Chapter 20 of the Main Volume of The Road from Africa to Europe: Xi Yan, a stay-at-home mother, sighed, "Being a doctor is really difficult, and there are many exams."
When I was studying, it was the major with the most class hours and a long internship period.
She has been watching as a bystander, and she is somewhat glad that she did not study medicine in the first place.
When choosing her major, she was afraid of taking anatomy classes and directly chose economics.
Even though she was urged by her mother and family, she refused to study. When she faced the general teacher, she was completely afraid.
Fortunately, she didn't study. As her roommate, she knew very well how good a scholar her roommate was, but she still spent so much time.
In addition, as early as during his studies, Ling Xiao began to follow his tutor into clinical practice and began to come into contact with various patients. There was no winter or summer vacation.
Ling Xiao had no complaints about this. She had seen with her own eyes that once something happened, even doctors resting at home would be called to rescue patients.
This is something that every medical worker may encounter, and they have to grit their teeth and persevere. After Xiyan and the three of them knew about it, they really respected the people who are engaged in the medical profession from the bottom of their hearts.
Those who can persist in studying the medical profession, persevere through repeated tests, and finally become doctors are truly brave people.
"It is a bit difficult. While mastering the original knowledge, you also need to learn new knowledge at any time." Ling Xiao nodded. She did not deny that studying medicine is really difficult.
"Even after Xiao Xiao becomes a doctor, he still has to take exams every two years. If he doesn't pass, his qualification will be revoked, tsk tsk tsk," Qian Rui said.
Ling Xiao shook his head and said: "Everything in this field requires hard work now. Even teachers have to pass assessments again and again, right?"
"When people live, they have to work hard and recharge their batteries, just like you and me." Qian Rui nodded after hearing this.
This is true. Nowadays, many industries require you to learn new knowledge all the time and obtain professional qualification certificates.
Xiyan and Qian Rui have gone through repeated assessments and have a deep understanding of this.
For example, Xiyan joined the civil service and passed the exams time and time again.
He even took the judicial examination specifically.
But it is undeniable.
It will make you more professional after doing this.
You can see some results now.
For example, someone with a very strong local accent.
It is impossible to become a teacher because my Mandarin is not good enough.
They have no objection to dialects, but if they want to become teachers, they must speak Mandarin.
You must know that the accents in certain places are highly contagious, and you may follow the teacher astray if you are not careful.
There are also dialects in some places that others cannot understand at all. You must know that there are too many dialects in Kyushu.
Especially the teachers in the university come from all over the world. Imagine that the teachers don’t speak Mandarin, but speak dialects.
emmmmmmm! This will cause communication barriers. Northern languages have some similarities, but southern languages and northern languages are very different.
For example, if you use Shanghainese to say "shampooing your hair" in Mandarin, it will be very strange to outsiders, because it is not called washing your hair, but "beating your hair." If you don't understand, you will think that you are going to fight and prepare to hit others.
's head.
Therefore, teachers must be able to pass the Mandarin test. This is to enable students to learn well. Otherwise, the teachers on the stage use various dialects to teach, and it will take a lot of time for the students to understand them. I am afraid that the course will be
It took a lot of time.
After everyone has learned the dialect by themselves and can understand the teacher's words, then the courses taught can only be taught by self-study, but some courses need to be explained by the teacher.
This requires those who are engaged in the teaching profession to use relatively standard Mandarin. Not only is it difficult to speak dialects in class, but it is also impossible to pass the standard Mandarin.
All aspects are designed to make members of various industries more professional at work, communicate better, and better serve the public.
This results in that after entering college, students one by one start to take exams for their future, which is the direction of students' efforts.
All four of them have passed the foreign language qualification examination, and Ling Xiao is more qualified, having passed at least several foreign languages.
"We will have far fewer opportunities to take exams after graduation, and the qualification certificates we should take will also be taken," Qian Rui said.
Many people feel liberated after graduation, but there are still many people who will continue to take exams, including Ling Xiao.
Qian Rui looked at Ling Xiao. People who want to make progress should continue to study anyway.
Zhang Shanshan said: "Xiao Xiao still has to take the exam, which is really hard."
"Xiao Xiao, then I wish you can pass the exam as soon as possible." Xi Yan said.
"Yes! Xiao Xiao, you need to become a regular employee as soon as possible."
"Okay, I will try my best to do a good job." Ling Xiao said.
Zhang Shanshan looked at them with a little envy in her eyes.
She didn't want to go to work, but had other plans of her own.
She had a plan as early as when she was in college, and she is still determined now.
But it is undeniable that at this moment, she is still a little envious of her three roommates.
Because in reality, the three of them are considered grown-up women and they want to compete in the workplace.
She said somewhat faintly: "All three of you have goals, but I am the one who has no ambition."
When she spoke, she was a little worried that her friends would look down on her, because after she graduated, she planned to prepare for pregnancy when she went back.
Fundamentally speaking, she has never thought about becoming a strong woman in the workplace. Speaking of which, she is the least promising person in the dormitory.
Although wanting a baby has always been her biggest wish, seeing that her roommates all had their own career plans, she felt a little decadent. Was she too naive?
Could it be that her path is not right? But she really hopes to watch her baby grow up slowly. She has the ability and the opportunity. She prefers to be a good mother and accompany her child to grow up.
After hearing this, Ling Xiao shook her head gently. It is difficult to be a good mother. I believe Zhang Shanshan will work hard. She looked at her bright and beautiful girl. Among the four girls in the dormitory, she looked the least like a good wife and mother.
Instead, I want to be a good wife and mother.
Xiyan said: "This is your choice. It neither breaks the law nor harms others. Why not? It is not easy to be a good mother."
"Shanshan, haven't you been working on how to be a good mother during these days? You have worked very hard." Qian Rui also said.
Hearing what they said, Zhang Shanshan was very grateful for her roommate's opinion. She looked at Ling Xiao, the only one who didn't say anything about this matter.
She asked: "Xiao Xiao, do you think my studies are in vain? If you want to be a full-time mother, you don't need to get a doctorate."
"Why was it in vain? Didn't you study diligently in college?" Ling Xiao said with some surprise.
"You may gradually forget some of the books you have read, but you will remember the things that are useful to you."
This is really Ling Xiao's idea. You should learn for yourself, and you will not lose anything if you learn.
Zhang Shanshan nodded after hearing this, with a happy smile on her lips.
Ling Xiao noticed that she seemed to have some doubts about this aspect.
He even asked: "Isn't this what you gain after going to school?"
“Can’t stay-at-home moms go to school?”
This sentence made Zhang Shanshan's eyes light up.
She was really excited to get the support and approval she needed from this sentence.
Zhang Shanshan's eyes lit up after hearing this. Her roommates had never ridiculed her thoughts.
Even now, after knowing her ideal, the three of them were slightly surprised.
But as a relatively open-minded person, I will not criticize at will.
Zhang Shanshan's choice is reasonable and legal.
Not long ago her thoughts were heard.
Just go online.
It was criticized by many people.
They say she is a waste of national education resources.
Zhang Shanshan felt a knot in her heart after she accidentally found out.
I feel like I am taking advantage of others’ learning opportunities and not cherishing resources.
The less she cared about this thought, the more uncomfortable she felt.
In fact, many people on the Internet are eager to expose her body.
It made her a little worried and a little scared.
Some people were already pointing their noses and scolding her.
Call her a moth.
Let Zhang Shanshan accept incompetence.
Originally she didn't want to say it.
I'm afraid my roommates will have the same view.
It's just that the atmosphere today was very delicate, which made her express her worries.
"Tang Linfeng must be very happy that you continue to study, right?" Ling Xiao said.
Ling Xiao asked three questions in a row, which suddenly lifted the big stone in Zhang Shanshan's heart.
She smiled, nodded, and said repeatedly: "Thank you for letting me know that I am not doing anything stupid."
She has always known that among the roommates in the dormitory, she is the slowest one, and the other roommates are all sharper than her.
However, Xiao Xiao has never spoken much. What she didn't expect today was that she would talk so much. She discovered that this roommate had never spoken before, but he knew very well.
Ling Xiao naturally noticed it, touched Zhang Shanshan's wine glass gently with the wine glass in his hand, and took a sip of the sweet juice.
"Shanshan, you have to remember one thing. People in this world should not try to please everyone."
"No matter how good you are at what you do, there will still be people who look down upon what you do."
"Just do your own thing." After saying that, Ling Xiao nodded.
Xi Yan and the other two also looked at Zhang Shanshan and nodded.
It is impossible to be liked by everyone.
It is gold, and some people say it smells like copper.
They intend to work hard.
But I will never look down on stay-at-home mothers.
Because they gave everything for their children and family.
After hearing Zhang Shanshan tell what happened, I felt a little funny.
They also did not think that Zhang Shanshan, who had received higher education, was a waste of educational resources.
Zhang Shanshan passed the exam on her own and paid full tuition and other fees.
In addition, as roommates, they feel that their roommate will not become a person who only focuses on family.
Zhang Shanshan's efforts are obvious to all. Zhang Shanshan has learned a lot about the theory of becoming a good mother.
Even when she encounters various problems in life, she will think from her mother's perspective, which is a novel experience for them.
If you want to be a good mother, you don't just need theory. There are huge differences in practice, and you often have to figure it out bit by bit.
As for those of them who are not yet married, they can get first-hand and most authentic information from Zhang Shanshan, so that they will not make detours in the future.
So in their eyes, Zhang Shanshan is a pioneer, and everything she encounters in raising children is the best reminder for them.
At this moment, they hope that Zhang Shanshan will write a book specifically on parenting. She has the writing power to write it and the spirit to study the situation.
She also has the financial resources and energy to do it, because she has much more time than a professional woman, so it is a good plan.
If it were the other three, I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to spare the time to grow up with my baby.
They know this very well. As professional women, they have to work and take care of children.
It's absolutely impossible to be as observant as Zhang Shanshan. She turns out to have a good temper.
As for Xi Yan, the three of them are relatively strong-tempered, so I'm afraid they won't be able to do it.
Probably just throw it aside after dealing with it.
Things will be forgotten after a while.
But they also know: there are gains and there are losses.
In life, it is impossible to be perfect.
And the reason why Zhang Shanshan has the confidence to be a full-time mother.
It's because her sweetheart is a good husband, and because her natal family gives her the confidence.
Of course, if it were someone else, it would just be a sigh of relief, and there would be no thought of changing with Zhang Shanshan.
Because they imagined that they would have to stay at home around the clock and be around their family members 24 hours a day, and they couldn't sit still.
The reason why they did not object to Zhang Shanshan's choice was because they knew that the path she wanted to take was the path she wanted to take.
But it doesn't stop them from wanting to work hard outside and see more things.
I also want to prove that women are not inferior to men in many ways.
It may even perform better in some places.
But whether you want to continue to spread your wings and fly high.
Still ready to be a good mother.
All are good choices.
This is a right given to women by society.
It is a great advancement in civilization that gives women the opportunity to choose.
They were lucky enough to be born in such an era, so they naturally wanted to be friends with their neighbors.
The three of them looked at each other and said in unison: "Shanshan, be a good mother."
Even Qian Rui was gearing up and said, "We are waiting for your notes."
"Be sure to record in detail what your child has experienced so that we can make inquiries later."
After talking with her roommate, she had a new idea. Is it sinful to want to be a stay-at-home mother?
Both her mother-in-law's family and her husband's family are willing to support her approach, and they are not afraid of it.
She is very happy to be a good mother, so what does she care about other people's business?
Some people just like to point fingers at other people's affairs.
A really disgusting person.
Go and wait a while.
After thinking about it clearly, she smiled.
"Xiao Xiao, you are really right."
"Dongdong likes me and continues to learn." At this point, she blushed.
"He also told me: I can study my major at home and work hard."
Zhang Shanshan told her roommate that she and Dongdong had discussed their future and family development when they were in school.
In order to develop Dongdong's career, the couple had to use contraceptive measures in the early stages of marriage and did not plan to have children early.
Because Dongdong wants to work hard while he is young and lay the foundation after a hard struggle.
I'm waiting for Dongdong's career to enter a certain period of stability before having children.
It's not too late then.
Of course when you have children.
Zhang Shanshan cannot be too old.
Because it is not good for both the mother and the child.
For this reason, the two of them specially consulted.
In this way, Dongdong will have the opportunity to accompany the mother and child after the child is born.
As children grow up, they will have the care of both parents.
You need to know both the husband and wife, whether it is the father or the mother.
They are all providers of security to children.
After hearing their plan.
The roommates all felt a little sour.
My roommate and my boyfriend are really stuffed with dog food.