From the woman's point of view, she is particularly disadvantaged and has no benefits at all. The man becomes someone else's husband, the so-called home does not belong to her, and even others, including her natal family, cannot enjoy the benefits they deserve.
The saddest thing is that the second cousin wife still has to bear the burden of the remaining feudalism. Who allows the man to claim an arranged marriage? As a second cousin wife, you must honestly accept the conditions proposed by the man. Faced with the situation of becoming a second cousin wife,
Carrying the baggage dejectedly, he left the man's house.
A more humble ex-wife should be divorced and not a member of the family. She should stay in the husband's house as a scalper and become a non-staff member, that is, she will not leave home after divorce. The husband still feels that he is magnanimous about this.
Even if he divorces his cousin, he still gives the woman a place to stay and something to eat.
MM, this is too sad, isn’t it? A second cousin who cares about her children’s future may really accept this seemingly bullying request for the sake of her children. A woman is really humble to the extreme.
Although Cousin Lin is not smart enough, she is not stupid either. Life has given her a certain amount of wisdom. Although she does not see far enough, she still clearly understands that the method proposed by the man's elders seems to leave some affection for his next cousin's wife, but in fact it is not.
It didn't seem friendly to her.
No matter how nice you say it, it has no effect. It depends on what you can get. Cousin Lin felt that her previous efforts were ultimately in vain. She was mercilessly thrown out of her former home and became a woman without a foundation. In the end, they never
The person she cares about in her heart is that man, and she and the children are just accessories to that man.
She was not stupid. She was unwilling to accept this method from the bottom of her heart. She didn't understand what she had done wrong, so she just wanted to meet the man and ask what was going on. She couldn't just let it go. The daughter of the Lin family didn't want to
Being treated like this, if she had known it would be like this, she would rather not get married. But the man did not see her, and the news came that he had decided to divorce cousin Lin, and he would marry another wife.
After she found out, she had to meet her mother's family before making a decision. Apparently the man's elders saw that she was unwilling to give up the idea of pursuing the man easily, so naturally it was impossible for her to let her go to her mother's family. The Lin family was the most capable family in the area.
, they were afraid that she would cause trouble if she returned to the Lin family, and they all advised her not to make a fuss, as they had to consider the face of their children.
When the other party mentioned the child, she let her know that he was threatening her, and she became even more angry when she knew that it was her ex-father-in-law who was threatening her. He who was once very kind to her became less like an elder and more like her enemy.
This is the saddest place for her.
If she thought her parents-in-law were pretty good people before, she felt differently now. She quickly realized that in the past, they expected her as their daughter-in-law to raise their children and provide for them in their old age. Naturally, they had to have a good attitude, but
It will be different when they have a son. They no longer need their daughter-in-law to support them in their old age.
There was no news about the man before, only his children were their grandchildren, so naturally he had to care about them everywhere. But now that he knew that the man had another lovely wife, he was afraid that they would have children soon, and his children would become valuable.
None, ha!
The more she thought about it, the more dilemma Lin's cousin became. She didn't trust her former husband's family. She used to be very filial to her former parents-in-law. Even during the busy farming season, her mother's family would come over to help with the farm work. The Lin family was worthy of her husband's family, but she couldn't wait until her husband came.
After receiving the letter, my husband's family actually hid it.
Is it because she is a woman that she should keep all the suffering to herself? Why? This is the most unacceptable result for cousin Lin, and it is also the reason why she feels so unhappy.
So angry! So hateful! After discovering that everything about the man has been hidden from me, I am not very willing to stay. When I think of what the old couple said before, they regard themselves as their own daughters, it’s funny! Their whole family knows about the man.
Hiding the client and her two children.
Only then did Cousin Lin remember that her former parents-in-law were right. Maybe they did regard her as their own daughter, but even if her biological daughter was here, she couldn't compare to her son. So she, who was like her biological daughter, would naturally be ranked behind.
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Because of her husband's absence, the family harmony that had existed before was completely gone. The true face of the husband's family that had been hidden underneath was exposed. I never thought it would be like this.
As a mother who loves her children, she is very frightened by the threats from the male parents, because she knows one thing very well: as an elder, it is easy to rub the younger ones. If they do not do well, the reputation of the children will be ruined.
Oh! It’s really hateful!
She naturally knew their purpose: to prevent her, the second cousin, from ruining the man's reputation. Although they were very happy that the man was an official, it would not be good if he was given the reputation of Chen Shimei!
If she dares to do it, her children will be suppressed by the family. In this case, as a mother, she cannot afford to gamble. She can have a break with the man, but what about the children?
Does she want to bet that her ex-husband's family is not ruthless enough? Haha! She doesn't dare to bet at all. They were fine when they needed her to support them. But when they found out that their son was still alive and wanted to marry another wife, their behavior changed. How could she dare to rest assured?
Rare people?
Cousin Lin even thought at that moment that if she had known that this would be the case, she should have remarried with her two children and care about the life and death of the two old people. Even if the man came to find her, she had a clear conscience and did not care about her son.
, it’s good for her as a woman to be able to keep her child.
Shouldn't it be that man's job to honor his parents? Ordinarily, after he stabilizes, he should give his family a message so that they know what's going on, instead of being regarded as a dead person and paying no attention to the life and death of his family members.
If this is really the case, it is also the result of the man's choice and has nothing to do with her. She does not care about the man's Jackie Chan at all now. Anyway, if she had remarried a few years ago, she would not have ended up in this situation.
After cousin Lin was forced to shout these words, the man couldn't bear it. Who wants to be so disliked? But more people saw the Lin family girl's staunchness, suppressed her one after another, and even directly killed her.
Cousin Lin was locked up at home and not allowed to go out, intending to force her to change her mind. Who told her to love her children?
For this reason, she was starved for many days. Fortunately, her son would steal some food for her from time to time, so she could not bear the hunger. However, she was still a little uncomfortable. Later, when her husband's family had something to do, she pretended that she couldn't get up.
It is easy to take advantage of the relaxation of the villagers and run away overnight, hoping to find his parents' family to support him and make decisions.
Even though she had some ideas in her mind, she really wasn't very sure. After all, the daughters who got married these days were just thrown away. Even if the family members intervened, they couldn't just do whatever they wanted. They were afraid that if they thought it offended their ex-husband, they would do whatever they wanted.
Offending the entire official class, you must know that officials often protect each other in officialdom, and it is not worth standing up for her married daughter.
She couldn't make up her mind, but she had to run away, because she might lose her life if she stayed, and she wouldn't get much attention after her death. Who made her the second cousin?
Escape was the last chance she found. She felt hungry along the way. Although her son fed her some food, the food at home was limited. He could only deduct his own rations. Everything she ate was special.
Because of this, he felt a little dazed on the road and eventually passed out on the road.
At the moment she fainted, what she was most worried about was that the man's relatives would catch up and take their mother back. Fortunately, the road she took was not the ordinary way back to her parents' home, but another road, and she met her cousin.
With her friends, she realized that there was not only one way to go.
Thinking of this, she held her children's little hands tightly and said with a wry smile: "But I'm afraid that I won't be able to fight him at all. You have to know that he is an official now, and I am a little country woman, old and ugly!"
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"Why do you say you are old and ugly? It is precisely because people like you work hard that we have food. Without food, those young and beautiful people cannot survive. In my opinion, your soul is beautiful
, a hundred times more beautiful than the woman who still married a man even though she knew he had a wife!" Ling Xiao said with a smile.
Cousin Lin laughed when she heard this, but her smile turned bitter at the end of the laugh. What's the use of a beautiful soul? What men love is not a beautiful soul, but a good skin.
Seeing this, Ling Xiao naturally interpreted Cousin Lin's thoughts, and did not offer any comfort. Instead, he continued: "As for the issue of the man being an official, don't worry about it. We are all proletarians, and you don't care about your status."
We are weaker than him. Being an official is bound by relevant rules and disciplines. If you want to end this marriage, then you who have no money, food and power are the ones who need help."
Huh? Cousin Lin looked confused. She didn't understand Ling Xiao's thoughts at all. As a common people in the countryside, they really didn't want to have any entanglements with officials for fear of being judged.
Ling Xiao didn't explain anything, and she just did some things directly instead of explaining to the person involved. She then felt that even if the three of them compensated with candy and water, they should still be hungry and tired.
Fortunately, the original owner and she brought some food with them for this sacrifice, mainly some snacks and fruits. After the sacrifice, they still had to take it home. Food is in short supply these days, so it was impossible to bring the offerings home for everyone to eat together.
Leave it in the cemetery.
There was something to be brought out for them to eat. The mother and son really felt hungry, and their eyes turned green when they saw the food. Cousin Lin swallowed her saliva and wanted to say something, but Ling Xiao handed the food directly to her eyes, "
Eat! Only when you are full can you think of settling the accounts!"
When cousin Lin heard this, her eyes became sour, and she choked with sobs and said, "Okay!" After saying that, she gave the food to the two children who were watching eagerly. This was the first time they had tasted such delicious food.
The original owner was extremely angry when she saw this. As a woman with a higher education, she hated Lin's cousin-in-law's family's behavior of burning bridges from the bottom of her heart. How could she do this? Do she still have any conscience?
After hearing the original owner's mutterings, Ling Xiao shook his head and said slowly: "Do you have a conscience? Uh! Maybe you do! Even if you do, it's not much, and it's not worth the benefits. It's not like the parents-in-law don't remember cousin Lin.
But they care more about their son who can bring them more benefits, so they will support their son in every way."
"I hope you can set an example for the majority of female compatriots and rely on yourself instead of relying on men to succeed. This is what I hope you can do." Ling Xiao continued, and the original owner nodded and said: "I am willing, in my life
There are many female compatriots who have done this before."