would have been ruined long ago.
Cousin Lin looked at Ling Xiao in surprise. She never expected that Ling Xiao would say this. This statement completely made her feel that everything she believed in before had collapsed. According to her previous education, she should listen to her husband's family and stay here honestly.
In the countryside, one can either get married or get divorced without leaving home.
(1) It is rumored on the Internet that this lover was the bride’s maid of honor, and she fell in love with the groom at Hu Caizi’s wedding. This is outrageous.
Later, the lover also got married, but the two of them were still inseparable. She got pregnant with Hu Caizi's baby, so they divorced and waited for Hu Caizi to divorce before getting married. However, Hu Caizi didn't divorce and got married, so she went to America. It's really a dog.