Xiyan also knows that some young girls are particularly easy to believe their boyfriend's sweet words. When they are in love, they feel that the person who loves her most in the world is her boyfriend.
The saying that a day is like a three-month absence refers to a time like this when both men and women wish they were tired of being together every day.
It's best to be like "Wo Nong Ci": You Nong me Nong, so sad... I have you in the mud, you have me in the mud...
However, many couples who thought they would be deeply in love ended up falling out due to various circumstances.
Xiyan's mother said: What a man says when he is in a hurry can basically be regarded as farts.
Unfortunately, often people in the situation don’t know or agree with this statement.
Especially among the two, it is often the female compatriot who gives her feelings.
Once you give something, you naturally want to get something in return.
There are too few people who are willing to cut their losses.
Often I feel that I don’t pay enough.
So he obeyed the other party's words and was willing to do anything.
Be as obedient as a little sheep to your close lover.
Just as there is a saying: Loyal words are unpleasant to the ear but beneficial to action; good medicine is bitter to the mouth and beneficial to the disease.
There was also a good friend who felt that his friend's partner was not very good, so he kindly tried to persuade her.
As a result, old friends who have been friends for many years are no longer able to be friends, because in the eyes of people who have fallen in love, this kind of behavior is sowing discord.
And when someone who kindly reminds someone is labeled as sowing discord, he or she will be extremely angry and will definitely separate from his former friend.
Maybe many times people will say that they care very much about friendship, but when love comes and so-called friendship becomes an obstacle, friendship is eliminated.
Xiyan couldn't help but think of this scene, and it was because of that bold woman. She was once a good friend of Xiyan's cousin, and her cousin had advised her friend not to trust the scumbag too much, but the two had a falling out.
For this reason, my cousin was labeled by her best friend, saying that she had a crush on her boyfriend and wanted to get in between the couple. This made her so angry that she swore that there was no such thing. Xi Yan felt bold and bold.
I'm afraid there's something wrong with a girl's eyes. Will her sister fall in love with a scumbag? A man she doesn't even want for free!
At this moment, Ling Xiao's words brought Xi Yan back to her thoughts. She said: "What Xi Yan said just now is right. The incidence of AIDS is increasing now, and a large part of the patients are infected through sexual relations. In one word
This situation can be described: get laid(1) is dangerous."
"Pfft!" After hearing her words, Qian Rui and Xiyan all laughed in unison. When they were chatting together before, they also said that falling in love is dangerous, so getting laid is even more dangerous.
Qian Rui thought for a moment, and she somewhat understood what she once thought was an old-fashioned idea, and said seriously: "Would it be less dangerous if we use safe guns?"
Zhang Shanshan's face turned red when she heard this. As an unmarried woman, she felt an unspeakable sense of shame when she heard issues about intimacy.
At this moment, Qian Rui asked very seriously. She was definitely not thinking about pornographic waste. She wanted to know some knowledge.
In her opinion, asking someone who understands how to deal with it is the best way to understand what you don't know.
"Of course! It can be said that security* can protect both parties to the maximum extent." Ling Xiao nodded.
Xiyan also listened carefully. She didn't need to do those things, but she needed to understand.
There are too many times when the person involved simply knows nothing about it, which is so pitiful.
She did not think that her knowledge of this was entirely useless.
If you want to protect yourself, you must learn more and watch more.
Even Zhang Shanshan listened carefully.
“Does it mean it’s safe after using it?”
Ling Xiao shook his head slightly, not guaranteeing absolute safety.
"Who told you? There is a certain chance that the safety device will be damaged." Ling Xiao said.
Qian Rui pondered for a moment, "Be sure to check it before use to prevent problems."
"The response method you are thinking of is very good. Using safety * indeed protects normal people to the maximum extent." Ling Xiao said.
Qian Rui nodded when he heard this, telling himself that he must remember the shortcomings of this safety measure and never stumble upon it.
Ling Xiao looked at her and said: "In addition to the possibility that the safety * may be damaged and cause problems, there are actually other issues that need attention."
After hearing what her roommate said, Qian Rui's eyes lit up. She wanted to know more things. She had never thought of so many things before.
"Don't forget that there are usually other intimate contacts during intimacy. For example, when lovers meet each other, they get excited and have a French massage. If the mouth is damaged, it will also be contagious," Ling Xiao said.
After hearing this, Qian Rui suddenly realized and nodded repeatedly. It turns out that this is the case. If you think about it carefully, this possibility is indeed possible. It feels terrible.
"I want to remind you that cypridopathy is not just AIDS, but also has other categories, such as syphilis, gonorrhea, genital warts, etc."
"In addition to these viral infectious diseases, sometimes there is also a parasite that can be spread through intimate relationships," Ling Xiao said.
"What? Are there parasites? What's going on?" Qian Rui asked very strangely when he heard this.
Regarding diseases such as AIDS, syphilis, etc., she had heard about them on Tieba.
But parasites, tapeworms suddenly appeared in her brain, and she felt goosebumps coming out.
Just imagine the tapeworms twisting together in the popular science video.
I just felt like my whole body was not good and I wanted to retching.
She always thought it was only cypridopathy.
"That kind of parasite is called pubic lice, and it usually lives in..."
"It grows on the hairy part of the body, and the parasites look like lice."
After Qian Rui heard this, she felt better even though it was not a parasite like tapeworm.
But imagine having things like lice and fleas jumping around and your scalp feeling numb.
"Of course, if everyone keeps themselves clean and doesn't have sex, basically there won't be any of these problems, unless the spouse goes out to have sex."
Qian Rui thought for a while after hearing this. She felt that it would be better to stay clean now. Of course, her future partner must do the same.
But in a serious spirit, she still asked a question that made others wonder, "But what if you just want to go out and have fun?"
Ling Xiao glanced at her, thought seriously for a while, and finally said: "This is just my family's opinion, maybe it's not perfect yet, just listen to it."
Xiyan and Zhang Shanshan looked at each other. Qian Rui looked at Ling Xiao very seriously. For a moment, Ling Xiao felt like he was a kindergarten teacher.
She coughed lightly and then said: "First of all, before getting laid, just in case, you can ask the other party to get tested. There are now four generations of HIV/AIDS syphilis test strips."
"Of course, I would like to remind you that this kind of test paper is not necessarily accurate, and there is a certain probability of inaccuracy. It is best to go to an authoritative institution for testing, which is more accurate. Of course, the testing cycle is longer, usually 42 days.
You have to be prepared for this.”
Hearing this, Qian Rui burst into laughter. People get laid just to feel good. At that time, at least one party was in a state of ignition, and someone suddenly jumped out and told them to brake suddenly.
Tell them that after using the test paper, it is still not very safe, and it is best to go for a formal examination. I am afraid that it will take 42 days for the examination to get the results.
Only after you get a safe result can you have close contact with me. I'm afraid some people will immediately wilt after hearing this, so why are you interested in having a good time?
Hahaha, Qian Rui couldn't stop laughing after thinking about it. If he does this a few times, he is afraid that some people will lose their glory.
Because the picture she was thinking of was so coke-inducing that she felt like she was going to die laughing, and she lay on the table unable to get up.
Xi Yan glanced at Qian Rui helplessly, this guy definitely had a lot of imagination.
Only then would he laugh like a pig, and he no longer looks like that playful guy.
Zhang Shanshan was too naive to be protected by her family.
He is a bit of a novice in the dormitory.
At this moment, she was opening her eyes wide.
I'm very surprised, I didn't expect so many things to happen.
"So there is such a test paper? It's really a good invention."
"But what if the test paper doesn't detect it and that person is a patient with HIV?" Xi Yan said.
"It is said that you can also wear isolation equipment for the mouth. If you are still worried, there is also a method of isolating the whole body." Ling Xiao said.
After hearing this, the eyes of the three people on the opposite side widened. How could this be possible? Can this be done like this? The three of them felt that a new door had opened in front of them.
"What? Isn't this true?" "The whole body is in a condom?" All of them laughed. This scene was really funny.
"What's so funny? This is the safest way. It's a little weird, but absolutely safe."
"There is no direct contact with any part, so it will naturally not be infected by infectious diseases and parasites."
"Hahaha!" Qian Rui slapped the table and finally laughed.
She really couldn't hold back her smile at the moment.
It's really funny.
This smile of hers.
This started the laughter of the other two people.
Ling Xiao didn't laugh. This was really an idea, not something funny.
She sat there and looked at the three smiling people, which made the three of them chatter a little and gradually stopped laughing.
"Xiao Xiao! I'm not laughing at you, but I can't help but want to laugh after imagining the situation."
"I don't think it's possible. If it's really so troublesome, I feel like the person involved will probably lose his interest."
Zhang Shanshan was blushing and very shy at the moment, while Xi Yan was nodding, agreeing with Qian Rui's idea.
The three of them also looked at Ling Xiao's face. Although Ling Xiao was the youngest among the four roommates, maybe it was because he was a medical student.
She has the most aura, so they will secretly pay attention to one thing, that is, will their smile just now make Ling Xiao unhappy?
After all, she was really answering Qian Rui's question, but they couldn't help but laugh because they didn't expect the scene to be too joyful.
"Xiao Xiao, this is what I think. If an intimate contact would be so troublesome, I'm afraid I can just use a baby doll." Xi Yan said.
"Xiyan! Hahaha! You actually suggested using their baby doll?" After hearing this, Qian Rui laughed again. She wanted to slap the table and laugh, her head was spinning.
"This is just a suggestion from me. It's pretty good for people with spermatozoa." Xiyan shrugged her shoulders and said with a bit of nonchalance that she didn't like that kind of prodigal.
Ling Xiao said seriously: "For ordinary people, it's okay to use safe*, because as long as there is no too complicated relationship, it is relatively safe."
"This is why I say that women should learn to protect themselves. Being clean and self-sufficient does not mean being old-fashioned. It is simply for yourself."
Xiyan said: "I also think that everyone should love themselves first. If you don't cherish your own body, how can others care about you?"
Ling Xiao continued: "Sometimes you feel good for a while, but you will regret it for the rest of your life, so you must think carefully before you feel good."
"After all, there is no complete cure for AIDS right now. Maybe there will be one soon, maybe there won't be."
"There is cocktail therapy to treat AIDS, which can prevent the patient's condition from getting worse."
"But that kind of treatment requires a lot of money to back it up."
“The average person simply cannot afford the high costs.”
"I'm afraid my family will give up."
This is a helpless thing.
Having said this, Ling Xiao paused for a moment.
People with AIDS will be discriminated against because others are afraid of them.
They are afraid of being infected, even though they will be fine if they come into contact with sick people in normal life.
But because everyone is talking about AIDS, and some unlucky people are infected due to trauma.
This situation is indeed a bit scary. After the illness, you will find that there is no specific treatment and a lot of money will be needed.
For various reasons, this disease can cause an ordinary family to fall apart because the family cannot support the required expenses.
"It is said that some research teams have many directions for treating AIDS, such as targeted drugs, but they still have not been developed."
"Even if it is made, it still needs to be tested on animals. How many experiments will it take before it reaches the stage of human testing? This will take a lot of time."
"Does it take so long to research?" Qian Rui asked. She is a person who likes to get to the bottom of things and wants to know more things and reasons.
"Because when many drugs are manufactured, they are heading in one direction. But when they are really studied, they will find that they have other functions."
"Well, I know this. I heard that Viagra was originally intended to have an effect on heart disease. After it was created, I found that it..."
Qian Rui was a little stuck when she said this, because for a moment she didn't know how to go on with that word.
For an unmarried woman, she is still a little shy and unable to express it.
Ling Xiao took the words and said: "Viagra is also called Sildenafil."
"It has made great achievements in improving the sexual function of male compatriots."
"The inventor discovered this function only during human experiments."
"When we originally researched new drugs, their effectiveness against heart disease was not very great."
"Later, people simply deepened their research in that area and produced this kind of drug."
"This is why it is difficult to develop new drugs, because sometimes what is developed does not meet the researchers' wishes."
Speaking of this, Ling Xiao said another thing, "In fact, many times, without going through rigorous experiments again and again, we can never give it to patients easily. This is our responsibility to the majority of patients."
"The reason why this happens is because of the bloody forest lesson. You all should know that heroin (3) was originally extracted from morphine and has analgesic effects. One year after it was produced, it has not been updated.
The more experiments you do, the more it will be recommended for listing.”
"Because researchers at that time discovered that it has a more powerful analgesic function than morphine, and can also treat gastric ulcers, coughs and other diseases, and it was even recommended as a cough medicine for children."
"It has been widely promoted since 1898. It is recommended not only for children but also in many places."